{"id":36000,"date":"2020-04-26T09:30:16","date_gmt":"2020-04-26T09:30:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36000"},"modified":"2022-06-08T16:45:23","modified_gmt":"2022-06-08T16:45:23","slug":"12-truques-para-convencer-um-homem-a-casar-consigo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/12-truques-para-convencer-um-homem-a-casar-consigo\/","title":{"rendered":"12 truques para convencer um homem a casar consigo"},"content":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s one thing to win a man over, to sweep him off his feet, but o que \u00e9 preciso fazer para que ele se comprometa?<\/a><\/p>\n

Por outras palavras, como obter um homem para casar consigo<\/a>? Quais s\u00e3o os truques para o tornar poss\u00edvel?<\/p>\n

Normalmente, os homens sentem-se confort\u00e1veis numa determinada fase da rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

E a parte engra\u00e7ada, mas t\u00e3o frustrante, \u00e9 que esta \u00e9 a fase de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o que \u00e9 aborrecida para uma mulher.<\/p>\n

That stage is exactly what you\u2019re trying to avoid.<\/p>\n

What happens is that he gets comfortable and you\u2019re at the edge of your seat because you want things to go further and take your relationship to the next level \u2013 a more serious level.<\/p>\n

In other words, you\u2019re waiting for him to fazer a pergunta<\/a>mas ele parece sentir-se bem onde voc\u00eas os dois est\u00e3o.  <\/p>\n

O que fazer quando ele se passa com a simples men\u00e7\u00e3o do casamento?<\/h2>\n
\"casal<\/figure>\n

What happens is that you need to play the game. You\u2019re not going to manipulate, you\u2019re not going to play dirty. You\u2019re going to play smart.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not going to lie, you\u2019re just going to present who you are and convince him that he needs you \u2013 actually, you\u2019re not going to convince him, you\u2019re going to show him with your behavior.<\/p>\n

Men are like that. They think they are hard to understand, but actually, they are very easy to read \u2013 and it\u2019s ugly to say manipulate \u2013 but let\u2019s say it\u2019s easy to make them think they have done something on their own, where in fact, you had a huge role in affecting their decision.<\/p>\n

Como conseguir que um homem se case consigo?<\/h2>\n

Maybe you think you\u2019ve done everything, but I bet there are some things that you haven\u2019t tried yet, maybe even some you haven\u2019t even considered doing because they seemed too trivial.<\/p>\n

1. Ama-te a ti pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s cheesy and ever-present, but it\u2019s only like that because it\u2019s true. If you don\u2019t love yourself, you can\u2019t love anyone else.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re unhappy with the way you look or  behave, if you\u2019re not satisfied with who you are, nothing and no one else will ever be enough.<\/p>\n

And this I\u2019m speaking from experience. Every time a problem appears in your life, start solving it by working on yourself.<\/p>\n

When you deal with all your issues and accept yourself for who you are and forgive yourself for what you resent, you\u2019ll be able to move forward.<\/p>\n

Therefore, love yourself. Analyze things you don\u2019t like and change them. You can do it if you really want to.<\/p>\n

2. Fa\u00e7a-o sair com os seus amigos casados<\/h2>\n
\"grupo<\/figure>\n

Sabes como \u00e0s vezes as pessoas que est\u00e3o juntas durante um longo per\u00edodo de tempo come\u00e7am a agir como as outras?<\/p>\n

Come\u00e7am a falar da mesma maneira e, em casos extremos, at\u00e9 come\u00e7am a parecer-se uns com os outros.<\/p>\n

Bem, esse fen\u00f3meno chama-se espelhamento<\/em>.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a behavior in which one person, without being aware of it, imitates another person\u2019s speech pattern, body language, or attitude.<\/p>\n

This happens in everyday interaction and both the person who is mirroring and the person being mirrored don\u2019t pick up on the fact that it\u2019s happening.<\/p>\n

Why am I saying this? Well, if you get him to hang out with your married friends and he happens to like them, he\u2019ll pick up on their behavior and he\u2019ll start mirroring them, which will make the idea of marriage more appealing than ever.<\/p>\n

Os seus amigos casados mostrar-lhe-\u00e3o que o casamento tem os seus altos e baixos, mas no final do dia, o amor que sentem um pelo outro vence sempre.<\/p>\n

Alguns homens s\u00e3o mais cautelosos quando se trata de casamento porque v\u00eam de lares desfeitos.<\/p>\n

Tudo o que aprenderam e ouviram foram brigas e desrespeito. Por isso, o casamento tem conota\u00e7\u00f5es negativas para eles.<\/p>\n

Esforce-se por provar que est\u00e3o errados. Mostre-lhes, juntamente com os seus amigos casados, que as coisas nem sempre s\u00e3o m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

3. Manter sempre viva a comunica\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n
\"homem<\/figure>\n

The moment you stop the communication, you\u2019re going to be facing real problems.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 que, desde que fale com o seu parceiro, qualquer tipo de dano causado pode ser desfeito. A conversa pode resolver qualquer conflito.<\/p>\n

Even if you don\u2019t feel negative things toward your partner, you have to talk to him.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re positive, when he has done something praiseworthy, let him know he has done a good thing. Simply put, share every little thing with your partner.<\/p>\n

A comunica\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 vital desde o in\u00edcio da rela\u00e7\u00e3o e durante todo o casamento.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not easy to live with one person for the rest of your life, even se amas profundamente essa pessoa<\/a>. Por isso, nunca se deve guardar as coisas dentro de si.<\/p>\n

Quando se tornar uma pessoa centrada na comunica\u00e7\u00e3o, ele casar\u00e1 consigo de certeza.<\/p>\n

4. Faz com que ele precise de ti<\/h2>\n
\"homem<\/figure>\n

If you want to have him forever, you\u2019ll have to become everything to him.<\/p>\n

When he needs a friend, you\u2019ll have to be one, when he needs someone to watch the game with, you\u2019ll have to do it.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll have to be a lover, friend, support, and hobby partner \u2013 all in one.<\/p>\n

As you\u2019ll see, it isn\u2019t that hard to do. Maybe it sounds like a lot of work, but when you love someone, you already are all of those things to that person.<\/p>\n

Torne-se o pacote completo se o quiser ter na sua vida.<\/p>\n

Make him need you by making his time with you priceless. When you\u2019re together, you\u2019ll laugh and make beautiful memories.<\/p>\n

He wouldn\u2019t want to walk away from that. Tone down the drama to a minimum and enjoy life with the person you love.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, outra coisa crucial que ele apreciar\u00e1 mais do que tudo \u00e9 dar-lhe algum tempo sozinho.<\/p>\n

Todos os homens precisam disso e, para ser sincera, tu tamb\u00e9m precisas. Precisa de lhe dar espa\u00e7o, algum tempo para pensar e tratar das suas coisas sozinho.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter what he does when he\u2019s alone. One thing matters only \u2013 that he respects the fact you\u2019re letting him breathe.<\/p>\n

Isso s\u00f3 lhe mostra que est\u00e1 suficientemente confiante para o deixar ir embora. Mostra-lhe que confia nele.<\/p>\n

He will realize that being with you doesn\u2019t mean his freedom will vanish.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll realize nothing will change, except the fact he\u2019ll have constant support by his side.<\/p>\n

5. Manter-se natural<\/h2>\n
\"mulher<\/figure>\n

You don\u2019t need fake boobs or lips to be attractive.<\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, a atra\u00e7\u00e3o f\u00edsica n\u00e3o \u00e9 o \u00fanico tipo de atra\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> e com o tempo desvanece-se, raz\u00e3o pela qual a maioria das rela\u00e7\u00f5es fracassa.<\/p>\n

A atra\u00e7\u00e3o vem de dentro; vem da sua pr\u00f3pria ess\u00eancia e nenhuma cirurgia pl\u00e1stica pode superar isso.<\/p>\n

You have to show your partner the real you. When you get up in the morning, you won\u2019t be wearing any makeup.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t be covering your natural face when you sleep beside the man you love.<\/p>\n

And he doesn\u2019t want you to do that. He doesn’t want you to hide the real you.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, garanto-lhe que ele vai gostar mais de si sem maquilhagem do que com toda a fachada.<\/p>\n

Nenhum homem quer que a sua parceira esconda quem realmente \u00e9 para o resto da sua vida.<\/p>\n

6. Quebrar a rotina<\/h2>\n
\"tr\u00eas<\/figure>\n

Os homens acomodam-se facilmente e, quando chegam a esse estado, torna-se uma rotina da qual \u00e9 muito dif\u00edcil escapar.<\/p>\n

Por exemplo, o seu homem habituou-se a que esteja em casa sempre que ele chega do trabalho, ou a que fique em casa \u00e0 sexta-feira \u00e0 noite para verem Netflix.<\/p>\n

Tem sido assim desde sempre. Ele est\u00e1 habituado a que estejas sempre presente. Bem, s\u00ea suficientemente esperta e muda um pouco as coisas.<\/p>\n

When he comes from work, don\u2019t be at home. Go out with your friends on a Friday night. Do something he doesn\u2019t expect you to do.<\/p>\n

In a way, you\u2019re letting him know that you too have a life of your own and it doesn\u2019t have to revolve around his.<\/p>\n

Break your routine and shake him up a bit. He\u2019ll realize you won\u2019t wait for him forever.<\/p>\n

7. Manter a sensualidade<\/h2>\n
\"homem<\/figure>\n

We\u2019ve already covered the whole physical attraction aspect. We\u2019ve agreed on the fact that it doesn\u2019t matter that much in the long run.<\/p>\n

This is still true, but it doesn\u2019t mean you should stop being sexy, that you should stop trying.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 mulheres que se deixam completamente levar quando est\u00e3o numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o longa e s\u00e9ria.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know why that happens, but I can guess \u2013 they get too comfortable; they are sure their partner is there for them and he isn\u2019t going anywhere.<\/p>\n

Well, that lack of effort is the number one relationship killer. You\u2019re stuck in a rut of which you can\u2019t get out.<\/p>\n

A rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 a tornar-se mais aborrecida a cada dia que passa e d\u00e1 por si infeliz numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o que costumava funcionar.<\/p>\n

Keep sexy alive and don\u2019t become boring and unpredictable. After all, he is not only marrying a friend but a lover, too.<\/p>\n

8. Dar-lhe dicas sobre a sua partida<\/h2>\n
\"vista<\/figure>\n

Pode fazer isto se tudo o resto falhar.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve tried to play this smart and fair but it didn\u2019t work, then it\u2019s time to bring out the big guns and play the game, badass style.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time for a little bit of manipulation.<\/p>\n

Se v\u00ea que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 num impasse, tem simplesmente de fazer alguma coisa para fazer avan\u00e7ar as coisas e acordar o seu parceiro.<\/p>\n

Casually mention that you\u2019re really thinking about moving to another city because you have a job opportunity or just let him know that you\u2019re bored with the place you\u2019re in right now and you want something new and exciting.<\/p>\n

But never leave things just at words. Make plans like you\u2019re really going to do it. Make your plan believable and real.<\/p>\n

Even if you don\u2019t have any plans, make him believe that you do.<\/p>\n

Fa\u00e7a absolutamente tudo o que for necess\u00e1rio para o abanar um pouco e para o fazer perceber que precisa de si e que quer passar a vida consigo.<\/p>\n

Por vezes, os homens precisam de um pequeno empurr\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Relacionadas: Quanto tempo para namorar antes de ficar noivo aos 30 anos: 10 coisas a saber<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

9. Ser emocionalmente est\u00e1vel<\/h2>\n
\"mulher<\/figure>\n

Ningu\u00e9m quer uma rainha do drama ao seu lado. Demasiada paix\u00e3o e demasiado de tudo n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma coisa boa.<\/p>\n

You need to be balanced \u2013 not too cold and not too emotional.<\/p>\n

Men like stable women who don\u2019t lose their minds at every trifle and don\u2019t make a fuss about something that is not that big of a deal.<\/p>\n

When you think about it, why wouldn\u2019t they want a nice and stable woman by their side?<\/p>\n

Enquanto mulher, tamb\u00e9m procura um homem est\u00e1vel que seja o seu apoio para o resto da vida, certo?<\/p>\n

Manter-se calmo e unido n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma coisa f\u00e1cil de fazer, porque a vida \u00e9 agitada e todos os tipos de coisas acontecem a toda a hora.<\/p>\n

A vida lan\u00e7a desafios e problemas a cada passo do caminho, e nem toda a gente consegue lidar com tudo isso e manter a cabe\u00e7a limpa ao mesmo tempo.<\/p>\n

If you notice that you\u2019ve been dramatizing about things that are not important, or they are important to you but others don\u2019t see it that way, you should probably seek help.<\/p>\n

Fale com um profissional que o ajudar\u00e1 a lidar com a vida sem criar problemas.<\/p>\n

10. Keep dating fun as it\u2019s supposed to be<\/h2>\n
\"casal<\/figure>\n

Don\u2019t mention things before it\u2019s time to mention them. You\u2019ll ruin everything.<\/p>\n

The most important thing you have to do if you want a man to marry you is to never pressure him. Don\u2019t even joke about getting married.<\/p>\n

Men take commitment very seriously and they won\u2019t do it if they aren\u2019t ready.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you\u2019re pressuring them, it will only make them back off and completely walk away.<\/p>\n

You have to let things go their natural course. While you\u2019re dating, you\u2019re dating.<\/p>\n

Quando ele a v\u00ea como algu\u00e9m com quem pode passar a vida, compromete-se consigo.<\/p>\n

When he commits to you, then you can start talking about the future, although he will probably do it first. Slowly, you\u2019ll realize he\u2019s showing signs he\u2019s about to pop the question<\/a>.  <\/p>\n

11. O romance \u00e9 uma via de dois sentidos<\/h2>\n
\"homem<\/figure>\n

You can\u2019t expect him to be the romantic one. You have to put in some effort, too.<\/p>\n

Isn\u2019t it nice when your loved one surprises you with a romantic dinner or a nice present for no apparent reason other than pure love?<\/p>\n

Bem, adivinhem, tamb\u00e9m seria bom para ele. Ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 feito de pedra; ele tamb\u00e9m tem sentimentos.<\/p>\n

Se quer ser tratada como um igual, deve mostrar-lhe que gosta dele e que tamb\u00e9m pode ser rom\u00e2ntica.<\/p>\n

Give him a reason to stay in this relationship. Don\u2019t expect him to give all the time while you just take and never give anything back.<\/p>\n

Se continuar a insistir nesse tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o, ele nunca se casar\u00e1 consigo.<\/p>\n

12. Think about how you\u2019re going to do the talk<\/h2>\n
\"homem<\/figure>\n

If you have a feeling that you\u2019re not on the same page relationship-wise, think about your approach to him because what you\u2019re feeling isn\u2019t necessarily what he\u2019s feeling.<\/p>\n

Em vez de o abordar com um tom s\u00e9rio, tente manter a conversa leve e positiva.<\/p>\n

Fa\u00e7a com que pare\u00e7a que quer resolver as coisas e n\u00e3o acabar com elas de vez.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t even have to say anything; your body language is talking for you.<\/p>\n

Be light-hearted and think optimistically. That\u2019s the vibe you\u2019re going to pass onto him.<\/p>\n

Diga-lhe que est\u00e1 a pensar casar no futuro e que quer estar com uma pessoa que tenha os mesmos valores que voc\u00ea.<\/p>\n

Depois, pergunte-lhe se ele sente o mesmo e se se v\u00ea talvez um dia ao seu lado?<\/p>\n

Como v\u00ea, a honestidade \u00e9 sempre fundamental. Mas o truque \u00e9 a forma como dizemos o que pensamos.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re going to say something, but you already have a bad feeling and you think it\u2019s not going to end well, you\u2019re letting that vibe spread to people around you.<\/p>\n

Mas se abordar a sua pessoa de uma forma alegre e positiva, essa mesma conversa pode tomar um rumo completamente diferente.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I\u2019m saying you should play this smart.<\/p>\n

S\u00ea a mulher que \u00e9s e leva este jogo para um n\u00edvel diferente, aquele em que s\u00f3 tu sabes jogar.<\/p>\n

Apresente-se como \u00e9 e ele perceber\u00e1 o que tem de fazer, o que \u00e9 melhor para ele fazer.<\/p>\n

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