{"id":36021,"date":"2019-04-26T09:46:28","date_gmt":"2019-04-26T09:46:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36021"},"modified":"2022-06-06T15:44:49","modified_gmt":"2022-06-06T15:44:49","slug":"7-sinais-tragicos-de-que-a-sua-relacao-esta-a-esgotar-se-lentamente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-sinais-tragicos-de-que-a-sua-relacao-esta-a-esgotar-se-lentamente\/","title":{"rendered":"7 sinais tr\u00e1gicos de que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 a esgotar-se lentamente"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c9 sempre importante ser honesto e sincero consigo mesmo, por mais dura que seja a realidade que est\u00e1 a enfrentar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Sometimes, you stay in a relationship that you know has run its course, simply because it\u2019s familiar and comforting.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>It\u2019s nice having someone there, even if the thing that kept you together has started fizzling out\u2026<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>It\u2019s a hard pill to swallow, admitting to yourself that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/9-major-red-flags-show-relationship\/\">a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o acabou<\/a>, because your pride is making you give it another try, even though you know there\u2019s really no point.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Prolongar o inevit\u00e1vel s\u00f3 o est\u00e1 a fazer sofrer desnecessariamente e nem voc\u00ea nem o seu parceiro est\u00e3o felizes e realizados. Ent\u00e3o, quem \u00e9 que ganha?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>It\u2019s better to just rip off the band aid and face the facts, because that is the only healthy way to cope with a relationship that is no longer thriving.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Ficar por todas as raz\u00f5es erradas n\u00e3o \u00e9 raz\u00e3o para ficar de todo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>If you feel like your relationship is heading towards its demise, it\u2019s likely that your gut is trying to tell you something, so you should pay close attention and listen to it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><em>Aqui est\u00e3o 7 sinais que indicam que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1, de facto, a esgotar-se lentamente e que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 raz\u00e3o para continuar.<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. N\u00e3o tem problemas em imaginar-se com outra pessoa<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>If the thought of being intimate with another person doesn\u2019t repulse you at all, and actually makes you feel positive and excited, that\u2019s the first sign that you are already halfway out the door.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>When you are happy and fulfilled in a relationship, you can\u2019t really imagine being with another person.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Pensar nisso seria imposs\u00edvel, pois <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/7-tristes-sinais-de-que-perdeu-o-interesse-no-seu-parceiro\/\">o seu parceiro<\/a> \u00e9 tudo o que se pode desejar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>But when you\u2019re already seeing yourself with another man (regardless of who it is), it\u2019s a true sign that it really is over, at least on your part. You just need to embrace it and accept it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Your goals and dreams are completely different and you can\u2019t find middle ground<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Quando duas pessoas se amam, esfor\u00e7am-se ao m\u00e1ximo para alinhar os seus dois mundos o melhor poss\u00edvel, por todos os meios necess\u00e1rios.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>O compromisso \u00e9 fundamental para dois parceiros com estilos de vida diferentes que querem verdadeiramente fazer com que as coisas funcionem.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Mas quando tu e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/9-sinais-de-que-tu-e-o-teu-homem-sao-o-derradeiro-power-couple\/\">o seu homem<\/a> can\u2019t seem to find middle ground on anything, that\u2019s a huge problem.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>That is something that is likely going to cause more and more friction in your future and it\u2019s only going to get messier.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Quando amamos uma pessoa, damos o nosso melhor para que tudo corra bem.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>But when you don\u2019t want to give up on any of your ideas and dreams, it signifies that your love is not that strong after all.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. You wouldn\u2019t trust him with your life<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>This is the biggest red flag there is. If this person you\u2019re with is not somebody you would trust with your life, then what are you even still doing there?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>O seu parceiro \u00e9 suposto ser a \u00fanica pessoa que tem a sua total confian\u00e7a.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>But if you find yourself unsure and uneasy about trusting him with serious things, you\u2019re truly done with this relationship.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Seja o que for que tenha causado esta falta de confian\u00e7a no seu parceiro, \u00e9 evidente que j\u00e1 causou estragos e agora s\u00f3 tem de encontrar uma forma de lidar com isso o melhor que puder e decidir como proceder.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Os argumentos s\u00e3o sempre os mesmos<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>This is a big problem. If you can\u2019t put any of your arguments behind you, it\u2019s a sign of a much bigger issue.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Sure, everybody fights sooner or later, and there\u2019s no way around it. But eventually, they also find a way to work it out.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>However, when you just can\u2019t find a solution that benefits you both, at least in part, you two really can\u2019t seem to find your way back to how it was, or you simply don\u2019t want to. It\u2019s up to you to recognize which one it is.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>As pessoas que se preocupam umas com as outras acabam por encontrar um terreno comum, porque <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/6-things-mean-youre-serious-relationship-love-like-crazy\/\">amam-se uns aos outros<\/a> demasiado.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>If you can\u2019t seem to do that, it\u2019s probably for the best that you end it before it gets too messy.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. You don\u2019t really care how he feels anymore<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You just aren\u2019t as bothered about hurting his feelings as you used to be.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You definitely don\u2019t mean him any harm, it\u2019s just that his pain no longer affects you that much. Not the way it used to, anyway.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>This doesn\u2019t make you a bad person, it just means you have probably fallen out of love with him, and you\u2019re no longer part of this relationship in your head.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Se assim fosse, os sentimentos dele seriam muito mais importantes para si e o humor dele afectaria literalmente o seu.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. As mais pequenas coisas nele irritam-te imenso<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>The little quirks about him used to be so cute and endearing to you, but now, you can\u2019t stand them.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Tornou-se t\u00e3o irritante que apetece gritar com ele para que pare de fazer aquilo que costumava achar t\u00e3o giro, mas consegue controlar-se e manter a calma.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Esta \u00e9 uma indica\u00e7\u00e3o clara de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o que se est\u00e1 a esgotar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Quando as coisas que costumavam achar bonitas um no outro vos irritam para al\u00e9m do imagin\u00e1vel, \u00e9 \u00f3bvio que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o existe amor rom\u00e2ntico.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Gostas dele como pessoa, claro, mas n\u00e3o como namorado. N\u00e3o mais.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ser-sorrateiro-numa-relacao\/\">7 consequ\u00eancias de ser sorrateiro numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o (+ como lidar com isso)<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">7. Passam muito tempo longe um do outro e ambos n\u00e3o se importam nada com isso<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Sem necessidade de gastar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/8-maneiras-de-passar-demasiado-tempo-juntos-para-estragar-a-vossa-relacao\/\">tempo juntos<\/a> \u00e9 um dos sinais mais claros de que a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 mesmo a fracassar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You don\u2019t have to be attached at the hip, but you do need to want to spend time with each other.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>When that feeling is gone and you\u2019re perfectly fine spending lots of time apart, there is really nothing left to be said there.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Perhaps it\u2019s best you two just have a heart to heart in order to realize when it all started going downhill and simply try to end things on a good note.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Just because you\u2019re no longer crazy in love with each other, doesn\u2019t mean you don\u2019t care about each other as individuals.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Take this as an opportunity to have one of those amicable breakups where you both leave with zero resentment towards each other, and take pride in that because that\u2019s the adult way to break up!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" class=\"wp-image-36023\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-26T114542.252-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"7 sinais tr\u00e1gicos de que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 a esgotar-se lentamente\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-26T114542.252-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-26T114542.252-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/PINTEREST-2019-04-26T114542.252.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s always important to be honest and upfront with yourself, no matter how hard the reality you\u2019re facing may be. Sometimes, you stay in a relationship that you know has run its course, simply because it\u2019s familiar and comforting. It\u2019s nice having someone there, even if the thing that kept you together has started fizzling&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":36022,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-36021","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/shutterstock_767180629.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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