{"id":3603,"date":"2017-08-18T10:31:41","date_gmt":"2017-08-18T10:31:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3603"},"modified":"2021-08-31T07:30:10","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T07:30:10","slug":"as-minhas-despedidas-sao-para-sempre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/as-minhas-despedidas-sao-para-sempre\/","title":{"rendered":"As minhas despedidas s\u00e3o para sempre"},"content":{"rendered":"

Alguma vez sentiste que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 uma pessoa no mundo que te ame? O \"verdadeiro\" eu, com todos os seus bens e os seus males, todos os seus altos e baixos? <\/span><\/p>\n

Alguma vez sentiste medo de que, se mostrasses o teu verdadeiro eu e revelasses o teu lado vulner\u00e1vel, as pessoas te julgassem negativamente? Que as pessoas n\u00e3o o entendam? <\/span>Do you feel like you have to go through all the mess in your head alone? You don\u2019t? Of course, you don\u2019t. You have me. <\/b><\/p>\n

I patched three people\u2014your best friend, your lover and your life advisor\u2014in one: me. There isn\u2019t a single thing you can\u2019t say to me. There is no fear in you for which I might judge or pity you. <\/span><\/p>\n

You know you can always rely on me and no matter which train you get on, I\u2019ll be always there waiting for you at the final station. <\/span>Even when you\u2019re not sure if you\u2019re breathing or not, you\u2019re absolutely positive that I love you. You always know that there is at least this one person in the world that’s there for you.<\/b><\/p>\n

Maybe, that\u2019s the reason it\u2019s so easy for you to leave me. Maybe that\u2019s the reason why you leave without even thinking twice, and you always come back super confident, knowing you\u2019ll always have me, knowing that no matter which train you hop on, I\u2019m your certain destination. <\/span><\/p>\n

But I don\u2019t want to feel like your side stop, I don\u2019t want to be a person you hold onto for a while and then when you don\u2019t need her anymore, you let her go. I want to be your home. I need to be your first choice for once. <\/span><\/p>\n

How can this be God\u2019s plan for me, I don\u2019t understand?! Nothing I ever do is ever good enough and I try, I really do. I keep giving the best of me to people, but no matter what I do, I\u2019m never the one. <\/b><\/p>\n

-Que raio se passa contigo?!<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019ll tell you what\u2019s wrong with me. I\u2019m too much. Too much is what\u2019s wrong with me. That\u2019s the problem, isn\u2019t it? Too much is a problem and you can\u2019t do anything about it.<\/span> <\/b><\/p>\n

I feel too much, I see too much, I wish for too much, and I give myself too much. You can\u2019t change it\u2014you can\u2019t fix me because I am not broken. I am not being a drama queen, I\u2019m just being me. It\u2019s who I am as a person. <\/b>Tudo o que tu sentes, eu sinto duas vezes. Tudo o que te derruba, tamb\u00e9m me derruba a mim, mas a dobrar. Talvez seja esta a raz\u00e3o pela qual tenho dificuldade em deixar as pessoas.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong>\u00a06 sinais verdadeiros de que o amas muito mais do que ele te ama<\/a><\/p>\n

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\"Homem<\/p>\n

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See, I\u2019m not leaving because I understand you. I don\u2019t support your actions and I\u2019d never follow your path. I\u2019m not justifying you treating me like the fifth wheel, but in some odd way, I get it. <\/span><\/p>\n

I get you\u2019re scared and there are so many things to try out and that you\u2019re afraid of flight because it\u2019d kill you to know that if your wings got broken, you\u2019d have nobody to save you. That\u2019s why you\u2019re not letting me go either. <\/span><\/p>\n

At least, you’re not letting go of me entirely. Each time we \u2018end\u2019, I keep thinking we came to the final chapter of our page and this is it. Sometimes I don\u2019t know whether to be sad or relieved. But then you rush back, constantly adding a comma to the places where there should have been a full stop a long time ago. And I keep letting you. <\/span><\/p>\n

But, I can let you emotionally use me to a certain point. Once I get fed up, I\u2019ll be the one to say goodbye. What you fail to realize is that we\u2019re different. You have me because I care. You get to come back whenever you want only because I let you. You have me because I understand you. <\/span><\/p>\n

The time will come when I\u2019ll finally put myself first. The time will come when I\u2019ll inhale all my courage and say we\u2019re done. Once I say goodbye, it\u2019ll be forever. Because my goodbyes are always forever.<\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Do you ever feel like there\u2019s not a person in the world that loves you? The \u2018true\u2019 you with all your goods and your bads, all your ups and your downs? Do you ever feel scared that if you show your true self and if you uncover your vulnerable side, people would judge you negatively?…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":3604,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3603","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/zi-nguyen-181851.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3603","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3603"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3603\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3604"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3603"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3603"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3603"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}