{"id":36131,"date":"2020-04-30T09:36:46","date_gmt":"2020-04-30T09:36:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36131"},"modified":"2021-08-11T19:43:13","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T19:43:13","slug":"5-cicatrizes-invisiveis-que-as-mulheres-emocionalmente-negligenciadas-levam-para-os-relacionamentos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-cicatrizes-invisiveis-que-as-mulheres-emocionalmente-negligenciadas-levam-para-os-relacionamentos\/","title":{"rendered":"5 cicatrizes invis\u00edveis que as mulheres emocionalmente negligenciadas carregam para os relacionamentos"},"content":{"rendered":"

As pessoas com quem passamos a maior parte do nosso tempo s\u00e3o aquelas que acabam por nos moldar naquilo que acabamos por nos tornar.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no denying that.<\/p>\n

As pessoas que nos rodeiam s\u00e3o as que mais influenciam o que somos enquanto pessoas.<\/p>\n

And our romantic partners are those we spend majority of our time with, so it\u2019s no surprise they have the biggest hold on us.<\/p>\n

Women who spend time in relationships where their needs aren\u2019t fulfilled and where they are left feeling alone and neglected have a tendency to silently carry emotional scars into their future relationships.<\/p>\n

Quando uma mulher passa a maior parte do seu tempo na companhia de um homem que a est\u00e1 a negligenciar emocionalmente, isso deixa uma marca significativa nela.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o \u00e9 uma marca que se veja com os olhos, mas sim algo que ela mant\u00e9m bem escondido, mas profundamente sentido!<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Devido \u00e0 insalubridade, rela\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00f3xicas<\/a>Quando as mulheres desenvolvem uma imagem muito distorcida de si pr\u00f3prias, que n\u00e3o tem nada a ver com a realidade e tem tudo a ver com os homens que se esfor\u00e7am por faz\u00ea-las sentir-se pequenas e sem valor.<\/p>\n

E quando uma mulher encontra finalmente a for\u00e7a interior para sair desse ambiente horr\u00edvel, j\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9 a mesma que era antes.<\/p>\n

As palavras duras que estava t\u00e3o habituada a ouvir nunca lhe saem da cabe\u00e7a e continuam a ecoar na sua mente.<\/em><\/p>\n

A natureza controladora do seu parceiro deixa-a inquieta e com medo de ser finalmente livre.<\/em><\/p>\n

A imagem distorcida de si pr\u00f3pria n\u00e3o ser <\/em>suficientemente bom<\/em><\/a> haunts her so much that she can\u2019t look in the mirror without seeing failure anymore.<\/em><\/p>\n

And that\u2019s only scratching the surface.<\/p>\n

Os efeitos de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o emocionalmente insatisfat\u00f3ria e t\u00f3xica s\u00e3o verdadeiramente graves e, quanto mais tempo estivermos expostos a ela, mais dif\u00edcil ser\u00e1 sentirmo-nos novamente como n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n

Ser emocionalmente negligenciada deixa estas 5 cicatrizes invis\u00edveis numa mulher, e essas cicatrizes permanecem com ela durante muito tempo.<\/em><\/p>\n

Desenvolve problemas de vincula\u00e7\u00e3o e medo de rejei\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quando uma mulher est\u00e1 rodeada de zero amor, apoio e estabilidade emocional, \u00e9-lhe ensinado que \u00e9 isso que ela merece.<\/p>\n

Having a partner that is unavailable, unloving, and inconsistent teaches her not to open up to people. And with time, that\u2019s exactly what happens.<\/p>\n

When you spend enough time in that environment, you begin believing this is all that you\u2019re ever going to get, so you adapt and learn to expect nothing but rejection.<\/p>\n

Esperar que as pessoas amo-te<\/a> and stick by your side becomes but a fairy-tale, and you don\u2019t dare ask anything of anyone because you are so used to rejection, why would it be any different now?<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 sempre \u00e0 espera de uma desilus\u00e3o e n\u00e3o consegue confiar em ningu\u00e9m<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Having a partner who is emotionally absent and keeps pushing you away, teaches you that you can\u2019t really trust him or anyone after him.<\/p>\n

Sempre que nos aproximamos de algu\u00e9m, estamos sempre \u00e0 espera que essa pessoa nos desiluda.<\/p>\n

Mesmo que tenham boas inten\u00e7\u00f5es, hesita em confiar nelas porque a experi\u00eancia ensinou-o a ter sempre cuidado e a manter a guarda alta.<\/p>\n

Ensinam-nos que ningu\u00e9m est\u00e1 l\u00e1 para proteg\u00ea-lo<\/a> e a manter-te em seguran\u00e7a, para que aprendas a tratar de tudo sozinho, por muito que precises desesperadamente da ajuda de algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

You stop feeling safe in relationships, so you choose to be alone, as you\u2019re the only one you know you can truly trust.<\/p>\n

Ela coloca-se a si pr\u00f3pria e \u00e0s suas necessidades em \u00faltimo lugar<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quando se \u00e9 emocionalmente negligenciado, n\u00e3o se est\u00e1 habituado a que as suas necessidades sejam ouvidas e muito menos satisfeitas.<\/p>\n

Ensinam-nos que o que queremos \u00e9 irrelevante e, por isso, n\u00e3o nos atrevemos a pedir nada.<\/p>\n

You are never given the time of day, and even when you do get some attention, you feel so grateful for it that you couldn\u2019t imagine asking for more.<\/p>\n

You are sad, borderline depressed, and completely unfulfilled, but doing something to change that feels selfish as you\u2019re simply not used to putting yourself first.<\/p>\n

Your needs have never been something of importance and it\u2019s going to take a while before you learn to stick up for what you want and need.<\/p>\n

Ela \u00e9 guiada pelo medo do fracasso<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Nunca lhe disseram que o que ela fazia era suficientemente bom. Nunca ouviu uma palavra simp\u00e1tica, nem sequer pelo esfor\u00e7o que sempre fez.<\/p>\n

Fracasso \u00e9 a \u00fanica palavra que lhe \u00e9 familiar.<\/p>\n

E, infelizmente, \u00e9 isso que a leva pela vida fora.<\/p>\n

Whatever she does, she feels and fears she is going to fail. She has never been told that it\u2019s okay not always being successful at everything.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t know that she\u2019s still doing great, even if occasionally she hits a bump.<\/p>\n

O fracasso est\u00e1 sempre na sua mente e ela tem a sua emocionalmente abusivo<\/a> ex para agradecer por isso!<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t feel worthy of love and attention<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

This is the biggest emotional scar she is left with. She is taught that she\u2019s worthless. She doesn\u2019t deserve love and she has zero right asking for it.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 ego\u00edsta pedir aten\u00e7\u00e3o e qualquer migalha de afeto que ela receba, tem de estar agradecida.<\/p>\n

Nunca recebeu uma chuva de amor e nunca lhe disseram o quanto ela \u00e9 espantosa e resistente.<\/p>\n

Estava coberta por uma nuvem negra de d\u00favidas sobre si pr\u00f3pria e nunca conseguia escapar-lhe.<\/p>\n

Now, even if she meets someone nice and with genuine intentions, it\u2019s going to take a long time before she can believe that she is worthy of his affection.<\/p>\n

She hasn\u2019t had a loving journey so far… and that has left her wounded.<\/p>\n

But she hasn\u2019t given up on herself, and she never will!<\/p>\n

O facto de ter sido emocionalmente negligenciada pode t\u00ea-la magoado, mas n\u00e3o de forma irrepar\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

Ela s\u00f3 precisa de algum tempo e de apoio, e voltar\u00e1 a desenvolver-se. Observe-a!<\/p>\n

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People we spend most of our time around are those who end up shaping us into who we ultimately become. There\u2019s no denying that. Those that surround you are those that have the biggest effect on who you are as a person. And our romantic partners are those we spend majority of our time with,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":93173,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-36131","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/5-Invisible-Scars-Emotionally-Neglected-Women-Carry-Into-Relationships.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36131","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=36131"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36131\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/93173"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=36131"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=36131"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=36131"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}