{"id":36147,"date":"2020-06-30T10:11:37","date_gmt":"2020-06-30T10:11:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36147"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:19:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:19:51","slug":"6-coisas-a-fazer-quando-ele-a-esta-a-enganar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-coisas-a-fazer-quando-ele-a-esta-a-enganar\/","title":{"rendered":"6 coisas a fazer quando ele est\u00e1 a enganar-te"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/quando-se-ama-alguem-faz-se-tudo-para-que-as-coisas-funcionem\/\">Quando se ama algu\u00e9m<\/a>Nunca pensamos em ser enganados por eles.<\/p>\r\n<p>Se tens um problema, acreditas que \u00e9 algo que todos os casais enfrentam e que vai passar.<\/p>\r\n<p>But there are problems that can\u2019t be ignored and the sooner you accept that they are happening, the easier it will be for you.<\/p>\r\n<p>Uma delas \u00e9 quando estamos a ser enganados por algu\u00e9m que \u00e9 o nosso mundo.<\/p>\r\n<p>Quando isso acontece, deixamos de acreditar no amor e perdemos a esperan\u00e7a de que algu\u00e9m nos ame como merecemos.<\/p>\r\n<p>Mas \u00e9 nesse momento que \u00e9 preciso agir e n\u00e3o sentir pena de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\r\n<p>V\u00e1 l\u00e1, n\u00e3o vais deixar que um homem te trate como merda e se safe com isso.<\/p>\r\n<p>Talvez algumas das coisas que se seguem possam ajud\u00e1-lo a reerguer-se e a restaurar a sua f\u00e9 no amor.<\/p>\r\n<h2>1. Cortar todo o contacto com ele<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89646\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-holding-phone-and-looking-outside.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada a segurar o telem\u00f3vel e a olhar para o exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-holding-phone-and-looking-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-holding-phone-and-looking-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/worried-woman-holding-phone-and-looking-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>Se algo estranho como isto aconteceu, a primeira coisa a fazer \u00e9 cortar todo o contacto poss\u00edvel com ele.<\/p>\r\n<p>Ou seja, nada de mensagens nas redes sociais ou de mensagens de texto, nada de telefonemas e nada de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o se o vir pessoalmente.<\/p>\r\n<p>Deve afastar-se dele o mais poss\u00edvel, porque aproximar-se dele s\u00f3 vai piorar as coisas.<\/p>\r\n<p>Se responder \u00e0s suas chamadas ou mensagens de texto, ele come\u00e7ar\u00e1 a pensar que pode conquist\u00e1-la novamente e tentar\u00e1 faz\u00ea-lo.<\/p>\r\n<p>Mas quando deixar de comunicar com ele, ele ver\u00e1 que n\u00e3o \u00e9 t\u00e3o f\u00e1cil como pensava.<\/p>\r\n<p>Trust me, your indifference will hurt him more than any curse, so play it smart and don\u2019t be available to him.<\/p>\r\n<h2>2. Don\u2019t blame yourself<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89647\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/brunette-woman-sitting-at-home-looks-thoughtful.jpg\" alt=\"mulher morena sentada em casa com ar pensativo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/brunette-woman-sitting-at-home-looks-thoughtful.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/brunette-woman-sitting-at-home-looks-thoughtful-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/brunette-woman-sitting-at-home-looks-thoughtful-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>O pior que pode acontecer \u00e9 come\u00e7ares a culpar-te a ti pr\u00f3pria e perdoares-lhe tudo o que ele te fez.<\/p>\r\n<p>Que se lixe esse merdas! Ele \u00e9 o culpado e devia ter o rabo entre as pernas e desaparecer da vossa vida.<\/p>\r\n<p>And you should move on as though he didn\u2019t exist. Do you know why? Because a douchebag like him doesn\u2019t deserve one tear from your eye.<\/p>\r\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/i-gave-you-more-chances-than-you-deserved-its-time-for-me-to-walk-away\/\">Ele nunca te mereceu<\/a>, but you were blinded by love and couldn\u2019t see his real face.<\/p>\r\n<p>But now you know what he is like, so you should steer clear of him. Don\u2019t think you were the guilty one.<\/p>\r\n<p>Se lhe mostrar que est\u00e1 arrependida por o ter deixado ir embora, ele aproveitar\u00e1 essa oportunidade e tentar\u00e1 entrar de novo na sua vida.<\/p>\r\n<p>Seja confiante e saiba o que quer. S\u00f3 assim conseguir\u00e1 chegar onde quer estar.<\/p>\r\n<h2>3. Don\u2019t change yourself<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89648\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-inside-home.jpg\" alt=\"mulher apoiada num sof\u00e1 dentro de casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-inside-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-inside-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-leaning-on-sofa-inside-home-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>Just because one man wasn\u2019t good for you, doesn\u2019t mean that someone else won\u2019t be your perfect match.<\/p>\r\n<p>So, whatever you do, don\u2019t change who you really are. If you are playful and easy-going, stay true to yourself.<\/p>\r\n<p>Don\u2019t become small just so a man in your life can look big.<\/p>\r\n<p>Don\u2019t burn just to bring light to someone else\u2019s life. Instead, after something like this happens to you, get out of this situation stronger than ever.<\/p>\r\n<p>Show him that you can do way better than him and that his mind games didn\u2019t destroy you, they just made you stronger.<\/p>\r\n<h2>4. Encontrar outra pessoa &nbsp;<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89649\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-sitting-by-the-lake-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"casal sentado junto ao lago a conversar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-sitting-by-the-lake-and-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-sitting-by-the-lake-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-sitting-by-the-lake-and-talking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>I am not saying you need to jump into someone\u2019s bed the day after you break up with him, but after you feel that you are ready, open your heart to someone new.<\/p>\r\n<p>But this time be smarter and more curious. Give yourself more time to get to know him and don\u2019t let him know that you are always available for him.<\/p>\r\n<p>Mostre-lhe que ele tem de fazer um esfor\u00e7o extra para a conquistar, porque \u00e9 uma mulher de valor elevado.<\/p>\r\n<p>Se se respeitar o suficiente, ele tamb\u00e9m o respeitar\u00e1.<\/p>\r\n<p>Be with someone who you feel comfortable with and never do things you don\u2019t like, just to make him feel better about himself.<\/p>\r\n<p>S\u00f3 assim encontrar\u00e1 a verdadeira felicidade e ser\u00e1 capaz de ser a melhor vers\u00e3o de si pr\u00f3prio numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o amorosa.<\/p>\r\n<h2>5. Avan\u00e7ar &nbsp;<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89650\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/blond-girl-walking-in-old-part-of-town.jpg\" alt=\"rapariga loira a passear na zona antiga da cidade\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/blond-girl-walking-in-old-part-of-town.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/blond-girl-walking-in-old-part-of-town-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/blond-girl-walking-in-old-part-of-town-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>One clever thing you can do after you find out that he has been stringing you along is to simply move on. Okay, it didn\u2019t work out with him. So what?<\/p>\r\n<p>Is he the only man in the world? Of course he isn\u2019t, so why would you sweat the small stuff?<\/p>\r\n<p>Devias deixar para tr\u00e1s a rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica com que te deparaste e poupar tempo a ti pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\r\n<p>I know it will be hard in the beginning because you\u2019ll think about him a lot, but after some time, it will fall into place like a missing puzzle piece.<\/p>\r\n<p>Sentir-se-\u00e1 arrependida por n\u00e3o o ter deixado mais cedo, porque se sente t\u00e3o poderosa e fant\u00e1stica na sua pele agora que ele j\u00e1 n\u00e3o faz parte da sua vida.<\/p>\r\n<p>Mas nunca \u00e9 demasiado tarde para as coisas boas, certo?<\/p>\r\n<p>Por isso, comece um novo cap\u00edtulo da sua vida, mas desta vez com algu\u00e9m que seja verdadeiramente digno de si.<\/p>\r\n<h2>6. Esquece-o completamente<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89651\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Woman-sitting-on-brown-armchair.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher sentada num cadeir\u00e3o castanho\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Woman-sitting-on-brown-armchair.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Woman-sitting-on-brown-armchair-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/Woman-sitting-on-brown-armchair-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>I know it won\u2019t be easy to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/he-will-come-back-when-you-forget-all-about-him\/\">esquece-o<\/a> quando se separam, mas acabar\u00e3o por conseguir.<\/p>\r\n<p>O mais importante \u00e9 n\u00e3o o mencionar aos seus amigos e familiares.<\/p>\r\n<p>When you don\u2019t talk about someone, you tend to start forgetting him step by step.<\/p>\r\n<p>In love relationships, it is a slightly longer process because certain feelings are involved, but if you follow the no contact rule and if you don\u2019t talk about him, you will succeed in it.<\/p>\r\n<p>When you feel he will always be on your mind, God will send you someone who will take up all your attention and you won\u2019t think about your ex at all.<\/p>\r\n<p>Each one of us gets what we deserve, but good things don\u2019t happen overnight.<\/p>\r\n<p>Ter\u00e1 de esperar um pouco mais pela pessoa certa, mas, no final, aquele que a ama mais do que a si pr\u00f3prio ir\u00e1 abra\u00e7\u00e1-la de manh\u00e3, dizendo-lhe que tem muita sorte em t\u00ea-la.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-89655 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/6-Things-To-Do-When-He-Is-Stringing-You-Along-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"6 coisas a fazer quando ele est\u00e1 a enganar-te\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/6-Things-To-Do-When-He-Is-Stringing-You-Along-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/6-Things-To-Do-When-He-Is-Stringing-You-Along-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/6-Things-To-Do-When-He-Is-Stringing-You-Along-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/6-Things-To-Do-When-He-Is-Stringing-You-Along-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/6-Things-To-Do-When-He-Is-Stringing-You-Along-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/6-Things-To-Do-When-He-Is-Stringing-You-Along-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you love someone, you never think of being strung along by them. If you have a problem, you believe it is something every couple faces and will pass. But there are problems that can\u2019t be ignored and the sooner you accept that they are happening, the easier it will be for you. 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