{"id":36219,"date":"2020-08-06T12:13:39","date_gmt":"2020-08-06T12:13:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36219"},"modified":"2022-07-23T09:14:44","modified_gmt":"2022-07-23T09:14:44","slug":"como-recuperar-a-sua-ex-namorada-17-maneiras-comprovadas-de-o-fazer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-recuperar-a-sua-ex-namorada-17-maneiras-comprovadas-de-o-fazer\/","title":{"rendered":"Como ter a sua ex-namorada de volta: 17 maneiras comprovadas de o fazer"},"content":{"rendered":"

J\u00e1 passou algum tempo desde que tu e a tua ex-namorada se separaram, mas o tempo n\u00e3o cura as feridas.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t seem to get her out of your head, as much as you try to do so.<\/p>\n

Ou acabaram de terminar a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, mas est\u00e3o convencidos de que a separa\u00e7\u00e3o foi uma m\u00e1 decis\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Seja como for, \u00e9 mais do que evidente que ainda tens sentimentos por ela<\/a> e que gostarias de voltar a estar com ela.<\/p>\n

However, the truth is that you simply don\u2019t know how to get your ex-girlfriend back.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want her to start seeing you as some pathetic loser who is begging her to come back but you have to find a way to approach her.<\/p>\n

Qual \u00e9 a melhor maneira de o fazer sem a assustar? Deve deix\u00e1-la vir at\u00e9 si ou deve come\u00e7ar a persegui-la imediatamente?<\/p>\n

If these are some of the questions that have been bothering you, you\u2019ve come to the right place because you\u2019re about to get some tested pieces of advice on how to get your ex- girlfriend back that work like a charm.<\/p>\n

Esque\u00e7a todos os seus medos e d\u00favidas porque o nosso especialista em rela\u00e7\u00f5es est\u00e1 prestes a ensinar-lhe como recuperar a sua ex-namorada da forma mais f\u00e1cil poss\u00edvel, sem parecer desesperado no processo.<\/p>\n

Tudo o que tem de fazer \u00e9 seguir este guia passo a passo sem esfor\u00e7o e prometo que reconquist\u00e1-la ser\u00e1 canja.<\/p>\n

Pense na raz\u00e3o da sua separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Antes de aprender a reconquistar a sua ex-namorada, \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio, em primeiro lugar, chegar ao fundo da quest\u00e3o da rutura.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it\u2014the two of you broke things off for a reason and something clearly wasn\u2019t working that well in your relationship.<\/p>\n

Well, you can\u2019t expect everything to go back the way it used to be before processing your break-up.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 necess\u00e1rio refletir sobre as raz\u00f5es e a forma como aconteceu antes de tentar salvar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll be honest\u2014if you insulted or in any way humiliated your ex while leaving her, getting back together will probably be quite difficult.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if she did that to you, it\u2019s time you reconsider your desire to reconcile with her because she might not deserve you.<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, o que aconteceu exatamente? Porque \u00e9 que tu e a tua ex-namorada decidiram seguir caminhos diferentes?<\/p>\n

Houve batota? Uma pessoa estava a abusar da outra?<\/p>\n

Did you guys understand that you had some fundamental differences that you couldn\u2019t surpass?<\/p>\n

Ou tiveram uma grande discuss\u00e3o que agora parece tola deste ponto de vista?<\/p>\n

Ambos pensaram bem na vossa separa\u00e7\u00e3o ou aconteceu num momento de raiva?<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que a separa\u00e7\u00e3o aconteceu? Disseram algumas coisas de que ambos se arrependem ou fizeram-no de forma madura e civilizada?<\/p>\n

Estas s\u00e3o todas as perguntas importantes a que deve responder antes de prosseguir com o processo de maquilhagem.<\/p>\n

O que precisa de saber \u00e9 se esta separa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 algo que pode ultrapassar e se \u00e9 algo que pode esquecer.<\/p>\n

Se voltarem a juntar-se, ser\u00e1 um passo em frente entre voc\u00eas os dois ou podem continuar com a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o como se nada tivesse acontecido?<\/p>\n

A verdade \u00e9 que, por vezes, terminar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 a melhor op\u00e7\u00e3o poss\u00edvel, porque voltar a juntar-se seria um inferno.<\/p>\n

Por vezes, as pessoas afastam-se umas das outras da forma mais nojenta e humilhante e, quando isso acontece, uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o tem futuro e temos de o aceitar, por muito que doa.<\/p>\n

Pense em quem foi o iniciador da separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Outra coisa em que tem de pensar \u00e9 quem \u00e9 que acabou com as coisas. A decis\u00e3o foi m\u00fatua ou um de v\u00f3s deixou o outro?<\/p>\n

De quem foi a culpa da separa\u00e7\u00e3o? A sua ex deixou-o por causa de algo que voc\u00ea fez ou f\u00ea-lo simplesmente porque deixou de o amar?<\/p>\n

Se foi voc\u00ea que terminou o namoro, provavelmente ser\u00e1 mais f\u00e1cil recuperar a sua ex-namorada.<\/p>\n

Claro que sim, provavelmente est\u00e1 ferida<\/a> and angry at you for leaving her but she likely wasn\u2019t ready to end your relationship and she wasn\u2019t the one who thought she\u2019d be better off without you.<\/p>\n

If this is the case, you just need to show her that you\u2019re actually a nice guy who regrets his decision and convince her that you\u2019d never do it again if you could go back in time.<\/p>\n

Also, you have to be patient and wait for her to understand that you are serious and that you don\u2019t plan on playing with her, if she gives you another chance.<\/p>\n

However, if your ex was the one who walked away from you, the situation is trickier, especially if she didn\u2019t make this decision as a consequence of your actions.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t run after her because that would give her the green light to come and go whenever she wants and it would make her think that she can dump you whenever she feels like it and you\u2019ll always beg her to come back.<\/p>\n

Isso significa que precisa de encontrar uma forma de a fazer compreender por si pr\u00f3pria o que perdeu.<\/p>\n

A melhor op\u00e7\u00e3o seria faz\u00ea-la vir ter consigo, pedindo desculpa por lhe ter partido o cora\u00e7\u00e3o e pedindo-lhe uma segunda oportunidade.<\/p>\n

Admitir os seus sentimentos a si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

O pr\u00f3ximo passo no processo de recuperar a sua ex \u00e9 ser honesto consigo pr\u00f3prio antes de iniciar uma conversa com ela.<\/p>\n

Em vez de suprimir as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es<\/a> e tentar fugir deles, abra\u00e7\u00e1-los e entrar em contacto com eles.<\/p>\n

Do you really love this girl? Or is it just lust you\u2019re feeling?<\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que a queres mesmo de volta? \u00c9 para provar a si pr\u00f3prio que a pode ter sempre que lhe apetecer?<\/p>\n

Is it because you don\u2019t want to allow some other guy to have her?<\/p>\n

Is it because you think you\u2019ll never find a girl like her? Do you want her back just to fix your broken ego or because you can\u2019t live without her?<\/p>\n

Os seus sentimentos s\u00e3o mais importantes do que o seu orgulho e ego? Ou ser\u00e1 o contr\u00e1rio?<\/p>\n

Tens saudades dela? Ou sente falta de estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/p>\n

Do you want to get back together with her out of habit and because you\u2019re used to having her around?<\/p>\n

Tem medo de sair da sua zona de conforto ou preocupa-se sinceramente com ela?<\/p>\n

Is it possible that you just don\u2019t want to go back to being single?<\/p>\n

That you despise modern dating and that you\u2019re tired of searching for the right person?<\/p>\n

That you\u2019d rather go back to someone who is familiar to you than going through the process of getting to know some new girl?<\/p>\n

These are all the questions you\u2019ll have to give honest answers to before learning how to get your ex-girlfriend back because they will determine your path to doing so and they will help you see whether you really want this person in your life or not and whether fighting for her is worth it or not.<\/p>\n

Recordar os erros cometidos na rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

After you\u2019ve come to terms with your emotions, the next step is to go back to the past and think your entire relationship through.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s to continue being honest to yourself and to take full responsibility for your words and actions.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o importa quem disse o despedida final<\/a>Todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o uma via de dois sentidos e a sua n\u00e3o foi exce\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Isso significa que tanto voc\u00ea como o seu ex cometeram alguns erros que levaram \u00e0 vossa separa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Firstly, focus on the things you did wrong. What are the things you\u2019d like to change if you could?<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que mais incomodava o seu ex enquanto estavam juntos?<\/p>\n

Fa\u00e7a o seu melhor para ser o mais realista poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

Em vez de se justificar e inventar desculpas, tente agir como algu\u00e9m de fora e seja franco sobre os passos errados que deu.<\/p>\n

However, don\u2019t be too hard on yourself and don\u2019t put all the blame on you only either.<\/p>\n

Even when you understand all of your mistakes, remember that beating yourself up won\u2019t get you anywhere.<\/p>\n

Instead of wasting your energy on self-resentment, be aware that you can\u2019t go back in time and that you can\u2019t erase all of your wrongdoings.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, what you can do is make sure you don\u2019t repeat your mistakes.<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que pode fazer para satisfazer o seu ex, caso voltem a estar juntos, sem se perder no processo?<\/p>\n

Pense nas coisas que est\u00e1 disposto a fazer de forma diferente, se tiver outra oportunidade.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, seja franco sobre as partes da sua personalidade que sabe que nunca poder\u00e1 mudar, por muito que queira.<\/p>\n

Recordar os seus erros na rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

O mesmo se aplica aos erros que a sua ex-namorada cometeu no passado.<\/p>\n

I know that you miss her like hell now and that all of her flaws appear irrelevant from this point of view but I\u2019m begging you to be realistic about her the same way you are with yourself.<\/p>\n

Also, you can\u2019t expect to conserte a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o destru\u00edda<\/a> if you plan on holding grudges forever so please be honest and think about if you\u2019re ready to forgive your ex for all of her mistakes.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 realmente pronto para esquecer tudo o que ela lhe fez sem ter de voltar ao passado sempre que discutem?<\/p>\n

Can you accept her for who she really is, together with all of her imperfections and the parts of her personality you don\u2019t like?<\/p>\n

Ou esperas que ela mude a ess\u00eancia do seu ser s\u00f3 por tua causa?<\/p>\n

Acha que ela poderia mudar o seu comportamento e deixar de fazer as coisas que o incomodam?<\/p>\n

Acha que existe a possibilidade de ela compreender os seus erros e assumir a responsabilidade pelos mesmos?<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s make one thing clear\u2014no matter what happens, if you and your ex get back together, don\u2019t expect her to miraculously become someone else.<\/p>\n

She will still essentially be the same girl you used to be with and if that is someone you can\u2019t accept, don\u2019t even bother trying to win her back.<\/p>\n

Pense se os seus problemas podem ser resolvidos<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

A verdade \u00e9 que nenhuma rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 perfeita e todas elas t\u00eam problemas.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o importa o que algu\u00e9m tenta fazer-nos acreditar, todos os casais discutem e brigam de vez em quando<\/a>.<\/p>\n

However, there is a huge difference between some small disagreements which can be easily resolved and between real-life problems that can\u2019t be fixed, as much as both of you try to do so.<\/p>\n

Maybe you have different worldviews, different future plans or something that can\u2019t be forgiven happened in the past.<\/p>\n

Either way, the point is the same\u2014even if you don\u2019t want to admit it, there are times when a romantic a rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 condenada ao fracasso<\/a>por muito que se tente salv\u00e1-lo.<\/p>\n

\u00c9pocas em que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 quebrada para al\u00e9m de qualquer repara\u00e7\u00e3o e em que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que se possa fazer a n\u00e3o ser aceitar a dura verdade.<\/p>\n

So, if you\u2019re wondering how to get your ex-girlfriend back, one of the things you simply have to do before anything else is to reconsider your problems realistically.<\/p>\n

Even though you have strong feelings for this girl and even if she cares for you back, remember that sadly, sometimes love isn\u2019t enough.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 por isso que deve encontrar a for\u00e7a para ignorar as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es tanto quanto poss\u00edvel e pensar se esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o tem realmente futuro.<\/p>\n

Voc\u00eas os dois s\u00e3o compat\u00edveis?<\/p>\n

Voltar\u00e3o a separar-se se se reconciliarem agora ou ser\u00e3o capazes de aprender com os vossos erros?<\/p>\n

V\u00ea a possibilidade de construir uma vida ao lado desta rapariga?<\/p>\n

Se est\u00e1 convencido de que uma segunda oportunidade para a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o resolveria as coisas, fa\u00e7a o seu melhor para aprender a recuperar a sua ex-namorada.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, if you know deep down that your problems can\u2019t be resolved, please face reality and don\u2019t try gluing back together what cannot be fixed.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t bad-mouth her<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

It\u2019s natural for you to feel all kinds of negative emotions when your relationship ends, especially if you\u2019re the one who\u2019s been left behind.<\/p>\n

Sente-se tra\u00eddo, abandonado, amargurado e, sobretudo, furioso com o facto de a rapariga que ainda ama se ter afastado de si de forma t\u00e3o insens\u00edvel, sem ter em conta as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

Quando isso acontece, temos vontade de partilhar a nossa desilus\u00e3o com o mundo.<\/p>\n

Queres tirar-lhe a m\u00e1scara de boa rapariga e que todos vejam o idiota que ela realmente \u00e9.<\/p>\n

One of the golden rules of every break-up is not to talk trash about your ex, even if you don\u2019t plan on reconciling with them.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter what she did to you\u2014talking badly about her behind her back is off-limits.<\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, esta \u00e9 a pessoa com quem passou tanto tempo ao lado e com quem partilha mem\u00f3rias incr\u00edveis e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 necessidade de estragar isso, apesar dos termos em que se separaram.<\/p>\n

Para al\u00e9m de ser desrespeitoso para com o seu ex e para com a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o passada, falar mal do seu antigo parceiro rom\u00e2ntico significa que tamb\u00e9m est\u00e1 a falar mal de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

She was your choice and your significant other for so long, so it means that you\u2019re no better than her, as long as you stayed by her side for so long.<\/p>\n

This is especially the case if you\u2019re planning to learn how to get your ex-girlfriend back.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t have to find out that you went on blabbing about your relationship and about her flaws but you\u2019ll definitely feel bad about doing so when the initial anger and resentment are gone.<\/p>\n

I know you\u2019re hurt right now but don\u2019t let the pain overwhelm you and make you act like the immature brat you\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

Aceitar esta separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> as an adult and once she sees that you still respect her, even though you guys aren\u2019t together, trust me that you\u2019ll have a bigger chance of winning her back.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be demasiado pegajoso<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Assim que come\u00e7a a sentir falta da sua ex, a primeira coisa que quer fazer \u00e9 telefonar-lhe e implorar-lhe que volte.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve heard the saying \u2018out of sight, out of mind\u2019 and you feel the need to prevent her from forgetting all about you, thinking that you should start chasing her while it isn\u2019t too late.<\/p>\n

You feel like you\u2019ll go crazy if you spend another day without her and you are convinced that explaining the situation and being clear about your pain is exactly the way to winning her back.<\/p>\n

However, I\u2019m sure you don\u2019t want her to be with you out of pity or sympathy, do you?<\/p>\n

Detesto ser eu a rebentar a sua bolha, mas tem de saber que esta \u00e9 a \u00faltima coisa que deve pensar em fazer.<\/p>\n

Ser demasiado pegajoso nunca \u00e9 atraente e s\u00f3 pode fazer com que ela se afaste ainda mais de si.<\/p>\n

Trust me\u2014if you become too needy now that you guys have split, your ex will just think of you as desperate.<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll have the impression that you can\u2019t live without her and will definitely use that to her own advantage.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014-there is nothing shameful in showing your ex-girlfriend that you still have feelings for her.<\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, esta rapariga faz parte da sua vida h\u00e1 muito tempo e seria imposs\u00edvel esquec\u00ea-la numa fra\u00e7\u00e3o de segundo.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should show her that just because you love her, she can treat you the way she wants.<\/p>\n

Em vez de ser demasiado pegajoso no momento em que ela se afasta de si, nunca se esque\u00e7a de manter a sua dignidade e orgulho.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow her to humiliate you in any way and don\u2019t give her the green light to keep leaving you and coming back as she likes.<\/p>\n

Aplicar o regra de n\u00e3o contacto<\/a><\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

The truth is that playing mind games is almost never healthy for a relationship but when you\u2019re trying to figure out how to get your ex-girlfriend back, sometimes you simply have to engage in little tricks to make it happen.<\/p>\n

Of course, you won\u2019t manipulate her into loving you if she doesn\u2019t feel that way\u2014you\u2019ll just help awaken her hidden emotions which even she isn\u2019t aware of.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 alturas em que as pessoas precisam de nos perder antes de aprenderem a apreciar-nos.<\/p>\n

Momentos em que a sua aus\u00eancia \u00e9 a \u00fanica forma de algu\u00e9m come\u00e7ar a valorizar a sua presen\u00e7a e a ver que cometeu um erro quando pensou que podia passar sem si.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 exatamente este o caso da sua ex-namorada; \u00e9 poss\u00edvel que ela o tenha tomado por garantido e que tenha contado com a sua presen\u00e7a. Bem, \u00e9 por isso que tem de lhe provar o contr\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re looking for advice on how to get your ex-girlfriend back, the key to successfully doing so is to make her miss you.<\/p>\n

E aqui est\u00e1 exatamente como o conseguir.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve already heard about the regra de n\u00e3o contacto<\/a>n\u00e3o \u00e9?<\/p>\n

Trata-se de um m\u00e9todo comprovado para voltar a estar com o seu ex, cortando todos os la\u00e7os poss\u00edveis com ele durante um determinado per\u00edodo de tempo.<\/p>\n

It means that for a couple of weeks or even months, you\u2019re not allowed to initiate any kind of communication with your ex-girlfriend\u2014you can\u2019t call her, text her, like or comment on her social media photos and updates.<\/p>\n

You aren\u2019t allowed to post sad songs on your news feed, to go to the places you know you might encounter her or to hang out with her friends or family in the hope of hearing something about her.<\/p>\n

To put things simply, if you want this method to work, you have to completely ignore this girl and for this period of time, you can\u2019t be the first to initiate contact, no matter what happens.<\/p>\n

There is no looking for excuses to reach her\u2014you have to pretend like she doesn\u2019t exist and as if you really did leave her in the past, where she belongs.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re probably scared that this approach will make your ex forget all about you but trust me\u2014this won\u2019t happen.<\/p>\n

Instead, she\u2019ll become worried about losing you and she\u2019ll realize that she misses you as well.<\/p>\n

What is even better this way is that you\u2019re giving yourself an opportunity to think things through and maybe even get over her.<\/p>\n

Aplicar a regra de n\u00e3o contacto<\/a> is a real win-win situation\u2014either you\u2019ll stop loving her and realize that you actually don\u2019t want to get back together or she\u2019ll come crawling back to you.<\/p>\n

Trabalhar em si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll probably disappoint you here but going full no contact is not the only thing you\u2019ll have to do if you\u2019re figuring out how to get your ex-girlfriend back.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o basta que ela sinta a sua aus\u00eancia f\u00edsica, ela tamb\u00e9m tem de sentir que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9 a \u00fanica coisa que passa pela sua cabe\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

What is even more important is to prove to yourself that you\u2019re a valuable man, without or without a girl by your side.<\/p>\n

E qual \u00e9 a melhor maneira de o fazer do que aumentar a sua autoestima<\/a>?<\/p>\n

\u00c9 mais f\u00e1cil falar do que fazer, eu sei.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it\u2014we\u2019d all like to magically wake up one morning as a confident person, without any insecurities or self-doubts.<\/p>\n

No entanto, a constru\u00e7\u00e3o da autoestima \u00e9 um processo que inclui muito trabalho pessoal.<\/p>\n

Em primeiro lugar e acima de tudo, trabalhe o seu eu interior.<\/p>\n

This is the time in your life when you don\u2019t have a duty to make any compromises and the time when you can do whatever the hell makes you happy.<\/p>\n

Do whatever you want with your spare time\u2014just don\u2019t spend it calling your ex or stalking her.<\/p>\n

Go to the gym, find a new hobby, catch up with some people you recently didn\u2019t have enough time to see.<\/p>\n

Even though this is clearly not the time to get yourself involved in a new romantic relationship, you\u2019re a single man and there is absolutely nothing wrong with starting dating, flirting or texting other girls.<\/p>\n

Stay in shape but be careful not to lead anyone on to the point where a new girl might fall in love with you, while you can\u2019t respond to her feelings.<\/p>\n

Whatever you do, make sure not to feel like you\u2019re stuck in one place while your ex has moved on with her life.<\/p>\n

Fa\u00e7a algumas mudan\u00e7as na sua vida e passe mais tempo melhorar o seu aspeto f\u00edsico e a sua sa\u00fade mental<\/a> no processo.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that you should become someone you\u2019re not just to impress this girl but trust me\u2014she\u2019ll be more attracted to the parts of you she still hasn\u2019t yet had the chance to meet.<\/p>\n

Trabalhe para se tornar a melhor vers\u00e3o poss\u00edvel de si pr\u00f3prio e, mais importante ainda, comece a p\u00f4r-se a si pr\u00f3prio em primeiro lugar.<\/p>\n

After all, since you and your ex broke things off, you have all of this time and energy you\u2019d been spending on your relationship.<\/p>\n

Chegou o momento de o utilizar de forma sensata e de o redirecionar para si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

O mesmo se aplica ao amor. Em vez de ficar obcecado com a forma de recuperar a sua ex-namorada, concentre-se em tornar-se mais feliz do que alguma vez foi.<\/p>\n

Try finding out if she\u2019s still interested<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

After you\u2019ve invested your time and energy into improving yourself in all ways possible and after the no contact period is over, it is time to try and find out more about your ex-girlfriend\u2019s feelings and the best way to do it is indirectly.<\/p>\n

Now is the time in which you are allowed to talk to her friends, while subtly asking about her, to stalk her social media to see how she\u2019s been feeling, etc.<\/p>\n

These are all the things which can help you realize whether you still exist in this girl\u2019s mind or not.<\/p>\n

No entanto, a coisa mais importante a saber \u00e9 se ela seguiu mesmo em frente<\/a>. Ela anda a sair com algu\u00e9m novo?<\/p>\n

Se descobrir que a sua ex tem um novo homem na vida dela, fa\u00e7a o seu melhor para chegar ao fundo da rela\u00e7\u00e3o, sem parecer um canalha.<\/p>\n

You know how she usually behaves when she is in love so you won\u2019t have any trouble seeing if this is a rebound relationship, whether she is only using him to make you jealous or she really loves him.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014if it happens that you realize that your ex-girlfriend has a serious relationship and that she has developed feelings for another man or even that she is just dating someone else, winning her back won\u2019t be that easy.<\/p>\n

However, if she is single, it means you probably stand a good chance because there is a big possibility that she hasn\u2019t gotten over you just yet.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t hesitate to ask around about if she mentions you, see if she\u2019s deleted all of your pictures together and pay attention to if she hangs out at the places she probably hopes to accidentally run into you.<\/p>\n

Ela ainda mant\u00e9m contacto com os seus amigos e familiares, lembrou-se do seu anivers\u00e1rio ou de alguma outra data festiva?<\/p>\n

Ela tentou contact\u00e1-lo durante este per\u00edodo de aus\u00eancia de contacto?<\/p>\n

Ter tudo isto em considera\u00e7\u00e3o ajud\u00e1-lo-\u00e1, sem d\u00favida, a perceber em que ponto se encontra e a definir uma melhor estrat\u00e9gia para a reconquistar.<\/p>\n

Of course, if she showed some interest in you during this time, things will be quite easier but if she acted cold, that doesn\u2019t mean that you should lose hope in your reconciliation.<\/p>\n

Encontrar uma raz\u00e3o para a contactar<\/h2>\n

\"dois<\/p>\n

The next step in trying to win your ex-girlfriend back over is reaching out to her, if she hasn\u2019t done the same before now.<\/p>\n

The period of no contact is over and you\u2019ve both had time to think things through, to start missing each other and to see if you really want each other in your lives again.<\/p>\n

Initiating communication at this point is not desperate\u2014you\u2019ve shown this girl that you can live without her and that you can make it on your own, no matter what she might have thought.<\/p>\n

No entanto, ser demasiado honesto sobre as suas inten\u00e7\u00f5es n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma boa ideia.<\/p>\n

This way, you won\u2019t scare her away and you\u2019ll have a chance to remind her of all the good times you guys shared before engaging in some difficult and painful topics right away.<\/p>\n

Besides, even if she ignores you, your ego will still be intact because you didn\u2019t give her an opportunity to turn you down.<\/p>\n

Also, judging by her initial reaction, you\u2019ll be able to tell if she wants to get back together or if she is bothered by you even contacting her.<\/p>\n

Estar\u00e1 ela a dar pistas e sinais n\u00e3o verbais de que ela ainda te ama<\/a> e ela est\u00e1 a dar-lhe espa\u00e7o para se atirar a ela?<\/p>\n

Or has she has put her guard up, not allowing you to cross the line and letting you know that she isn\u2019t interested in rebuilding your relationship?<\/p>\n

\u00c9 exatamente por isso que inventar uma desculpa para contactar a sua ex-namorada \u00e9 muito melhor do que pedir-lhe que fa\u00e7a as pazes consigo do nada.<\/p>\n

Talvez seja melhor esperar pelo anivers\u00e1rio dela ou por outra data importante e us\u00e1-la como motivo para o contacto.<\/p>\n

Pode pedir-lhe ajuda ou mesmo pedir-lhe que lhe devolva algumas das coisas de que precisa.<\/p>\n

If none of this is possible, the last option you have is to tell her that you had a dream about her or that you just want to see how she\u2019s doing and what she\u2019s been up to\u2014it just shows that you want to stay on good terms and that you don\u2019t hold any grudges against her.<\/p>\n

Of course, if she gives you the green light, this is when you\u2019ll confess your feelings and tell her your intentions.<\/p>\n

Prepare-se para a conversa<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

No entanto, antes de falar honestamente com o seu ex-namorada<\/a>Em primeiro lugar, tem de se preparar mentalmente para esta conversa.<\/p>\n

Naturally, you can\u2019t predict the entire dialogue because you don\u2019t have the possibility of knowing her answers but you can do your best to prepare yourself with the things you plan on saying and the approach you think is the best.<\/p>\n

Como e quando \u00e9 que a conversa vai ter lugar? Tenciona telefonar-lhe ou enviar-lhe uma mensagem de texto?<\/p>\n

Tenha em mente que um telefonema \u00e9 muito mais s\u00e9rio e a coisa mais adulta a fazer, enquanto as mensagens de texto lhe d\u00e3o a oportunidade de continuar uma conversa casual antes de passar ao assunto real.<\/p>\n

Vai convid\u00e1-la diretamente para sair? Ou vai tentar dar o seu melhor para a encontrar acidentalmente e depois convid\u00e1-la para um caf\u00e9?<\/p>\n

What will you say to her? How will you start talking? Will you get straight to the point or will you beat around the bush until you\u2019re certain that she wants you back as well?<\/p>\n

What do you expect to happen? Be realistic\u2014how likely is it for this girl to jump into your arms, as if nothing has happened?<\/p>\n

Ser positivo e esperar o melhor ir\u00e1 certamente ajud\u00e1-lo no resultado, porque a sua ex ver\u00e1 que est\u00e1 seguro de si e ela ir\u00e1 sem d\u00favida apaixonar-se pela sua autoestima.<\/p>\n

No entanto, tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio estar preparado para o pior cen\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it\u2014there always exists the possibility of her turning you down.<\/p>\n

Maybe she\u2019s deixou de amar<\/a> you or she realized that the two of you don\u2019t have a future together, despite the emotions you share.<\/p>\n

De qualquer forma, se isso acontecer, lembre-se de que ela tem o direito de dizer n\u00e3o e que voc\u00ea tem de ser um cavalheiro e respeitar isso.<\/p>\n

Em vez de se emocionar demasiado ou mostrar-lhe a sua raiva, agrade\u00e7a-lhe por ela ter sido suficientemente justa para lhe dizer como as coisas s\u00e3o desde o in\u00edcio, sem o pressionar.<\/p>\n

Recordar-lhe os bons tempos<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Now that you\u2019ve managed to get this girl to talk to you or even to see you in person, it\u2019s time to make some concrete moves and to act on your desire.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 evidente que ela est\u00e1 disposta a dar-te outra oportunidade<\/a> and that she isn\u2019t as certain about this break-up as she thinks she is or as she was in the beginning.<\/p>\n

She wouldn\u2019t have agreed to meeting with you and she would have never answered your phone calls if that was true.<\/p>\n

Even though the two of you have some serious things to discuss, don\u2019t tackle these issues right from the start because you\u2019ll have plenty of time to do so later on.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that you should brush your break-up under the carpet but you should definitely start your conversation with some lighter topics.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 por isso que a melhor coisa a fazer \u00e9 contar com a passado que tiveram juntos<\/a> como vosso aliado.<\/p>\n

Lembrar a sua ex dos bons momentos que partilharam far\u00e1 com que ela se sinta nost\u00e1lgica e, consequentemente, mais f\u00e1cil de reconquistar.<\/p>\n

Just make sure to do so as subtly as possible so she doesn\u2019t see through your intentions.<\/p>\n

Refira casualmente um determinado local que visitaram ou pergunte-lhe se se lembra daquela viagem fant\u00e1stica que fizeram h\u00e1 algum tempo.<\/p>\n

This way, she\u2019ll realize that you didn\u2019t forget anything regarding your past relationship, which is an obvious sign of how much she means to you.<\/p>\n

Assim que ela come\u00e7ar a sentir todo o amor que julgava ter desaparecido e a recordar todas as mem\u00f3rias bonitas que t\u00eam os dois, reconquist\u00e1-la \u00e9 canja.<\/p>\n

Your ex will be nostalgic about those good times and she\u2019ll want them back, even if she doesn\u2019t admit it.<\/p>\n

At the same time, you\u2019ll help her forget and disregard all the ugly stuff that happened between the two of you.<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll realize that your relationship was much more good than bad and she\u2019ll realize it is without a doubt something she wants in her life.<\/p>\n

Seja honesto sobre os seus sentimentos<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

After you see that you\u2019ve managed to soften your ex, it\u2019s time to bring out the big guns.<\/p>\n

This is the moment of your honesty\u2014the moment in which you\u2019ll come clean about your feelings and intentions.<\/p>\n

First and foremost, forget about pretending to be this tough, heartless guy and don\u2019t feel weak for taking the first step\u2014you\u2019ve spent more than enough time jogar duro para conseguir<\/a> and pretending that you don\u2019t care and it\u2019s about time for you to find out where you stand and about time to put an end to these games.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t think of yourself as weak or as less of a man for admitting your emotions\u2014it only means you\u2019re strong enough to face them, accept them and verbalize them.<\/p>\n

No matter the outcome, trust me that your ex will respect you once she sees that you\u2019re a real man who knows what he wants and who isn\u2019t afraid to get it.<\/p>\n

That is exactly why you should tell her how things are\u2014ask her to give you a minute to tell her something without interrupting you and make sure she realizes that you\u2019re deadly serious.<\/p>\n

Seja franco sobre o facto de ter saudades dela, de ainda a amar e de a querer de volta.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry, none of this has to sound cheesy or overly pathetic\u2014just be strong enough to talk to her and try not to get overly emotional.<\/p>\n

Not only that\u2014also tell her why you think that your a rela\u00e7\u00e3o pode funcionar<\/a> desta vez.<\/p>\n

Fa\u00e7a o seu melhor para a persuadir a concordar em reatar a rela\u00e7\u00e3o, sem lhe implorar.<\/p>\n

Se necess\u00e1rio, antes de enfrentar a sua rapariga, ensaie as frases que tenciona dizer-lhe.<\/p>\n

Pode faz\u00ea-lo em frente ao espelho ou mesmo escrev\u00ea-las numa folha de papel e depois l\u00ea-las a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

This way, you\u2019ll know how this speech sounds and if it needs some modification.<\/p>\n

Of course, you won\u2019t learn every sentence by heart\u2014this only serves you as a guide and a reminder to say everything that\u2019s on your mind.<\/p>\n

Falar sobre o futuro da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re wondering how to get your ex-girlfriend back, the bulletproof way of doing so is to show her that you\u2019re serious about getting back together and that you don\u2019t plan on playing games once that happens.<\/p>\n

She needs to see that you\u2019re ready to take the necessary steps to rebuild your relationship and talking about its future is the way to convince her of that.<\/p>\n

Em vez de tentar atribuir-lhe toda a culpa pelo fracasso da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, seja suficientemente homem para assumir a responsabilidade pelos seus erros e admitir que tamb\u00e9m errou muitas vezes.<\/p>\n

Show her that you\u2019ve changed and that you\u2019re ready to fazer um esfor\u00e7o<\/a> e tentar fazer com que as coisas funcionem desta vez.<\/p>\n

Also, make her realize that you understand all of your mistakes and everything she\u2019s been going through.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t accuse her of overreacting and don\u2019t try belittling a raz\u00e3o da vossa separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> because if it wasn\u2019t important, it wouldn\u2019t have caused your relationship to end, would it?<\/p>\n

Avoid talking too much about the break-up and don\u2019t play the blame game. Instead, focus on the future.<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que pode fazer para evitar que desta vez acabe da mesma maneira? Como podem garantir o sucesso da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/p>\n

Be honest toward yourself and toward her. I know that now you think you\u2019re ready to agree to any conditions she proposes just to have her back.<\/p>\n

No entanto, a realidade \u00e9 bem diferente.<\/p>\n

Sooner or later, your problems and dissatisfaction will rise to the surface so it\u2019s for the best to talk about the future of your potential relationship right from the start.<\/p>\n

Tente deixar de lado as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es e encare esta conversa como um neg\u00f3cio. Quais s\u00e3o as coisas em que os dois se podem comprometer e chegar a um meio-termo?<\/p>\n

Quais s\u00e3o as suas factores de desempate<\/a> e quais s\u00e3o as coisas que esperam de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o? O que \u00e9 que nenhum de v\u00f3s tolera na outra pessoa?<\/p>\n

Talk to her about the future of your relationship, if it happens that you reconcile. Set some ground rules and show her that you\u2019re ready to respect them.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t force anything<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Como j\u00e1 foi dito, a sua ex tem todo o direito de recusar a sua oferta e de optar por n\u00e3o voltar para si.<\/p>\n

No matter what happens, you shouldn\u2019t force her into doing anything.<\/p>\n

Lembre-se que h\u00e1 uma diferen\u00e7a entre n\u00e3o desistir demasiado cedo e ser demasiado insistente.<\/p>\n

Por isso, se a sua ex-namorada est\u00e1 a pedir algum tempo para tomar uma decis\u00e3o, d\u00ea-lhe esse tempo.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let her lead you on and determine a date up until you\u2019ll be willing to wait for her.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if she asks you to take things slowly because she can\u2019t forget everything that has happened, reconsider this idea as well.<\/p>\n

Maybe it\u2019s better for your reconciliation to be a step by step process which will give both of you time to see where things are going and to rethink your decision, without committing to anything, before making a final step toward a healthy relationship.<\/p>\n

Either way, what is important is that getting back together happens with the terms of which you\u2019ll both agree upon.<\/p>\n

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