{"id":36296,"date":"2020-08-07T11:24:53","date_gmt":"2020-08-07T11:24:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36296"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:41:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:41:11","slug":"nunca-deixes-que-a-tua-solidao-te-leve-de-volta-ao-teu-ex-toxico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nunca-deixes-que-a-tua-solidao-te-leve-de-volta-ao-teu-ex-toxico\/","title":{"rendered":"Nunca deixe que a sua solid\u00e3o a leve de volta ao seu ex t\u00f3xico"},"content":{"rendered":"

Eu percebo. \u00c0s vezes... a nossa solid\u00e3o leva a melhor sobre n\u00f3s e acabamos por ceder. <\/em><\/p>\n

You do the one thing you promised yourself you\u2019d never do. You let him back in.<\/em><\/p>\n

You\u2019re weak, alone and miserable. You need this feeling of dread to go away and you need it now.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t deserve ser solit\u00e1rio<\/a> anymore. You don\u2019t deserve to feel like the only person on the planet who just can\u2019t seem to get it right.<\/p>\n

Queres o teu final feliz! Sabes muito bem que o mereces.<\/p>\n

E depois de tantas noites desesperadas e solit\u00e1rias a chorar at\u00e9 adormecer e a afogar as m\u00e1goas em vinho e shots, pega no telefone e liga-lhe.<\/p>\n

You know it\u2019s the wrong thing to do. You know he\u2019s bad news. Yet\u2026 you say, \u201cQue se lixe!<\/em>\u2019\u2019 and dial that number you sadly still know by heart.<\/p>\n

Odeia-se por isso, mas o mal j\u00e1 est\u00e1 feito.<\/p>\n

He answers on the first ring, as if he somehow predicted you\u2019d call\u2026 and he\u2019s already on his way over.<\/p>\n

Come\u00e7a a entrar em p\u00e2nico.<\/p>\n

Que raio acabaste de fazer? Como \u00e9 que traz\u00ea-lo de volta \u00e0 tua vida te vai ajudar de alguma forma?<\/em><\/p>\n

Foram precisos meses para reunir for\u00e7as para sair dessa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Foram necess\u00e1rias muitas conversas dif\u00edceis com os vossos melhores amigos<\/a> para finalmente te ajudar a v\u00ea-lo como o idiota t\u00f3xico que ele \u00e9.<\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

And right now\u2026 you\u2019re throwing it all away over one inconsolable, weak night.<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 que vale a pena? Ou \u00e9 este o teu fundo do po\u00e7o?<\/em><\/p>\n

Ambos sabemos como te sentiste na manh\u00e3 seguinte.<\/p>\n

Sentiste que te tra\u00edste por uma noite de (provavelmente) sexo fant\u00e1stico com um ex que \u00e9 completamente errado para ti.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like all the effort you put into finding yourself after dumping his sorry ass has been thrown into the gutter.<\/p>\n

E agora tens de fazer tudo de novo.<\/p>\n

This scenario is very familiar to me. I\u2019ve been there.<\/p>\n

Eu conhe\u00e7o a dor. Compreendo a agonia de deixar o idiota do seu ex voltar \u00e0 sua vida depois de ter demorado tanto tempo a curar-se depois de o ter deixado.<\/p>\n

And I know for a fact that it\u2019s seriously not worth it.<\/em><\/p>\n

Passar por uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o j\u00e1 \u00e9 suficientemente mau.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t just make yourself deixar de o amar<\/a> s\u00f3 porque, de repente, v\u00eas que ele \u00e9 um desperd\u00edcio t\u00f3xico de ar.<\/p>\n

Sure, you know he\u2019s no good but damn\u2026 you still freaking love that asshole!<\/p>\n

You hate yourself for admitting it but that\u2019s just how it is. And you don\u2019t really know how to make that love stop and get over him just like that.<\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

That doesn\u2019t happen. Maybe in the movies\u2026 but real life is a motherfucker.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m here to tell you I truly sympathize with you. It sucks letting your weak side get the best of you and letting the mistake of your life back into your arms.<\/em><\/p>\n

Sim, sabe bem durante essa noite. \u00c9 t\u00e3o reconfortante senti-lo perto de n\u00f3s e lembrarmo-nos porque \u00e9 que o deix\u00e1mos continuar durante tanto tempo.<\/p>\n

He knows just how to make you feel so good. He knows what you don\u2019t like. He knows how to make you smile when all you want to do is hate his guts.<\/p>\n

Mas nesses momentos, quando quiser marcar o n\u00famero dele e ceder, lembre-se exatamente de quem ele \u00e9.<\/p>\n

Ele \u00e9 a pessoa que vos causou muita dor. Tomou o seu amor como garantido e fez tudo o que lhe apeteceu, sem se importar com o que sentia.<\/em><\/p>\n

Ele fez-te sentir uma merda quando te mostraste. <\/em><\/p>\n

Ele fez-te parecer uma rainha do drama por quereres que ele reconhe\u00e7a os teus sentimentos por uma vez.<\/em><\/p>\n

You cried so many tears over his shitty behavior. You spent countless nights crying without making a sound so that he wouldn\u2019t hear you.<\/em><\/p>\n

Claro, ele era simp\u00e1tico quando queria, mas isso era muito raro.<\/p>\n

It only ever happened when he was having a good day and couldn\u2019t help but trat\u00e1-lo bem<\/a> devido \u00e0 sua boa disposi\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

But as soon as things would go south, he\u2019d turn into a toxic person who you didn\u2019t recognize anymore.<\/p>\n

You loved him but you couldn\u2019t even understand why.<\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

E \u00e9 disso que precisa de se lembrar da pr\u00f3xima vez que quiser devolver-lhe a chave do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Demoraste tanto tempo a tir\u00e1-lo da tua vida e da tua cabe\u00e7a. Por que \u00e9 que te vais esquecer disso? <\/em><\/p>\n

Respeita-te o suficiente para saberes <\/em>merece mais<\/em><\/a>!<\/em><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow your one lonely night to dictate how your life is going to unfold.<\/em><\/p>\n

In the morning, you\u2019re going to be full of regret and you\u2019ll hate yourself for what you did.<\/p>\n

So don\u2019t! Call somebody else instead and vent. But don\u2019t call that number, no matter how much you want to.<\/p>\n

Isso diminuir\u00e1 todos os esfor\u00e7os que fez e todo o trabalho \u00e1rduo que dedicou para colocar a sua vida no caminho certo. <\/em><\/p>\n

Vai saber bem durante uma noite, mas vai ser uma seca durante muitos meses depois.<\/em><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not worth it. HE\u2019s not worth it.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll get better but only if you stay strong and delete that number once and for all.<\/p>\n

Your loneliness will go away\u2026 but he is never going to stop being a toxic waste of your time!<\/p>\n

<\/figure>\n

\"Nunca<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I get it. Sometimes\u2026 your loneliness gets the better of you and you just cave in. You do the one thing you promised yourself you\u2019d never do. You let him back in. You\u2019re weak, alone and miserable. You need this feeling of dread to go away and you need it now. You don\u2019t deserve to…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":114696,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-36296","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Never-Let-Your-Loneliness-Drive-You-Back-To-Your-Toxic-Ex-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36296","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=36296"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36296\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/114696"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=36296"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=36296"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=36296"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}