{"id":36339,"date":"2021-10-08T07:04:29","date_gmt":"2021-10-08T07:04:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36339"},"modified":"2022-08-16T07:53:37","modified_gmt":"2022-08-16T07:53:37","slug":"uma-rapariga-com-problemas-de-confianca-esta-a-implorar-te-para-nao-fazeres-estas-12-coisas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-rapariga-com-problemas-de-confianca-esta-a-implorar-te-para-nao-fazeres-estas-12-coisas\/","title":{"rendered":"Causas e sinais de problemas de confian\u00e7a (+Maneiras comprovadas de os ultrapassar)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Trust issues are a complicated matter and something that loads of people deal with. It&#8217;s a common relationship problem among many couples who don&#8217;t have the capacity to address it the right way.<\/p>\n<p>If you find it impossible to trust people, you&#8217;ve come to the right place. If you read on, you&#8217;ll find out all the possible causes and symptoms of trust issues. Not only that: you&#8217;ll also get a detailed tutorial on how to deal with this problem in the healthiest way possible.<\/p>\n<h2>Porque \u00e9 que tenho problemas de confian\u00e7a?<\/h2>\n<p><b>Problemas de confian\u00e7a<\/b><b> est\u00e3o ligados \u00e0 sua experi\u00eancia de vida anterior.<\/b> Nunca aparecem sem uma raz\u00e3o, e est\u00e3o sempre ligados aos seus traumas passados.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s possible that you&#8217;ve been neglected, mistreated, abused, or <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-sinais-dolorosos-de-que-esta-a-sofrer-de-um-trauma-de-traicao\/\">tra\u00eddo no passado<\/a>. Consequentemente, perde a f\u00e9 em toda a ra\u00e7a humana e tem dificuldade em confiar em algu\u00e9m, incluindo as pessoas com quem tem uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o pr\u00f3xima.<\/p>\n<p>Eis as causas mais comuns dos problemas de confian\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<h3>1. Traumas na primeira inf\u00e2ncia<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102243\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/worried-woman-holding-for-her-head-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada a segurar a cabe\u00e7a\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/worried-woman-holding-for-her-head-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/worried-woman-holding-for-her-head-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/worried-woman-holding-for-her-head-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/worried-woman-holding-for-her-head-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/worried-woman-holding-for-her-head-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Uma das primeiras causas de problemas de confian\u00e7a vem da primeira inf\u00e2ncia. Nesta idade, o seu principal prestador de cuidados significa o mundo para si.<\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;re the most important person for a small child: someone you look up to and someone who sets a value system. It&#8217;s their job to provide you safety and comfort.<\/p>\n<p>So, what happens when they fail in doing so? What happens when they&#8217;re the ones who put you in danger and show that they&#8217;re not trustworthy? <b>E se fosse <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.healthline.com\/health\/mental-health\/childhood-emotional-neglect\" rel=\"noopener\"><b>emocionalmente negligenciada em crian\u00e7a<\/b><\/a><b>?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You learn that those closest to you won&#8217;t fulfill your needs. <b>Se o seu <\/b><b>cuidadores<\/b><b> abused you, didn&#8217;t give you enough love, safety, or comfort, what can you expect from the rest?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Eram a tua janela para o mundo e mostraram-te que o mundo \u00e9 um lugar assustador. Que outra op\u00e7\u00e3o tinhas sen\u00e3o agir em conformidade?<\/p>\n<h3>2. Trauma de relacionamento passado<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102244\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/couple-having-conflict-in-the-kitchen.jpg\" alt=\"casal em conflito na cozinha\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/couple-having-conflict-in-the-kitchen.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/couple-having-conflict-in-the-kitchen-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/couple-having-conflict-in-the-kitchen-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/couple-having-conflict-in-the-kitchen-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/couple-having-conflict-in-the-kitchen-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Your past relationships are the number one cause of your relationship trauma. It&#8217;s actually pretty simple:<\/p>\n<p><b>Se foi infiel, espera que o seu pr\u00f3ximo parceiro tamb\u00e9m seja infiel. Se <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/fui-vitima-de-abusos\/\"><b>foi v\u00edtima de abusos<\/b><\/a><b>Se espera que haja abusos na sua <\/b><b>nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b><b>. <\/b>The examples are endless, but I&#8217;m sure you get the point: your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-o-novo-amor-que-te-assusta\/\">a dor antiga \u00e9 o que te assusta<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>This is especially true if you&#8217;ve experienced some of this trauma in your first serious relationship. In that case, you don&#8217;t know better.<\/p>\n<p>You think that this is normal, and it&#8217;s how all relationships look. You&#8217;re always on the lookout waiting for a disaster to happen. These are all signs of <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/9-sinais-de-que-esta-a-sofrer-de-tept-numa-relacao\/\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o PTSD<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Without being aware, you&#8217;ve adopted <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-sinais-de-que-esta-preso-a-maus-padroes-de-relacionamento\/\">padr\u00f5es de relacionamento t\u00f3xicos<\/a> as the only option. You might not be aware of it, but you&#8217;re dragging your emotional baggage along and it&#8217;s weighing you down.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Estilo de vincula\u00e7\u00e3o ansioso<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102245\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/serious-couple-talking.jpg\" alt=\"casal s\u00e9rio a conversar\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/serious-couple-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/serious-couple-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/serious-couple-talking-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/serious-couple-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/serious-couple-talking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ve heard of different <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-assim-que-se-age-no-amor-com-base-no-seu-estilo-de-ligacao\/\">estilos de fixa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>. Em suma, existem quatro estilos de vincula\u00e7\u00e3o diferentes: Seguro, Ansioso-Apego\/Preocupado, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/tracos-de-evitamento-desdenhoso\/\">Dismissivo\/evitante<\/a>e Medo - evitante.<\/p>\n<p>Well, if you&#8217;re struggling with trust issues, it&#8217;s likely that you have an<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/factores-que-desencadeiam-a-vinculacao-ansiosa\/\"> estilo de vincula\u00e7\u00e3o ansioso.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><b>I&#8217;ll be harsh with you here: you&#8217;re needy and have low<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/50-citacoes-inspiradoras-sobre-a-autoestima-para-aumentar-a-confianca-no-dia-a-dia\/\"><b> autoestima<\/b><\/a><b>. Este \u00e9 um tipo de <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-sinais-de-que-tem-um-estilo-de-vinculacao-inseguro\/\"><b>estilo de liga\u00e7\u00e3o inseguro<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<h4>Como \u00e9 que isso est\u00e1 ligado a quest\u00f5es de confian\u00e7a?<\/h4>\n<p>You&#8217;re <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-todas-as-raparigas-com-problemas-de-abandono\/\">com medo de ser abandonado<\/a>e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-ultrapassar-o-medo-de-perder-alguem\/\">perder um ente querido<\/a> is your biggest nightmare. You&#8217;re constantly <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-deixar-de-procurar-a-validacao-dos-outros\/\">\u00e0 procura de valida\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> e a capacidade de resposta emocional do seu parceiro.<\/p>\n<p>Isn&#8217;t that how we all feel? Well, yes, to a certain point. The problem with your style of attachment is that these fears and needs become irrational to the point where they control all of your meaningful relationships.<\/p>\n<p>Para simplificar<b>, if you don&#8217;t get the amount of approval and security you wish for from a partner, your <\/b><b>quest\u00f5es de confian\u00e7a<\/b><b> vai explodir.<\/b> You&#8217;ll immediately feel unloved and emotionally neglected.<\/p>\n<p>Consequently, you assume that they&#8217;re being unfaithful, that they&#8217;re about to leave you, or that they&#8217;ve had enough of you. And, you know what&#8217;s the worst part? Nothing they say or do can change your mind.<\/p>\n<h2>5 sinais de problemas de confian\u00e7a<\/h2>\n<p>Quais s\u00e3o os problemas de confian\u00e7a? \u00c9 ci\u00fame ou h\u00e1 outros problemas de confian\u00e7a? <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/questoes-de-confianca\/\">sinais de problemas de confian\u00e7a<\/a> de que deve estar ciente? Aqui est\u00e3o os sintomas mais comuns com que as pessoas que lutam contra a desconfian\u00e7a lidam diariamente.<\/p>\n<h3>1. Pensar demasiado e preocupar-se demasiado<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102246\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-flirting-with-woman-in-the-club.jpg\" alt=\"homem a namoriscar com mulher na discoteca\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-flirting-with-woman-in-the-club.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-flirting-with-woman-in-the-club-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-flirting-with-woman-in-the-club-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-flirting-with-woman-in-the-club-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-flirting-with-woman-in-the-club-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando se sofre de falta de confian\u00e7a, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/pensar-demasiado-arruina-a-relacao\/\">pensa demais<\/a> cada pequeno pormenor da sua vida. E n\u00e3o \u00e9 s\u00f3 isso: tamb\u00e9m se preocupa demasiado.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re simply incapable of relaxing, going with the flow, and seeing where life will take you. Instead, it&#8217;s like there is this tiny voice in the back of your head that makes you plan literally everything ahead.<\/p>\n<p><b>You worry about the past, even though you can&#8217;t change it. You worry about the future, including the things you can&#8217;t really impact.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>At the end of the day, you don&#8217;t spend any time living in the presence and enjoying the moment.<\/p>\n<p>Analisa cada palavra que as pessoas lhe dizem. Disseca todos os seus movimentos, tentando encontrar um significado oculto.<\/p>\n<p>Passa a maior parte do tempo a preocupar-se e a pensar demais em vez de viver realmente. Tente <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/os-pensadores-excessivos-silenciosos-matam-as-relacoes-parar\/\">parar de pensar demais<\/a> and you&#8217;ll see you&#8217;ll be better in no time.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Esperar o pior resultado poss\u00edvel<\/h3>\n<p>Do you know what&#8217;s the biggest problem about this overthinking of yours? It always brings you to the darkest scenario, no excuses.<\/p>\n<p>Well, guess what&#8230; you&#8217;re not a born pessimist, you just need to learn how to build trust in others. Until that happens, you&#8217;ll keep expecting the worst possible outcome, no matter the situation.<\/p>\n<p>Why do you do this? It&#8217;s actually your defense mechanism.<\/p>\n<p><b>Parte do princ\u00edpio de que ser\u00e1 mais f\u00e1cil o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o ficar destro\u00e7ado se o tiver previsto. Se as coisas negativas acontecem, j\u00e1 as espera e, em parte, at\u00e9 j\u00e1 as enfrentou de antem\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>It won&#8217;t catch you off guard, and it will break you less. Nevertheless, if things turn out to be the best, you&#8217;ll be positively surprised.<\/p>\n<p>It sounds like a win-win situation. Except it&#8217;s not!<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-sinais-nao-tao-obvios-de-que-esta-a-comprimir-problemas-de-confianca-profundos\/\">sinal de problemas de confian\u00e7a profundamente enraizados<\/a> e algo em que tem de trabalhar o mais rapidamente poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Partilha insuficiente<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102247\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beautiful-woman-in-deep-minds.jpg\" alt=\"mulher bonita em mentes profundas\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beautiful-woman-in-deep-minds.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beautiful-woman-in-deep-minds-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beautiful-woman-in-deep-minds-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beautiful-woman-in-deep-minds-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beautiful-woman-in-deep-minds-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Do you know what&#8217;s oversharing? It&#8217;s the habit of giving away your own secrets and generally talking too much about yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Well, you&#8217;re doing the opposite \u2013 you undershare. You keep everything to yourself.<\/p>\n<p><b>You don&#8217;t talk about your problems to your <\/b><b>entes queridos<\/b><b>e muito menos a estranhos.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Newsflash: it might even be more dangerous than oversharing. You&#8217;re dealing with serious feelings of mistrust because you think you have to deal with all of your troubles by yourself.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Auto-sabotagem<\/h3>\n<p>You&#8217;re frequently sabotaging your own happiness. This especially happens in your intimate relationships when you decide <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-se-apegar-mais\/\">n\u00e3o se apegar<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>The moment you see that your romance is turning into a meaningful relationship, your trust issues activate. There comes a moment in your relationship when you&#8217;re expected to open up to your romantic partner and let them all the way in.<\/p>\n<p>But, instead of doing that, you decide to run for your life. It&#8217;s better for you to leave them in time before you give them a chance to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-coisas-que-fazes-acidentalmente-porque-ja-tiveste-o-coracao-partido-demasiadas-vezes\/\">partir o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o outra vez<\/a>n\u00e3o \u00e9?<\/p>\n<p>Bem, errado! <b>When you&#8217;re doing this, you&#8217;re not giving yourself the slightest chance of being happy.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I know you&#8217;re scared, but this way, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-a-rapariga-que-tem-medo-de-se-aproximar-de-alguem\/\">you&#8217;ll never build a close relationship<\/a> with anyone. And, I promise that you&#8217;ll be missing out on a lot.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Manter as pessoas \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102248\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/serious-woman-listening-and-looking-at-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher s\u00e9ria a ouvir e a olhar para um homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/serious-woman-listening-and-looking-at-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/serious-woman-listening-and-looking-at-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/serious-woman-listening-and-looking-at-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/serious-woman-listening-and-looking-at-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/serious-woman-listening-and-looking-at-man-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>\u200bYou keep everyone as far away as possible. I&#8217;m not talking about your new relationships here only.<\/p>\n<p>Mant\u00e9m os seus familiares, parceiros rom\u00e2nticos, colegas de trabalho, amigos \u00edntimos, literalmente toda a gente \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia.<\/p>\n<p><b>If you&#8217;re being honest, you don&#8217;t trust anyone in this world to the fullest&#8230; no one but yourself.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Look, it&#8217;s great that you&#8217;re being careful. There are bad people out there who really will take advantage of your kindness.<\/p>\n<p>Mas nem todos s\u00e3o assim e \u00e9 preciso ter f\u00e9 na sua fiabilidade.<\/p>\n<h2>Como resolver problemas de confian\u00e7a? Superar problemas de confian\u00e7a em 8 passos eficazes<\/h2>\n<p>I&#8217;m warning you: escaping your behavioral patterns is never easy. But, once you analyze the problem, find the cause, and accept that you have it, everything is much easier.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, that&#8217;s exactly what I&#8217;m saying: fixing your deeply rooted trust issues is possible. You just have to follow these steps on your healing journey.<\/p>\n<h3>1. Falar abertamente sobre o assunto<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102249\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/smiling-man-listening-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem sorridente a ouvir mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/smiling-man-listening-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/smiling-man-listening-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/smiling-man-listening-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/smiling-man-listening-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/smiling-man-listening-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>First of all, let me tell you that your low level of trust is nothing to be ashamed of. A lot of people deal with trust issues \u2013 the irony is that they don&#8217;t trust anyone enough to talk about it.<\/p>\n<p>Well, don&#8217;t be like them. The first step towards solving a problem is acknowledging you have one.<\/p>\n<p><b>A primeira pessoa que precisa de falar sobre o seu <\/b><b>sentimentos de desconfian\u00e7a<\/b><b> to is you. Once you do that, you&#8217;re ready to have this conversation with others who are close to you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not saying that you should reveal your personal details to everyone as soon as you meet them. But, for example, if you see that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relacao-seria\/\">a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica est\u00e1 a tornar-se s\u00e9ria<\/a>Por favor, seja honesto com o seu parceiro.<\/p>\n<p>Tell them that it&#8217;s not their fault, and that some of your relationship problems will be caused by your lack of trust. Ask them for patience and understanding, and make sure they know you&#8217;re working on your issues.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Trabalhar para melhorar a sua sa\u00fade emocional e mental<b><\/b><\/h3>\n<p>Ter problemas de confian\u00e7a n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma doen\u00e7a mental, mas tem certamente um grande impacto na sua sa\u00fade emocional e mental.<b> Geralmente vem acompanhado de <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/4-tipos-de-solidao-e-como-lidar-com-eles\/\"><b>sentimentos de solid\u00e3o<\/b><\/a><b>, ci\u00fame e <\/b><b>baixa autoestima<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Basically, what I&#8217;m trying to tell you is that these are also the things you should focus on during your healing process. You&#8217;ll have a hard time fixing your lack of trust if you don&#8217;t deal with your mental well-being in general.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Abra\u00e7ar o desconhecido<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102250\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/angry-woman-talking-to-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher zangada a falar com um homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/angry-woman-talking-to-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/angry-woman-talking-to-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/angry-woman-talking-to-man-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/angry-woman-talking-to-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/angry-woman-talking-to-man-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You never know what tomorrow will bring. I know that this fact freaks you out, but that&#8217;s life and you have to deal with it, whether you like it or not.<\/p>\n<p>O processo de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/reconstruir-a-confianca-numa-relacao\/\">restabelecer a confian\u00e7a<\/a> in others starts once you embrace this scary realization. Of course, this doesn&#8217;t mean that you should act completely careless.<\/p>\n<p>You still have a huge impact on your life, but some things are meant to be and you can&#8217;t do anything about it.<\/p>\n<p>Ent\u00e3o, <b>if you plan on keeping yourself sane, you&#8217;ll have to let go of control.<\/b> Detesto ter de vos dizer isto, mas as coisas m\u00e1s v\u00e3o acontecer e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 forma de as evitar.<\/p>\n<p>People will break your heart, your intimate relationships will fail, and friends will betray you. Having trust issues won&#8217;t protect you from that.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Aceitar alguns riscos<\/h3>\n<p>That&#8217;s why you have to pick your battles. Not everyone is worthy of you giving them a chance to be in your life.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, muitas pessoas s\u00e3o-no. Algumas s\u00e3o <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ela-vale-o-risco\/\">digno de arriscar tudo<\/a> com eles.<\/p>\n<p><b>At the end of the day, you just have to accept some risks. You can&#8217;t always play it safe.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Well, technically you can, but if you do, I guarantee you one thing: you&#8217;ll miss out on a lot.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You can choose to live your life safe from emotions. You&#8217;ll manage to avoid some negative emotions. It&#8217;s likely that you&#8217;ll reduce your chance of feeling sad, angry, or betrayed.<\/p>\n<p>But, at what cost? Trust me when I tell you that at the same time, you&#8217;ll also deprive yourself of happiness, love, intimacy, and connection with your loved ones.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Don&#8217;t be afraid to face your fears<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102251\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-kissing-woman-on-cheek.jpg\" alt=\"homem a beijar mulher na bochecha\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-kissing-woman-on-cheek.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-kissing-woman-on-cheek-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-kissing-woman-on-cheek-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-kissing-woman-on-cheek-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-kissing-woman-on-cheek-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>You&#8217;re scared of giving your entire self to another person without holding anything back \u2013 I get it. You&#8217;re <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-formas-faceis-de-ultrapassar-o-seu-medo-do-amor\/\">medo de amar<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>The trick is to face those fears. If you want to chase them away successfully, you have to look them deeply in the eyes and show them that you&#8217;re in charge here.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll be honest with you: <b>ignorar os seus medos \u00e9 muito mais f\u00e1cil. Mas, <\/b><b>autoconsci\u00eancia<\/b><b> \u00e9 um dos primeiros passos para a cura.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Quanto mais cedo admitir que tem um problema, mais cedo o resolver\u00e1 de forma saud\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Deixar para tr\u00e1s as experi\u00eancias passadas erradas e<\/h3>\n<p>A painful past is a common cause of trust issues. That&#8217;s exactly why you simply must let it go if you want to make any significant progress.<\/p>\n<p><b>The past burdens you. The future scares you. And, what about the presence? Well, it&#8217;s slowly passing by you while you&#8217;re too busy dealing with these other two.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t worry&#8230; history doesn&#8217;t always repeat itself. Just because you had a painful experience in the past doesn&#8217;t mean that all of your current relationships will end up the same way.<\/p>\n<p>You can&#8217;t allow a traumatic event to dictate your entire life. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-deixar-tudo-para-tras\/\">Deixar o passado para tr\u00e1s<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p>You can&#8217;t change it, but the presence is in your hands only. And, the future will be much brighter if you fix your broken trust in time.<\/p>\n<h3>7. Permitir-se tentar confiar novamente nos outros<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102252\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/couple-in-conflict-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"casal em conflito sentado no sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/couple-in-conflict-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/couple-in-conflict-sitting-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/couple-in-conflict-sitting-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/couple-in-conflict-sitting-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/couple-in-conflict-sitting-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Remember: baby steps. You&#8217;re dealing with a serious issue here, and you can&#8217;t expect everything to fall in its place overnight.<\/p>\n<p>Este \u00e9 um processo que requer muito do seu tempo, energia e esfor\u00e7o.<\/p>\n<p><b>You can&#8217;t make yourself trust everyone all of a sudden. But, what you can do is allow yourself to try <\/b><b>confiar nos outros<\/b> <b>\u2013<\/b><b> para come\u00e7ar.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Fa\u00e7a o seu melhor para afastar os pensamentos intrusivos que surgem na sua mente sempre que pensa em deixar algu\u00e9m entrar. Treine-se para confiar na esp\u00e9cie humana.<\/p>\n<p>Comece por confiar em mim, pois estes passos ajud\u00e1-lo-\u00e3o a descobrir como ultrapassar os problemas de confian\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<h3>8. Saber quando procurar ajuda<\/h3>\n<p>If this is something you can&#8217;t deal with on your own \u2013 that&#8217;s perfectly fine. In fact, realizing that you need help in the process of rebuilding trust means that you&#8217;re on the right path.<\/p>\n<p>Try asking your family members, friends, or romantic partner to give you a hand on this journey. But, if you see no progress or think that they couldn&#8217;t grasp what you&#8217;re dealing with, go see a mental health professional.<\/p>\n<p><b>Existem numerosos m\u00e9todos eficazes para que o seu <\/b><b>profissional de sa\u00fade mental<\/b><b> para o ajudar com o seu problema. <\/b><b>TCC<\/b><b> (Terapia Cognitivo-Comportamental) \u00e9 uma delas.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Isto \u00e9 \u00f3timo porque o ajuda a chegar \u00e0 raiz do seu problema. Tem problemas de confian\u00e7a numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o devido a uma experi\u00eancia dolorosa no passado?<\/p>\n<p>Tem um estilo de vincula\u00e7\u00e3o ansioso? A rela\u00e7\u00e3o com os seus prestadores de cuidados \u00e9 a principal causa da sua quebra de confian\u00e7a?<\/p>\n<p>O seu profissional de sa\u00fade mental ajud\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 a perceber isto. N\u00e3o s\u00f3 isso: ele tamb\u00e9m o guiar\u00e1 no seu processo de cura.<\/p>\n<h2>Como se chamam as pessoas com problemas de confian\u00e7a?<\/h2>\n<p><b>Pistantrofobia \u00e9 o medo de confiar nas pessoas.<\/b> It&#8217;s actually an anxiety disorder that makes you think that people close to you will hurt, abuse, or disappoint you in any way.<\/p>\n<p>Para ser exato, a pistantrofobia est\u00e1 sobretudo ligada a rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas e a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ansiedade-na-relacao-2\/\">ansiedade na rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>. Em termos simples, as pessoas que sofrem desta doen\u00e7a vivem num medo constante de que o seu parceiro lhes parta o cora\u00e7\u00e3o de uma forma ou de outra.<\/p>\n<h2>Quest\u00f5es de confian\u00e7a Cita\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102253\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/young-couple-discussing-in-the-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"jovem casal a discutir na sala de estar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/young-couple-discussing-in-the-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/young-couple-discussing-in-the-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/young-couple-discussing-in-the-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/young-couple-discussing-in-the-living-room-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/young-couple-discussing-in-the-living-room-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>1. &#8220;Instead of saying, &#8220;I&#8217;m damaged, I&#8217;m broken, I have trust issues,&#8221; say &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-todas-as-mulheres-que-se-curam-so-mais-um-bocadinho\/\">I&#8217;m healing<\/a>, I&#8217;m rediscovering myself, I&#8217;m starting over.&#8221; \u2013 Horacio Jones<\/p>\n<p>2. &#8220;Breaking someone\u2019s trust is like crumpling up a perfect piece of paper. You can smooth it over, but it\u2019s never going to be the same again.&#8221; \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>3. &#8220;Without trust, there can be no genuine peace. Neither in politics nor the quiet individuality of the heart and spirit.&#8221; \u2013 Timothy Zahn<\/p>\n<p><b>4. &#8220;Trust is the easiest thing in the world to lose, and the hardest thing in the world to get back.&#8221; \u2013 R. M. Williams<\/b><\/p>\n<p>5. &#8220;Trust is like a mirror&#8230; you can fix it if it\u2019s broken, but you can still see the crack in that mother fucker\u2019s reflection.&#8221; \u2013 Lady Gaga<\/p>\n<p>6. &#8220;I got trust issues because people got lying issues.&#8221; \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>7. &#8220;If we do not trust one another, we are already defeated.&#8221; \u2013 Alison Croggon<\/p>\n<p>8. &#8220;No marriage can survive for long without trust.&#8221; \u2013 Anton Robbins<\/p>\n<p>9. &#8220;Trust cannot be broken; only taken back from people not worthy of it.&#8221; \u2013 Jackie Viramontez<\/p>\n<p>10. \u201cThe trust of the innocent is the liar\u2019s most useful tool.\u201d \u2013 Stephen King<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102254\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-looking-at-woman-on-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"homem a olhar para uma mulher na rua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-looking-at-woman-on-the-street.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-looking-at-woman-on-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-looking-at-woman-on-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-looking-at-woman-on-the-street-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-looking-at-woman-on-the-street-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><b><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>11. &#8220;You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough.&#8221; \u2013 Frank Crane<\/b><\/p>\n<p>12. &#8220;Trust is the glue of life. It\u2019s the most essential ingredient in effective communication. It\u2019s the foundational principle that holds all relationships.&#8221; \u2013 Stephen R. Covey<\/p>\n<p>13. &#8220;Trust is like a piece of paper&#8230; once it\u2019s crumpled it can\u2019t be perfect again.&#8221; \u2013 Miranda Lee<\/p>\n<p>14. &#8220;Three things you should never break: promises, trust, and someone\u2019s heart.&#8221; \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n<p>15. &#8220;I wanted to explain that trusting is harder than being trusted.&#8221; \u2013 Simon Van Booy<\/p>\n<p><b>16. &#8220;Trust takes years to build, seconds to break, and forever to repair.&#8221; \u2013 Unknown<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>17. &#8220;It takes a lot of truth to gain trust, but just one lie to lose it all.&#8221; \u2013 Unknown<\/b><\/p>\n<p>18. &#8220;To trust people is a luxury in which only the wealthy can indulge; the poor cannot afford it.&#8221; \u2013 E.M. Forster<\/p>\n<p>19. &#8220;Trust and faith bring joy to life and help relationships grow to their maximum potential.&#8221; \u2013 Joyce Meyer<\/p>\n<p>20. &#8220;Sometimes you don\u2019t know who you can and cannot trust. I still learn that over and over again.&#8221; \u2013 Demi Lovato<\/p>\n<p>Esta lista de poderosos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/citacoes-de-confianca-quebrada-sobre-traicao-e-problemas-de-confianca\/\">problemas de confian\u00e7a cita\u00e7\u00f5es<\/a> prova que<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/citacoes-de-confianca-quebrada\/\"> a confian\u00e7a \u00e9 TUDO <\/a>quando se trata de manter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel e que, sem ela, nenhuma rela\u00e7\u00e3o poder\u00e1 prosperar.<\/p>\n<h2>Para terminar:<\/h2>\n<p><b>M\u00e1s not\u00edcias: <\/b><b>ultrapassar os problemas de confian\u00e7a<\/b><b> \u00e9 uma obra de arte. Boas not\u00edcias: pode ser feito.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sei o que devem estar a pensar agora: \u00e9 imposs\u00edvel que isto resulte. Mas, ei, \u00e9 voc\u00ea ou os seus problemas de confian\u00e7a a falar?<\/p>\n<p>I guarantee you it&#8217;s the latter.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, em primeiro lugar, confie em si pr\u00f3prio que \u00e9 capaz de o fazer. Em segundo lugar, confie no processo. Finalmente, <b>Confiem em mim quando vos digo que tudo vai correr bem.<\/b><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Trust issues are a complicated matter and something that loads of people deal with. It&#8217;s a common relationship problem among many couples who don&#8217;t have the capacity to address it the right way. If you find it impossible to trust people, you&#8217;ve come to the right place. If you read on, you&#8217;ll find out all&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":102255,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-36339","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse &amp; trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/A-Girl-With-Trust-Issues-Is-Begging-You-Not-To-Do-These-12-Things.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse &amp; trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse &amp; trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36339","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=36339"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/36339\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/102255"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=36339"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=36339"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=36339"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}