{"id":36371,"date":"2019-05-08T12:52:05","date_gmt":"2019-05-08T12:52:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36371"},"modified":"2022-02-07T03:50:09","modified_gmt":"2022-02-07T03:50:09","slug":"o-que-fazer-se-voce-e-o-seu-parceiro-nao-falam-a-mesma-lingua-do-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-que-fazer-se-voce-e-o-seu-parceiro-nao-falam-a-mesma-lingua-do-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"O que fazer se voc\u00ea e o seu parceiro n\u00e3o falam a mesma l\u00edngua do amor"},"content":{"rendered":"

Embora os investigadores tenham provado que \u00e9 falsa a velha estat\u00edstica de que metade dos casamentos acaba em div\u00f3rcio, o facto \u00e9 que muitas pessoas se sentem insatisfeitas nas suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas. Por vezes, surgem diferen\u00e7as irreconcili\u00e1veis, mas outras vezes, os conflitos na vida amorosa resultam de falhas de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Gary Chapman, autor de As cinco linguagens do amor: O segredo do amor duradouro<\/em>, asserts that feeling unloved occurs when romantic partners speak different love languages. By learning about their partner’s style, people can find greater satisfaction in their relationships. What happens when partners speak completely different languages \u2014 is their relationship doomed or can they overcome getting lost in translation?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Dedique algum tempo a aprender sobre as linguagens do amor<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"O<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The first step to improving the communication between partners involves discovering what love languages they speak. Those wishing to learn which love languages they prefer using can find a bounty of free online tests available \u2014 they\u2019re actually pretty fun!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

O question\u00e1rio pondera, por ordem de import\u00e2ncia, as diferentes formas como as pessoas demonstram que se preocupam com elas. Quando uma pessoa descobre que tipo de ac\u00e7\u00f5es a fazem sentir-se mais amada, pode comunic\u00e1-lo ao seu namorado.
As cinco linguagens do amor s\u00e3o:<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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  1. Tempo de qualidade.<\/b> As pessoas que valorizam mais esta l\u00edngua apreciam passar tempo com o seu parceiro. Adoram coisas como piqueniques no parque, onde passam tempo ininterrupto com a pessoa que amam. Dar prioridade ao trabalho e \u00e0s sa\u00eddas com os amigos em vez de passar tempo juntos f\u00e1-los sentir-se pouco amados.<\/li>\r\n
  2. Actos de servi\u00e7o.<\/b> As pessoas que t\u00eam uma pontua\u00e7\u00e3o elevada nesta linguagem n\u00e3o gostam de nada melhor do que quando o seu parceiro lhes d\u00e1 uma m\u00e3ozinha. D\u00e3o pontos de b\u00f3nus loucos quando a sua cara-metade se ocupa de uma tarefa que desprezam particularmente, como lavar a roupa. Para eles, a pregui\u00e7a \u00e9 sin\u00f3nimo de ego\u00edsmo. Ficar no sof\u00e1 o tempo todo enquanto eles passam o aspirador \u00e9 uma boa maneira de voltar a fazer swiping no Tinder.<\/li>\r\n
  3. Palavras de afirma\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/b>Stevie Wonder sang about those who appreciate this language in “I Just Called to Say I Love You.” People who value words of affirmation live for praise, compliments or simple reassurances they are loved. Keeping mum and refusing to discuss emotions makes these folks feel neglected.<\/li>\r\n
  4. Toque f\u00edsico. <\/b>Peeps who favor physical contact make the perfect mates to curl up with and cuddle. They adore it when their partner holds their hand in public, and greetings that don’t include a big hug baffle them. The touch need not necessarily involve sex, but relationships with those who shun physical demonstrations of emotion leave them hollow.<\/li>\r\n
  5. Receber presentes.<\/b> OK, for real, who doesn’t like getting presents? Folks who value receiving gifts may not expect to find a ribbon-wrapped Beemer in the driveway on Christmas morning, but sending flowers to their office for no reason lights up their smile. Tokens of affection need not cost a dime, but still, the \u2018Scroogier\u2019 partners of the world may struggle when their partner speaks this language.<\/li>\r\n<\/ol>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

    Ter um cora\u00e7\u00e3o a cora\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
    \"O<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

    Knowledge is half the battle, but it won’t win the war unless someone communicates what they’ve learned with the one they love. Pick a time to talk when both parties are relaxed and unhurried, maybe during dinner.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

    Try not to make the convo sound dire \u2014 the words “we need to talk” cause cold sweats and stomach butterflies. Frame the discussion in a positive way. After all, this chat is taking place because people want their relationship to work. Let them know this!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

    Partilhe o que aprendeu sobre a sua linguagem amorosa. As pessoas podem at\u00e9 fazer o teste em conjunto e comparar os resultados. Isto ajuda a manter as coisas alegres e optimistas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

    Depois, partilhe algumas coisas espec\u00edficas que o seu parceiro pode fazer para invocar o amor. Aqueles que valorizam actos de servi\u00e7o, por exemplo, podem apreciar a forma como o seu parceiro leva a reciclagem para o centro de triagem. Aqueles que reagem melhor a tempo de qualidade podem apreciar o seu encontro permanente no cinema \u00e0 sexta-feira \u00e0 noite.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

    Manter o \u00edmpeto em frente<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
    \"O<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

    Sharing what makes someone tick romantically can make a relationship stronger, but making it last requires more commitment. When a person grows resentful or feels their partner doesn’t care, they should ask themselves if perhaps they’re showing affection in different ways.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

    Everyone has their own love language, which means that maybe they don’t say “I love you” out loud very often, but they make sure to change the oil in their loved one\u2019s car every three months. When someone does something that’s intended to make another feel loved, show them some appreciation! Agradecer-lhes por<\/a> fazer ou dizer coisas atenciosas, e n\u00e3o se esque\u00e7a de retribuir fazendo algo que o fa\u00e7a sentir-se acarinhado.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

    Comunica\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel, rela\u00e7\u00f5es saud\u00e1veis<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

    Everyone knows one couple that\u2019s so different in nearly every way; people wonder how they clicked. Communication is the key \u2014 those who speak openly with their loved ones about their needs enjoy higher levels of satisfaction in their relationships. Find out how your partner says they care, and share with them the way they can make you feel special.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

    por Kate Harveston <\/b><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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