{"id":3647,"date":"2020-08-18T13:50:21","date_gmt":"2020-08-18T13:50:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3647"},"modified":"2022-01-10T20:26:01","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T20:26:01","slug":"o-namorado-nao-respeita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-namorado-nao-respeita\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 por isso que o teu namorado te trata sem respeito"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The main questions would be: Why doesn&#8217;t your boyfriend value you? Why doesn&#8217;t he give you the respect you deserve?<\/p>\n<p>There is one simple answer\u2014 <b>Porque o deixaste!!!!<\/b><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/deserve-treated-like-sht\/\">Mereces ser tratado como merda<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Em algum momento, a maioria de n\u00f3s j\u00e1 se viu preso numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o em que se sente <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/o-amor-unilateral-nao-merece\/\">the other side isn&#8217;t giving you enough.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Sente-se pouco apreciado e ignorado, mas continua a sentir-se ligado e incapaz de largar a pessoa.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ve given your best but he is still acting like you are not that important in his life.<\/p>\n<h2>Porque \u00e9 que estamos nesta confus\u00e3o?<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103359\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/angry-man-pointing-finger-at-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem zangado a apontar o dedo a uma mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/angry-man-pointing-finger-at-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/angry-man-pointing-finger-at-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/angry-man-pointing-finger-at-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/angry-man-pointing-finger-at-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/angry-man-pointing-finger-at-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A raz\u00e3o mais comum que damos \u00e9 porque os amamos<b>.<\/b> E far\u00edamos tudo por amor.<\/p>\n<p>Essa \u00e9 a for\u00e7a motriz de quase todas as mulheres. Por vezes, parece que vimos demasiadas s\u00e9ries de televis\u00e3o e filmes rom\u00e2nticos e come\u00e7\u00e1mos a acreditar no amor eterno, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/p>\n<p>But love isn&#8217;t true love if it isn&#8217;t reciprocated. When you are in a relationship, you have to feel that love from another person<b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b> Se est\u00e1 a dar o seu melhor, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/nunca-se-contentar-com-menos-vida\/\">don&#8217;t settle for anything less.<\/a><\/b><\/p>\n<p>A maioria de n\u00f3s tem uma baixa autoestima. Por esta raz\u00e3o, permitimos que os nossos parceiros nos tratem mal.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/4-razoes-pelas-quais-as-mulheres-mantem-maus-relacionamentos\/\">Mantemo-nos em m\u00e1s rela\u00e7\u00f5es porque<\/a> we are afraid we won&#8217;t find better ones. Also this brings the issue of fear of loneliness.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103360\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/angry-man-yelling-at-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem zangado a gritar com uma mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/angry-man-yelling-at-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/angry-man-yelling-at-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/angry-man-yelling-at-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/angry-man-yelling-at-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/angry-man-yelling-at-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A baixa autoestima leva-nos a pensar que estamos melhor numa m\u00e1 rela\u00e7\u00e3o do que sozinhos, o que, obviamente, n\u00e3o \u00e9 verdade.<\/p>\n<p>Este \u00e9 o problema mais profundo que exige um trabalho constante sobre a nossa autoestima e o nosso amor-pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>As mulheres t\u00eam frequentemente esse instinto de m\u00e1rtir. Suportam a dor e os maus tratos, na expetativa de que as coisas mudem e para melhor.<\/p>\n<p>They are hoping for a miracle\u2014they are hoping that if they do something or say something next time, it will fix their relationship.<\/p>\n<p>But miracles usually don&#8217;t happen in this kind of situation.<\/p>\n<p>Se est\u00e1 a gastar todo o seu tempo e esfor\u00e7o na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o e a outra parte n\u00e3o est\u00e1 a fazer a sua parte, provavelmente est\u00e1 na hist\u00f3ria errada e o melhor \u00e9 seguir em frente.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103361\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-on-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste e atenta sentada no sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-on-sofa.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/sad-mindful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Arranjamos desculpas para eles; <i> &#8220;He didn&#8217;t have time for me because he is too busy at work.&#8221; <\/i> , <i> &#8220;He was so tired he couldn&#8217;t even send me a goodnight text &#8221; <\/i> , ou mesmo <i> &#8220;I am so tolerant. I am such a good person that I can understand and forgive this behavior&#8221; <\/i> etc.<\/p>\n<p>Usamos todos os meios necess\u00e1rios para justificar o mau comportamento. Nesse momento, temos de nos distanciar das emo\u00e7\u00f5es e perguntar a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios se nos respeitamos o suficiente para continuarmos nesta rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>A verdade \u00e9 que se algu\u00e9m o respeita, tamb\u00e9m respeitar\u00e1 o seu tempo. Se for capaz de lhe dar tempo e aten\u00e7\u00e3o, ele ser\u00e1 capaz de fazer o mesmo por si. <i> Tudo o resto \u00e9 apenas uma desculpa. <\/i><\/p>\n<p>O melhor seria falar aberta e honestamente com o seu parceiro e descobrir a raz\u00e3o pela qual ele est\u00e1 a comportar-se assim e se ele est\u00e1 consciente do seu comportamento.<\/p>\n<p>Diga claramente o que quer da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o e certifique-se de que os dois est\u00e3o na mesma p\u00e1gina.<\/p>\n<p>Trabalhe bem em si pr\u00f3prio e afaste-se se a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o for aquilo que precisa e quer.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103362\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/woman-with-curly-hair-standing-with-closed-eyes.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de cabelo encaracolado de p\u00e9 com os olhos fechados\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/woman-with-curly-hair-standing-with-closed-eyes.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/woman-with-curly-hair-standing-with-closed-eyes-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/woman-with-curly-hair-standing-with-closed-eyes-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/woman-with-curly-hair-standing-with-closed-eyes-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/woman-with-curly-hair-standing-with-closed-eyes-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t be scared because there is always somebody better. He is not the only man in the world.<\/p>\n<p>We put value on ourselves and control how somebody treats us by showing them what they can and can&#8217;t do.<\/p>\n<p><i> Do not tolerate bad behavior and don&#8217;t settle for less than you deserve. <\/i><\/p>\n<p>Ultimately, if we don&#8217;t respect ourselves, we can&#8217;t expect anybody else to respect us either.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/making-fool-sorry-fault\/\">He is Making a Fool Out of You \u2013 Sorry, It\u2019s Your Fault<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-103364\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/This-is-why-Your-Boyfriend-Treats-You-With-No-Respect-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"\u00c9 por isso que o teu namorado te trata sem respeito\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/This-is-why-Your-Boyfriend-Treats-You-With-No-Respect-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/This-is-why-Your-Boyfriend-Treats-You-With-No-Respect-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/This-is-why-Your-Boyfriend-Treats-You-With-No-Respect-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/This-is-why-Your-Boyfriend-Treats-You-With-No-Respect-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/This-is-why-Your-Boyfriend-Treats-You-With-No-Respect-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The main questions would be: Why doesn&#8217;t your boyfriend value you? Why doesn&#8217;t he give you the respect you deserve? There is one simple answer\u2014 Because you let him!!!! See also: You Deserve To Be Treated Like Sh*t At some point, most of us have found ourselves stuck in a relationship in which you just&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":103363,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3647","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/This-is-why-Your-Boyfriend-Treats-You-With-No-Respect.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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