{"id":36475,"date":"2020-09-10T11:43:58","date_gmt":"2020-09-10T11:43:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36475"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:27:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:27:17","slug":"quando-dizer-amo-te-pela-primeira-vez-numa-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quando-dizer-amo-te-pela-primeira-vez-numa-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"Quando dizer \"eu te amo\" pela primeira vez em um relacionamento"},"content":{"rendered":"

Saying, \u201cI love you,\u201d to your partner is one of the most romantic things when it comes to new relationships but knowing when to say, \u201cI love you,\u201d is also one of the hardest.<\/em><\/p>\n

When you spend lots of time with someone and every time you\u2019re about to see them, you experience the sensation of butterflies in your stomach, their presence feels like home and you can\u2019t imagine living without them, it is normal to come to the conclusion that you\u2019re in love with them.<\/p>\n

E n\u00e3o h\u00e1 maior sentimento no mundo do que este!<\/p>\n

Mas agora vem a parte mais dif\u00edcil, em que pensamos e pensamos demasiado em dizer-lho.<\/p>\n

De repente, a incerteza domina-nos ao ponto de come\u00e7armos a duvidar dos nossos pr\u00f3prios sentimentos.<\/p>\n

Come\u00e7amos a colocar-nos quest\u00f5es como: \u201cShould I be the first one declaring my love or should I wait for them to do so? <\/em><\/p>\n

What if they don\u2019t feel the same about it and I get humiliated by saying <\/em>\u2018I love you\u2019 <\/em><\/a>too early?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

When to say, \u201cI love you\u201d?<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

When is the right time to say, \u201cI love you,\u201d for the first time in a relationship?<\/p>\n

\u00c9 ao fim de duas semanas, depois de conhecer toda a fam\u00edlia, ou \u00e9 logo nessa altura que come\u00e7a a sentir o gosto?<\/p>\n

A verdade \u00e9 que n\u00e3o existe uma receita perfeita ou um momento certo para largar a bomba L.<\/p>\n

But there are some essential things that you should pay attention to that serve as rules and advice about when to tell your partner, \u201cI love you\u201d.<\/p>\n

If you stick to them and if you\u2019re being genuine and honest about your feelings, you will significantly increase your chances of doing so successfully and mutual reciprocity will be granted!<\/p>\n

WHEN TO SAY, \u201cI LOVE YOU,\u201d FOR THE FIRST TIME IN A RELATIONSHIP<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ir a pelo menos cinco encontros<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

A coisa mais importante a ter em conta quando se trata de largar a bomba L \u00e9 certificar-se de que n\u00e3o a diz demasiado cedo ou demasiado tarde.<\/p>\n

Too early would be the first one to four dates because you can\u2019t really ligar-se assim tanto ao seu parceiro<\/a> se s\u00f3 os viu tr\u00eas vezes na vida ou se come\u00e7ou a namorar h\u00e1 pouco tempo.<\/p>\n

However, if you\u2019ve been connected all the time via texting and you couldn\u2019t go on dates like regular couples and now when you\u2019ve spent some time with them in person you feel that your bond has become even stronger, then you know saying, \u201cI love you,\u201d is just the right thing to do.<\/p>\n

Make sure that you\u2019re really feeling it<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Many people spend too much time thinking about when to say, \u201cI love you,\u201d instead of also thinking about how they feel about saying it.<\/p>\n

If you just want to say it for the sake of declaring your love to your partner because you\u2019ve been dating for a while now and because you think it is expected of you to say it, don\u2019t do it.<\/p>\n

Say it only if you\u2019re one hundred percent sure that you\u2019re really feeling it. Now you\u2019re probably asking yourself: \u201cBut how can I be totally sure about it because no one can confirm it to me?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

Well, there\u2019s one trick when it comes to this (that I found out a little bit too late) and that is: \u201cIf you don\u2019t know why you love someone but you know that you love them, then you really love them.\u201d (I guess it makes sense.)<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t wait too long and don\u2019t overthink it<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Tal como \u00e9 importante n\u00e3o o dizer demasiado cedo, tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 importante n\u00e3o esperar demasiado tempo para o dizer.<\/p>\n

As pessoas cometem frequentemente este erro por pensarem demasiado e n\u00e3o terem a certeza dos seus sentimentos.<\/p>\n

They wait for the perfect moment to say it, only to realize that they\u2019ve waited for too long.<\/p>\n

A verdade \u00e9 que quanto mais se espera, mais se pensa demasiado nas coisas e tudo fica a andar em c\u00edrculos durante uma eternidade.<\/p>\n

Once you\u2019ve spent enough time with your partner and you feel that you should level up things, do not let your mind interfere with your decision all the time.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t wait too long and don\u2019t overthink it and everything will be just fine.<\/p>\n

Wait until you\u2019re bursting inside out to say it<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Do you feel like you should say, \u201cI love you,\u201d but the feeling is not that strong within you? Do you feel like you could wait longer to say it?<\/p>\n

If yes, then you should indeed wait because the best timing to say it is when you\u2019re totally bursting inside out to declare your love to your partner.<\/p>\n

Now, you\u2019re probably wondering why. It is because love works on the principle of growth, like trees.<\/p>\n

Quando o amor pelo seu parceiro cresce dentro de si e espera pelo seu auge, ser\u00e1 mais intenso e, portanto, mais eficaz e genu\u00edno.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t do it before, during or after sex<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

One of the worst things you could do is say, \u201cI love you,\u201d before, during or after sex with your partner. Why?<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re about to fazer amor com o seu parceiro<\/a>, your hormones go wild and you feel everything ten times more intense and that is why sometimes people tend to say those three words, even though in most cases they don\u2019t really mean it.<\/p>\n

Dizem-no porque as suas hormonas lhes dizem para o fazer.<\/p>\n

That is why you should never say it at that time and instead when you\u2019re thinking rationally and when you\u2019re not too intoxicated by their appearance or presence.<\/p>\n

Certifique-se de que confia plenamente no seu parceiro<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Confia no seu parceiro com a sua vida? Alguma vez o seu parceiro o traiu ou o fez duvidar da sua lealdade?<\/p>\n

Before saying, \u201cI love you,\u201d you should always first make sure that you trust your partner completely.<\/p>\n

A confian\u00e7a \u00e9 a base de qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a> e se, de alguma forma, isso lhe falta, n\u00e3o deve sequer pensar em dizer essas tr\u00eas palavras ao seu parceiro at\u00e9 ter a certeza de que as coisas mudaram.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, confiar no seu parceiro significa n\u00e3o ter medo dos poss\u00edveis resultados quando finalmente o disser, porque n\u00e3o temer\u00e1 que ele corra pela vida ou que o fa\u00e7a sentir-se est\u00fapido por isso.<\/p>\n

Sente-se \u00e0 vontade com o seu parceiro<\/h2>\n

\"os<\/p>\n

Sentir-se \u00e0 vontade com algu\u00e9m \u00e9 um pr\u00e9-requisito para tudo e, especialmente, para relacionamentos bem-sucedidos.<\/p>\n

Se se sentir confort\u00e1vel com o seu parceiro, isso significa que se sente livre para ser quem realmente \u00e9 com ele.<\/p>\n

You should never be something that you\u2019re not when it comes to love.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re sure that you can be one hundred percent yourself when hanging out with them, then it means your love for each other is genuine.<\/p>\n

E s\u00f3 depois \u00e9 que deve dizer essas tr\u00eas palavras.<\/p>\n

You need to make sure that the feeling you have for your partner is not in any way fake because if it is, no matter how many times you say, \u201cI love you,\u201d to them, nothing will ever change.<\/p>\n

Sente-se nas entranhas<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve probably heard a lot of times so far that you should always listen to your gut.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re not sure about something, just listen to that little voice in your head telling you what the right thing to do is.<\/p>\n

And in the majority of cases, this is true. If you feel something in your gut, it means that it\u2019s real because you feel it in your soul.<\/p>\n

Por isso, se acha que deve dizer que o ama, n\u00e3o deve pensar demasiado.<\/p>\n

Follow your heart and gut and I\u2019m sure that everything will be just fine.<\/p>\n

(Especially if you\u2019ve already followed your gut before and convinced yourself of positive outcomes.)<\/p>\n

O seu parceiro confessou o seu amor com os seus actos<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Quando se trata de amor, muitas pessoas concentram-se apenas nas palavras, esquecendo-se de pensar tamb\u00e9m nas ac\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re thinking about saying, \u201cI love you,\u201d to your partner first, first make sure that you\u2019ve noticed little things that your partner does which mean their confession of their love to you.<\/p>\n

Se eles est\u00e3o sempre l\u00e1 para si, ajudando-o com as coisas, certificando-se de que fazer-te sentir especial<\/a>, surprising you and genuinely taking care of you, then you can be sure they love you but they probably haven\u2019t gathered up the courage to admit it to you yet or they are just like you, waiting for the perfect moment to do it.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t say it when you want to make up for something or reward your partner for something<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t use those three words as a reward for your partner or for making up to them when you fuck things up.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to say, \u201cI love you,\u201d in those circumstances (believe me) and there are two major reasons why you definitely shouldn\u2019t:<\/p>\n

a) If you say, \u201cI love you,\u201d just to reward your partner for something nice they have done for you, then it means you\u2019re probably not even feeling it but you\u2019re just doing it for the sake of rewarding them.<\/p>\n

b) If you say, \u201cI love you,\u201d just to make up for something you fucked up, it means your relationship is not healthy because there are other ways to apologize and make up for things instead of saying those three words; loving someone has nothing to do with being sorry for something.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re not one hundred percent sure, don\u2019t say it first<\/h2>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

Embora a melhor op\u00e7\u00e3o seja sempre esperar que o seu parceiro o diga primeiro, esta n\u00e3o deve ser a regra.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, algumas pessoas pensam que os homens s\u00e3o aqueles que devem sempre declarar o seu amor primeiro, mas isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 de todo verdade.<\/p>\n

Love is not picky and it doesn\u2019t have the ability to choose between genders.<\/p>\n

We all feel insecure when it comes to dropping the L bomb for the first time and there shouldn\u2019t be specific rules about it.<\/p>\n

Especially if you\u2019re not one hundred percent sure, there is nothing wrong with waiting a little bit longer and not saying it first, regardless of whether you\u2019re a man or a woman.<\/p>\n

Basta ouvir a sua mente e o seu corpo e o que lhe parece correto!<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t say it when you\u2019re overly emotional<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Have you watched a sad or happy movie together, where the story ends with a \u2018happily ever after\u2019 and now you can\u2019t help but want to declare your love to your partner as well?<\/p>\n

While it may seem like the right thing to do on so many levels, please don\u2019t do it when you\u2019re overly emotional.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 que as emo\u00e7\u00f5es podem ser complicadas.<\/p>\n

They have the ability to lift you up to the sky and down to the ground you in seconds and that is why you should be careful when it comes to saying, \u201cI love you,\u201d because you need to say it when you\u2019re totally chill and not under other influences in your surroundings.<\/p>\n

Diz\u00ea-lo depois do teu primeiro ou segundo combate<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

I know it may seem weird to you but yes, you should say, \u201cI love you,\u201d after your first fight or two.<\/p>\n

Devem faz\u00ea-lo porque as brigas s\u00e3o como testes de como o vosso amor \u00e9 realmente forte.<\/p>\n

It is easy to love someone when everything is perfect in a relationship, when the sun is shining, the birds are chirping and you\u2019re having a great time with each other.<\/p>\n

Mas quando a tempestade chega (e haver\u00e1 muitas no vosso futuro juntos), s\u00f3 o amor mais forte sobrevive.<\/p>\n

Sabe-se que se ama verdadeiramente o parceiro quando se sabe concordar com o que n\u00e3o se concorda, quando se sabe respeitar os seus desejos e chegar a um compromisso.<\/p>\n

E \u00e9 nessa altura que deve definitivamente dizer-lhes que os ama<\/a>!<\/p>\n

THE TOP 5 MOMENTS WHEN YOU DEFINITELY SHOULDN\u2019T SAY, :I LOVE YOU,\u201d TO YOUR PARTNER FOR THE FIRST TIME<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

O pior que lhe pode acontecer quando decide largar a bomba L \u00e9 faz\u00ea-lo na altura totalmente errada e no espa\u00e7o errado.<\/p>\n

Your partner might feel the same way but if you do it in the wrong timing, you will ruin the whole, \u201cI love you,\u201d thing.<\/p>\n

Apart from not saying it before, during or after sex, or when you\u2019re overly emotional (as stated above), there are more rules for when you should definitely not say, \u201cI love you,\u201d to your partner for the first time!<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t say it when you\u2019re drunk<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

When you indulge in plenty of alcohol, your body and mind start doing things you usually wouldn\u2019t do when you\u2019re sober, which means you should never, ever say that you love your partner for the first time when you\u2019re drunk and you\u2019re fighting to keep your balance.<\/p>\n

If you do that, the chances are that you\u2019re not even feeling it but the alcohol has forced you to say it or, maybe even worse, you are feeling it but despite that, the alcohol will ruin all the romance.<\/p>\n

So, it is always better to keep your mouth shut when you\u2019re loaded with alcohol so that you don\u2019t regret your actions when you wake up tomorrow and realize what you\u2019ve done.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t say it at the first wedding you attend together<\/h2>\n

\"os<\/p>\n

We all know that weddings can be really emotional and there isn\u2019t a single soul who can be indifferent when it comes to watching duas pessoas a dar o n\u00f3<\/a> e decidem partilhar o corpo e a alma um com o outro.<\/p>\n

And no matter how hard it would be for you to endure the wedding ceremony without feeling the urge to admit your own feelings to your partner (to say, \u201cI love you,\u201d) just try to keep yourself from doing so because it is not the time or space for such doings and because you\u2019re probably just overly emotional.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t say it at dinner with your\/their parents<\/h2>\n

\"fam\u00edlia<\/p>\n

If you say, \u201cI love you,\u201d to your partner while you\u2019re at dinner with your or their parents, I can guarantee you that you will make them feel uncomfortable and, let\u2019s say, ruin the dinner.<\/p>\n

You should always say those three words first when you\u2019re alone with your partner and not with your family around you because saying, \u201cI love you,\u201d is not the same thing as proposing or similar.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re in a fight<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Se alguma vez se sentiu tentado a utilizar estas tr\u00eas palavras como chupeta durante uma discuss\u00e3o, n\u00e3o o fa\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t say to your partner that you love them just because you want to stop fighting and make them feel better.<\/p>\n

There are other, healthier ways to end the fight and saying, \u201cI love you,\u201d is definitely not one of them.<\/p>\n

After they say it to you (if you\u2019re not feeling the same yet)<\/h2>\n

\"morena<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re really anxious about how to respond when your partner says that they love you but you don\u2019t want to hurt their feelings, you should never say something that you don\u2019t really mean.<\/p>\n

Se o fizer, pode ferir os seus sentimentos e piorar ainda mais as coisas.<\/p>\n

It is always better to say that you really like them but you simply cannot say yet that you love them, which doesn\u2019t mean that you will not eventually be ready for it.<\/p>\n

Significa apenas que precisa de mais tempo, porque nem todas as pessoas vivem o amor ao mesmo ritmo.<\/p>\n

\"Quando<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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