{"id":36521,"date":"2019-05-13T07:09:17","date_gmt":"2019-05-13T07:09:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36521"},"modified":"2021-12-20T16:08:12","modified_gmt":"2021-12-20T16:08:12","slug":"7-regras-para-enviar-mensagens-de-texto-durante-o-namoro-para-facilitar-a-sua-vida-amorosa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-regras-para-enviar-mensagens-de-texto-durante-o-namoro-para-facilitar-a-sua-vida-amorosa\/","title":{"rendered":"7 regras para enviar mensagens de texto durante o namoro para facilitar a sua vida amorosa"},"content":{"rendered":"

A forma como envia as mensagens de texto e a forma como interpreta os textos dele nas fases iniciais do namoro podem fazer a diferen\u00e7a na rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It seems like the dating world of today is unimaginable without texting and it seems to me it\u2019s a lot harder for us women than for men.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I think that\u2019s because whether we like to admit it or not, men made the rules of texting in their mind and it\u2019s no wonder we get lost in them.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u2018When to text, when not to text?\u2019 , \u2018When is texting perceived as clingy and when as uninterested?\u2019 , \u2018Why hasn’t he texted back, it\u2019s already been half a day since I texted him?\u2019…. It\u2019s exhausting and it\u2019s taking up way too much of our time.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It\u2019s time we make our own rules and stick to them. I believe we all have had enough of playing by male rules; to be more precise, we have had enough of games altogether.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Siga estas 7 regras mais importantes para enviar mensagens de texto durante o namoro e veja como a sua vida amorosa se torna melhor e mais f\u00e1cil:<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. Always text \u2018NO\u2019 to his last-minute plans <\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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N\u00e3o vale a pena queixares-te aos teus amigos sobre as mensagens de texto que ele envia a altas horas da noite e os planos para sair \u00e0 \u00faltima hora.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

That won\u2019t change a thing if you meet with him anyway.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se quer que ele pense no futuro e fa\u00e7a planos para encontros, mostre-lhe o caminho.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Every time he has a sudden desire to see you, tell him something along the lines of, \u201cSorry, I can\u2019t right now, I am somewhere\/have other plans.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Wish you had told me about it sooner.\u201d<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It\u2019s a nice and polite way to tell him that you won\u2019t be at his beck and call and that you want to be treated as a priority, not an option.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Deitar fora todas as teorias sobre mensagens de texto vs. chamadas <\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Most women would argue that if he only texts and never calls then he simply isn\u2019t interested enough. This couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It\u2019s time to look at texting from a male point of view: it\u2019s easier and more efficient, they are usually better at expressing themselves in writing than through speech, alguns s\u00e3o t\u00edmidos <\/a>assim mais confiantes ao enviar mensagens de texto, alguns acreditam que h\u00e1 menos hip\u00f3teses de estragar as coisas atrav\u00e9s de mensagens de texto, etc.<\/p>\r\n

No entanto, when he doesn’t text back<\/a> for days, you shouldn’t try to find excuses for such behavior. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Also, one more major thing to consider here is whether you\u2019ve been dating for a while or just had a few dates. You can\u2019t expect a man you\u2019ve been on three dates with to call you and talk to you for an hour, as he wouldn\u2019t know where to begin or what to say.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. Insert an, \u201cI\u2019ll call you later,\u201d game changer<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Se n\u00e3o gosta mesmo de mensagens de texto e prefere uma chamada normal ou mesmo uma videochamada, introduza essa no\u00e7\u00e3o subtilmente nas suas conversas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Diz-lhe que \u00e9s muito melhor a falar do que a enviar mensagens.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Or when you sense that the moment is right, just text \u2018Sorry I\u2019m busy right now but I\u2019ll call you later and tell you all about it\u2019.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Desta forma, ser\u00e1 voc\u00ea a dar o primeiro passo e ver\u00e1 se ele segue o seu exemplo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It\u2019s important you make some compromise here and meet each other halfway as it will be easier for other aspects of your relationship too.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. Don\u2019t send sexts if you want more than sex <\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Don\u2019t give him any boyfriend benefits until he is actually your boyfriend. Don\u2019t send sexts in the early phases of a relationship either.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You don\u2019t have to be a prude but you can postpone sexting<\/a> at\u00e9 que ele se torne algu\u00e9m que conhecemos e em quem confiamos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If sexting begins too soon, he will assume that you are in it just for sex or that you are easy to get into bed and after he gets what he wants, he will be on his way. So, don\u2019t rush it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

On the other hand, if he insists on sexting or sends you texts that are full of sexual implications, you will know exactly where you stand with him; he is not interested in your heart\u2014just your body.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If that\u2019s not something you are into, wave him goodbye and send him packing, as he is not worth your time.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. Evitar cair na armadilha das (m\u00e1s) interpreta\u00e7\u00f5es<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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What\u2019s taking him so long to respond? What is the meaning of his \u2018OK\u2019 text, is he mad at me?  <\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ontem estivemos todo o dia a enviar mensagens, por isso hoje ele perdeu o interesse ou est\u00e1 a fazer jogos? etc. <\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Most women love to interpret texts and unread texts, I know I was one of them until the simple truth slapped me in the face: The male brain is completely opposite to the female brain; we don\u2019t look at things the same way.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Try to relax and not give it too much thought. In the early stages of dating, you don\u2019t need to be so strict as you are just getting to know each other.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He doesn\u2019t have to set a schedule of when to text.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

O importante \u00e9 ver que ele est\u00e1 interessado, que est\u00e1 a fazer o poss\u00edvel para se manter em contacto e conhec\u00ea-la um pouco melhor atrav\u00e9s de mensagens de texto e, mais importante ainda, que est\u00e1 a fazer planos para a ver pessoalmente.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. Nunca enviar um texto de seguimento ou uma mensagem de texto em excesso<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Sempre que tiver vontade de enviar um texto de seguimento, resista o mais que puder.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se ele quisesse responder, t\u00ea-lo-ia feito ou poderia n\u00e3o ter visto a sua mensagem e um seguimento pareceria que est\u00e1 necessitada e desesperada pela aten\u00e7\u00e3o dele.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If he isn\u2019t sending a text back there is nothing you can do about it. Let him be. Not getting a text back is a strong message in itself.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t make things worse on yourself by sending a follow-up text.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t send him tons of texts either, as even if he responds to all of them it\u2019s the quickest way to suffocate your potential relationship.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Be more concerned with quality and not quantity; it\u2019s more about what you text about than texting all the time.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Saber onde ele esteve o dia todo ou o que comeu ao pequeno-almo\u00e7o \u00e9 basicamente in\u00fatil, mas um texto em que ele diz que pensou em si o dia todo \u00e9 ouro puro.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

7. Deixem-no ser um homem e assumir a lideran\u00e7a de vez em quando <\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"7<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Penso que muitas de v\u00f3s concordar\u00e3o comigo quando digo que as mulheres de hoje precisam de se sentir mais mulheres.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Queremos algu\u00e9m que nos corteje e nos fa\u00e7a sentir especiais ou, por outras palavras, precisamos de um homem que envie aquela maldita primeira mensagem de vez em quando.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It doesn\u2019t have to be a rule, it doesn\u2019t have to be always but it would be great if men would initiate a conversation more times than a woman does.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

This doesn\u2019t mean developing tactics or playing games, it\u2019s a simple fact that men lose interest in things they get served on a silver platter, so if you are the one texting all the time, there is no need for him to make any efforts.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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