{"id":36532,"date":"2020-08-13T07:29:10","date_gmt":"2020-08-13T07:29:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36532"},"modified":"2022-11-20T22:07:31","modified_gmt":"2022-11-20T22:07:31","slug":"as-10-principais-regras-de-encontros-casuais-que-tem-de-seguir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/as-10-principais-regras-de-encontros-casuais-que-tem-de-seguir\/","title":{"rendered":"As 10 principais regras de encontros casuais que tem de seguir"},"content":{"rendered":"

H\u00e1 j\u00e1 algum tempo que os relacionamentos s\u00e9rios deixaram de ser a \u00fanica forma de duas pessoas se envolverem romanticamente.<\/p>\n

Among other things, casual dating is one of the options you have when you don\u2019t want to commit, but don\u2019t want to be single either.<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, o que \u00e9 o namoro casual? Bem, \u00e9 um acordo em que se obt\u00eam todos os aspectos positivos de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o sem nenhum dos negativos.<\/p>\n

You have someone to be with when you\u2019re bored and in need of affection, but without having to commit and without owing anything to them.<\/p>\n

Tem a oportunidade de manter todas as suas op\u00e7\u00f5es em aberto enquanto se diverte ao lado de algu\u00e9m de quem gosta.<\/p>\n

Looking at things from this point of view, casual dating sure looks like a perfect arrangement, doesn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

E a melhor parte \u00e9 que tamb\u00e9m parece ser canja.<\/p>\n

Well, it really is \u2013 if you know how to play your cards right.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 exatamente por isso que existe um conjunto de regras b\u00e1sicas para os encontros casuais que tem de seguir se quiser que tudo corra bem.<\/p>\n

Ambos t\u00eam de estar na mesma p\u00e1gina<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

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Uma das primeiras dicas para encontros casuais \u00e9 ser completamente honesto consigo pr\u00f3prio e com o seu parceiro.<\/p>\n

T\u00eam de saber o que querem e ambos t\u00eam de ser claros quanto a isso.<\/p>\n

A pior coisa que se pode fazer quando se trata de encontros casuais \u00e9 enganar algu\u00e9m<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s everything but fair for one person to think that they\u2019re in a committed relationship or that there\u2019s hope of forming an emotional connection while the other isn\u2019t interested in anything else besides keeping it casual.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 por isso que tanto voc\u00ea como o seu parceiro t\u00eam de estar em sintonia e procurar exatamente a mesma coisa, para que este encontro casual seja um sucesso.<\/p>\n

Lembrem-se, esta \u00e9 a \u00fanica maneira de manter os vossos cora\u00e7\u00f5es seguros.<\/p>\n

Estabelecer algumas regras b\u00e1sicas e limites<\/h2>\n

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After you and your casual dating partner have come to terms with what you want, it\u2019s time to set some rules and boundaries that you both should follow and respect.<\/p>\n

Cada rela\u00e7\u00e3o casual \u00e9 diferente e s\u00f3 voc\u00eas os dois t\u00eam o direito de determinar o que \u00e9 permitido ou n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Talk honestly to each other about the things you\u2019re comfortable with and about those you don\u2019t want to be a part of your casual dating scheme.<\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m podem sair juntos com outras pessoas? V\u00e3o ser monog\u00e2micos ou v\u00e3o ambos jogar no terreno?<\/p>\n

Quer manter todos estes encontros casuais em segredo ou \u00e9 aceit\u00e1vel falar sobre isso com os seus amigos?<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que se v\u00e3o comportar em p\u00fablico? Como um casal ou como nada mais do que amigos<\/a>?<\/p>\n

\u00c9 aceit\u00e1vel ou n\u00e3o namoriscar \u00e0 frente dos outros? Vai continuar com os encontros em linha?<\/p>\n

Esperam manter-se em contacto, para al\u00e9m do sexo e dos encontros?<\/p>\n

Or is there nothing wrong with disappearing from each other\u2019s lives from time to time, without any explanation?<\/p>\n

Relacionadas: Com que frequ\u00eancia se deve enviar mensagens de texto a algu\u00e9m com quem se est\u00e1 a sair casualmente?<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t play games<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

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Estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o sem compromisso significa que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 absolutamente nenhuma necessidade de fazer jogos mentais com a outra pessoa.<\/p>\n

Ambos sabem o que querem e \u00e9 absurdo andar a perseguir-se um ao outro.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to jogar duro para conseguir<\/a> porque o seu objetivo final n\u00e3o \u00e9 que a outra pessoa se apaixone por si.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to hide your emotions because, let\u2019s face it, you don\u2019t have any in the first place.<\/p>\n

What is important is to forget about your ego and constantly remind yourself that you\u2019re in this to have a good time and not to prove a point, because this is someone who will break your heart if you don\u2019t play your cards right.<\/p>\n

So instead of beating yourself up trying to outsmart your quasi-partner, just be honest and straightforward about everything that is bothering you and you\u2019d like to change.<\/p>\n

No silent treatment, no holding grudges, and no resentment \u2013 you\u2019re not children, but two adults, and you should act accordingly.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t have any expectations<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

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Talvez a regra mais importante dos encontros casuais que tem de seguir esteja relacionada com as suas expectativas.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o \u00e9 invulgar que as pessoas neste tipo de rela\u00e7\u00f5es percam o rumo ao longo do caminho e comecem a ver este namoro casual como muito mais do que isso.<\/p>\n

That is exactly why you have to keep reminding yourself not to have any expectations of the person you\u2019re involved with and of the relationship itself.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not allowed to make long term future plans or to get your hopes up. Remember, this is not a real relationship.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso ter os p\u00e9s bem assentes na terra e ser sempre realista se n\u00e3o quisermos ficar desiludidos ou desapontados no final.<\/p>\n

Sair para encontros<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

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Even though the term casual dating is much different from an actual relationship, it is still a form of dating and it means it\u2019s much more than casual sex.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 claro que o sexo pode fazer parte, e normalmente faz, deste tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o, mas n\u00e3o \u00e9 o \u00fanico aspeto.<\/p>\n

Por conseguinte, uma das regras para os encontros casuais \u00e9 sair efetivamente para encontros.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that you should have romantic fancy dinners or that the two of you should go on trips together, but there are many fun activities you can participate in and that can serve as ideias para encontros<\/a>.<\/p>\n

However, what is important is to avoid home dates. Don\u2019t cook each other dinner and don\u2019t sleep over.<\/p>\n

Coisas como estas s\u00e3o reservadas para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o a s\u00e9rio; permitir que aconte\u00e7am em encontros casuais s\u00f3 pode causar confus\u00e3o e agita\u00e7\u00e3o desnecess\u00e1rias.<\/p>\n

Partilhar o cheque<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

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When it comes to \u201cregular\u201d dating, it is an unwritten rule that men are those who usually get the bill, especially when it comes to the primeiro encontro<\/a>.<\/p>\n

No entanto, tudo \u00e9 completamente diferente quando se trata de encontros casuais.<\/p>\n

This is an arrangement in which you\u2019re expected to share all the expenses of the relationship.<\/p>\n

You can share the check or you can set the rule \u201cwho invites, pays.\u201d<\/p>\n

Seja qual for o caso, desta forma, voc\u00ea e o seu parceiro casual demonstram igualdade nesta rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Ningu\u00e9m \u00e9 dependente e ningu\u00e9m ficar\u00e1 a dever nada a outra pessoa quando tudo isto acabar.<\/p>\n

The same goes with gifts. It is one thing if you want to buy a little something for your almost-partner\u2019s birthday, but expensive and meaningful presents are out of the question.<\/p>\n

Respeitar-se mutuamente<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

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The truth is that you and your quasi-partner haven\u2019t made any promises to each other. No vows were made and there\u2019s no commitment.<\/p>\n

However, this doesn\u2019t give you the right to treat each other however the hell you want, without taking the other person\u2019s feelings into consideration.<\/p>\n

You still need to respect each other\u2019s time, energy, and feelings.<\/p>\n

That means it\u2019s absolutely not acceptable to, for example, bail on the other person, lie to their face regarding your relationship, string them along, insult them, try put them underneath you, or intentionally play with their feelings in any other way.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o tens o direito de ter ci\u00fames<\/h2>\n

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A regra de ouro dos encontros casuais \u00e9 que nunca se pode agir de forma possessiva ou ciumenta.<\/p>\n

Lembrem-se que voc\u00eas os dois n\u00e3o s\u00e3o um casal a s\u00e9rio e que ambos t\u00eam o direito de fazer o que quiserem.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not permitted to ask the other person about their romantic history, to ask them where they\u2019ve been yesterday and where they plan on going tomorrow.<\/p>\n

You are not entitled to any type of explanation because your partner\u2019s activities and the time they spend away from you are none of your business.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, esque\u00e7a os encontros casuais se se considera incapaz de abdicar do controlo.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t expect the other person to listen to you or to start doing things your way.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if it happens that you start feeling jealousy that you can\u2019t ignore or get rid of, it is clear that you want more out of this relationship but you\u2019re just scared to admit it.<\/p>\n

Ser discreto<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

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Numerous men and women don\u2019t like the entire world to know their business. And the same goes for this relationship as well.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o \u00e9 absolutamente necess\u00e1rio que toda a gente saiba tudo o que h\u00e1 para saber sobre quem est\u00e1 na sua cama.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong, I\u2019m not saying that you should keep your almost-other-half completely hidden, but this person is not your boyfriend or girlfriend and it would be totally foolish to have them meet all of your friends and family.<\/p>\n

Besides, there is always a possibility that this person is one who doesn\u2019t want the rest of the world to know about their casual dating.<\/p>\n

Either way, don\u2019t go around blabbing about some things that shouldn\u2019t concern anyone besides the two of you and you\u2019ll be just fine.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get too attached<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

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Apesar de cada uma destas regras ser crucial para um jogo de encontros casuais bem sucedido, a coisa mais importante que deve ter sempre em mente \u00e9 desligar todas as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es, porque tornar-se demasiado ligado<\/a> nunca \u00e9 uma boa ideia.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying to act heartless or rude, but you can\u2019t expect for casual dating to work out if you get emotionally attached.<\/p>\n

In this case scenario, one of the people always gets out of the relationship with their mental health and heart injured, and you need to make sure something like that doesn\u2019t happen to you.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 exatamente por isso que \u00e9 importante pensar bem nas coisas antes de agir.<\/p>\n

Not everyone is cut out for meaningless flings and if you suspect that this is the case with you, run for your life before it\u2019s too late and you\u2019ve trapped yourself.<\/p>\n

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