{"id":36589,"date":"2020-04-13T10:39:50","date_gmt":"2020-04-13T10:39:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36589"},"modified":"2022-01-16T19:08:26","modified_gmt":"2022-01-16T19:08:26","slug":"se-queres-reconquistar-o-teu-ex-namorado-le-isto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-queres-reconquistar-o-teu-ex-namorado-le-isto\/","title":{"rendered":"Se queres reconquistar o teu ex-namorado, l\u00ea isto"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Por isso, quando o conheceu, teve um pressentimento de que n\u00e3o seria apenas uma daquelas rela\u00e7\u00f5es med\u00edocres.<\/p>\n<p>He was different from everyone you\u2019d ever been with, and he knew how to make you feel special.<\/p>\n<p>He didn\u2019t have problems with making an effort, and you thought that nothing and no one will ever separate you. You were happy together.<\/p>\n<p>But later on, some things happened, and you\u2019ve lost yourself in the process of trying to save what\u2019s left of your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>You know that you have to go separate ways because there\u2019s no point in prolonging the pain and unhappiness.<\/p>\n<p>Mas tamb\u00e9m sabe que n\u00e3o ser\u00e1 t\u00e3o f\u00e1cil como parece.<\/p>\n<p><strong>No matter how much you fight it, you can\u2019t help yourself wanting him back.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Toda a gente tenta vender-lhe a ideia de que o tempo cura tudo e que s\u00f3 precisa de esperar para esquecer tudo o que aconteceu e seguir em frente.<\/p>\n<p>But, they can\u2019t understand that time is your mortal enemy because existing means thinking about him, about you together, and about all the happy moments you had.<\/p>\n<p>No matter how much you fight it, you can\u2019t help yourself wanting all those moments back. And you should know that this is totally normal.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o h\u00e1 uma \u00fanica pessoa em todo o mundo que tenha conseguido <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/as-7-formas-mais-saudaveis-de-lidar-eficazmente-com-a-rejeicao-e-finalmente-seguir-em-frente\/\">seguir em frente e apagar o ex <\/a>in a record time because it\u2019s in our human nature to fight till the last atom and never stop believing in our dreams.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s exactly what you\u2019re doing.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-75436\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/young-woman-relaxing.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher a relaxar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/young-woman-relaxing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/young-woman-relaxing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/young-woman-relaxing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Quer <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/15-maneiras-poderosas-de-fazer-com-que-ele-te-queira-de-volta-em-pouco-tempo\/\">reconquistar o seu ex<\/a> porque continuamos a acreditar que as coisas v\u00e3o mudar, e \u00e0s vezes mudam!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Se quiser <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sera-que-ele-se-vai-arrepender-de-me-ter-perdido-7-sinais-de-que-sim-como-fazer-com-que-ele\/\">reconquistar o seu ex<\/a>significa que ainda sentes algo por ele.<\/p>\n<p>Esperamos que um dia as coisas mudem e continuemos a escrever juntos um novo e reescrito cap\u00edtulo da nossa vida.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>Mas \u00e9 preciso saber que nada acontecer\u00e1 por acaso.<\/p>\n<p>Se quiser <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/15-maneiras-poderosas-de-fazer-com-que-ele-te-queira-de-volta-em-pouco-tempo\/\">reconquist\u00e1-lo<\/a>Para isso, tem de estar disposto a investigar qual \u00e9 a verdadeira raz\u00e3o e causa da sua separa\u00e7\u00e3o e como pode melhorar as coisas.<\/p>\n<p>The key to reuniting with your ex is in understanding why some things happened and being willing to work on yourself and your relationship so that you don\u2019t repeat the same mistakes and ruin the chances of getting him back.<\/p>\n<p><strong>But, before doing anything, first you need to make sure that he\u2019s worthy of it!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The biggest mistake that you could be guilty of is blindly wanting someone back who didn\u2019t deserve it.<\/p>\n<p>Pergunte a si pr\u00f3prio, honestamente, se vale a pena lutar por ele e o tempo que essa luta lhe vai custar.<\/p>\n<p>Ask yourself whether you want him just because you can\u2019t forget him or there are more, bigger reasons for it.<\/p>\n<p>Once you\u2019re one hundred percent sure that you really want him back and you wholeheartedly believe that you\u2019re meant to be together, then consider following these 7 steps that will help you win your ex-boyfriend back:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Primeiro, passem algum tempo longe um do outro<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-75438\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-sitting-alone-and-watching-the-lake.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sentada sozinha a observar o lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-sitting-alone-and-watching-the-lake.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-sitting-alone-and-watching-the-lake-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-sitting-alone-and-watching-the-lake-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>A pior coisa que pode fazer \u00e9 sentar-se ao lado do seu telem\u00f3vel 24 horas por dia, 7 dias por semana, e estar constantemente a ligar-lhe ou \u00e0 espera que ele lhe ligue ou envie uma mensagem.<\/p>\n<p>If you can\u2019t help yourself, ask someone to hide your cell phone from you so that you don\u2019t think about contacting him all the time.<\/p>\n<p>Remember that you need to give it some time\u2014your body and heart deserve a break as well.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Pense na(s) raz\u00e3o(\u00f5es) que levou(aram) \u00e0 separa\u00e7\u00e3o em primeiro lugar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-75439\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/mindful-woman-standing-in-sunlight.jpg\" alt=\"mulher atenta \u00e0 luz do sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/mindful-woman-standing-in-sunlight.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/mindful-woman-standing-in-sunlight-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/mindful-woman-standing-in-sunlight-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>You will never be able to reconnect if you don\u2019t understand why you parted in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>Pense nas poss\u00edveis raz\u00f5es pelas quais as coisas acabaram como acabaram.<\/p>\n<p>Pensem no que fizeram, mas que podiam ter feito de forma diferente e como \u00e9 que isso afectou a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Assim que tiver uma vis\u00e3o destas coisas, ser\u00e1 dez vezes mais f\u00e1cil ver o panorama geral e pensar racionalmente.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Falar com os vossos amigos em comum sobre o assunto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-75440\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/two-friends-talking.jpg\" alt=\"dois amigos a conversar\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/two-friends-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/two-friends-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/two-friends-talking-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>If you want to win your ex-boyfriend back but you\u2019re not quite sure about it, it is always a good idea to talk to your mutual friends regarding the matter.<\/p>\n<p>Uma vez que n\u00e3o foram eles que acabaram com o seu ex, v\u00eaem as coisas de forma diferente e as suas opini\u00f5es ajud\u00e1-lo-\u00e3o muito nesta mat\u00e9ria.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Retomar o contacto com o seu ex<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-75441\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-and-man-talking-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"mulher e homem a falar ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"549\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-and-man-talking-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-and-man-talking-outdoor-300x206.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-and-man-talking-outdoor-768x527.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>If you feel it in your gut that you should definitely contact your ex (and your mutual friends approve), then you shouldn\u2019t doubt it for a second.<\/p>\n<p>But remember to contact him in a casual, chill tone because you don\u2019t want to scare him off.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re not sure how to do it, here are some great ideas on how to win your ex back via text messages: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/7-tipos-de-textos-para-enviar-ao-seu-ex-para-o-reconquistar-com-exemplos\/\">7 tipos de textos para enviar ao seu ex para o ter de volta (com exemplos)<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Transforme-se na pessoa por quem ele se apaixonou inicialmente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-75442\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beautiful-asian-woman-looking-at-mirror.png\" alt=\"mulher asi\u00e1tica bonita a olhar para o espelho\" width=\"800\" height=\"476\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beautiful-asian-woman-looking-at-mirror.png 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beautiful-asian-woman-looking-at-mirror-300x179.png 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beautiful-asian-woman-looking-at-mirror-768x457.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>O que \u00e9 que o atraiu inicialmente? Estaria ele loucamente apaixonado pelo seu esp\u00edrito de crian\u00e7a e a ser brincalh\u00e3o e teimoso?<\/p>\n<p>Think of all the things that he ever complimented you on and accentuate them so that you let him know you\u2019re still the same person he once fell in love with.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Prove to him that you\u2019ve changed<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-75443\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-couple-talking-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"casal triste a conversar num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-couple-talking-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-couple-talking-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-couple-talking-in-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>Tem alguns h\u00e1bitos irritantes ou algo de que tenha sido culpado na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/p>\n<p>If yes, now is the right time to prove to him that you\u2019ve changed.<\/p>\n<p>You want to let him know that you are determined to be the best version of yourself and that you\u2019re confident and feeling good in your own skin.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Falar com ele sobre voltar a estar juntos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-75444\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/couple-holding-hands.jpg\" alt=\"casal de m\u00e3os dadas\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/couple-holding-hands.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/couple-holding-hands-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/couple-holding-hands-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>E a \u00faltima parte, mas de certa forma a mais dif\u00edcil, \u00e9 ter uma conversa com ele sobre a possibilidade de voltarem a estar juntos.<\/p>\n<p>Again, the best way to do it is casually and with confidence. You don\u2019t want to force him into anything because it will have a countereffect.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve done all of the steps above, there is nothing to worry about when it comes to this one.<\/p>\n<p>All you need to do is talk to him honestly about why you think you should try again, and I\u2019m sure that he will not be able to discard the idea of a potentially <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-regras-de-relacionamento-a-seguir-se-quiser-ter-uma-vida-amorosa-feliz\/\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o feliz<\/a> quando ele vir a sua confian\u00e7a (e ele n\u00e3o vai querer perder uma mulher t\u00e3o boa como voc\u00ea).<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-75434\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/If-You-Want-To-Win-Your-Ex-Boyfriend-Back-Read-This-pinterest-2.jpg\" alt=\"Se queres reconquistar o teu ex-namorado, l\u00ea isto\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/If-You-Want-To-Win-Your-Ex-Boyfriend-Back-Read-This-pinterest-2.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/If-You-Want-To-Win-Your-Ex-Boyfriend-Back-Read-This-pinterest-2-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-75433\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/If-You-Want-To-Win-Your-Ex-Boyfriend-Back-Read-This-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se queres reconquistar o teu ex-namorado, l\u00ea isto\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/If-You-Want-To-Win-Your-Ex-Boyfriend-Back-Read-This-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/If-You-Want-To-Win-Your-Ex-Boyfriend-Back-Read-This-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/If-You-Want-To-Win-Your-Ex-Boyfriend-Back-Read-This-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So, when you first met him, you had a feeling in your gut that it will not be just one of those mediocre relationships. He was different from everyone you\u2019d ever been with, and he knew how to make you feel special. He didn\u2019t have problems with making an effort, and you thought that nothing&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":75445,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29629],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-36589","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-him-back"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29629,"label":"getting him back"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/If-You-Want-To-Win-Your-Ex-Boyfriend-Back-Read-This.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29629,"name":"getting him back","slug":"getting-him-back","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29629,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to get your ex-boyfriend back, you need to avoid making the most common mistakes. 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