{"id":36753,"date":"2020-02-17T07:52:40","date_gmt":"2020-02-17T07:52:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36753"},"modified":"2022-07-15T09:15:10","modified_gmt":"2022-07-15T09:15:10","slug":"7-vezes-em-que-um-homem-se-arrependera-profundamente-de-ter-perdido-uma-boa-mulher","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-vezes-em-que-um-homem-se-arrependera-profundamente-de-ter-perdido-uma-boa-mulher\/","title":{"rendered":"7 vezes em que um homem se arrepender\u00e1 profundamente de ter perdido uma mulher muito boa"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Normalmente, quando um homem se apercebe de que perdeu uma mulher verdadeiramente boa, j\u00e1 \u00e9 demasiado tarde para fazer as pazes e recuperar o seu erro.<\/p>\n<p>O arrependimento \u00e9 um dos sentimentos mais dolorosos que se pode suportar.<\/p>\n<p>There is nothing quite like realizing what a good thing you had when it\u2019s already too late and you can\u2019t get it back anymore.<\/p>\n<p>When a man realizes that a good woman doesn\u2019t come by as often as he would hope, a stream of regretful emotions rushes through his entire body and fills him with shame and sorrow.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/7-razoes-pelas-quais-as-mulheres-empaticas-tem-dificuldade-em-encontrar-o-amor-verdadeiro\/\"><em>Amor verdadeiro<\/em><\/a><em> doesn\u2019t knock on your door whenever you wish for it. Genuinely good people don\u2019t just show up whenever you\u2019re in need. Life doesn\u2019t work that way.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>So when you get the privilege of being around a woman who makes your every single day feel like paradise, you don\u2019t let her go.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76266\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/couple-in-love-in-the-bedroom.jpg\" alt=\"casal apaixonado no quarto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/couple-in-love-in-the-bedroom.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/couple-in-love-in-the-bedroom-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/couple-in-love-in-the-bedroom-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You keep her and watch over her. You nurture your relationship because you understand how rare and unique it is. The connection you share is unlike anything you\u2019ve ever felt before.<\/p>\n<p>You appreciate her while you still have her. Because if you don\u2019t, you are going to lose her.<\/p>\n<p>And with time, you\u2019ll learn to deeply regret it. Only then, she will already have moved on, and you\u2019ll be praying she comes back\u2026 deep down knowing your prayers are in vain.<\/p>\n<p>There are certain moments in a man\u2019s life when the regret of letting her go hits the deepest, and knowing that there is nothing he can do about it feels like a bunch of knives through his gut.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><strong><em>7 vezes em que um homem se arrepender\u00e1 profundamente de ter perdido uma boa mulher<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">When he realizes that the love they shared doesn\u2019t come by too often<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76269\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-man-sitting-on-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"homem triste sentado num sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-man-sitting-on-sofa.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-man-sitting-on-sofa-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-man-sitting-on-sofa-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>Sometimes, people are just unable to appreciate the good things and people in their life until they\u2019re faced with the possibility of losing them.<\/p>\n<p>E quando se apercebem do erro horr\u00edvel que foi deixar essa coisa ou pessoa ir embora, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 mais nada que possam fazer a n\u00e3o ser<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/chafurdar-na-auto-comiseracao\/\"> chafurdar na auto-piedade<\/a> e arrependimento.<\/p>\n<p>Quando um homem \u00e9 atingido pela realidade brutal de perder <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/10-qualidades-que-definem-uma-boa-mulher\/\">uma boa mulher<\/a> e ter de continuar a viver sabendo que foi um erro est\u00fapido, \u00e9 um comprimido amargo de engolir.<\/p>\n<p>Ele ver\u00e1 finalmente que nenhuma outra mulher se pode comparar. Ningu\u00e9m o pode amar como ela o amou. Ningu\u00e9m consegue entender a complexidade da mente dele como ela sempre conseguiu.<\/p>\n<p>De repente, h\u00e1 um vazio na sua vida e no seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, e \u00e9 ent\u00e3o que ele se apercebe da boa mulher que tinha ao seu lado e que a desperdi\u00e7ou.<\/p>\n<p>Only then will he realize the value and importance of that woman. Too bad it\u2019s going to be too little, too late.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Quando se apercebe de que \u00e9 dif\u00edcil encontrar pessoas genu\u00ednas com um cora\u00e7\u00e3o bondoso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76270\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-man-sitting-on-stairs.jpg\" alt=\"homem triste sentado nas escadas\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-man-sitting-on-stairs.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-man-sitting-on-stairs-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-man-sitting-on-stairs-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>She loved him with everything she had. She didn\u2019t need a reason. He was all she ever wanted.<\/p>\n<p>E em vez de lhe oferecer o mesmo em troca, levou-a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/deixei-de-ser-demasiado-simpatica-porque-estava-farta-de-ser-tomada-como-garantida\/\">para ser concedido<\/a>, and now he\u2019s paying the price.<\/p>\n<p>Infelizmente, hoje em dia, toda a gente parece ter uma agenda ou um motivo oculto por detr\u00e1s de cada ato aparentemente altru\u00edsta.<\/p>\n<p>As pessoas genu\u00ednas com inten\u00e7\u00f5es puras tornaram-se um privil\u00e9gio raro de encontrar.<\/p>\n<p>J\u00e1 ningu\u00e9m ama sem pedir algo em troca.<\/p>\n<p>Toda a gente quer algo de si, e quando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/esta-e-a-dura-realidade-de-ser-uma-mulher-que-tem-medo-de-se-apaixonar\/\">a dura realidade<\/a> of this becomes too painful, he will realize how amazing the woman he let go was, and he\u2019ll wish to get her back.<\/p>\n<p>Mas deixar\u00e1 de ser uma op\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Good women don\u2019t just wait around for men to come to their senses. They will give you a fair chance, but if they see you\u2019re not fully invested, they won\u2019t waste their time.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s when he\u2019ll realize what a fool he was. When you have a good woman by your side, you don\u2019t give up on her, because sooner rather than later, you will learn to regret it.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Quando se apercebe que o materialismo est\u00e1 a tomar conta de tudo e que as emo\u00e7\u00f5es est\u00e3o a ficar para tr\u00e1s<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76271\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-standing-with-shopping-bags.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de p\u00e9 com sacos de compras\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-standing-with-shopping-bags.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-standing-with-shopping-bags-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-standing-with-shopping-bags-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>Um dia, ele conhecer\u00e1 uma nova mulher.<\/p>\n<p>Come\u00e7ar\u00e3o uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o e tudo parecer\u00e1 estar bem. Ela vai am\u00e1-lo e ele vai finalmente sentir que encontrou uma substituta suficientemente boa para aquela que deixou ir.<\/p>\n<p>Only that fantasy won\u2019t be long lasting. With time, he will realize that she is not driven by love and affection, but that money holds a much more prominent role in her life.<\/p>\n<p>Ela ama-o, mas n\u00e3o tanto como ama a estabilidade financeira e um estilo de vida luxuoso. E ent\u00e3o, ele vai aperceber-se.<\/p>\n<p>A que ele soltou n\u00e3o era nada parecida com esta.<\/p>\n<p>Ela s\u00f3 queria saber de amor e respeito. Claro que o dinheiro \u00e9 importante, mas n\u00e3o tanto como uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o significativa com a pessoa que ama.<\/p>\n<p>Ela nunca deixaria que algo materialista superasse o seu amor por ele. Ela era pura, genu\u00edna e bondosa.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3 de olhar para ela, percebia-se que n\u00e3o era nada vaidosa.<\/p>\n<p>Apenas emo\u00e7\u00f5es honestas e o desejo de ser amado de volta. E quando ele se aperceber disso, vai ser uma chatice e vai ter de viver com esse arrependimento durante muito, muito tempo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Quando ele se apercebe que ela foi a \u00fanica pessoa que realmente o ouviu sem segundas inten\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76272\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-man-sitting-alone-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"homem triste sentado sozinho ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"494\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-man-sitting-alone-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-man-sitting-alone-outdoor-300x185.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-man-sitting-alone-outdoor-768x474.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>Ter algu\u00e9m com quem se pode ter uma conversa sincera n\u00e3o tem pre\u00e7o.<\/p>\n<p>E quando se tem isso com uma mulher que \u00e9 ao mesmo tempo sua parceira rom\u00e2ntica e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-sinais-de-que-o-teu-namorado-e-na-verdade-o-teu-melhor-amigo\/\">o teu melhor amigo<\/a>A sensa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 dif\u00edcil de igualar.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, quando a deixa ir, perde a \u00fanica pessoa que o podia ouvir e compreender verdadeiramente o que ele estava a dizer.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 certo que muitas pessoas podem ouvir, mas at\u00e9 que ponto se importam realmente?<\/p>\n<p>She did. She cared. She didn\u2019t listen to reply, she simply wanted to provide him with the love and support she knew he deserved.<\/p>\n<p>E quando ele se aperceber do que perdeu, compreender\u00e1 como vai ser dif\u00edcil voltar a encontrar algu\u00e9m assim.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Quando ele se apercebe que a vida \u00e9 mais do que festas e noites selvagens<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76273\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/men-posing-in-the-pub.jpg\" alt=\"homens a posar no bar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/men-posing-in-the-pub.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/men-posing-in-the-pub-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/men-posing-in-the-pub-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>Todos os homens se aperceber\u00e3o, a dada altura, que sair noite ap\u00f3s noite j\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo que os encha de alegria como h\u00e1 alguns anos atr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>Sure, parties are fun, and drinking more alcohol than your body can take is hilarious and adventurous when you\u2019re young, but at some point, you grow out of it.<\/p>\n<p>Percebemos que a vida \u00e9 muito mais do que essas coisas fr\u00edvolas e tempor\u00e1rias.<\/p>\n<p>A vida \u00e9 encontrar aquela pessoa com quem se pode envelhecer e com quem se partilha uma mentalidade semelhante.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s about enjoying the little things with the one you love more than anyone else.<\/p>\n<p>E quando essa perce\u00e7\u00e3o vier \u00e0 tona, ele perceber\u00e1 que teve tudo isso e muito mais com a boa mulher que infelizmente deixou ir. E nada voltar\u00e1 a ser o mesmo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Quando ele se apercebe de como ela foi paciente, por mais dif\u00edceis que as coisas se tornassem<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76274\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/emotional-couple-hugging-on-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"casal emocionado abra\u00e7ado no sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/emotional-couple-hugging-on-sofa.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/emotional-couple-hugging-on-sofa-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/emotional-couple-hugging-on-sofa-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>When a man realizes that a woman who can endure all of his challenging times, distant moods, and silent treatments is the one to keep no matter what, it is usually when he\u2019s already lost her <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/3-metodos-inteligentes-para-ser-mais-esperto-que-um-narcisista-e-deixar-a-relacao-para-sempre\/\">para sempre<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o h\u00e1 muita gente que fique ao nosso lado quando o caminho se torna acidentado. Desistir \u00e9 demasiado f\u00e1cil e demasiado comum.<\/p>\n<p>E quando ele vir que todas as mulheres por quem tentou substitu\u00ed-la n\u00e3o passam de uma sombra da que fugiu, ela j\u00e1 n\u00e3o estar\u00e1 l\u00e1 para lhe acalmar a alma.<\/p>\n<p>Ela estar\u00e1 demasiado longe para se importar. Ela deu-lhe a sua oportunidade. Ela foi paciente e compreensiva.<\/p>\n<p>And now she knows that if he can\u2019t appreciate her while he has her, he doesn\u2019t really deserve her in the first place.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Quando ele se apercebe que pode rodear-se de todas as melhores pessoas do mundo, mas ningu\u00e9m \u00e9 como ela<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76275\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-man-watching-sunset-alone.jpg\" alt=\"homem triste a ver o p\u00f4r do sol sozinho\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-man-watching-sunset-alone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-man-watching-sunset-alone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/sad-man-watching-sunset-alone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>Os amigos e a fam\u00edlia s\u00e3o fant\u00e1sticos. Ele ama-os e aprecia-os. Ele sabe que n\u00e3o deve tomar isso como garantido.<\/p>\n<p>But nobody is her. Nobody can replace the bond they shared. Nobody can calm him down the way she could, and nobody\u2019s smile makes his day brighter than hers did.<\/p>\n<p>Ela \u00e9 \u00fanica, e substitu\u00ed-la \u00e9 uma miss\u00e3o que nunca ser\u00e1 cumprida.<\/p>\n<p>All the good people in the world can\u2019t measure up to the kindness of her soul and honesty in her eyes.<\/p>\n<p>And all he can do now is hope that one day he meets somebody half the woman that she is. It\u2019s a tall order, but one can hope.<\/p>\n<p>Losing her was the stupidest thing he ever did, and now he\u2019s paying the full price.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76276\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/7-Times-A-Man-Will-Deeply-Regret-Losing-A-Damn-Good-Woman-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"7 vezes em que um homem se arrepender\u00e1 profundamente de ter perdido uma mulher muito boa\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/7-Times-A-Man-Will-Deeply-Regret-Losing-A-Damn-Good-Woman-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/7-Times-A-Man-Will-Deeply-Regret-Losing-A-Damn-Good-Woman-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Usually, by the time a man realizes that he\u2019s lost a truly good woman, it\u2019s already too late to make amends and take back his mistake. Regret is one of the most painful feelings one can endure. There is nothing quite like realizing what a good thing you had when it\u2019s already too late and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":76278,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-36753","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/7-Times-A-Man-Will-Deeply-Regret-Losing-A-Damn-Good-Woman.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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