{"id":36795,"date":"2020-05-17T11:47:59","date_gmt":"2020-05-17T11:47:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36795"},"modified":"2022-02-21T19:07:44","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T19:07:44","slug":"como-se-vingar-do-seu-ex-12-maneiras-comprovadas-de-o-fazer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-se-vingar-do-seu-ex-12-maneiras-comprovadas-de-o-fazer\/","title":{"rendered":"Como se vingar do seu ex: 12 maneiras comprovadas de o fazer"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Vingar-se de um ex-parceiro \u00e9 infantil e desnecess\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n<p>It means that you\u2019re just lowering yourself to his level and it burdens you with unnecessary resentment and emotional baggage.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s immature and it\u2019s hurting you as well.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, all of this is the truth \u2013 there is no doubt about that.<\/p>\n<p>However, sometimes people hurt us to the point where we\u2019re left with no other choice but to get even because payback is the only thing they deserve.<\/p>\n<p>So, if you\u2019re trying to learn how to get revenge on your ex, simply choose one of the ways listed below and you\u2019ll successfully drive him crazy.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Elaborar um plano<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84602\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-thinking-about-plan.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a pensar num plano\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-thinking-about-plan.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-thinking-about-plan-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-thinking-about-plan-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>The first thing you have to do if you\u2019re trying to figure out how to get revenge on anyone, including your ex, is to come up with the plan.<\/p>\n<p>Ser\u00e1 que tudo o que ele te fez \u00e9 realmente digno da tua vingan\u00e7a?<\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1 apenas zangado neste momento ou est\u00e1 convencido de que esse desejo de vingan\u00e7a estar\u00e1 presente em si mesmo depois de a amargura inicial desaparecer?<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, o que \u00e9 ainda mais importante \u00e9 pensar at\u00e9 onde est\u00e1 disposto a ir.<\/p>\n<p>Queres apenas pregar uma partida a essa pessoa ou queres tornar a sua vida miser\u00e1vel?<\/p>\n<p>Queres vingar-te ou fazer algo pior do que ele te fez?<\/p>\n<p>Tenciona vingar-se de forma ativa ou passivo-agressiva?<\/p>\n<p>Acha que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/ignore-get-attention-7-simple-tips\/\">ignorar o seu ex<\/a> ou teria de fazer alguma coisa para o magoar?<\/p>\n<p>Estas s\u00e3o todas as perguntas a que tem de responder se quiser que a sua vingan\u00e7a seja bem sucedida e satisfat\u00f3ria.<\/p>\n<p>Pense bem se \u00e9 algo que quer mesmo fazer e se tem o que \u00e9 preciso para ir at\u00e9 ao fim.<\/p>\n<p>Se decidir optar por esta solu\u00e7\u00e3o, certifique-se de que o faz como um verdadeiro profissional.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Escolher o momento certo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84603\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-looking-on-watch.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a olhar para o rel\u00f3gio\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-looking-on-watch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-looking-on-watch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-looking-on-watch-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>Antes de aprenderes a vingar-te do teu ex, tens de saber uma coisa: a vingan\u00e7a \u00e9 melhor servida fria.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, I know you\u2019ve heard this sentence thousands of times and you probably think of it as bullshit, but it really is the truth.<\/p>\n<p>You probably want to pay your ex back as soon as possible and you can\u2019t be patient enough to wait for <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/as-mulheres-fortes-nao-procuram-vinganca-deixam-o-karma-fazer-o-seu-trabalho-sujo\/\">o karma para fazer o trabalho sujo<\/a> em vez de si.<\/p>\n<p>That is why you\u2019re eager to act on this sweet revenge you have all planned out right this instance.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, n\u00e3o \u00e9 assim que nos vingamos de ningu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n<p>First of all, you\u2019re still hot headed and under the influence of everything that went on, meaning your judgment-making skills are not at their peak.<\/p>\n<p>You aren\u2019t thinking straight and you\u2019re still leading with your heart instead of your reason.<\/p>\n<p>Al\u00e9m disso, conhecendo-a, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que o seu ex esteja \u00e0 espera que fa\u00e7a algo que o magoe neste momento.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019ll probably be extra careful and your plan might not work because of that.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 exatamente por isso que tem de ser paciente e esperar pelo momento perfeito para a sua vingan\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p>You need to catch him off guard, which means that you should let some time pass for him to forget about you and the pain he\u2019s caused you.<\/p>\n<p>This way, he\u2019ll be unprepared and extra vulnerable, which will make your revenge that much sweeter.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Dizer o que pensa<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84604\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/angry-woman-arguing-with-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher zangada a discutir com um homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/angry-woman-arguing-with-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/angry-woman-arguing-with-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/angry-woman-arguing-with-man-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>Uma das formas mais r\u00e1pidas de se vingar do seu ex \u00e9 dizer-lhe sem rodeios tudo o que lhe vai na alma, sem esconder nada.<\/p>\n<p>Se optar por esta abordagem, n\u00e3o \u00e9 altura de ser educado e de ter cuidado com a sua linguagem e modos.<\/p>\n<p>Este gajo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/8-coisas-que-acontecem-magoam-uma-rapariga-forte\/\">magoar-vos<\/a> sem sequer parar por um momento para pensar nas consequ\u00eancias, pelo que merece claramente ser ouvido por si.<\/p>\n<p>E mereces ter a oportunidade de lhe dizer tudo o que queres, diretamente na cara.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, se lhe apetecer gritar, dizer palavr\u00f5es ou insult\u00e1-lo, \u00e9 exatamente isso que deve fazer.<\/p>\n<p>The benefit of this method is that you\u2019ll probably feel better after you kick all this anger out of your system without doing any actual harm to the other person.<\/p>\n<p>Trust me \u2013 the moment you give him a piece of your mind, you\u2019ll immediately feel relieved, as if a huge burden has lifted off your chest.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, o que \u00e9 problem\u00e1tico com esta abordagem \u00e9 que o seu ex pode n\u00e3o o levar a s\u00e9rio.<\/p>\n<p>After all, you didn\u2019t get even in any way and he might remain completely indifferent to your words, thinking of them as empty and meaningless phrases that can\u2019t hurt him.<\/p>\n<p>So, if this guy doesn\u2019t have a conscience you can count on, forget about teaching him a lesson!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Dar-lhe a provar do seu pr\u00f3prio rem\u00e9dio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84605\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/attractive-woman-posing-on-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"mulher atraente a posar na rua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/attractive-woman-posing-on-the-street.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/attractive-woman-posing-on-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/attractive-woman-posing-on-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>If you are wondering how to get revenge on your ex, one of the best ways to do it is to do to him exactly what he\u2019s done to you and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/diga-estas-6-coisas-se-quiser-magoar-os-sentimentos-do-seu-ex-idiota\/\">ferir os seus sentimentos<\/a>da mesma forma que ele te fez a ti.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying that stooping down to his level is the wisest thing to do, but if you want to get even, this will without doubt give you at least some satisfaction.<\/p>\n<p>However, in order for this plan to work in the best possible way, you\u2019ll have to pretend as if everything is in perfect order because that is how you\u2019ll break his heart the hardest.<\/p>\n<p>For instance, if this guy cheated on you, you can\u2019t confront him about it because in that case, he\u2019ll expect your move.<\/p>\n<p>On the contrary, you\u2019ll need to control yourself and remain quiet about your findings. Then, you\u2019ll just do to him exactly the same thing he did to you.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, you don\u2019t have to actually cheat on him \u2013 you can just do your best to make him believe that you did.<\/p>\n<p>This way, you\u2019ll give him a taste of his own medicine and make him suffer the same way you did.<\/p>\n<p>The only bad thing about this revenge method is that you\u2019ll probably end up like the bad guy in the entire story.<\/p>\n<p>However, if this is something you can stand and you don\u2019t give a damn about your ex\u2019s opinion, then this is the type of revenge you should consider.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sair com os amigos e a fam\u00edlia dele ou mesmo com as ex<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84606\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/friends-playing-cards.jpg\" alt=\"amigos a jogar \u00e0s cartas\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/friends-playing-cards.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/friends-playing-cards-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/friends-playing-cards-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>O facto de o seu parceiro se dar bem com os seus amigos e familiares \u00e9 algo que todos n\u00f3s adoramos.<\/p>\n<p>And your ex wasn\u2019t an exception \u2013 while the two of you were together, that is.<\/p>\n<p>However, it is obvious that he doesn\u2019t want you spending time with people close to him anymore and that is exactly what you should do if you want to drive him crazy.<\/p>\n<p>After all, these were also your friends and he doesn\u2019t have the right to kick you out of their lives.<\/p>\n<p>This way, he\u2019ll be constantly worried about the things you might find out or give away about him.<\/p>\n<p>Also, you\u2019ll have a chance to kill him with kindness. He certainly won\u2019t be able to stand it when everyone he loves starts complimenting you and constantly saying nice things about you.<\/p>\n<p>Just make sure not to appear pathetic while doing this. Let him know that you don\u2019t plan on <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/uma-carta-para-a-rapariga-que-quer-voltar-para-o-seu-ex-namorado\/\">voltar a juntar-se<\/a> with him, but that you\u2019re not going anywhere.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Certifica-te de que todos sabem o que ele te fez<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84607\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/three-friends-talking-on-the-bench.jpg\" alt=\"tr\u00eas amigos a conversar no banco\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/three-friends-talking-on-the-bench.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/three-friends-talking-on-the-bench-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/three-friends-talking-on-the-bench-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Envergonhar publicamente o seu ex por todos os seus erros \u00e9 uma das formas mais eficazes de vingan\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p>Lembre-se que as ac\u00e7\u00f5es dele s\u00f3 falam dele e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 vergonha nenhuma em contar a toda a gente a forma como ele a tratou.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 a v\u00edtima dele e n\u00e3o tem culpa de o ter aturado ou de n\u00e3o saber o que fazer.<\/p>\n<p>Isto aplica-se especialmente se o seu ex foi um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/deus-perdoa-o-abusador-ainda-amoroso\/\">agressor<\/a> \u2013 in this case, you have a moral obligation to talk loudly about everything that has happened because it\u2019s a way of helping other victims.<\/p>\n<p>Antes de mais, diz a toda a gente que conheces que o teu ex \u00e9 um idiota.<\/p>\n<p>Fazer com que todos os seus amigos mais pr\u00f3ximos e familiares deixem de o apreciar e mudem a sua opini\u00e3o sobre ele.<\/p>\n<p>If you have some proof for his. infidelity or abuse, for example, don\u2019t hesitate to share it with the rest of the world.<\/p>\n<p>Algumas pessoas chegam ao ponto de colocar grandes cartazes e outdoors com o objetivo de envergonhar o seu ex.<\/p>\n<p>There are cases in which women keyed an ex boyfriend\u2019s car with the word \u201ccheater\u201d or painted all over it with the same word.<\/p>\n<p>At first, you\u2019ll probably feel awful about bad-mouthing the person you spent a long time with.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, remember that you aren\u2019t making up lies about him, you\u2019re just spreading the truth and warning people about the real him.<\/p>\n<p>Also, talking trash about him will probably change his reputation and, indirectly, you\u2019ll help some girl save herself from him.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">D\u00ea o seu melhor<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84609\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/attractive-young-woman-posing.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem e atraente a posar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/attractive-young-woman-posing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/attractive-young-woman-posing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/attractive-young-woman-posing-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>Whether we\u2019d like to admit it or not, men are visual creatures.<\/p>\n<p>Isto significa que a primeira coisa em que reparam numa pessoa \u00e9 a sua apar\u00eancia f\u00edsica. E isto \u00e9 especialmente v\u00e1lido para o sexo oposto.<\/p>\n<p>While you and your ex were in a relationship, naturally, you weren\u2019t always fully dressed up.<\/p>\n<p>Voc\u00eas passaram tanto tempo juntos que ele teve a oportunidade de ver todas as vossas formas e looks.<\/p>\n<p>So, consequently, he probably forgot what a bombshell you actually are. Well, it\u2019s time to remind him about that.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time for you to look your best. If it\u2019s necessary, start exercising, renew your wardrobe, change your haircut.<\/p>\n<p>Fa\u00e7a o que for preciso para se tornar a vers\u00e3o mais atraente de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>O pr\u00f3ximo passo \u00e9 encontrar acidentalmente o seu ex com um aspeto t\u00e3o fant\u00e1stico como o seu.<\/p>\n<p>Se <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/10-razoes-pelas-quais-os-amigos-ok-ex\/\">tu e o teu ex ainda s\u00e3o amigos<\/a> nas redes sociais, publique fotografias da sua transforma\u00e7\u00e3o e veja-o ficar louco.<\/p>\n<p>Trust me, before you know it, this guy will see what he lost and he\u2019ll start regretting it.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019ll start worrying if there is some other guy in your life whose attention you drew or if someone new will fall for you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Apaguem todas as vossas mem\u00f3rias juntos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84611\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-deleting-photos-on-laptop.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a apagar fotografias no port\u00e1til\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-deleting-photos-on-laptop.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-deleting-photos-on-laptop-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-deleting-photos-on-laptop-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>If you\u2019re trying to figure out how to get revenge on your ex, know that acting as if he never existed in your life is one of the most effective ways to do it.<\/p>\n<p>By doing this, you won\u2019t only make him believe that you are <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/mesmo-que-nao-o-ultrapasse-completamente-aprendera-a-viver-sem-ele\/\">completamente acima dele<\/a>, but you\u2019ll also convince him that he never mattered to you and there is nothing more painful than that.<\/p>\n<p>A melhor coisa a fazer \u00e9 agir com total indiferen\u00e7a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-maneiras-de-agir-quando-encontrar-o-seu-ex\/\">quando o encontrarem<\/a>. Don\u2019t show him that you are still hurt and don\u2019t be too happy for seeing him either.<\/p>\n<p>Apaguem todas as vossas fotografias juntos e devolvam-lhe todas as coisas dele.<\/p>\n<p>This way, you\u2019ll show him that you want to forget that he was ever a part of your life and that you want to delete every trace he\u2019s ever existed.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Fa\u00e7a-o pensar que tem algu\u00e9m novo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84612\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-kissing-man-nose.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a beijar o nariz de um homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-kissing-man-nose.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-kissing-man-nose-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/woman-kissing-man-nose-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>Encontrar um ressalto e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/moving-on-doesnt-necessarily-mean-getting-into-a-new-relationship\/\">saltar para uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> logo ap\u00f3s uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o dolorosa n\u00e3o \u00e9 adequado para toda a gente.<\/p>\n<p>Sim, algumas pessoas afirmam que esta \u00e9 a forma mais eficaz de ultrapassar um romance que estava condenado ao fracasso, enquanto outras dizem que isso s\u00f3 piora as coisas.<\/p>\n<p>Well, before using someone just to make your ex jealous, consider the option of only making him believe that you have someone new without actually going back in the dating pool, if that is something you don\u2019t yet feel ready to do.<\/p>\n<p>Acredite em mim, agir como se tivesse algu\u00e9m novo \u00e9 muito f\u00e1cil e vai fazer com que o seu ex fique fora de si.<\/p>\n<p>You can always ask a friend to pretend to be your boyfriend and show up somewhere you know your ex will see you, holding this guy\u2019s hand.<\/p>\n<p>Or you can simply tell everyone you both know that you have someone new and that you\u2019re in love like never before.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84613\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/young-woman-talking-on-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem a falar ao telefone\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/young-woman-talking-on-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/young-woman-talking-on-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/young-woman-talking-on-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If necessary, you can send yourself flowers or do a similar romantic gesture and pretend that it\u2019s an act of your new boyfriend.<\/p>\n<p>Seja como for, a quest\u00e3o \u00e9 a mesma: o seu ex tem de sentir que \u00e9 completamente irrelevante para si, em contraste com este novo homem na sua vida.<\/p>\n<p>He has to think that he hasn\u2019t touched your heart and that you forgot all about him, thanks to this man you\u2019ve recently met.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, this imaginary boyfriend has to be better than him in all aspects because that will hurt your ex\u2019s ego the most.<\/p>\n<p>The new guy has to be more handsome, smarter, wealthier, funnier\u2026 and he has to give you all the love your ex never did.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t worry, you\u2019re not crazy for doing things like this. You just have a clear goal and you\u2019re doing everything possible to achieve it.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Brincar com a mente dele<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84614\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/smiling-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sorridente a olhar para o telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/smiling-woman-looking-at-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/smiling-woman-looking-at-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/smiling-woman-looking-at-phone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>Another thing you can do if you\u2019re wondering how to get revenge on your ex is to start playing mind games with him.<\/p>\n<p>Confunde-o e f\u00e1-lo pensar que ele \u00e9 que \u00e9 o louco.<\/p>\n<p>One day, act like you still love him and as if you\u2019d do anything just to have him back.<\/p>\n<p>Then, the next day, start acting like you couldn\u2019t care less about him and that you wouldn\u2019t get back together with him even if he was the last man on earth.<\/p>\n<p>Um dia, fa\u00e7a-lhe dez telefonemas e, sem mais nem menos, mude o seu n\u00famero e endere\u00e7o de correio eletr\u00f3nico.<\/p>\n<p>Aumenta-lhe as esperan\u00e7as e, no momento seguinte, esmaga-as. Envie-lhe todo o tipo de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/os-seus-sinais-contraditorios-fazem-me-questionar-a-mim-proprio\/\">sinais contradit\u00f3rios<\/a> e pistas pouco claras.<\/p>\n<p>Provoc\u00e1-lo e depois dar-lhe um gelo.<\/p>\n<p>Do whatever it takes just so he doesn\u2019t know where he stands. Make him wonder what you really want and become the cause of his sleepless nights.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Utilize as redes sociais a seu favor<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84615\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/young-woman-holding-phone-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem com o telem\u00f3vel na m\u00e3o num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/young-woman-holding-phone-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/young-woman-holding-phone-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/young-woman-holding-phone-in-cafe-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>\u00c9 praticamente imposs\u00edvel imaginar os encontros modernos sem as redes sociais.<\/p>\n<p>And even though sometimes they can bring more bad than good to a romantic relationship, when you\u2019re trying to get revenge on your ex, and if you use them right, social media will be your greatest ally.<\/p>\n<p>First and foremost, here you can see what this guy has been up to \u2013 where and with whom he hangs out.<\/p>\n<p>Isto pode ajudar-te em todas as situa\u00e7\u00f5es em que queiras encontrar-te acidentalmente com ele.<\/p>\n<p>Al\u00e9m disso, pode provoc\u00e1-lo publicando fotografias com o seu novo namorado.<\/p>\n<p>Se quiser ir mais longe s\u00f3 para magoar o seu ex, certifique-se de que ele v\u00ea que chama ao seu novo namorado os mesmos nomes que lhe costumava chamar ou que lhe dedica as mesmas can\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p>This way, he\u2019ll see that he was nothing more than one of the guys in a row, that he was nowhere near special and that the hasn\u2019t left a mark in your life.<\/p>\n<p>However, if you don\u2019t want to go this far, you can only use your social media profile to post photos of yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Make sure your ex sees that you\u2019re always having a good time \u2013 you partying, hanging out with people, travelling, and most importantly, looking better than ever.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Torne-se mais feliz do que nunca<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84616\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/happy-woman-standing-in-the-flower-field.jpg\" alt=\"mulher feliz de p\u00e9 no campo de flores\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/happy-woman-standing-in-the-flower-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/happy-woman-standing-in-the-flower-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/happy-woman-standing-in-the-flower-field-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>I\u2019m sure that you\u2019ve probably heard this thousands of times: no revenge is the best revenge. And that is not far from the truth.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, eu mudaria isto e dir-lhe-ia que o amor-pr\u00f3prio e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/ser-feliz-sem-ele-e-a-melhor-vinganca\/\">ser feliz s\u00e3o de facto os melhores tipos de vingan\u00e7a<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>I know that hearing this probably sounds like an empty phrase for you now, but people really can\u2019t stand it when they see that they haven\u2019t managed to destroy you.<\/p>\n<p>And your ex is no exception. No matter what exactly he\u2019s done to you, the point is that he would like to see you pathetic and miserable.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019d enjoy knowing that you can\u2019t make it without him and that he scarred your heart for good.<\/p>\n<p>Even if he\u2019s moved on, he\u2019ll always be happier if you\u2019re stuck in the same place than seeing you becoming the best possible version of yourself.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, \u00e9 exatamente isso que deve fazer: tornar-se mais feliz do que nunca. Trabalhe para melhorar a si pr\u00f3pria, apesar dele.<\/p>\n<p>Show this man that he hasn\u2019t taken you down and that you\u2019re way stronger than he thought.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84601\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/How-To-Get-Revenge-On-Your-Ex-12-Proven-Ways-To-Do-So-pinterest-2.jpg\" alt=\"Como se vingar do seu ex 12 maneiras comprovadas de o fazer\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/How-To-Get-Revenge-On-Your-Ex-12-Proven-Ways-To-Do-So-pinterest-2.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/How-To-Get-Revenge-On-Your-Ex-12-Proven-Ways-To-Do-So-pinterest-2-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84600\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/How-To-Get-Revenge-On-Your-Ex-12-Proven-Ways-To-Do-So-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Como se vingar do seu ex 12 maneiras comprovadas de o fazer\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/How-To-Get-Revenge-On-Your-Ex-12-Proven-Ways-To-Do-So-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/How-To-Get-Revenge-On-Your-Ex-12-Proven-Ways-To-Do-So-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Getting revenge on an ex partner is childish and unnecessary. It means that you\u2019re just lowering yourself to his level and it burdens you with unnecessary resentment and emotional baggage. It\u2019s immature and it\u2019s hurting you as well. Yes, all of this is the truth \u2013 there is no doubt about that. However, sometimes people&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":84621,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-36795","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/How-To-Get-Revenge-On-Your-Ex-12-Proven-Ways-To-Do-So.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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