{"id":36974,"date":"2019-05-22T07:38:40","date_gmt":"2019-05-22T07:38:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36974"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:46:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:46:38","slug":"8-papeis-falsos-que-ele-desempenha-e-que-na-verdade-o-deixam-infeliz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-papeis-falsos-que-ele-desempenha-e-que-na-verdade-o-deixam-infeliz\/","title":{"rendered":"8 Pap\u00e9is falsos que ele interpreta e que realmente te deixam infeliz"},"content":{"rendered":"

N\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de errado em assumir um papel numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, desde que esse papel n\u00e3o afecte toda a personalidade da pessoa.
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It\u2019s desirable to present the traits of a certain role but when a man becomes just a role without his own personality, it becomes toxic for a relationship, which therefore ends in a break-up.
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Alguns homens n\u00e3o s\u00e3o suficientemente fortes para manter a sua personalidade numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sometimes they are too insecure to just be themselves so they choose to be something else \u2014which is, by the way, never a good idea.
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The woman they are dating learns to live with that \u2018false\u2019 type of person, with a man who pretends to be something he is not. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

After some time, he can\u2019t pretend anymore, so he drops the act.
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Isto leva a discuss\u00f5es, a que ela pense que ele mudou para pior e, por fim, o casal separa-se.
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Este cen\u00e1rio deixa ambas as pessoas na rela\u00e7\u00e3o desiludidas e magoadas, o que faz com que desistam completamente de encontros e rela\u00e7\u00f5es.
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Para evitar a destrui\u00e7\u00e3o de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, um homem tem de ser inteligente. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ele tem de se adaptar ao seu novo papel na rela\u00e7\u00e3o e tirar apenas o melhor de cada papel seguinte para dar \u00e0 sua mulher tudo o que ela precisa e para a satisfazer emocionalmente.
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1. O brincalh\u00e3o<\/strong>
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Sure, he\u2019s fun to be around, he jokes all the time, but sometimes he doesn\u2019t know where to draw the line. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Por vezes, ele vai longe demais e isso resulta em mago\u00e1-la.
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\u201cI\u2019m just kidding,\u201d is the most common phrase you\u2019ll hear from him. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Because if he says something inappropriate, probably unintentionally, it will hurt you and when you get fed up with it, you\u2019re going to tell him how you feel.
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When you let him know that you feel bad and his words upset you, he\u2019ll try to calm you down by saying that he is just joking around and there\u2019s no need to be hurt. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

This will become devastating after some time because you won\u2019t be able to put up with it and in the end you\u2019re going to split up.
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2. o pai<\/strong>
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It\u2019s nice to have a man like this by your side. He really acts like a father figure. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ele protege-nos, faz-nos sentir seguras e amadas. Mas isto tamb\u00e9m tem um lado negativo.
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Normalmente, os homens que agem assim consideram-se superiores a si, tal como um pai \u00e9 superior aos seus filhos.
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Quando cometes um erro, ele tenta dominar-te e fazer-te ver que fizeste uma coisa m\u00e1. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ele nunca ser\u00e1 igual a ti porque te v\u00ea de uma forma totalmente diferente.
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3. o falador<\/strong>
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Est\u00e1 sempre a falar de si pr\u00f3prio. No in\u00edcio, isso era muito interessante, porque n\u00e3o tinha qualquer problema em conhec\u00ea-lo. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ele contou-te tudo sobre ele desde o in\u00edcio.
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But after a while, it became a problem. When you\u2019re out with your friends, he simply doesn\u2019t know when to shut up. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He talks over you with your friends, thus indiscreetly letting you and them know he doesn\u2019t care about your opinions because his are the only ones that matter.
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Os homens que agem desta forma s\u00e3o normalmente muito inseguros e gabam-se constantemente dos seus feitos porque est\u00e3o a tentar esconder o facto de serem muito inseguros.
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4. o Bad Boy<\/strong>
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Who can resist a bad boy? It\u2019s a fact that women apaixonar-se por rapazes maus<\/a> por uma raz\u00e3o desconhecida e inexplic\u00e1vel. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A bad boy doesn\u2019t play by the rules and he doesn\u2019t care what anyone thinks.
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That is a positive thing and it\u2019s very attractive but there is another side to it. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Because he doesn\u2019t care what anyone thinks and because he does whatever he wants too, you can’t trust him.
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E se um dia ele decidir tra\u00ed-la? Ele v\u00ea uma mulher atraente e quer dormir com ela. Nada o impedir\u00e1 de o fazer.
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5. o Manipulador<\/strong>
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In the beginning, he\u2019ll be just perfect. You\u2019ll seriously wonder how you got so lucky to land such a guy. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Maybe you\u2019ll even be suspicious in the beginning but with time you\u2019ll get used to it.
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Ele far\u00e1 tudo o que lhe pedires. Realizar\u00e1 os teus desejos e cumprir\u00e1 as suas promessas, mas s\u00f3 at\u00e9 conseguir que confies nele.
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Once he manages that, once he has you and you open your heart to him, he\u2019ll use you and drain your energy to get what he wants. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And when he\u2019s done with you, he\u2019ll do that all over again to another woman.
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6. o f\u00f3bico de compromissos<\/strong>
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He\u2019ll lie from the start but you won\u2019t be able to see through his lies. He\u2019ll pretend that he is not ready to define your relationship.
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He\u2019ll constantly stall and change the subject if you try to talk about your relationship. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you, on the other hand, manage to force him to talk, he\u2019ll guilt-trip you into leaving things as they were by telling you about the girl he once had who broke his heart so he is not ready to fully trust someone yet.
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He\u2019ll also say that he has a feeling that you are different from the others but nothing will be defined. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Isto funciona perfeitamente para ele, porque pode sair em qualquer altura, sem compromissos.
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7. Sr. Perfeito<\/strong>
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Ele \u00e9 o tipo de pessoa que se quer apresentar aos pais. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019ll take him anywhere and show him off like a prize because he is just perfect, almost too perfect to be true.
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When you look more closely, this is really a bad thing because he is the type of a guy who\u2019ll do anything for someone\u2019s approval.
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Quer agradar a todos e, por isso, nunca diz o que realmente pensa e decide concordar consigo em tudo. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

That\u2019s why he looks so perfect. He does whatever you want.
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Believe me, you don\u2019t want a man who doesn\u2019t have an opinion of his own.
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8. a crian\u00e7a<\/strong>
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He is like Peter Pan\u2014he\u2019ll never grow up. Dating such a guy is so much fun. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He cracks jokes, he is free-spirited and he is not afraid to do anything. You’re always laughing when you\u2019re with him.
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That\u2019s really cool but the truth is that everyone needs to grow up at some point in their life. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u00c9 preciso saber que se pode contar com ele quando se tem um problema. Precisa de saber que ele \u00e9 capaz de lidar com a vida real e com problemas reais.
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