{"id":37073,"date":"2019-05-23T10:41:35","date_gmt":"2019-05-23T10:41:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37073"},"modified":"2022-07-06T09:28:02","modified_gmt":"2022-07-06T09:28:02","slug":"10-razoes-pelas-quais-levar-com-os-pes-nao-e-assim-tao-mau","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-razoes-pelas-quais-levar-com-os-pes-nao-e-assim-tao-mau\/","title":{"rendered":"10 raz\u00f5es pelas quais levar um fora n\u00e3o \u00e9 t\u00e3o ruim assim"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todos n\u00f3s conhecemos o facto de as separa\u00e7\u00f5es serem a maior dor de cabe\u00e7a e, por vezes, tamb\u00e9m podem ser estranhas ou perturbadoras.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When someone mentions the word \u201cbreakup,\u201d the first thing that comes to our mind is that feeling of uneasiness and pain of a broken heart.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Mas ningu\u00e9m parece falar das suas vantagens.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Esquecemo-nos daquele velho e s\u00e1bio ditado: \u201cIf you want to see the rainbow, you have to deal with the rain.\u201d<\/em> Esquecemo-nos de que, para podermos experimentar algo melhor e maior, temos de lidar primeiro com o pior.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se olhar para as coisas de uma outra perspetiva, perceber\u00e1 que a raz\u00e3o pela qual teve de romper<\/a> at some point is because you simply didn\u2019t get along, they took you for granted, or perhaps you lost trust in each other, which all leads to one major conclusion: You simply weren\u2019t meant to be.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you look at every breakup as an important lesson that has to be learned the hard way and the opportunity to become closer to meeting the one who is right for you, you will realize that getting dumped isn\u2019t all that bad.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

In that vein, here are 10 reasons why getting dumped is actually the best thing that happened to you because you\u2019re far better without them!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. You weren\u2019t meant to be<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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As already said, reason number one for why you shouldn\u2019t look at breakup as something totally negative is because you clearly weren\u2019t meant to be.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Isto significa que a separa\u00e7\u00e3o era inevit\u00e1vel e quanto mais cedo acontecer, melhor.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Pior do que uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o seria desperdi\u00e7ar o seu tempo com algu\u00e9m com quem n\u00e3o tem futuro<\/a>Por isso, de uma forma estranha, devias estar grato por teres levado com os p\u00e9s.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Crescer e aprender li\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Breakups always help us to grow and they teach us valuable lessons that we somehow don\u2019t want to notice because we\u2019re too busy with the negative side of it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Mas, de facto, uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 uma oportunidade para crescer e aprender com os seus erros.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tal como as coisas m\u00e1s nos fazem apreciar as boas, uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o ajuda-nos a apreciar as coisas e os tempos melhores que est\u00e3o para vir e prepara-nos para estarmos gratos por eles.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. You didn\u2019t have to be the dumper<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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No matter how weird it sounds, one of the biggest upsides of being dumped is the fact that you didn\u2019t have to be the dumper.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Isto significa que ficar\u00e1 com a consci\u00eancia tranquila e nunca se arrepender\u00e1 de nada.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Continuar\u00e1 viver a sua melhor vida <\/a>without worrying that you\u2019ve made a mistake by dumping that someone.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. A bola est\u00e1 no seu campo<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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When you\u2019re the one who\u2019s getting dumped, the ball is in your court, which means you have a liberdade<\/a> to choose whether you\u2019ll just leave them without saying a word, whether you\u2019ll yell at them, or whatever else you choose.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Since you\u2019re the one who\u2019s getting dumped, it automatically means you\u2019re the one in a more vulnerable position, so you get to choose how things will end.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You can decide that you don\u2019t want to see them ever again, or you can propose to stay friends.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. A oportunidade de voltar a conhecer-se a si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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As separa\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o uma oportunidade perfeita para descobrir as suas paix\u00f5es e voltar a conhecer-se a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tens todo o tempo do mundo para procurar novos passatempos, fazer o que te faz feliz e n\u00e3o te importares com nada nem com ningu\u00e9m.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. Mais tempo para se concentrar nas suas prioridades<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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When you\u2019re in a relationship with someone who\u2019s not right for you, you are more likely to direct all of your energy to that person and as a consequence neglect your own priorities, becoming drained.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But, now that they\u2019re out of your life, you will have more time to focus on positive things instead of solely negative ones.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

7. Livrar-se da toxicidade na sua vida<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Lembre-se de que levar uma tampa significa livrar-se da toxicidade na sua vida e, acredite, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3o maior do que essa.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Acordar de manh\u00e3 sabendo que os n\u00edveis de toxicidade diminu\u00edram significativamente significa ser feliz e aproveitar cada segundo do seu tempo passado com pessoas positivas e com aqueles que realmente preocupam-se consigo.<\/a><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

8. Ser solteiro e voltar a namorar<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Ser abandonado tamb\u00e9m significa gostar de ser solteiro novamente e fazer tudo o que quiser.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You have the power to choose whether you\u2019ll date again or rather spend the night binge-watching your favorite TV shows.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You have the power to listen only to yourself and your gut instead of dancing to other people\u2019s tunes.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

9. Gostar de passar mais tempo com os seus amigos<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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When you\u2019re with someone who\u2019s definitely not right for you, you will waste lots of your energy in stressing about it and then complaining about it to your friends.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Mas, assim que te livrares deles, vais gostar de passar mais tempo com os teus amigos e de falar sobre outras coisas, em vez do teu namorado ou namorada de merda.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And that\u2019s why getting dumped isn\u2019t all that bad, right?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

10. Estar mais perto de conhecer a pessoa que est\u00e1 destinada a si<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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De cada vez que somos abandonados, ficamos mais perto de encontrar a pessoa que est\u00e1 destinada a n\u00f3s.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Fica mais perto de viver a vida que merece e de estar com algu\u00e9m que seja digno de estar consigo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quando se olha para as coisas dessa forma, levar com os p\u00e9s torna-se a melhor coisa que nos aconteceu.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sempre que come\u00e7ares a duvidar, lembra-te das seguintes palavras s\u00e1bias de Alexander Graham Bell: \u201cWhen one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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