{"id":37109,"date":"2019-05-23T11:09:07","date_gmt":"2019-05-23T11:09:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37109"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:44:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:44:54","slug":"7-pontos-que-ele-esta-a-verificar-antes-de-fazer-a-pergunta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-pontos-que-ele-esta-a-verificar-antes-de-fazer-a-pergunta\/","title":{"rendered":"7 pontos que ele est\u00e1 a verificar antes de fazer a pergunta"},"content":{"rendered":"

O que \u00e9 que leva um homem a decidir que se quer casar? Que pontos est\u00e3o os homens a verificar na sua lista antes de decidirem fazer a pergunta?
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Men, just like women, have this imaginary \u201clist of things\u201d that they find important to follow when it comes to deciding with whom they want to spend their life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

No, they don\u2019t look for the perfect, hot woman who will be able to make them the perfect sandwich.
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Prestam aten\u00e7\u00e3o a outras coisas que s\u00e3o de extrema import\u00e2ncia quando se trata de estabelecer uma casamento saud\u00e1vel e feliz<\/a>.
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So, if you\u2019ve already talked about tying the knot, you\u2019ve made it clear that you want to spend the rest of your lives with each other, and he still hasn\u2019t popped the question, chances are that he\u2019s still checking the following points to make sure that you\u2019re the one!
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7 POINTS HE\u2019S CHECKING OFF BEFORE HE POPS THE QUESTION<\/strong>
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1. Fam\u00edlia\/amigos como tu
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Antes de fazer a pergunta, qualquer homem precisa de se certificar de que a fam\u00edlia e os amigos gostam de si e a aprovam. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you don\u2019t get along with the people who are an important part of his life, some issues may arise in the future. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

That is why he will never pop the question until he\u2019s one hundred percent sure that you will be able to form a healthy and positive community together.
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2. Crian\u00e7as
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One of the most important things that every man wants to make sure of is seeing that you\u2019re good with kids and, most importantly, hearing your opinion on having children someday in the not too distant future.
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That\u2019s why he will always observe how you get along with kids when you have the opportunity; he will notice if you don\u2019t feel that comfortable or if children don\u2019t really like you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De qualquer forma, a melhor aposta \u00e9 ser honesto em rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 sua opini\u00e3o sobre ter filhos um dia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The worst thing you could do is pretend that you\u2019re crazy about children only to win his affection.
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3. Apoio
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Todos os homens querem ter a certeza de que a sua futura esposa <\/a>ser\u00e1 de apoio e n\u00e3o de puro julgamento. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

He wants to see that he can always ask you for advice and come to you with new ideas, without fearing that you\u2019ll discard all of them and tell him that he\u2019s a lunatic.
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So, if he likes to spend lots of time playing video games or doing something else, he wants to make sure that you\u2019re okay with that because if you\u2019re not, confrontation will be inevitable.
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4. O ato sexual \u00e9 \u00f3timo
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No, he doesn\u2019t expect from you to fulfill his deepest fantasies, yet he wants to see that you two are compatible in bed, because making love is one of the most important things when it comes to marriage and maintaining passion.
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He will conclude that lovemaking is great if he sees that you\u2019re fazer um esfor\u00e7o<\/a> just as he is and you\u2019re willing to reciprocate, try something new (if you\u2019re okay with that), and tell him if he\u2019s doing something wrong.
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5. Objectivos e interesses semelhantes
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\u00c9 realmente dif\u00edcil imaginar passar a vida com algu\u00e9m cujos objectivos e interesses diferem drasticamente dos seus. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9 por isso que, antes de fazer a pergunta, ele vai querer ter a certeza de que t\u00eam objectivos, interesses e sonhos semelhantes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ele quer passar tempo com algu\u00e9m que o compreenda e que ele compreenda em termos de atingir objectivos e em busca da felicidade<\/a>.
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6. Inteligente
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Lembrem-se desta cita\u00e7\u00e3o: \u201cLooks fade, but personality lasts forever<\/em>\u201d? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yes, he wants to make sure that you\u2019re not just a pretty face, but that he can always have a meaningful conversation with you and learn something new from your perspective.
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But, don\u2019t get me wrong. Intelligence doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you have to have Albert Einstein\u2019s IQ. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Uma pessoa inteligente \u00e9 aquela que n\u00e3o tem medo de dizer o que pensa, aquela que sabe ouvir os outros e dar respostas satisfat\u00f3rias em vez de ficar calada e acenar sempre com a cabe\u00e7a.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And that\u2019s exactly what men want from their women and future wives. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Querem algu\u00e9m que os ou\u00e7a e que tamb\u00e9m esteja disposto a contradiz\u00ea-los quando estiverem errados.
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7. Honesto e bondoso
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Sem honestidade, n\u00e3o existe uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel ou um casamento saud\u00e1vel. A honestidade \u00e9 a base de tudo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se ele confiar em si com todo o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, n\u00e3o duvidar\u00e1 nem por um segundo em fazer a pergunta.
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A honestidade vem a par da bondade. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ele quer ver que \u00e9 uma pessoa calorosa, que gosta de acariciar animais, que gosta de ajudar outras pessoas e que cuida dos seus entes queridos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ele quer ver que confia em si de corpo e alma e, depois de se certificar de tudo isso, nunca mais hesitar\u00e1 em pedir-lhe em casamento.
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