{"id":37120,"date":"2020-09-23T12:09:30","date_gmt":"2020-09-23T12:09:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37120"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:40:23","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:40:23","slug":"se-eles-nao-estao-prontos-para-te-amar-tens-de-os-deixar-ir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-eles-nao-estao-prontos-para-te-amar-tens-de-os-deixar-ir\/","title":{"rendered":"Se eles n\u00e3o est\u00e3o prontos para te amar, tens de os deixar ir"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>H\u00e1 um momento na vida de todos n\u00f3s em que temos de parar de fugir da realidade.<\/p>\r\n<p>Aquele momento em que simplesmente temos de enfrentar a verdade, por mais dolorosa e dura que seja.<\/p>\r\n<p>O momento em que se tem de aceitar o facto de que algumas pessoas s\u00e3o <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/soulmate-simply-not-meant\/\">n\u00e3o \u00e9 para ser<\/a>, tanto quanto se queira que o sejam.<\/p>\r\n<p>Isso <strong>you can\u2019t keep on waiting for love that will never come<\/strong>, and that you can\u2019t keep getting all your hopes about someone who will never give you what you deserve.<\/p>\r\n<p>H\u00e1 uma altura em que temos de aceitar que h\u00e1 pessoas que nunca nos dar\u00e3o o amor de que precisamos e que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que possamos fazer. &nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Por isso, por favor, p\u00e1ra de mentir a ti pr\u00f3prio.  P\u00e1ra de procurar desculpas e p\u00e1ra de dar segundas oportunidades sem fim.<\/p>\r\n<p>No, your love won\u2019t inspire them to become the people you need and want them to be.<\/p>\r\n<p>They won\u2019t change their ways or understand how much pain they\u2019re causing you. They won\u2019t try hard not to lose you before it\u2019s too late.<\/p>\r\n<p>No, you won\u2019t save them. They won\u2019t miraculously come to their senses and see that you don\u2019t deserve to be treated this way.<\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121337 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-back.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher desiludida senta-se no banco de tr\u00e1s\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-back.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-back-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-back-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-back-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-back-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-back-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-back-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-back-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>Em vez disso, continuar\u00e3o a usar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o bondoso enquanto puderem.<\/p>\r\n<p>Continuar\u00e3o a aproveitar-se de si e a esperar que se entregue sempre completamente a eles sem receber nada em troca.<\/p>\r\n<p>Continuar\u00e3o a trat\u00e1-lo como lixo sem nunca apreciar os seus esfor\u00e7os.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\r\n<p>Continuar\u00e3o a fazer de si um tolo, pedindo tudo e n\u00e3o dando nada.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>This goes for everyone in your life who doesn\u2019t love you back and who doesn\u2019t appreciate you: for your romantic partner, that toxic friend, and even your closest family members. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Remember: whoever doesn\u2019t treat you the way you deserve to be treated doesn&#8217;t deserve a place in your life. It\u2019s as simple as that.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>\u00c9 preciso compreender isto: <strong>whoever isn\u2019t ready to love you now won\u2019t ever love you. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Quem o desrespeitar agora nunca lhe dar\u00e1 o respeito de que necessita.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Quem quer que o trate como um pr\u00e9mio de consola\u00e7\u00e3o, nunca lhe dar\u00e1 um lugar na sua lista de prioridades. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Whoever doesn\u2019t value your presence needs to feel your absence right away.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>So when do you plan on putting an end to all of these relationships in which you\u2019re the only one who\u2019s trying?<\/p>\r\n<p>When do you plan on accepting that you\u2019re just wasting your time on those who don\u2019t deserve you, never did, and never will?<\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121336 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-woman-leaves-the-man.jpg\" alt=\"a mulher deixa o homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-woman-leaves-the-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-woman-leaves-the-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-woman-leaves-the-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-woman-leaves-the-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-woman-leaves-the-man-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>Remember that we all accept the treatment we think we deserve. You\u2019re the one who settles for this half-ass love, the one who accepts zero effort.<\/p>\r\n<p>You\u2019re the person who keeps on giving people the green light to continue hurting you, by giving them all those second chances.<\/p>\r\n<p>Aquele que se contenta com amizades falsas e rela\u00e7\u00f5es pseudo-rom\u00e2nticas.<\/p>\r\n<p>So, when will you accept that it\u2019s about time you take your life into your own hands and stop putting the keys of your happiness into someone else\u2019s?<\/p>\r\n<p>Quando \u00e9 que vais perceber que a \u00fanica op\u00e7\u00e3o real que tens \u00e9 deixar ir?<\/p>\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\r\n<p>To leave everyone who doesn\u2019t love you in the past and to move on in your new future, without anyone holding you back or putting you down?<\/p>\r\n<p>That it\u2019s time you stop choosing others over yourself and time to start loving yourself more than anyone else?<\/p>\r\n<p>I won\u2019t lie to you \u2013 doing all of this will be everything but easy and it won\u2019t happen overnight.<\/p>\r\n<p>Cutting ties with people you love, despite them not loving you back, is one of the hardest things you\u2019ll ever have to do.<\/p>\r\n<p>Mas vai ajudar-te a crescer. Ajud\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 a ver a sua verdadeira for\u00e7a interior e a tornar-se uma vers\u00e3o melhorada de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\r\n<p>Yes, you\u2019ll feel like you\u2019re breaking your own heart. But it is the choice you have to make \u2013 for your own good.<\/p>\r\n<p>No entanto, quero que confies em mim: toda a dor que sentires valer\u00e1 a pena.<\/p>\r\n<p>It will teach you that you don\u2019t need anyone who doesn\u2019t need you back, that you can always make it on your own. &nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Mais importante ainda, <strong>isso ensinar-te-\u00e1 a saber melhor da pr\u00f3xima vez.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>To always give exactly as much effort as you\u2019re getting and to never put your life on hold, waiting for someone to become ready to love you.<\/p>\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-121335\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/If-They-Arent-Ready-To-Love-You-You-Need-To-Let-Them-Go-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se eles n\u00e3o est\u00e3o prontos para te amar, tens de os deixar ir\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1499\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/If-They-Arent-Ready-To-Love-You-You-Need-To-Let-Them-Go-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/If-They-Arent-Ready-To-Love-You-You-Need-To-Let-Them-Go-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/If-They-Arent-Ready-To-Love-You-You-Need-To-Let-Them-Go-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There comes a moment in all of our lives when we have to stop running away from reality. That moment when you simply must face the truth, no matter how painful and harsh it might get. The moment when you have to come to terms with the fact that some people are not meant to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":121334,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-37120","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/If-They-Arent-Ready-To-Love-You-You-Need-To-Let-Them-Go-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37120","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=37120"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37120\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/121334"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=37120"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=37120"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=37120"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}