{"id":37182,"date":"2019-05-24T10:53:59","date_gmt":"2019-05-24T10:53:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37182"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:44:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:44:17","slug":"10-coisas-que-o-tornam-realmente-pouco-atraente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-coisas-que-o-tornam-realmente-pouco-atraente\/","title":{"rendered":"10 coisas que o tornam realmente pouco atraente"},"content":{"rendered":"

Let’s face it. We live in times in which physical appearance has overshadowed everything else and become the main focus of our attention when we want to impress someone.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Muitas pessoas pensam que ser atraente significa ter um corpo perfeito<\/a>O cabelo perfeito, as unhas perfeitas e, claro, a roupa perfeita.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Mas isto n\u00e3o \u00e9 de todo verdade. Mesmo a rapariga\/o rapaz mais atraente da sala, com um corpo e roupa perfeitos, pode parecer muito pouco atraente se a sua atitude e personalidade forem repulsivas.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Speaking of that, I remember going on a date with a guy who looked really hot (black hair, handsome, blue\/green eyes that can easily distract you, and well-dressed) but the moment I heard him complaining to the waitress that he\u2019d been waiting too long for his order (and we hadn\u2019t even waited for a minute), I immediately realized that his exterior certainly didn\u2019t match his interior (and on top of that he was also full of himself).<\/p>\r\n

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Apesar de ele ser bonito por fora, a sua atitude e personalidade eram t\u00e3o repulsivas que tive de inventar uma desculpa para me ir embora.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I told him that I\u2019d just realized I had left my oven on and I was in a real hurry to go home and turn it off.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Este \u00e9 apenas um exemplo, mas a verdade \u00e9 que existem muitas outras coisas que nos podem fazer parecer pouco atractivos, independentemente do nosso exterior perfeito.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

To make sure that you don\u2019t fall into such behavior, here is the list of things making you really unattractive!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

10 COISAS QUE O TORNAM REALMENTE POUCO ATRAENTE<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. You don\u2019t connect with people<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Sorri para as outras pessoas quando as cumprimenta ou olha-as nos olhos quando fala com elas?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re only interested in exchanging information without exhibiting human traits and asking them how they are doing, then you\u2019re not connecting with people which is really repulsive and a little bit annoying.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. You don\u2019t express gratitude<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Quando algu\u00e9m nos d\u00e1 um presente ou quando uma empregada de mesa nos traz o nosso pedido, nunca expressamos a nossa gratid\u00e3o dizendo simplesmente: \u201cThank you!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Also, when someone goes out of their way to help you, you don\u2019t express your amazement by showing them that you apreciar os seus gestos<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If all of this sounds familiar to you, then you should definitely work on it because you don\u2019t want other people to see you as selfish or spoiled and feel insulted by your unwillingness to show gratitude.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. You\u2019re jealous<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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O ci\u00fame \u00e9 uma verdadeira dor de cabe\u00e7a e um destruidor certo de rela\u00e7\u00f5es, casamentos, etc.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re constantly exhibiting signs of jealousy by deliberately downplaying other people\u2019s importance and looking for their flaws, others will think of you as an immature person who lacks confidence and self-respect.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. You\u2019re inserting yourself into other people\u2019s personal lives uninvited<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Tem constantemente o desejo de dar conselhos a outras pessoas e de oferecer a sua ajuda em assuntos importantes?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Even though your intentions are let\u2019s say positive, inserting yourself into other people\u2019s personal lives uninvited is nothing but being intrusive.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If others didn\u2019t ask you for advice, do not offer them any. Otherwise, they will seriously think of reminding you to mind your own business.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. Menosprezar aqueles que o servem<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Apreciar os que est\u00e3o em posi\u00e7\u00f5es mais elevadas e menosprezar os que est\u00e3o em posi\u00e7\u00f5es mais baixas s\u00e3o caracter\u00edsticas extremamente pouco atractivas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tratar toda a gente com a mesma compaix\u00e3o e gratid\u00e3o prova que tem maneiras, e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada mais atraente do que isso. Independentemente das circunst\u00e2ncias, lembre-se sempre disso.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. Pretending to be something you\u2019re not<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Pretending to be something you\u2019re not means deliberately ignoring your own qualities and traits only to give other people a false picture of yourself.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

This includes copying other people\u2019s outfits, hair, behavior, etc.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se quiser ser realmente atrativo para os outros<\/a>Ent\u00e3o, ter\u00e1 de lhes mostrar quem realmente \u00e9, porque a autenticidade \u00e9 muito mais poderosa do que a falsidade.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

7. Falar demasiado de si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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If you talk too much about yourself, it means you\u2019re not interested in what others have to say but only in what you have to say to others about yourself.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Being full of yourself is really an  unattractive quality, and it makes other people think there\u2019s no point in wasting their time with someone who is only interested in themselves.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

8. Mexericos<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Gossiping is another form of sticking one\u2019s nose where it doesn\u2019t belong.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se o tema principal de todas as suas conversas \u00e9 coscuvilhar sobre outras pessoas, ent\u00e3o tem definitivamente um problema e as pessoas deixar\u00e3o de confiar em si.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If they see that you always have something to say about others, they will know that you\u2019ll do the same thing to them.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se quer parecer realmente atraente, ent\u00e3o expandir os seus t\u00f3picos e cuidar dos seus pr\u00f3prios assuntos \u00e9 um bom come\u00e7o.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

9. You don\u2019t believe you\u2019re attractive<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Not believing that you\u2019re attractive will make you unattractive because thinking only negatively about yourself means you lack confidence.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se tiver dificuldades olhar as outras pessoas nos olhos<\/a> and if you\u2019re constantly anxious about your appearance, other people will see you as insecure.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

De certeza que n\u00e3o o ver\u00e3o como atraente, apesar de ter uma roupa ou um penteado perfeito.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

10. Conversa com um dos interlocutores<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Do you have this tendency to constantly tell others that you\u2019ve experienced worse things and that their problems are nothing because you\u2019re always the one who has or had it worse?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

One-upping the conversation means downplaying other people\u2019s problems and making yourself look selfish and self-centered.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Mas, se os ouvir com aten\u00e7\u00e3o e compreender os seus problemas, vai parecer caloroso e atraente!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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Let’s face it. We live in times in which physical appearance has overshadowed everything else and become the main focus of our attention when we want to impress someone. Many people think that being attractive means having a perfect body, perfect hair, perfect nails, and, of course, the perfect outfit. But, this is not true…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":37196,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-37182","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_1015027387.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37182","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=37182"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37182\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/37196"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=37182"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=37182"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=37182"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}