{"id":37316,"date":"2019-05-27T10:43:25","date_gmt":"2019-05-27T10:43:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37316"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:42:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:42:45","slug":"5-perguntas-a-fazer-a-si-proprio-antes-de-enviar-uma-mensagem-de-texto-a-um-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-perguntas-a-fazer-a-si-proprio-antes-de-enviar-uma-mensagem-de-texto-a-um-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"5 perguntas a fazer a si pr\u00f3prio antes de enviar uma mensagem de texto a um ex"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sejamos realistas - n\u00e3o existe uma pessoa que nunca tenha sido tentada a contactar um ex de alguma forma. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apesar de pessoas diferentes o fazerem por raz\u00f5es diferentes, o resultado final \u00e9 o mesmo: enviar uma mensagem de texto a um ex \u00e9 algo que deve ser sempre ponderado.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That is exactly why we\u2019re presenting you a set of questions you should ask yourself antes de<\/em> a contactar a tua ex. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Just answer each one of them honestly, and you\u2019ll know where you stand and what you should do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Ele merece ter not\u00edcias suas?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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A primeira coisa que tem de responder a si pr\u00f3pria antes de pensar em contactar o seu ex-namorado \u00e9 se este merece ter not\u00edcias suas. Em que termos \u00e9 que voc\u00eas se separaram?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, you won\u2019t be the first one to call some dude who humiliated you and treated you like crap. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

That is why you should ask yourself whether he was an asshole who should be erased from your memory or is he actually a good guy who won\u2019t see you making this step as a chance to take advantage of you and break your heart once more? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pode dar-lhe um aumento do ego <\/a>e se rebaixar se lhe enviar uma mensagem?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2 - Qual \u00e9 a pior coisa que pode acontecer?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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O pr\u00f3ximo passo \u00e9 pensar no pior cen\u00e1rio poss\u00edvel. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m not saying that you texting your ex will be a complete failure, but it is also something you need to be prepared for.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ent\u00e3o, qual \u00e9 a pior coisa que pode acontecer? Ele pode ignorar completamente a tua mensagem? Ou pode insult\u00e1-la e responder-lhe de uma forma horr\u00edvel?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Either way, is this something you\u2019re ready to take? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ser\u00e1 embara\u00e7oso para si encontrar-se com ele se ele a deixar \u00e0 espera? Sentir-se-\u00e1 humilhada e envergonhada por tentar alguma coisa?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Will the earth stop spinning if your ex doesn\u2019t respond to your text? Will you go back to feeling the same way you felt when you two broke up? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If the answer is positive, one thing is clear\u2013texting an ex is without doubt not the right move for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. O que \u00e9 que secretamente queres que aconte\u00e7a?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Da mesma forma que se deve pensar no pior cen\u00e1rio, tamb\u00e9m se deve pensar no melhor resultado poss\u00edvel. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

No entanto, a verdadeira quest\u00e3o aqui \u00e9: qual seria o melhor resultado poss\u00edvel para si?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do you want this guy to tell you that he\u2019s been thinking of you all along? Do you want him to voltar a rastejar<\/a> para v\u00f3s, admitindo o seu amor eterno?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Or you want revenge? Do you want him to think that you\u2019re still not over him just so you could pay him back for everything he\u2019s put you through?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Talvez queiras apenas encerrar o assunto? Precisa de uma explica\u00e7\u00e3o antes de poder virar uma nova p\u00e1gina da sua vida?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Ainda sentes alguma coisa por ele?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Now that you\u2019ve realized why you want to text your ex, it\u2019s time to be clear about your feelings for him. Do you still love this guy? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Have you really tried doing everything in your power to move on from him but you\u2019re left with no other options except accepting that he is the love of your life? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Consegue ver-se de novo ao lado dele? Est\u00e1 disposta a resolver os seus problemas e a fazer um esfor\u00e7o para reconstruir a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Ou sente-se s\u00f3?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Ou talvez nada disto seja verdade. Talvez algu\u00e9m novo o tenha magoado, por isso quer voltar ao que lhe \u00e9 familiar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Queres provar a ti pr\u00f3pria que podes ter este homem sempre que te apetecer? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do you want to prove to him that you\u2019ll always remain special and that he\u2019ll never forget you for real?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9 poss\u00edvel que este tipo n\u00e3o seja mais do que a tua zona de conforto? Isso you don\u2019t actually love him<\/a>, but you\u2019re just used to having him around?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Or maybe you\u2019re lonely and afraid of ending up alone. Maybe you don\u2019t miss your ex\u2013you just miss being in a relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Let\u2019s face it\u2013there doesn\u2019t exist a person who was never tempted to contact an ex in some way. Even though different people do it for different reasons, the bottom line is the same: sending a text to an ex is something you should always think through. That is exactly why we\u2019re presenting you a set…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":37322,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-37316","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_1304952193.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","parent":29627,"count":263,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29628,"category_count":263,"category_description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","cat_name":"dealing with breakup","category_nicename":"dealing-with-breakup","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37316","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=37316"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37316\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/37322"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=37316"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=37316"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=37316"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}