{"id":37365,"date":"2020-04-27T13:14:04","date_gmt":"2020-04-27T13:14:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37365"},"modified":"2022-03-01T23:17:59","modified_gmt":"2022-03-01T23:17:59","slug":"4-razoes-brutalmente-honestas-pelas-quais-ele-te-toma-por-garantida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/4-razoes-brutalmente-honestas-pelas-quais-ele-te-toma-por-garantida\/","title":{"rendered":"4 raz\u00f5es brutalmente honestas pelas quais ele te est\u00e1 a tomar por garantida"},"content":{"rendered":"

O facto de se ser tomado como garantido \u00e9 uma das coisas mais humilhantes e dolorosas por que se pode passar.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 especialmente dif\u00edcil se o seu parceiro de vida o estiver a tratar desta forma.<\/p>\n

This is exactly the situation you\u2019re in right now.<\/p>\n

No fundo, tem consci\u00eancia de que o seu namorado ou marido est\u00e1 convencido de que h\u00e1 n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que ele possa fazer para que deixes de o amar <\/a> .<\/p>\n

V\u00ea que ele est\u00e1 a aproveitar-se do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o bondoso.<\/p>\n

V\u00ea-se que ele gosta da sua presen\u00e7a apenas porque gosta de ter algu\u00e9m que o ame tanto.<\/p>\n

And you know it very well that you\u2019re on the bottom of his priority list.<\/p>\n

No entanto, porque \u00e9 que estas coisas acontecem em primeiro lugar? Como \u00e9 que algu\u00e9m sabe que outra pessoa \u00e9 uma v\u00edtima adequada deste tratamento?<\/p>\n

Em termos concretos, porque \u00e9 que o seu namorado a est\u00e1 a tomar como garantida? Porque \u00e9 que ele a est\u00e1 a usar, quando isso \u00e9 a \u00faltima coisa que uma rapariga como voc\u00ea merece?<\/p>\n

Porque ele pode<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

A primeira raz\u00e3o pela qual algu\u00e9m pode estar a trat\u00e1-lo da forma como o faz \u00e9, na verdade, bastante simples.<\/p>\n

Eles podem simplesmente faz\u00ea-lo. Deixamos que se comportem assim e eles n\u00e3o t\u00eam consci\u00eancia dos seus actos.<\/p>\n

E o seu namorado provavelmente n\u00e3o \u00e9 exce\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Even though I\u2019m not claiming that him taking you for granted is just your fault (after all, he is the one who is emotionally hurting you without thinking about the consequences), maybe it\u2019s time to think things through and ask yourself whether you\u2019re the one who\u2019s been giving him permission to act this way.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s make one thing clear. If a guy is an asshole, he\u2019ll probably try hiding his negative personality traits in the beginning and start revealing them over time.<\/p>\n

That means that your boyfriend wasn\u2019t this big of a douchebag from the very start. Instead, he started with little things.<\/p>\n

E, sem mais nem menos, safou-se sempre.<\/p>\n

After a while, he realized that you\u2019re giving him the green light for his behavior.<\/p>\n

He noticed that he doesn\u2019t have to show you any appreciation and you\u2019ll still continue being there for him or do him favors, so he kept on taking you for granted more and more.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t give a damn about you<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I hate to be the one to burst your bubble, but here is the harshest and the truest truth: if a guy is taking you for granted, he is probably doing it because he doesn\u2019t care about you.<\/p>\n

Pelo menos, n\u00e3o o suficiente para pensar nas suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es e ter cuidado para n\u00e3o partir o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

He might like you enough to spend time with you, but he doesn\u2019t give a damn whether he\u2019ll emotionally damage you.<\/p>\n

He couldn\u2019t care less about you feeling underappreciated or hurt.<\/p>\n

This guy is obviously a selfish jerk who only thinks about his own needs and could never put you first, despite everything you\u2019ve been doing for him.<\/p>\n

Lembrem-se de uma coisa: if a man treats you like he doesn\u2019t care <\/a> \u00e9 bom que comecem a acreditar nele.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, de que melhor prova da sua indiferen\u00e7a precisas?<\/p>\n

You\u2019re too nice<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Sim, existe uma coisa chamada ser demasiado simp\u00e1tico<\/a>demasiado bondoso, ou demasiado amoroso.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re a girl who gives her entire self to a man who will never be able to reciprocate and that is exactly why you feel like you\u2019ve been taken for granted.<\/p>\n

You try too hard and you put too much effort into someone who clearly doesn\u2019t deserve it.<\/p>\n

Besides, you never get angry. Even when you notice his wrongdoings, you forgive him easily and he knows he\u2019ll always get away with the way he\u2019s treating you.<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, porque \u00e9 que ele se daria ao trabalho de mudar de atitude?<\/p>\n

Consequently, the man you\u2019re dating doesn\u2019t have any medo de o perder<\/a>.<\/p>\n

He knows that you\u2019ll stick around, no matter what he does, because you\u2019ve convinced him in your love and you showed him your feelings.<\/p>\n

Therefore, it is easier for him to lie back and enjoy the attention he\u2019s been getting from you than to continue winning you over.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t know how to say \u201cno\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re taken for granted, your biggest problem is probably the fact that you don\u2019t know how to turn someone down.<\/p>\n

Tem dificuldade em estabelecer limites e as pessoas, incluindo o seu namorado, aproveitam-se disso.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re someone who is always available and ready to do whatever it takes to please the person you love.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re always there when he needs a favor, a shoulder to cry on, or some company, while in his eyes, you\u2019re ranked far from first place.<\/p>\n

Em poucas palavras, \u00e9 um profissional que oferece segundas oportunidades <\/a> e aceitador de falsas desculpas.<\/p>\n

Even when deep down you know that someone won\u2019t ever change and doesn\u2019t deserve a place in your life, you go against your principles and always take them back.<\/p>\n

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