{"id":37487,"date":"2019-05-28T10:39:39","date_gmt":"2019-05-28T10:39:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37487"},"modified":"2022-04-28T23:53:08","modified_gmt":"2022-04-28T23:53:08","slug":"os-5-principais-assassinos-de-relacoes-mais-destrutivos-e-como-combate-los","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/os-5-principais-assassinos-de-relacoes-mais-destrutivos-e-como-combate-los\/","title":{"rendered":"Os 5 principais assassinos de relacionamentos mais destrutivos (e como combat\u00ea-los)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 um santu\u00e1rio entre duas pessoas, onde podem ser elas pr\u00f3prias verdadeiras e sem remorsos, sem medo de serem julgadas.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

And every relationship is based on certain fundamentals that help it run smoothly and keep it from running into glitches and obstacles. It\u2019s really simple\u2014if you don\u2019t take care of your relationship, sooner or later it\u2019s doomed to fail.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Por isso, se quer manter a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel, feliz e duradoura <\/span>muito tempo<\/span><\/a>Para al\u00e9m disso, deve estar ciente dos aspectos que comprovadamente fazem toda a diferen\u00e7a no que diz respeito \u00e0 qualidade e longevidade do produto.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Passado algum tempo, a maioria dos casais sente-se demasiado \u00e0 vontade um com o outro e esquece-se de ter cuidado com certas coisas que colocam a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o em risco de uma rutura prematura e desastrosa.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Para evitar complica\u00e7\u00f5es e manter a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o id\u00edlica como est\u00e1, tenha cuidado com estes 5 assassinos de rela\u00e7\u00f5es mais comuns.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\r\n

1. M\u00e1 capacidade de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

Let\u2019s face it, we all believe that we\u2019re really good at communicating and getting our points across, but the truth is, we all mess up and let the intensity of the situation get the better of us at times.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s almost too easy turning a normal discussion into a yelling session where nothing productive gets done, and all that\u2019s achieved is getting you both that much more agitated and annoyed at each other.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Da pr\u00f3xima vez que quiser tirar uma foto com <\/span>o seu homem<\/span><\/a>tente isto. Por muito irritante que ele possa ser nesse momento, conte at\u00e9 dez, organize os seus pensamentos e ou\u00e7a o que ele tem para dizer.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

N\u00e3o interromper, n\u00e3o gritar e n\u00e3o apontar o dedo.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Hear him out, and try to understand where he\u2019s coming from. In turn, he\u2019ll do the same for you. Peacefully talk it out whilst trying to find common ground as opposed to assigning blame, which leaves nobody happy.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

2. Incapacidade de confiar plenamente uns nos outros, mesmo quando isso significa dar um salto de f\u00e9<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

If you can\u2019t trust your partner, you\u2019ll never be truly happy in your relationship. The whole point of partnership is knowing that you\u2019ve got each other\u2019s backs no matter what.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

But it doesn\u2019t work if you doubt every other thing he says and does, which is ultimately a toxic waste of your time. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Sometimes, being in a relationship means taking a huge leap of faith and believing them even when you have no proof that they\u2019re telling the truth.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Isto \u00e9 <\/span>a sua pessoa<\/span><\/a> and your rock. Would he lie to you? I think you know the answer to this. So give him the benefit of the doubt, and trust that he\u2019s making good decisions and keeping you in the loop.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

At\u00e9 que ele prove o contr\u00e1rio, opte por ter f\u00e9 nele e deixe-se ser feliz sem esse peso desnecess\u00e1rio da desconfian\u00e7a.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

3. Identifying yourself solely as somebody\u2019s girlfriend<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

Manter a sua pr\u00f3pria identidade ao longo da rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 crucial para que esta dure e seja bem sucedida.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s cute when you\u2019re so close that you finish each other\u2019s sentences and don\u2019t mind just napping when you\u2019re together with no need to actually do anything. It feels nice whatever you do, as long as you\u2019re together.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

But don\u2019t let your girlfriend role be your whole identity!<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Remember who you are outside of your relationship,m and keep doing your own thing. Don\u2019t neglect your people and passions, and make sure to find a balance between your two worlds.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

You\u2019re an amazing girlfriend and that\u2019s a fantastic part of your life, but there is so much more to you than just that. So don\u2019t lose sight of your other world, and be true to yourself.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

4. Arranjar desculpas uns para os outros por medo de ficarem sozinhos<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

Sure, there will be times where you\u2019ll both screw up, and the adult thing to do is forgive, learn from it, and move on.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Mas quando se trata de comportamento de merda e <\/span>abuso emocional<\/span><\/a>Se n\u00e3o se tem uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o com uma pessoa que nos rebaixa, n\u00e3o se deve de forma alguma desculpar esse tipo de comportamento. \u00c9 incomensuravelmente melhor estar sozinho do que com algu\u00e9m que o rebaixa.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Make sure you\u2019re being treated right, and forgive only when your heart tells you it\u2019s the right thing to do. If you sense your partner is genuinely sorry for certain actions that resulted in you being hurt, find it in your heart to forgive.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

But never let it happen twice. One time is a mistake, two times \u2013 it\u2019s a choice.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

5. Not having each other\u2019s backs through thick and thin<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

Sometimes, your partner will take on more than he can handle. At times, you won\u2019t agree with his choices, but you need to let him do his thing, and if need be, let him learn from his mistakes.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\u00c9 suposto apoiarem-se mutuamente<\/a> no matter what. Even when it feels like it\u2019s a bad idea, let him try, and cheer him on as loudly as you can.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s important that you have his back and vice versa because without each other\u2019s support, where would you be?<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Be your partner\u2019s biggest cheerleader, and show him that you\u2019ve got him\u2014always. If he fails, be his shoulder to cry on, and if he succeeds, be a proud girlfriend!<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Por vezes, estar presente e n\u00e3o interferir \u00e9 a melhor coisa que se pode fazer. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

You won\u2019t always agree with his choices, but that doesn\u2019t mean you can\u2019t root for him to succeed. <\/span>Estar presente<\/span><\/a> even when it\u2019s hard to do, and he\u2019ll do the same for you.<\/span><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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