{"id":37493,"date":"2019-05-28T11:56:04","date_gmt":"2019-05-28T11:56:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37493"},"modified":"2022-05-22T22:54:17","modified_gmt":"2022-05-22T22:54:17","slug":"4-razoes-pelas-quais-estas-a-voltar-para-ele-quando-sabes-que-mereces-melhor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/4-razoes-pelas-quais-estas-a-voltar-para-ele-quando-sabes-que-mereces-melhor\/","title":{"rendered":"4 raz\u00f5es para voltares para ele quando sabes que mereces melhor"},"content":{"rendered":"

J\u00e1 alguma vez se viu numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o em que continua a voltar para o mesmo homem que a magoou mais do que uma vez? <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Quando se continua a ficar preso numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o que se sabe estar condenada ao fracasso e que n\u00e3o tem qualquer futuro?<\/span><\/p>\r\n

The worst part is that you don\u2019t know why you\u2019re doing this. You don\u2019t know how you manage to drag yourself into this endless circle without a way out every single time.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Well, we\u2019re here to give you answers to your questions. Here is exactly why you\u2019re going back to him, even when you know you deserve better and why you shouldn\u2019t continue doing so.<\/span><\/b><\/p>\r\n

You\u2019re afraid you\u2019ll end up alone\"4<\/h2>\r\n

Even though this is the last thing you\u2019d probably ever admit, the truth is that you\u2019re probably stuck in this toxic relationship because you\u2019re used to having a man next to you, even if that man is giving you a bad headache. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

You\u2019re terrified that you\u2019ll end up alone for the rest of your life if you cut all ties with him and that is not something you\u2019re ready to do.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Single life might look scary for someone who\u2019s been in a relationship for a long time but trust me<\/span>\u2014<\/span>it\u2019s way better than it sounds. More importantly, it\u2019s way better than a crappy relationship.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Al\u00e9m disso, ser solteiro e ser solit\u00e1rio s\u00e3o duas coisas diferentes. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Even if you leave this guy\u2019s sorry ass, you\u2019ll still have your job, friends, hobbies and family. And most importantly<\/span>\u2014<\/span>you\u2019ll still have yourself.<\/span><\/b><\/p>\r\n

T\u00eam uma hist\u00f3ria em comum\"4<\/h2>\r\n

The number one reason why people constantly go back to their toxic partner is the fact that they\u2019ve been together for ages. And this is exactly what\u2019s happening to you<\/span>\u2014<\/span>you\u2019re sorry for all the years wasted next to this guy but you don\u2019t want all of your time or efforts to be in vain.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Well, let me tell you something: you don\u2019t have to be with a guy just because <\/span>t\u00eam uma hist\u00f3ria em comum<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Lembre-se de que o seu presente e o seu futuro s\u00e3o sempre muito mais importantes do que o seu passado. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

You can\u2019t live off memories forever and it\u2019s time you stop hoping that things will go back the way they were in the beginning because they obviously won\u2019t.<\/span><\/b><\/p>\r\n

Pensas que todos os pr\u00f3ximos homens v\u00e3o ser iguais ao teu ex\"4<\/h2>\r\n

Outra raz\u00e3o pela qual pode estar voltar para o seu ex<\/a> even though you know you shouldn\u2019t is the fact that he has managed to persuade you that you\u2019ll never find someone better. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

\u00c9 exatamente isto que os manipuladores emocionais fazem<\/span>\u2014<\/span>they don\u2019t give up until they convince you that you\u2019re <\/span>n\u00e3o foi feito para ser amado<\/span><\/a> and that you\u2019ll never find anyone else.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Ensinou-lhe isto durante a sua horr\u00edvel rela\u00e7\u00e3o e assume que todos os homens que conhece s\u00e3o iguais ao seu ex.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

S<\/span>o why bother even trying to look for someone new, if you\u2019re just going to go through the same shit you\u2019re already going through?<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Well, let me tell you that none of this is true. Not everyone is like your ex and if you constantly go back to this guy, you\u2019ll never have a chance to meet someone more suited to you.<\/span><\/b><\/p>\r\n

You\u2019re afraid of the unknown\"4<\/h2>\r\n

Despite all of his misdeeds and everything you\u2019ve been through next to this guy, we have to admit one thing<\/span>\u2014<\/span>ele \u00e9-vos familiar. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

With time, all of these hot and cold games, all of these break-ups and getting back together, have become your comfort zone and you don\u2019t have the strength to abandon that.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

You\u2019re anxious about getting <\/span>de volta \u00e0 piscina dos encontros<\/span><\/a> and you\u2019d rather stay next to an old enemy than look for someone new. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Se mais n\u00e3o for, sabe o que esperar deste homem, conhece os seus defeitos e aspectos negativos e nada o pode surpreender. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

You don\u2019t think that you\u2019re mentally strong enough to put up with someone new and to put the effort into getting to know him.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Big mistake! With this attitude, you\u2019re only hurting yourself.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

After all, what do you plan on doing? Keep on living like this forever just because you don\u2019t have what it takes to jump out of your comfort zone? <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Em vez de ser um cobarde, tome a sua vida nas suas pr\u00f3prias m\u00e3os e fa\u00e7a o que \u00e9 corajoso e correto!\"4
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