{"id":37506,"date":"2020-05-28T12:08:05","date_gmt":"2020-05-28T12:08:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37506"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:12:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:12:31","slug":"ele-so-sente-a-tua-falta-porque-nao-te-pode-substituir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ele-so-sente-a-tua-falta-porque-nao-te-pode-substituir\/","title":{"rendered":"Ele s\u00f3 sente a tua falta porque n\u00e3o te pode substituir"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ter de perder algu\u00e9m para perceber o quanto essa pessoa era especial e inestim\u00e1vel para n\u00f3s \u00e9 uma das coisas mais infelizes que podemos fazer. (mas muito comum)<\/em> coisas a acontecer depois de uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o dif\u00edcil.<\/p>\n

We are all unique in our own way, which basically means that we\u2019re all irreplaceable, and no matter how much somebody wishes to find our exact copy in another person, it is simply not possible.<\/p>\n

When a romantic relationship falls through, it\u2019s inevitable that both partners will eventually move on to other people and seek adequate replacement for their respective exes.<\/p>\n

Por isso, quando receberes aquela mensagem inesperada a uma hora impr\u00f3pria de o seu ex <\/a> que demorou tanto tempo a ultrapassar, saiba que ele finalmente se apercebeu do que deixou passar.<\/p>\n

The only thing is, it\u2019s a little too late now. Yeah, he misses you and he might even really want you back.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

But what kind of a prick do you have to be to break a girl\u2019s heart, leave her to her own devices, move on to someone new like she never existed, and then expect her to forgive you because it took losing her to realize just how precious she was?<\/em><\/p>\n

No, sir, you don\u2019t get to do that.<\/em><\/p>\n

You do not get to shatter her world by deciding she simply isn\u2019t enough anymore and abandon her as if she meant nothing to you, then in her absence realize how good you really had it and hope she\u2019d be na\u00efve enough to forgive and forget.<\/em><\/p>\n

Quando te foste embora, o mundo dela desmoronou-se.<\/p>\n

A pedra que ela tinha em si desapareceu de repente. Ela melhor amigo <\/a> com quem podia partilhar tudo, j\u00e1 n\u00e3o estava ao seu lado.<\/p>\n

And her lover who knew every bit of her body by heart was suddenly sleeping in another woman\u2019s bed.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Tinha de aprender a encontrar uma forma de lidar com tudo isso sem perder a cabe\u00e7a, sentindo ao mesmo tempo que o ch\u00e3o debaixo de si se estava a desmoronar e a escorregar cada vez mais para longe do seu alcance.<\/p>\n

E simplesmente mudaste para um modelo mais recente, na esperan\u00e7a de encontrar algo novo e excitante, mas o que acabaste por perceber foi que nenhuma mulher poderia substituir o calor dos seus l\u00e1bios suaves nos teus.<\/p>\n

Nenhuma mulher se compara \u00e0 sua inacredit\u00e1vel capacidade de amar sem julgar.<\/p>\n

And when you tried to find solace in another woman\u2019s arms, you realized that nothing could match her tight embrace that made you immediately calm and serene, as if it was telling you that everything was going to be okay, and somehow\u2026 it always was.<\/em><\/p>\n

Mas adivinha?<\/p>\n

Ela j\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9 aquela rapariga ing\u00e9nua que secretamente esperava que ainda fosse. Ela j\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9 o tipo de pessoa que aceita bocados e peda\u00e7os.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Ela agora sabe que merece algu\u00e9m que a aprecie enquanto a tiver.<\/p>\n

Pensaste que podias ir pelo caminho mais f\u00e1cil, divertir-te ao sol e depois voltar como se nunca tivesses deixado um vazio devastador no mundo dela.<\/p>\n

Mas estavas enganado. Ela sabe bem que n\u00e3o deve acreditar em nada do que tens para dizer agora.<\/p>\n

Sabes, ela passou por muito desde que te foste embora. Demorou um pouco, mas ela finalmente tem as suas prioridades correctas.<\/p>\n

And now you can crawl and you can beg, but all you\u2019ll get from her is a confident smile in your direction, which will show you just how badass and strong she is now.<\/p>\n

She will look at you, but she won\u2019t see the man she once loved so deeply.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

O que ela vai ver agora \u00e9 um homem de quem tem pena.<\/em><\/p>\n

E isso vai ser t\u00e3o poderoso para ela. Ela esperou por este momento e rezou para ser capaz de manter a calma ao p\u00e9 de si e n\u00e3o cair nos seus velhos truques.<\/em><\/p>\n

E ela finalmente conseguiu. Ela pode finalmente olhar para ti sem a desmoronar-se <\/i><\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n

Sim, sentes falta dela agora, mas tiveste a tua oportunidade com ela. Ela era toda tua.<\/p>\n

Ela deu-te o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e a sua alma e, em troca, tudo o que queria era a tua dedica\u00e7\u00e3o e um pouco de esfor\u00e7o.<\/p>\n

And you couldn\u2019t even give her that. So don\u2019t be surprised when she\u2019s all out of second chances.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

She knows that she\u2019s irreplaceable. She knows how unique and special she is.<\/p>\n

E d\u00e1-lhe alegria saber que pode finalmente diz\u00ea-lo com orgulho enquanto lhe mostra a porta do seu lugar.<\/p>\n

E isso est\u00e1 fora da vida dela.<\/p>\n

Maybe next time you\u2019ll be able to realize the value of what you have before you gamble it away.<\/p>\n

Whoever you end up spending your life with, hopefully you\u2019ve learned your lesson.<\/p>\n

If you can\u2019t appreciate her while she\u2019s by your side, you don\u2019t deserve her when you change your mind!<\/i><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ela est\u00e1 agora a viver a sua melhor vida e nunca mais vai deixar que um homem a mastigue e a cuspa como tu fizeste.<\/p>\n

Esses dias j\u00e1 l\u00e1 v\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t hate you though. She simply doesn\u2019t think about you anymore.<\/p>\n

And now, while you\u2019re dealing with the consequences of your actions, you will finally feel exactly what she felt when you put her through all that hell.<\/p>\n

So good luck getting over her. God knows you\u2019ll need it.<\/p>\n

\"Ele<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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