{"id":3760,"date":"2017-08-22T11:58:19","date_gmt":"2017-08-22T11:58:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3760"},"modified":"2021-08-26T12:21:49","modified_gmt":"2021-08-26T12:21:49","slug":"10-boas-razoes-para-perdoar-o-odio-de-alguem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-boas-razoes-para-perdoar-o-odio-de-alguem\/","title":{"rendered":"10 boas raz\u00f5es para perdoar a pessoa que mais odeia"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Se queres perdoar algu\u00e9m, lembra-te do ditado: \"Como fazes a tua cama, assim deves deitar-te nela! \"<\/p>\n<p>You must bear in mind that we are all human beings, and we have all done something \u2018unforgivable\u2019 at some point in our lives. And deep down, we all crave forgiveness.<\/p>\n<p>Quando<a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/happiness-in-world\/201002\/how-forgive-others\" rel=\"noopener\"> encontrar a forma de perdoar os outros<\/a>Se n\u00e3o formos capazes de perdoar as nossas ac\u00e7\u00f5es imprudentes, criaremos um espa\u00e7o seguro onde elas tamb\u00e9m possam ser perdoadas.<\/p>\n<p>Try and forgive the ones you hate the most. It\u2019s not easy, but if you do it, your ego will fall apart and get this\u2014it\u2019s a good thing.<\/p>\n<p>If you really try, you won\u2019t have any excuses left for not forgiving the one who broke you. And the reasons which can inspire you to do exactly that, are the following:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O perd\u00e3o torna-nos respons\u00e1veis pela nossa pr\u00f3pria felicidade<\/h2>\n<p>The larger part of what we are and what we attract into our lives is only a reflection of what is actually within us. Our thoughts and actions create the world we\u2019re living in. Our lives teach us that opposites do not attract and that we\u2019ll never have a happy ending to an unhappy journey.<\/p>\n<p>But, if we stick to anger and rage, we are already making our journey filled with these negative thoughts\u2014we\u2019re inviting negative things to our lives. The way we feel and emotions we keep inside are our tools for creating our own happiness.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O perd\u00e3o faz-nos ver a nossa vida como um professor<\/h2>\n<p>Our family members, spouses and friends\u2014they all came into our lives and they all played an important role in our discovering our true selves. We have to be grateful they are part of our lives and that they have taught us important life lessons which are responsible for broadening our consciousness.<\/p>\n<p>The same goes for all the negative relationships we\u2019ve had. Once you\u2019ve learned your lesson from a negative relationship, you will no longer attract negative situations and future relations that try to teach you the same lesson.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O poder do perd\u00e3o ajuda-nos a deixar de nos fazermos de v\u00edtimas<\/h2>\n<p>By being able to forgive and being grateful for all good that is happening to you, life won\u2019t let you play the role of a victim. Most of the time, you\u2019re not a victim of anything else other than your own actions and your own self.<\/p>\n<p>As long as you continue putting the blame on someone else, you\u2019re automatically giving control of your life to others. In that way, you\u2019re making yourself a victim of your life for good.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">A maioria das pessoas est\u00e1 a dar o seu melhor<\/h2>\n<p>Mostre compaix\u00e3o pelas outras pessoas e tente compreender em que ponto da sua vida se encontram. Ponha-se na pele delas.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t have to have the same life perspectives as you do. Remember that most people are doing their best, depending on their level of consciousness and understanding.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Assim como fazes a tua cama, deves deitar-te nela<\/h2>\n<p>Todos n\u00f3s j\u00e1 experiment\u00e1mos essa \u00e2nsia de perd\u00e3o. Basta lembrar-se de como se sentia e lembrar-se de que lamentava o que tinha feito.<\/p>\n<p>Put yourself into their shoes and look for the right answer\u2014and that is to forgive.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ser capaz de perdoar faz-nos crescer<\/h2>\n<p>We grow constantly\u2014throughout our entire lives. But the moment we stop learning and seeking life lessons, our false ego appears and takes matters into its own hands.<\/p>\n<p>Lembre-se que estamos sempre a caminhar para algo maior e mais grandioso, e o perd\u00e3o ajuda-nos a chegar l\u00e1 mais cedo. Ajuda-nos a enterrar o passado e a viver para o futuro.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O perd\u00e3o ensina-nos a ser realistas<\/h2>\n<p>We should know that we don\u2019t have to expect anything from anyone.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/tu-es-o-unico-criador-da-tua-propria-felicidade-so-depende-de-ti\/\">Somos os \u00fanicos criadores dos nossos destinos e felicidades.<\/a> Somos n\u00f3s que estamos ligados \u00e0s nossas almas e ao nosso eu interior, e isso deve ser tudo o que precisamos.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, it is nice to get stuff from people, but we mustn\u2019t rely on those things to be able to move forward in life. We mustn\u2019t expect anything. We have to have faith only in ourselves.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O perd\u00e3o destr\u00f3i os nossos mecanismos de auto-defesa<\/h2>\n<p>We are hurting each other too often, only because we are trying to protect ourselves. We\u2019ve all been there and we\u2019ve all done that.<\/p>\n<p>A tomada de consci\u00eancia deste padr\u00e3o de comportamento permite-nos p\u00f4r termo a toda a dor desnecess\u00e1ria que estamos a causar aos outros para ganharmos algo para n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n<p>But, as you already know\u2014as you make your bed, so you will lie in it\u2026<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O perd\u00e3o torna-nos capazes de deixar as pessoas irem embora<\/h2>\n<p>It makes us able to let go of those who aren\u2019t supposed to stick around any longer. Not every person and every situation is meant to be a part of our lives. Sometimes, they are here only to help us to start a new chapter of our lives.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O perd\u00e3o \u00e9 a melhor vingan\u00e7a<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-3761 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/stephanie-liverani-124319.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher a sorrir\" width=\"800\" height=\"586\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/stephanie-liverani-124319.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/stephanie-liverani-124319-300x220.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/stephanie-liverani-124319-768x563.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It may be a bit sarcastic, but it\u2019s true. A positive way of getting even with someone is to simply move on and create a better future for yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Nothing will annoy and piss off your opponent more than seeing a big smile on your face after you\u2019ve truly forgiven them and moved on with your life.<\/p>\n<p>But remember, revenge shouldn\u2019t be a motive for forgiveness.<\/p>\n<p>Perdoaste mesmo algu\u00e9m?<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s easy to say: \u201cI forgive you\u2026\u201d But still, deep inside our minds, anger and rage are still present. And their presence will affect our future lives and our future experiences.<\/p>\n<p>But, once you truly and sincerely forgive someone, you will feel free and light as a feather\u2014released from captivity.<\/p>\n<p>Think of someone who is waiting for your forgiveness. Is there anybody out there whom you want to forgive so you don\u2019t leave this world with any regrets?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you want to forgive someone, just remember the saying: \u201cAs you make your bed, so you must lie in it! \u201c You must bear in mind that we are all human beings, and we have all done something \u2018unforgivable\u2019 at some point in our lives. And deep down, we all crave forgiveness. 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