{"id":37730,"date":"2019-05-30T12:41:21","date_gmt":"2019-05-30T12:41:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37730"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:37:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:37:46","slug":"7-coisas-a-ter-em-conta-quando-se-esta-obcecado-por-alguem-que-nao-esta-obcecado-por-si","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-coisas-a-ter-em-conta-quando-se-esta-obcecado-por-alguem-que-nao-esta-obcecado-por-si\/","title":{"rendered":"7 coisas a ter em conta quando se est\u00e1 obcecado por algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 obcecado por si"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Oh, essa sensa\u00e7\u00e3o quando pensamos em algu\u00e9m de quem gostamos muito. Com o passar do tempo, fantasiamos com essa pessoa dia e noite.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Even though you haven\u2019t had any physical contact with them, you already know how it feels to be held in their arms because you\u2019ve imagined it one too many times.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tornam-se a sua principal prioridade e \u00e9 simplesmente imposs\u00edvel concentrar-se em qualquer outra coisa que n\u00e3o sejam eles.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The only problem is that they don\u2019t feel the same way about you. They barely know that you exist, or they only see you as a friend.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Or perhaps they have already told you that they don\u2019t have feelings for you, but you still believe that things will eventually change.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>When that happens, you know that you are officially obsessing over someone who isn\u2019t obsessed with you and even though you\u2019re aware of it (somehow), you still can\u2019t stop doing it.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What to do when you can\u2019t stop <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/para-de-pensar-que-ele-nao-esta-a-pensar\/\">pensar em algu\u00e9m<\/a> que nunca pensa em si?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What to do when you can\u2019t stop hoping that things will change, even though you know they won\u2019t?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bem, nessa situa\u00e7\u00e3o, s\u00f3 h\u00e1 uma coisa a fazer: lembrar-se das 7 coisas que se seguem!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Obsession is a reflection of what\u2019s missing on the inside<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-48323\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/According-To-Women-4-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"7 coisas a ter em conta quando se est\u00e1 obcecado por algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 obcecado por si\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/According-To-Women-4-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/According-To-Women-4-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/According-To-Women-4.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The first thing to remember when you\u2019re obsessing over someone is that obsession is actually a reflection of what\u2019s missing on the inside.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You blindly idealize someone because you envy something that you don\u2019t have or because of feelings of loneliness.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you\u2019re desperate to be in love with someone, you subconsciously start idealizing a specific person and imagining that they are your perfect partner (even if you don\u2019t even know them yet).<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c9 por isso que \u00e9 importante estar consciente do facto de que os pensamentos obsessivos acontecem por uma raz\u00e3o e a raz\u00e3o est\u00e1 dentro de si.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Ceder a fantasias s\u00f3 vai piorar as coisas<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" class=\"wp-image-37732\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/adult-beautiful-black-background-1854884.jpg\" alt=\"7 coisas a ter em conta quando se est\u00e1 obcecado por algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 obcecado por si\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/adult-beautiful-black-background-1854884.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/adult-beautiful-black-background-1854884-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/adult-beautiful-black-background-1854884-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Quanto mais tempo fantasiares com eles, mais tempo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/a-todas-as-raparigas-que-estao-a-sofrer-agora-a-vossa-dor-nao-durara-para-sempre\/\">you\u2019ll be in pain<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If deep down in your heart you know that you\u2019ll never be with them or if they\u2019ve given you signs that they are not romantically interested in you, then (no matter how harsh it sounds) it\u2019s high time to give up and come back to reality.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Continuar a fantasiar com eles s\u00f3 o vai fazer sentir-se mais infeliz porque ser\u00e1 muito mais dif\u00edcil esquec\u00ea-los.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. There\u2019s a thin line between loving them and loving the idea of them<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" class=\"wp-image-37733\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_485614462.jpg\" alt=\"7 coisas a ter em conta quando se est\u00e1 obcecado por algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 obcecado por si\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_485614462.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_485614462-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_485614462-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Quando se trata de amor, o nosso c\u00e9rebro \u00e9 capaz de nos fazer acreditar em quase tudo sem qualquer raz\u00e3o v\u00e1lida.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you\u2019re constantly thinking of someone, your brain will understand that you\u2019re in love with them and you\u2019ll feel like you really are.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But, there\u2019s a fine line between loving someone and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/10-diferencas-fundamentais-entre-amar-alguem-e-estar-apaixonado\/\">estou a adorar a ideia<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A obsess\u00e3o por algu\u00e9m significa, normalmente, adorar a ideia dessa pessoa e admirar as suas qualidades.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I know it\u2019s hard to accept it, but it has nothing to do with real love.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. A obsess\u00e3o \u00e9 uma forma de escape<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"576\" class=\"wp-image-37734\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_1297272154.jpg\" alt=\"7 coisas a ter em conta quando se est\u00e1 obcecado por algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 obcecado por si\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_1297272154.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_1297272154-300x216.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_1297272154-768x553.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fantasiar e sonhar acordado com algu\u00e9m significa ocupar a mente com algo que lhe d\u00e1 prazer.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And that\u2019s the main reason why you often find your thoughts wandering toward the same direction.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">that\u2019s the main reason why you often find your thoughts wandering toward the same direction.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A obsess\u00e3o por uma pessoa espec\u00edfica torna-se uma forma de escapar \u00e0 rotina di\u00e1ria, ao trabalho ou a problemas que possa estar a atravessar no momento.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s important to understand that it\u2019s not real. It is more of a daily mini vacation that you have become addicted to.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. Experiencing unrequited love doesn\u2019t mean the problem lies in you<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" class=\"wp-image-37735\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_169824335.jpg\" alt=\"7 coisas a ter em conta quando se est\u00e1 obcecado por algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 obcecado por si\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_169824335.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_169824335-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_169824335-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you\u2019re constantly thinking about someone and you would do anything to be with them, yet still they are not changing their minds regarding it, this doesn\u2019t mean that the problem lies in you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They just think you won\u2019t be compatible, which has nothing to do with changing yourself.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tal como \u00e9 imposs\u00edvel gostarmos de todos os que gostam de n\u00f3s, o mesmo acontece com eles, mas \u00e9 mais dif\u00edcil perceber isso quando os pap\u00e9is est\u00e3o trocados.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. As melhores coisas da vida acontecem quando menos se espera<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" class=\"wp-image-37736\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/adult-art-beautiful-918483.jpg\" alt=\"7 coisas a ter em conta quando se est\u00e1 obcecado por algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 obcecado por si\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/adult-art-beautiful-918483.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/adult-art-beautiful-918483-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/adult-art-beautiful-918483-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Relaxar e seguir o fluxo da vida significa diminuir os n\u00edveis de stress desnecess\u00e1rio.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lembre-se sempre que as melhores coisas da vida acontecem quando menos se espera, n\u00e3o quando se antecipa.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you\u2019re determined to think about the same person for the rest of your life even though you know there will be no progress, you\u2019ll miss some great things on the journey called life.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But, if you absorb the idea that the best things will happen when you least expect them, you\u2019ll change your perspective and be much happier!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">7. O tempo curar\u00e1 todos os teus sentimentos n\u00e3o correspondidos<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" class=\"wp-image-37737\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/adult-asleep-bed-935777.jpg\" alt=\"7 coisas a ter em conta quando se est\u00e1 obcecado por algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 obcecado por si\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/adult-asleep-bed-935777.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/adult-asleep-bed-935777-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/adult-asleep-bed-935777-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you feel hopeless about the situation you\u2019re in, don\u2019t worry.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tal como acontece com todas as pessoas apaixonadas, o tempo ir\u00e1 curar todas as vossas <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/unrequited-love-not-deserve\/\">sentimentos n\u00e3o correspondidos<\/a> e um dia dar\u00e1s por ti a rir-te de ti pr\u00f3prio por seres t\u00e3o tolo ao ficares obcecado por algu\u00e9m que nunca foi digno disso.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Com o tempo, aprender\u00e1 a concentrar-se em melhorar a si pr\u00f3prio e a encontrar o equil\u00edbrio perfeito que nunca mais o deixar\u00e1 ficar t\u00e3o facilmente obcecado.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" class=\"wp-image-37739\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/PINTEREST-9-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"7 coisas a ter em conta quando se est\u00e1 obcecado por algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 obcecado por si\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/PINTEREST-9-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/PINTEREST-9-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/PINTEREST-9.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Oh, that feeling when you think of someone you really like. As time goes by, you fantasize about them day and night. Even though you haven\u2019t had any physical contact with them, you already know how it feels to be held in their arms because you\u2019ve imagined it one too many times. They become your&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":37738,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-37730","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_1024338388.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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