{"id":37793,"date":"2019-05-31T13:08:28","date_gmt":"2019-05-31T13:08:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37793"},"modified":"2022-07-15T09:14:46","modified_gmt":"2022-07-15T09:14:46","slug":"com-a-pessoa-certa-qualquer-momento-e-um-bom-momento","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/com-a-pessoa-certa-qualquer-momento-e-um-bom-momento\/","title":{"rendered":"Com a pessoa certa, qualquer momento \u00e9 um bom momento"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I don\u2019t necessarily believe in all that <em>\u2018right person at the wrong time\u2019<\/em> thing\u2026 I never really have.<\/p>\r\n<p>Sei que pode ser uma opini\u00e3o impopular, mas acredito realmente que com <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-types-of-arguments-that-prove-youre-with-the-right-person-even-if-you-think-youre-not\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a pessoa certa<\/span><\/a> by your side, there\u2019s no such thing as bad timing.<\/p>\r\n<p>Things get messy, words get said, temporary break-ups occur\u2026 but ultimately, if this person is really your \u2018one\u2019, I firmly stand my ground when I say that you will always find your way <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/quando-sabemos-que-nunca-vai-dar-certo-mas-continuamos-a-voltar-um-para-o-outro\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">de volta um para o outro<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\r\n<p><em>Neste momento, pode estar a atravessar o seu per\u00edodo mais negro. <\/em><\/p>\r\n<p><em>Your relationship is on shaky ground and despite the enormous amount of love you two feel for one another, things just don\u2019t seem to be clicking.<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p><em>There\u2019s always something\u2026 either on your side or on his.<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p><em>H\u00e1 sempre um obst\u00e1culo que se interp\u00f5e na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e que tem vindo a tirar peda\u00e7os da vossa alma, da vossa energia e da vossa capacidade de lutar por ele.<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p>You know he\u2019s the one for you. The feeling you get when you\u2019re with him is unlike anything you\u2019ve ever experienced.<\/p>\r\n<p>Ele faz com que todas as tuas preocupa\u00e7\u00f5es desapare\u00e7am. Ele torna o teu dia mais brilhante, n\u00e3o importa o qu\u00e3o merdosas as coisas possam ser. O facto de ele estar presente torna o peso do mundo um pouco mais leve.<\/p>\r\n<p>But you just don\u2019t feel it\u2019s meant to be anymore.<\/p>\r\n<p>The timing just seems off and you\u2019re running out of the will to keep proving yourself wrong. You\u2019re on the verge of giving up and it\u2019s tearing you apart.<\/p>\r\n<p><em>Well, I\u2019m here to tell you that this is when you keep pushing forward harder than ever.<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p>This is when you tell yourself that you\u2019re merely going through a massively crappy period and that even though you don\u2019t see the light at the end of the tunnel right now, it doesn\u2019t mean it\u2019s not there!<\/p>\r\n<p>Pode parecer demasiado sombrio e desafiante para continuar a avan\u00e7ar, mas se parar agora, qual foi o objetivo de continuar a lutar at\u00e9 agora?<\/p>\r\n<p>What has been the point of surviving everything you\u2019ve been through as a united front up until this point?<\/p>\r\n<p>Por <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/13-things-to-remember-if-you-feel-like-giving-up-on-love\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">desist\u00eancia<\/span><\/a> on him now, you\u2019re throwing out the window everything you\u2019ve sacrificed so far. You\u2019re saying that it was all for nothing. Ask yourself one thing: Was it really?<\/p>\r\n<p>I know you don\u2019t believe it was.<\/p>\r\n<p>You\u2019re just tired and scared. You don\u2019t think you can survive any more heartbreak and pain, so the easiest thing would be to just give up and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/chafurdar-na-auto-comiseracao\/\">chafurdar na auto-piedade.<\/a><\/p>\r\n<p>Mas se esta pessoa \u00e9 realmente a pe\u00e7a do puzzle que falta, devem um ao outro continuar.<\/p>\r\n<p>Find the reason to push through all the crap. Because at the end of the day, if he\u2019s not worth it, nobody is. And that should motivate you to love him now harder than ever before.<\/p>\r\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The timing right now might suck but that\u2019s the awesome thing about time<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">it\u2019s going to pass!<\/span><\/i><\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-37796 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_102827263a-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Com a pessoa certa, qualquer momento \u00e9 um bom momento\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_102827263a-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_102827263a-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_102827263a.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>This feeling of dread will vanish and once you\u2019re finally in the clear (which you will be), you\u2019ll see that real love is stronger than any amount of obstacles that may come your way.<\/p>\r\n<p>And you\u2019ll see that with the right person, there\u2019s no such thing as bad timing. Just a rough patch\u2014with an expiration date!<\/p>\r\n<p>I\u2019m not trying to say it\u2019s that easy. I know it\u2019s not. We\u2019ve all been through enough crap to know better than to hope for a fairy tale love story.<\/p>\r\n<p>It\u2019s going to feel really crappy for a while before things start taking a turn for the better.<\/p>\r\n<p>But the whole point is that it\u2019s not forever. Whatever shit you\u2019re going through, if it\u2019s with the one you love more than life itself, eventually it\u2019s going to be worth it.<\/p>\r\n<p>Some people are worth never giving up on. And it this person means that much to you, you\u2019re not going to throw in the towel. You\u2019re going to stay in the ring.<\/p>\r\n<p>Yeah, you may end up bloodied, bruised and kicked all over\u2026 but it\u2019s only a matter of time before you\u2019ve healed and ready for another round. This time stronger, smarter and more endurant.<\/p>\r\n<p>That\u2019s just life for you. You need to be ready to take a few blows every now and again if you want to survive with your head and your heart both in one piece.<\/p>\r\n<p><em>This is the only life you\u2019re getting. Don\u2019t waste it by making excuses and giving up on the best thing that\u2019s ever happened to you because you\u2019re too weak to keep going.<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p>Put your fighting gloves on, keep your head in the ring and never lose focus. Fight your fights and don\u2019t let an occasional defeat bring you down.<\/p>\r\n<p>Pode perder uma ou duas batalhas, mas se isso significa manter <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/se-o-seu-homem-faz-estas-10-coisas-ele-e-um-verdadeiro-cavalheiro\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">o seu homem<\/span><\/a>, I\u2019d say that\u2019s a win!<\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-37794 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/15-Dinner-Ideas-for-You-and-Your-Dad-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Com a pessoa certa, qualquer momento \u00e9 um bom momento\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/15-Dinner-Ideas-for-You-and-Your-Dad-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/15-Dinner-Ideas-for-You-and-Your-Dad-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/15-Dinner-Ideas-for-You-and-Your-Dad.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":37795,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-37793","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_316372019.jpg",800,541,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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