{"id":37798,"date":"2019-05-31T13:37:27","date_gmt":"2019-05-31T13:37:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37798"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:36:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:36:40","slug":"4-coisas-que-acontecem-quando-se-passa-de-um-traidor-para-um-homem-fiel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/4-coisas-que-acontecem-quando-se-passa-de-um-traidor-para-um-homem-fiel\/","title":{"rendered":"4 coisas que acontecem quando se passa de um traidor para um homem fiel"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you break things off with a cheater, you feel like you\u2019ve atingiu o seu ponto de rutura<\/span><\/a>. Perdes toda a esperan\u00e7a de um amanh\u00e3 melhor e esperas que todos os homens do teu futuro te tratem da mesma forma que este idiota.<\/p>\n

Then, all of a sudden, you meet someone worthy of your love and attention. You meet a mature man who is faithful and loyal and who acts as if he\u2019d never do anything to hurt you.<\/p>\n

Quando isso acontece, toda a sua vis\u00e3o do mundo se torna diferente. Pela primeira vez, come\u00e7a a ver-se a si pr\u00f3prio e a tudo o que o rodeia de forma mais clara e passa por in\u00fameras mudan\u00e7as. Aqui est\u00e3o as 4 mais importantes.<\/p>\n

1. Ainda tens problemas de confian\u00e7a<\/h2>\n

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I have to disappoint you\u2014not everything goes smoothly the moment you find a loyal man because sadly, you still have a lot of past traumas to get over. These issues you\u2019re still carrying around as a heavy burden don\u2019t go away as easily and unfortunately, they impact your new relationship.<\/p>\n

First and foremost, you can\u2019t believe that you\u2019ve found someone so different from your ex. You\u2019re wondering if this new guy has some kind of secret agenda and if he plans on screwing you over the same way your ex did. You can\u2019t believe that you\u2019ve found someone this nice and you\u2019re worried that this guy is too good to be true.<\/p>\n

2. Percebem o qu\u00e3o t\u00f3xica era a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

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Let\u2019s be honest here\u2014throughout your entire relationship, deep down, you always knew that things shouldn\u2019t be like that. You knew that you shouldn\u2019t keep on forgiving that infidelity and mistreatment but you kept on doing so anyhow.<\/p>\n

Simultaneously, you also lied to yourself. You kept convincing yourself and everyone else that your relationship wasn\u2019t that bad after all and you kept on ignoring your strong intuition, despite knowing the truth.<\/p>\n

However, now, things have changed. Now that you have something to compare it with, you see how awful and toxic your past relationship actually was. For the first time ever, you realistically see all of its horrors and the pain you\u2019ve been through.<\/p>\n

Finally, you see what a healthy and normal partnership should look like and you understand that this wasn\u2019t anything similar to what you had. Of course, all of this negative experience from the past taught you to be even more grateful for this homem leal<\/span><\/a> que tens ao teu lado.<\/p>\n

3. Percebe o que merece<\/h2>\n

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For years, your ex was putting all the blame on you. He kept diminishing your value and manipulating you to think that you weren\u2019t worthy of love and that you deserved everything that had been going on.<\/p>\n

After a while, you started believing him. He managed to persuade you that you really weren\u2019t destined to be loved and that he was the best you\u2019d ever get.<\/p>\n

No entanto, agora v\u00ea que nada disso \u00e9 verdade. Agora v\u00ea que, durante todo este tempo, estava a contentar-se com menos e que merece muito mais do que aquilo que estava a receber. V\u00ea que, afinal, o amor foi feito para si e que pode ser amado mais do que alguma vez foi.<\/p>\n

4. Recupera a sua confian\u00e7a<\/h2>\n

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Ser enganado destroys everyone\u2019s confidence<\/span><\/a>. You wonder why you weren\u2019t enough for the man you loved so much that he had to find someone else. What was he missing in your relationship, that he had to look for outside of it?<\/p>\n

As coisas pioram ainda mais quando o traidor se recusa a assumir a responsabilidade e quando faz tudo o que est\u00e1 ao seu alcance para a convencer de que n\u00e3o serve para nada e que foi a causa de tudo o que aconteceu. Consequentemente, as suas inseguran\u00e7as aumentam e a sua autoimagem fica completamente destru\u00edda.<\/p>\n

Bem, felizmente para si, tudo isto muda quando deixa este traidor e muda para um homem verdadeiro, maduro e leal. Este homem v\u00ea o teu valor e faz-te pensar mais em ti pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n

He appreciates and respects you, which inspires you to regain your self-respect as well. This man\u2019s love makes you look at yourself through different eyes and it makes you love yourself more. And that is the whole point, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

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