{"id":37888,"date":"2019-06-03T07:17:16","date_gmt":"2019-06-03T07:17:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37888"},"modified":"2022-01-28T11:57:53","modified_gmt":"2022-01-28T11:57:53","slug":"10-perguntas-que-estamos-secretamente-mortas-por-fazer-aos-homens","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-perguntas-que-estamos-secretamente-mortas-por-fazer-aos-homens\/","title":{"rendered":"10 perguntas que estamos secretamente mortas por fazer aos homens"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Viver nos tempos modernos significa ter m\u00faltiplas op\u00e7\u00f5es de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o, mas tamb\u00e9m significa a morte de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/maybe-im-wrong-but-all-i-want-is-that-vintage-kind-of-love\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">aquele tipo de amor vintage<\/span><\/a> e rela\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\r\n<p>Apesar de n\u00f3s, mulheres (tal como os homens), termos a liberdade de fazer o que quisermos, ainda h\u00e1 algumas perguntas que nunca fazemos aos homens, porque temos medo de parecer demasiado s\u00e9rias ou de ter medo das poss\u00edveis respostas.<\/p>\r\n<p>Whatever it be, it is never a good idea to hush your inner voice whispering to you to ask certain questions; they might be of crucial importance for your relationship! So, here\u2019s a list of questions to remind yourself to ask him because you definitely should!<\/p>\r\n<h2>1. \u201cWhat are we?\u201d<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-37891 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-1-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"10 perguntas que estamos secretamente mortas por fazer aos homens\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-1-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-1.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>When you just start dating a guy, it is normal to start questioning in which direction the whole thing is heading. But, most of the times, women are afraid to ask this because they don\u2019t want to appear too pushy and scare the guy away by doing it.<\/p>\r\n<p>If you\u2019re not sure about what you two really are, you should definitely ask him because there\u2019s no point to living in a delusion when one question can resolve all the doubts you might have.<\/p>\r\n<h2>2. \u201cHow many people have you slept with?\u201d<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-37892 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-2-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"10 perguntas que estamos secretamente mortas por fazer aos homens\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-2-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-2-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-2.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>Muitas mulheres acham esta pergunta muito inc\u00f3moda e, de facto, \u00e9 inc\u00f3moda, mas \u00e9 necess\u00e1ria. Ao perguntar-lhe com quantas pessoas \u00e9 que ele j\u00e1 dormiu, ficar\u00e1 a conhecer o seu n\u00edvel de experi\u00eancia com as mulheres e tamb\u00e9m o tipo de pessoa que ele \u00e9. Tamb\u00e9m pode perguntar-lhe com quantas pessoas j\u00e1 fez amor para ver a rea\u00e7\u00e3o e os pensamentos dele sobre esta quest\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n<h2>3. \u201cWhat do you think about our relationship being public on social media?\u201d<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-37893 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-3-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"10 perguntas que estamos secretamente mortas por fazer aos homens\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-3-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-3-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-3.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>You don\u2019t want to add thousands of pictures of him and you on your social media only to realize that he doesn\u2019t want the relationship to be public. So, asking him what he thinks about the relationship being public on social media is of utmost importance if you want to see if he\u2019s into <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/antes-de-entrar-numa-relacao-sem-laboratorio-saiba-estas-5-coisas\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">romance med\u00edocre e casual<\/span><\/a> ou algo mais s\u00e9rio.<\/p>\r\n<p>If he says that he\u2019s okay with it, it means he wants other people to know that you\u2019re his and that he\u2019s yours. But, if he\u2019s not really okay with it, then it means he either needs more time or he\u2019s actually interested in having an open relationship.<\/p>\r\n<h2>4. \u201cWhere do you see us as a couple in the future?\u201d<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-37894 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-4-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"10 perguntas que estamos secretamente mortas por fazer aos homens\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-4-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-4-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-4.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>Talking about the future on a first date is a big no-no, but you should definitely mention it later on to see his opinion regarding you as a couple. If he says that he doesn\u2019t have any thoughts on this one, then it means he can\u2019t yet see his future with you at the moment. But, if he\u2019s already planned everything, then you can be sure that it\u2019s the real deal.<\/p>\r\n<h2>5. \u201cHave you ever had any substance abuse problems?\u201d<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-37895 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-5-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"10 perguntas que estamos secretamente mortas por fazer aos homens\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-5-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-5-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-5.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>\u00c9 realmente dif\u00edcil decifrar se uma pessoa j\u00e1 teve algum tipo de problema de abuso de subst\u00e2ncias e tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 muito estranho perguntar-lhe. Mas, para o seu bem-estar e o da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, deve perguntar-lhe sobre isso. As pessoas com um historial de problemas de toxicodepend\u00eancia t\u00eam maiores probabilidades de voltar a ter esses problemas e \u00e9 por isso que \u00e9 importante conhecer todos os pormenores.<\/p>\r\n<h2>6. \u201cHave you ever committed a crime or been arrested?\u201d<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-37896 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-6-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"10 perguntas que estamos secretamente mortas por fazer aos homens\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-6-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-6-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-6.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>If you\u2019re going to be with someone in a relationship, it means you\u2019ll spend lots of time with them. That is why it is important to be informed whether they have ever committed a crime or been arrested. The last thing you want is to inadvertently become his accomplice or be seen in a negative light because of his deeds. Also, this might negatively influence the quality of your relationship.<\/p>\r\n<h2>7. \u201cAre you in debt?\u201d<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-37897 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-7-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"10 perguntas que estamos secretamente mortas por fazer aos homens\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-7-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-7-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-7.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>Being in debt after finishing college is one thing, but being in debt to the extent that you can\u2019t see a way out of it is quite another. If your guy is in huge debt, it means he has a serious financial problem, which can affect your relationship negatively in future.<\/p>\r\n<h2>8. \u201cWhat are your secret fantasies (in the bedroom)?\u201d<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-37898 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-8-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"10 perguntas que estamos secretamente mortas por fazer aos homens\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-8-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-8-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-8.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>Being intimate with someone includes reciprocity and you won\u2019t be able to reciprocate in full until you\u2019ve learned what your partner prefers in bed, their <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/mamas-ou-rabo-a-verdade-sobre-as-obsessoes-e-fantasias-masculinas\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fantasias secretas<\/span><\/a>e afins. \u00c9 por isso que \u00e9 importante ter uma conversa com ele sobre o assunto. Desta forma, aumentar\u00e1 as suas hip\u00f3teses de fazer amor de forma fant\u00e1stica e aprender\u00e1 muito sobre ele durante o processo.<\/p>\r\n<h2>9. \u201cDo you have a lot of female friends?\u201d<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-37899 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-9-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"10 perguntas que estamos secretamente mortas por fazer aos homens\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-9-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-9-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-9.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>Perguntar-lhe sobre as amigas dele n\u00e3o \u00e9 um sinal de ci\u00fames, mas saltar para cada mensagem com um nome feminino \u00e9 definitivamente. Por isso, \u00e9 sempre sensato perguntar-lhe sobre as suas poss\u00edveis amigas para saber como reagir no futuro quando vir mensagens a aparecer no telem\u00f3vel dele.<\/p>\r\n<h2>10. \u201cWhat\u2019s your phone password?\u201d<\/h2>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-37900 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-10-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"10 perguntas que estamos secretamente mortas por fazer aos homens\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-10-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-10-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-10.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>If he asked you for your phone password, and you think it\u2019s rude to ask him for his, then think again. You shouldn\u2019t feel embarrassed to ask for his phone password, especially if you feel like you can&#8217;t trust him one hundred percent.<\/p>\r\n<p>And if he becomes hesitant to give it to you, then you will know he\u2019s probably <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/if-he-does-these-6-things-hes-a-toxic-manipulator\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">escondendo algo de si<\/span><\/a>que o ajudar\u00e1 a determinar o fluxo da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-37889 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"10 perguntas que estamos secretamente mortas por fazer aos homens\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/10-Questions-We-Are-Secretly-Dying-To-Ask-Men.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":37890,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29649],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-37888","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-girl-talk"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29649,"label":"girl talk"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Webp.net-resizeimage.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29649,"name":"girl talk","slug":"girl-talk","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29649,"taxonomy":"category","description":"This place is reserved for all the spicy insights about the steamy details between the sheets, male fantasies and ways to make him crazy about you.","parent":29643,"count":180,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29649,"category_count":180,"category_description":"This place is reserved for all the spicy insights about the steamy details between the sheets, male fantasies and ways to make him crazy about you.","cat_name":"girl talk","category_nicename":"girl-talk","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37888","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=37888"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37888\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/37890"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=37888"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=37888"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=37888"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}