{"id":3795,"date":"2017-08-24T07:38:15","date_gmt":"2017-08-24T07:38:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3795"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:51:24","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:51:24","slug":"se-um-gajo-te-fizer-estas-5-coisas-ele-e-um-jogador","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-um-gajo-te-fizer-estas-5-coisas-ele-e-um-jogador\/","title":{"rendered":"Se um homem te faz estas 5 coisas, ele \u00e9 um jogador"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todos n\u00f3s j\u00e1 estivemos nesta situa\u00e7\u00e3o. Todos n\u00f3s j\u00e1 namor\u00e1mos o o maior idiota.<\/em><\/strong> Todos n\u00f3s j\u00e1 tivemos pelo menos um tipo que nos enganou como se n\u00e3o pass\u00e1ssemos de parvos.<\/p>\n

Actually, you were involved in a game and you rocked it\u2014but the thing is\u2014you didn\u2019t even know you were playing.<\/p>\n

You are still not sure whether you are playing or not?! Tell me if this scenario rings any bells\u2014everything is peachy and everything is going perfectly ok. But, somewhere deep inside you, something is hiding and bothering you. It\u2019s a feeling that something may be a bit off.<\/p>\n

So, as every normal girl, you will ask your partner if your doubts are true or if you\u2019ve lost it completely. And guess what? You\u2019ve lost it! Of course, everything is perfect\u2014your super sweet guy a.k.a. the ultimate douchebag assures you things have never been better!<\/p>\n

E tu est\u00e1s ainda pior por acreditares nele e n\u00e3o nos teus instintos.<\/p>\n

OS TEUS INSTINTOS NUNCA EST\u00c3O ERRADOS!!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Maybe, but just maybe, he is right and you are completely overreacting, but then again compare that with your instincts. I would always go for the instincts rather than anything else\u2014so should you.<\/p>\n

Take a look at the list of things that will confirm the thing you already doubted\u2014he\u2019s totally playing you.<\/p>\n

1. Ele esconde o telem\u00f3vel<\/span><\/h2>\n

https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/reaction-9UZZmHtF1b2TURLlab<\/p>\n

His phone is a legend of a long lost treasure buried somewhere in the ancient and unknown location\u2014no one has ever seen it but there are stories it exists. That\u2019s exactly your experience with his phone.<\/p>\n

These men are master manipulators. They will hide their phones and actually, they won\u2019t let you even find yourself in a situation where you can use some kind of an excuse to see their phones. They are that good.<\/p>\n

2. Ele s\u00f3 te telefona quando precisa de ti<\/span><\/h2>\n

Uma booty call soa-te familiar??? Bem, deve soar se estiveres a sair com um verdadeiro playa. Ele s\u00f3 te vai enviar mensagens e ligar quando ele quer algo de si<\/a>\u2014and that something is of course sex.<\/p>\n

And one more thing. He only communicates with you as the night approaches. When he\u2019s done with his activities, when he was already out with his friends or a girl that left him hanging, so he called you\u2014the backup girl. Seriously, don\u2019t let him do this to you!<\/p>\n

3. Os amigos dele n\u00e3o t\u00eam qualquer interesse em ti<\/span><\/h2>\n

https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/reaction-2mDnRIayXeHfLqERuY<\/p>\n

And this one is completely obvious. They are probably used to meeting \u2018one-time\u2019 girls who aren\u2019t meant to be around for long. So, they do not even bother to get to know them.<\/p>\n

Even if you came to the phase you meet his friends, you will spend a night out together, but you won\u2019t be able to shake off the feeling they weren\u2019t trying at all to make you feel comfortable. Maybe you think they are just rude and inconsiderate, but it\u2019s not that\u2014it\u2019s just that they see you as one of the \u2018many yet to come\u2019.<\/p>\n

4. Sem PDA<\/span><\/h2>\n

https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/mlb-nlds-2018-dhjS0aDPwUojdyfoYW<\/p>\n

They will hide you and believe me, they are good at it. They will refuse any sort of PDA because that is the official acknowledgment of the two of you being together. They won\u2019t risk the possibility of scoring with a new chick. If they leave the impression they are unavailable, that\u2019s impossible.<\/p>\n

No entanto, por vezes, deixam-no beijar ou dar as m\u00e3os, mas n\u00e3o antes de se certificarem de que ningu\u00e9m o est\u00e1 a observar. Por isso, muito cuidado!<\/p>\n

5. Os seus instintos dizem-lhe que algo est\u00e1 errado<\/span><\/h2>\n

https:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/foxhomeent-fox-20th-century-xUA7bilj5YByXZkqnS<\/p>\n

Este \u00e9 o \u00faltimo e mais importante aspeto. Ele pode contar-lhe todo o tipo de hist\u00f3rias, mas se tiver a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de que algo n\u00e3o est\u00e1 bem, \u00e9 porque provavelmente est\u00e1.<\/p>\n

O objetivo de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, entre muitos outros, \u00e9 ter um sentimento de seguran\u00e7a e amor. N\u00e3o est\u00e1 a conseguir isso, o que significa que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o est\u00e1 a funcionar.<\/p>\n

Also, you have the feeling that he doesn\u2019t care about you at all. You have the feeling that things are always about him. He only talks when it\u2019s about him. When you talk, he couldn\u2019t care less.<\/p>\n

Tu sabes tudo sobre ele e ele \u00e9 completamente ignorante quando se trata de ti.<\/p>\n

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We have all been in this situation. We have all dated the ultimate douchebag. We have all had at least one guy who played us like we were nothing but fools. Actually, you were involved in a game and you rocked it\u2014but the thing is\u2014you didn\u2019t even know you were playing. You are still not…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":3796,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3795","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/alex-iby-286943.jpg",800,539,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3795","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3795"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3795\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3796"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3795"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3795"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3795"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}