{"id":37959,"date":"2019-06-07T06:48:03","date_gmt":"2019-06-07T06:48:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37959"},"modified":"2022-08-16T07:46:35","modified_gmt":"2022-08-16T07:46:35","slug":"uma-rapariga-solteira-para-sempre-nao-e-facil-de-amar-mas-vale-a-pena","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-rapariga-solteira-para-sempre-nao-e-facil-de-amar-mas-vale-a-pena\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma rapariga 'Forever Single' n\u00e3o \u00e9 f\u00e1cil de amar, mas vale a pena"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ela n\u00e3o est\u00e1 habituada a ter algu\u00e9m por perto. N\u00e3o est\u00e1 habituada a gestos rom\u00e2nticos e a abra\u00e7os calorosos \u00e0 noite.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She\u2019s a rapariga que est\u00e1 habituada a estar sozinha<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

So, don\u2019t force her to change. Don\u2019t force her to accept your love because ela precisa de tempo.<\/a> Tempo e paci\u00eancia.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t get upset if she doesn\u2019t text you back or if she refuses to hug you when you\u2019re asking for it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t let it hurt your feelings. She will be like that\u2014quiet and distant on some days and loving on others.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She wants to commit to you and trust you, but she can\u2019t. <\/strong>A culpa n\u00e3o \u00e9 dela.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ela quer mesmo deixar-se levar por esse sentimento bonito que o amor provoca, mas h\u00e1 sempre algo no fundo da sua mente que a incomoda.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

H\u00e1 sempre aquela pequena semente de d\u00favida que ela n\u00e3o consegue deitar fora. E se a abandonares?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

E se te fores embora sem explicar porqu\u00ea? E se ela ficar com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido mais uma vez?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She can\u2019t do it anymore. She can\u2019t keep patching up her broken pieces. She cannot stitch her heart back once again. There is no place to stick the needle in anymore\u2014only scars are left. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ela conhece o sentimento de abandono. Ela sabe o que \u00e9 ser deixada sozinha, ser deixada sem uma explica\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She knows what it feels like to try to find closure in a place where you can\u2019t have any.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She knows what it feels like to deal with it and move on. She has done it already, but she doesn\u2019t want to do it again.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ela s\u00f3 tem f\u00e9 em si pr\u00f3pria.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ela tem um sistema de defesa. Ela tem paredes grossas constru\u00eddas t\u00e3o alto que nada pode passar por elas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

S\u00f3 podes passar se ela te deixar entrar. E ela deix\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 entrar se o merecer.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

After being on her own, isn\u2019t it logical that she would learn to live like that? Isn\u2019t it obvious she would try to get the best out of it?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And now that you are here, you\u2019ve messed up her plans. She prepared herself to live like that. She made her life easy to live.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Agora, ela tem de mudar tudo isso. Agora, ela tem de o incluir e come\u00e7ar a planear a sua vida desde o in\u00edcio. Deixe-a fazer isso passo a passo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Por isso, sempre que ela passar por si sem mostrar que se importa, deixe-a. Sempre que ela o afastar para evitar o contacto f\u00edsico consigo, deixe-a.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She will know better\u2014soon. Let her find her way. She\u2019s scared. <\/strong>She has no idea what is happening to her, but to you, she looks like she doesn\u2019t care.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She looks cold and uninterested. But, I\u2019m telling you, she\u2019s not. She\u2019s used to being on her own\u2014she has been single forever.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\"Uma<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ela \u00e9 a dona da sua vida. Nunca pediu ajuda a ningu\u00e9m porque nunca precisou.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When she needed something from the top shelf, she\u2019d take a chair and reach up to grab it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Now, she has you to call when she needs help, but she still doesn\u2019t get that.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ouve, ela j\u00e1 fez as pazes com ela pr\u00f3pria sobre encontrar o amor verdadeiro. Ela apercebeu-se que isso \u00e9 imposs\u00edvel e lidou com isso.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She has crossed that item off her life list\u2014it\u2019s gone. All of a sudden, you show up in her life, bringing back something she never thought was possible.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You show up, and you\u2019ve brought love back from the dead.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She has no idea what to do with that love. Can\u2019t you understand? She is not that scared of you leaving her. She has gotten used to that.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She has been through that so she knows the drill. But what happens if you stay? What happens if that reborn love turns out to be \u2018it\u2019?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She\u2019s scared as hell of that love because she has no idea what to do with it nor where it will take her.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Do you know how she went all in when she decided she\u2019ll be forever single? I promise you, she\u2019ll go all in when she decides to be yours forever.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You aren\u2019t even aware of how much her love will mean to you. You have no idea how hard she\u2019s going to love.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Basta esperar um pouco mais e ser um pouco mais paciente.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ela vai adorar tudo o que fizeres. Ela vai adorar cada segundo passado consigo. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ela vai adorar como a beijas antes de ires para o trabalho e como a beijas antes de ela adormecer. Ela vai amar-vos a todos, todos os minutos de todos os dias.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She will open her heart and let you in. She\u2019ll do something she was the most afraid of\u2014she\u2019ll fall in love once again.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t abuse that. Don\u2019t take advantage of someone like her. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\"Uma<\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

She\u2019s not used to having someone around. She\u2019s not used to romantic gestures and warm hugs in the evening. She\u2019s a girl who is used to being on her own. So, don\u2019t force her to change. Don\u2019t force her to accept your love because she needs time. Time and patience. Don\u2019t get upset if she…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":37961,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-37959","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/allef-vinicius-398692-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","parent":29643,"count":114,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29645,"category_count":114,"category_description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","cat_name":"being single","category_nicename":"being-single","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37959","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=37959"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37959\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/37961"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=37959"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=37959"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=37959"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}