{"id":38173,"date":"2024-10-23T16:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-10-23T16:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38173"},"modified":"2025-06-26T10:26:38","modified_gmt":"2025-06-26T08:26:38","slug":"7-coisas-que-devem-acontecer-antes-de-te-comprometeres-com-um-homem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-coisas-que-devem-acontecer-antes-de-te-comprometeres-com-um-homem\/","title":{"rendered":"7 coisas que devem acontecer antes de te comprometeres com um homem"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando gostamos de algu\u00e9m, o nosso c\u00e9rebro p\u00e1ra automaticamente o bot\u00e3o da raz\u00e3o e tudo o que conseguimos ver e pensar \u00e9 em passar o m\u00e1ximo de tempo poss\u00edvel com essa pessoa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can\u2019t wait to officially become a couple and nourish your commitment, but is it really wise to enter a relationship just yet?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You see, there are some things that should happen before you commit to a guy, and if you don\u2019t pay attention to them, you might be at risk of entering a relationship that is doomed to fail from the start.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes your brain simply can\u2019t see things clearly because you\u2019re head over heels for that guy, and that is why you should stop for a moment and think about the following 7 things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If the majority of them haven\u2019t happened yet, you should definitely think twice about your current dating situation and your decision to commit to him!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Conhecer os amigos<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/friends-having-lunch-together.jpg\" alt=\"amigos a almo\u00e7ar juntos\" class=\"wp-image-84576\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/friends-having-lunch-together.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/friends-having-lunch-together-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/friends-having-lunch-together-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Ele conheceu os teus amigos e tu conheceste os dele?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Before committing to a guy, you should always make sure that you\u2019ve introduced him to your friends, and more importantly, that you\u2019ve met his friends as well. Why?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because if he\u2019s unwilling to introduce you to his friends, this could be a huge red flag because there is probably some (shitty) reason behind it, and you definitely don\u2019t want to commit to such a person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re going to be his girlfriend, you want to make sure that he will treat you like one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Ser \u00edntimo<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/happy-couple-cuddling-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"casal feliz a abra\u00e7ar-se na cama\" class=\"wp-image-84577\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/happy-couple-cuddling-in-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/happy-couple-cuddling-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/happy-couple-cuddling-in-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Some people don\u2019t really like the idea of sleeping with their partner while dating because they prefer doing it while they are in a serious, committed relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But, if you don\u2019t do it in time, how will you know that you\u2019re compatible with him and that there is true chemistry between the two of you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It is always wise to \u2018do the deed\u2019 before you enter a relationship (of course, if you\u2019re feeling comfortable with that) because once you\u2019re too deep (in a committed relationship), it is really fucked up to realize that there\u2019s not a single trace of chemistry and passion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s better to know it in time so that you can react accordingly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Comunicar abertamente<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/happy-couple-talking-2.jpg\" alt=\"casal feliz a conversar\" class=\"wp-image-84578\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/happy-couple-talking-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/happy-couple-talking-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/happy-couple-talking-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Sabe o que se diz: Comunica\u00e7\u00e3o aberta \u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/here-is-the-key-to-a-successful-relationship\/\">a chave para qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o bem sucedida<\/a>!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>J\u00e1 alguma vez teve uma conversa significativa com o seu homem e j\u00e1 falou abertamente sobre coisas diferentes da vida que realmente importam?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re not able to communicate openly, there will be no healthy base to your future relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Quanto mais tempo passarem juntos, mais conflitos surgir\u00e3o e \u00e9 extremamente importante que saibam resolv\u00ea-los de forma saud\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c9 importante certificar-se de que pode sempre dizer ao seu parceiro o que realmente quer dizer, sem que ele se sinta insultado t\u00e3o facilmente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Comprometer-se e ser aberto um com o outro \u00e9 a melhor receita para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o feliz!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Pense porque \u00e9 que quer comprometer-se<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/woman-drinking-coffee-and-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a beber caf\u00e9 e a olhar para longe\" class=\"wp-image-84579\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/woman-drinking-coffee-and-looking-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/woman-drinking-coffee-and-looking-at-distance-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/woman-drinking-coffee-and-looking-at-distance-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p>Antes de se comprometer com um homem, \u00e9 aconselh\u00e1vel pensar primeiro na raz\u00e3o pela qual se quer comprometer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you want to do it because you can\u2019t get over your ex or because others are forcing you to meet someone and abandon your label of being \u2018single forever\u2019?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ou quer comprometer-se porque est\u00e1 genuinamente feliz com ele e isso parece-lhe uma coisa natural?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Quando souber a resposta a essa pergunta, saber\u00e1 se deve realmente iniciar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o com ele ou se deve esperar algum tempo para processar os seus sentimentos e d\u00favidas. (E vai agradecer-se mais tarde por ter decidido n\u00e3o se precipitar).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. Certifica-te de que confias nele<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/couple-standing-in-hug.jpg\" alt=\"casal abra\u00e7ado\" class=\"wp-image-84580\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/couple-standing-in-hug.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/couple-standing-in-hug-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/couple-standing-in-hug-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Se n\u00e3o houver confian\u00e7a numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, n\u00e3o haver\u00e1 respeito nem harmonia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You should never enter into a relationship if you feel like you don\u2019t trust him one hundred percent because if you don\u2019t, it means there are some things that he should work on in order to win your trust in full.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Especially if you know that he wears the label of being a cheater in past relationships, you shouldn\u2019t think twice about taking some time before you <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-sinais-claros-de-que-nao-podes-confiar-nele\/\">come\u00e7ar a confiar nele<\/a> com todo o vosso corpo e alma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Quer ter a certeza de que n\u00e3o vai ter de pensar demasiado em tudo e discutir por coisas est\u00fapidas s\u00f3 porque suspeita das palavras e ac\u00e7\u00f5es dele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. Discutir a batota<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/young-couple-talking-and-drinking-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"jovem casal a conversar e a beber caf\u00e9\" class=\"wp-image-84581\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/young-couple-talking-and-drinking-coffee.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/young-couple-talking-and-drinking-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/young-couple-talking-and-drinking-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Deve estar a perguntar-se por que raz\u00e3o h\u00e1 que discutir a trai\u00e7\u00e3o, uma vez que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada para discutir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Batota \u00e9 batota, e a defini\u00e7\u00e3o de batota continuar\u00e1 a ser a mesma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mas, e se eu lhe disser que nem todas as pessoas t\u00eam a mesma perce\u00e7\u00e3o da trai\u00e7\u00e3o que n\u00f3s?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Para algumas pessoas, dar um beijo a algu\u00e9m n\u00e3o \u00e9 considerado trai\u00e7\u00e3o, enquanto para outras, o simples envio de mensagens de texto a estranhos \u00e9 um ato de trai\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In order to skip these misunderstandings, it is wise to establish the \u2018cheating boundaries\u2019.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Once you do it, you will not have to fear that he will fuck up things that easily (unless he\u2019s really determined to do so).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">7. Certificar-se de que o tornam uma pessoa melhor<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/man-hugging-smiling-woman-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"homem a abra\u00e7ar mulher sorridente ao ar livre\" class=\"wp-image-84582\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/man-hugging-smiling-woman-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/man-hugging-smiling-woman-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/man-hugging-smiling-woman-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Sentes-te genuinamente feliz quando est\u00e1s com ele e ele faz-te querer ser uma pessoa melhor?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As rela\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00eam tudo a ver com o facto de estarmos presentes uns para os outros e de nos inspirarmos mutuamente a alcan\u00e7ar coisas e a tornarmo-nos as melhores vers\u00f5es de n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If he\u2019s not capable of making you a better person, you should think twice before committing to him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You don\u2019t want to waste your time on someone who will be a bad influence on you and who will not be willing to work on himself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That is why you should first make sure that he\u2019s making an effort to work on himself and inspires you to do the same!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/8-microesforcos-que-ele-deve-colocar-na-vossa-relacao-se-for-ele-o-tal\/\">8 Micro-esfor\u00e7os que ele deve colocar no seu relacionamento se ele for o \u00fanico<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/7-Things-That-Should-Happen-Before-You-Commit-To-A-Guy-pinterest-2.jpg\" alt=\"7 coisas que devem acontecer antes de te comprometeres com um homem\" class=\"wp-image-84575\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/7-Things-That-Should-Happen-Before-You-Commit-To-A-Guy-pinterest-2.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/7-Things-That-Should-Happen-Before-You-Commit-To-A-Guy-pinterest-2-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/7-Things-That-Should-Happen-Before-You-Commit-To-A-Guy-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"7 coisas que devem acontecer antes de te comprometeres com um homem\" class=\"wp-image-84574\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/7-Things-That-Should-Happen-Before-You-Commit-To-A-Guy-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/7-Things-That-Should-Happen-Before-You-Commit-To-A-Guy-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When we like someone, our brain automatically pauses the reason button, and all we can see and think about is spending as much time with them as possible. You can\u2019t wait to officially become a couple and nourish your commitment, but is it really wise to enter a relationship just yet? 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