{"id":38243,"date":"2019-06-12T12:53:29","date_gmt":"2019-06-12T12:53:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38243"},"modified":"2022-01-18T01:11:10","modified_gmt":"2022-01-18T01:11:10","slug":"porque-nao-se-pode-planear-tudo-numa-parceria","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/porque-nao-se-pode-planear-tudo-numa-parceria\/","title":{"rendered":"Porque \u00e9 que n\u00e3o se pode planear tudo numa parceria"},"content":{"rendered":"

We\u2019re told at a very young age we\u2019re supposed to meet and fall in love with our soulmate, marry, live in a home with a white picket fence and have at least two kids and a dog. Fairy tales in books and in the movies paint a picture of a life happily ever after where our dreams all come true.<\/p>\r\n

Because we\u2019re given such an idealized image of what our adulthood is supposed to look like, we think we have to follow a certain path in order for everything to perfectly play out.<\/p>\r\n

If we deviate from this path, things are likely to fall apart. So, we set out with a plan to find a fairy tale partnership and set the bar high. We\u2019re looking for that perfect Prince Charming to magically appear.<\/p>\r\n

Well, if you haven\u2019t noticed, life doesn\u2019t always go as planned. And, people aren\u2019t perfect.<\/p>\r\n

Por isso, embora possamos ter um entendimento idealizado de como deve ser o nosso \"felizes para sempre\", temos de ser adapt\u00e1veis e aceitar as complica\u00e7\u00f5es da vida real. E as nossas expectativas t\u00eam de estar de acordo com isso.<\/p>\r\n

When you meet someone you connect with on a level that you haven\u2019t before, your mind may automatically fast forward to your future together and you may start fantasizing about all of those things you were hoping to one day have.<\/p>\r\n

This is healthy and natural. It means you\u2019re excited about what\u2019s to come, and you want to start moving in that direction.<\/p>\r\n

Pode come\u00e7ar a folhear cat\u00e1logos de casamentos e a interessar-se mais por todos os beb\u00e9s que v\u00ea quando anda por a\u00ed. Pode at\u00e9 come\u00e7ar a ter algumas conversas mais s\u00e9rias com o seu futuro companheiro se achas que ele pode ser o tal<\/a>. If you\u2019re both looking forward to the next chapter, this can feel invigorating.<\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s okay to make some plans. You\u2019ll want to have enough forethought to ensure you and your partner are on the same page about the \u2018big stuff\u2019\u2014i.e., where you want to settle down, where you\u2019d like to take your career, whether or not you both want children.<\/p>\r\n

Estes s\u00e3o os coisas que podem realmente fazer ou desfazer uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>. They\u2019ll need to align (maybe with a little compromise) to build a solid future together.<\/p>\r\n

When you start to move into the next stages of the partnership, though, don\u2019t get hung up on the details. If you\u2019re both on board with the big stuff, you shouldn\u2019t let smaller obstacles completely derail your plans.<\/p>\r\n

Maybe your partner wants a two-bedroom starter home, and you\u2019re looking for a four-bedroom forever home. Maybe he wants to wait a while before expanding your family, and you can\u2019t wait to get started.<\/p>\r\n

Then, there are the quirks you\u2019ll begin to notice when you\u2019re really getting to know another person. Maybe he snores or leaves the toilet seat up. Maybe you eat everything on your plate one at a time and he shovels it all in. These are the things that the fairy tales leave out but they\u2019re a very real part of life. No one is perfect, and it\u2019s important to love the total package. When you do, as imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es podem ser sedutoras<\/a>tamb\u00e9m.<\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s also important to understand that there are certain things we simply can\u2019t predict or plan for. Life is largely unpredictable. If you lose your job or your spouse does, you may have to relocate. If you have a hard time having kids of your own, you may end up adopting.<\/p>\r\n

Os seus objectivos de hoje podem ser completamente diferentes daqui a cinco anos. Olhando para tr\u00e1s, era a mesma pessoa h\u00e1 cinco anos que \u00e9 hoje?<\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s important to always keep one goal in mind despite life\u2019s ups and downs\u2014hang onto your happiness. If you\u2019re lucky enough to find your soulmate, you two can be lifelong partners as long as you\u2019re both willing to ride the waves together. This will require some tough conversations from time to time. It\u2019s inevitable, but you\u2019ll make it through as long as you\u2019re both unwilling to give up.<\/p>\r\n

If you\u2019re on the same page about staying committed to each other and amarmo-nos incondicionalmente<\/a>, everything else will work itself out. Years later, you\u2019re likely to look back and smile at the memories, good and bad, because it\u2019s your story, and your happily ever after is everything you dreamed it could be.<\/p>\r\n

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