{"id":38337,"date":"2019-06-13T10:31:32","date_gmt":"2019-06-13T10:31:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38337"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:27:37","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:27:37","slug":"o-teu-amor-toxico-ensinou-a-a-ir-embora","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-teu-amor-toxico-ensinou-a-a-ir-embora\/","title":{"rendered":"O teu amor t\u00f3xico ensinou-a a ir embora"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sei que pensaram que esta rapariga n\u00e3o era capaz. Que n\u00e3o era suficientemente valente e corajosa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

That she\u2019d never have the guts to do the right thing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I know you were convinced that she\u2019d always love you more than she could love herself. That you\u2019d forever remain her priority, no matter what you did.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Let\u2019s face it\u2014you could bet your life on the fact that this girl would forever remain by your side. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

That she\u2019d never say her final goodbye, and that all of her threats of leaving you were empty.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To be honest, she kept warning you that one of these days, you\u2019d force her to stop caring about you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Que um dos vossos movimentos ser\u00e1 a \u00faltima gota e que vos mandar\u00e1 para o inferno.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, why do you act so surprised now when she\u2019s fulfilled her promises? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Why do you have trouble believing that this girl walked away on you and that she doesn\u2019t plan on coming back?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Sim, presumiu que podia t\u00ea-la quando quisesse e trat\u00e1-la como quisesse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That you could come crawling back into her life whenever you felt like it and that she\u2019d be right there where you left her, patiently waiting for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That she\u2019d never grow tired of all the second chances. That she\u2019d never have enough of empty excuses and false promises.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sei que pensaste que n\u00e3o podias fazer nada para fazer com que esta rapariga deixe de te amar<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Que podias continuar a partir o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o durante o tempo que quisesses e que nada a afastaria de ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I guess you were wrong because she did leave, didn\u2019t she?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ela foi-se embora e deixou-o a pensar no que aconteceu. O que \u00e9 que mudou nela? O que \u00e9 que lhe deu for\u00e7a para deixar o teu traseiro no passado?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Como \u00e9 que ela se atreveu a partir-te o cora\u00e7\u00e3o? Como \u00e9 que ela teve a dec\u00eancia de te dar a provar do teu pr\u00f3prio rem\u00e9dio?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quando \u00e9 que ela se tornou t\u00e3o cruel? Para onde foi a rapariga de bom cora\u00e7\u00e3o e clemente que tanto te amava?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bem, deixem-me dizer-vos o que aconteceu<\/strong>\u2014aconteceu. <\/strong>Mataste a rapariga que ela costumava ser quando lhe esmagaste o cora\u00e7\u00e3o mil vezes seguidas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You destroyed that girl when you damaged her beyond repair. And you\u2019re the one who created the strong woman she\u2019s become<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Foste tu que a ensinaste a cuidar apenas de si pr\u00f3pria.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The one who taught her never to put anyone\u2019s needs in front of her own and the one who showed her that the ones who love themselves the most go smoothly through life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Durante anos, mostrou-lhe que ela era uma tola por acreditar no amor incondicional e que era est\u00fapida por esperar que os outros fossem iguais a ela. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Que ela precisava de tomar conta de si pr\u00f3pria e pensar no seu pr\u00f3prio bem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You kept convincing her that all of her efforts to make you a better man were in vain. That people don\u2019t change and that she\u2019d never manage to save you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, after all those years, she finally gave up on you. No, don\u2019t be surprised because you are the one who made her do it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

After all, you\u2019re the one who kept teaching her the art of departures. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aquele que lhe mostrou como abandonar algu\u00e9m, sem nunca pensar nas consequ\u00eancias. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Como se afastar sem nunca olhar para tr\u00e1s e como deixar para tr\u00e1s toda a sua bagagem emocional.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mais importante ainda, ensinou-a a sair de uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o completamente ilesa. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Your toxic love taught her how to leave, and she\u2019ll be forever grateful for that.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por isso, acho que o aluno foi melhor do que o professor. Esta rapariga <\/strong>vencer-vos no vosso pr\u00f3prio jogo<\/strong><\/a>E isso \u00e9 algo pelo qual a deve felicitar.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Besides, at the end of the day, you\u2019re the one who lost much more. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The truth is you\u2019re the worst thing that ever happened to her, but at the same time, you brought her some good. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You helped her learn these valuable life lessons she\u2019ll never forget, and you helped her discover the inner strength she never suspected herself of having.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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I know you thought this girl didn\u2019t have it in her. That she wasn\u2019t brave and courageous enough. That she\u2019d never have the guts to do the right thing. I know you were convinced that she\u2019d always love you more than she could love herself. That you\u2019d forever remain her priority, no matter what you…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":38341,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-38337","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_703947307.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38337","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=38337"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38337\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/38341"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=38337"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=38337"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=38337"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}