{"id":38386,"date":"2020-06-14T07:11:50","date_gmt":"2020-06-14T07:11:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38386"},"modified":"2022-01-12T22:29:42","modified_gmt":"2022-01-12T22:29:42","slug":"se-nao-consegue-falar-com-ele-sobre-estas-5-coisas-a-sua-relacao-nao-tem-futuro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-nao-consegue-falar-com-ele-sobre-estas-5-coisas-a-sua-relacao-nao-tem-futuro\/","title":{"rendered":"Se n\u00e3o consegues falar com ele sobre estas 5 coisas, a tua rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o tem futuro"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Uma parceria saud\u00e1vel n\u00e3o pode existir sem uma boa <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-communication-skills-that-are-crucial-in-a-relationship\/\">compet\u00eancias de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> entre as pessoas envolvidas no processo.<\/p>\n<p>However, many couples don\u2019t know that and try building their relationships without discussing some important matters in time.<\/p>\n<p>The harsh truth is that if you feel like you can\u2019t talk about some topics with your significant other, your relationship isn\u2019t as serious as you might see it, and it\u2019s time you reconsider its future. Here are 5 of these topics.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">O seu passado<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98559\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-woman-talking-to-man-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"mulher s\u00e9ria a falar com homem ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-woman-talking-to-man-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-woman-talking-to-man-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-woman-talking-to-man-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-woman-talking-to-man-outdoor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-woman-talking-to-man-outdoor-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>Remember one thing\u2014you\u2019re not obligated to tell your partner details about your romantic history and other things regarding your past.<\/p>\n<p>Apesar de agora fazer parte de um casal, continua a ter o direito de guardar algumas coisas para si e de ter a sua privacidade (e isto \u00e9 especialmente verdade no in\u00edcio de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o).<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, ao fim de algum tempo, deve sentir vontade de partilhar algumas coisas sobre o seu passado com o seu namorado, sem que ele a force a faz\u00ea-lo.<\/p>\n<p>You should be able to talk to him about the things which led you to this day, about events and people which helped you become the woman you\u2019re today, and about some things from your past that might still bother or impact you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">O vosso futuro juntos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98560\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-couple-drinking-coffee-in-the-kitchen-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"casal s\u00e9rio a beber caf\u00e9 na cozinha e a conversar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-couple-drinking-coffee-in-the-kitchen-and-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-couple-drinking-coffee-in-the-kitchen-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-couple-drinking-coffee-in-the-kitchen-and-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-couple-drinking-coffee-in-the-kitchen-and-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-couple-drinking-coffee-in-the-kitchen-and-talking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>A verdade \u00e9 que viver no momento presente \u00e9 a melhor coisa que pode fazer por si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>However, when you\u2019re in a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/6-things-mean-youre-serious-relationship-love-like-crazy\/\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria<\/a>Mas tamb\u00e9m tens de pensar no teu futuro.<\/p>\n<p>No matter how great your relationship might be going right now, if you and your boyfriend don\u2019t have similar life goals and plans about the future, your relationship is probably doomed to fail.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 natural que os dois n\u00e3o queiram exatamente as mesmas coisas, mas \u00e9 importante encontrar um meio-termo.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s be honest\u2014it would be impossible, for example, to have a happy life with someone who doesn\u2019t want children if your dream is to have a big family.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 exatamente por isso que tem de ser capaz de falar com o seu parceiro sobre estas coisas a tempo, antes que seja demasiado tarde para mudar alguma coisa.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">As suas finan\u00e7as<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98561\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/couple-arguing-about-the-finance.jpg\" alt=\"casal a discutir sobre as finan\u00e7as\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/couple-arguing-about-the-finance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/couple-arguing-about-the-finance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/couple-arguing-about-the-finance-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/couple-arguing-about-the-finance-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/couple-arguing-about-the-finance-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>No in\u00edcio de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, as suas finan\u00e7as s\u00e3o apenas um assunto seu.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you and your new boyfriend split your expenses equally or you don\u2019t worry about who paid more.<\/p>\n<p>Seja como for, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que o dinheiro n\u00e3o esteja no topo das vossas preocupa\u00e7\u00f5es no in\u00edcio da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, tudo isto muda quando a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o atinge um outro n\u00edvel e, sobretudo, quando voc\u00eas come\u00e7am a pensar em ir viver juntos.<\/p>\n<p>Afinal de contas, agora todo o vosso dinheiro passa a fazer parte de um \u00fanico or\u00e7amento e \u00e9 importante que os vossos h\u00e1bitos de consumo sejam algo que n\u00e3o tenham problemas em discutir.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">As suas fantasias sexuais mais loucas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98562\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/young-woman-whispering-on-man-ear.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem a sussurrar ao ouvido de um homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/young-woman-whispering-on-man-ear.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/young-woman-whispering-on-man-ear-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/young-woman-whispering-on-man-ear-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/young-woman-whispering-on-man-ear-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/young-woman-whispering-on-man-ear-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>Many experts claim that there doesn\u2019t exist such a thing as being good or <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-sinais-de-que-o-inferno-e-mau-na-cama\/\">mau na cama<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>There only exist people who are compatible and who get along under the sheets&#8230;or don\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>A melhor maneira de ter uma vida sexual saud\u00e1vel \u00e9, sem d\u00favida, atrav\u00e9s da comunica\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Voc\u00ea e o seu namorado devem estar suficientemente descontra\u00eddos para partilharem as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es mais profundas e selvagens <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/as-10-principais-fantasias-sexuais-de-todos-os-homens\/\">fantasias sexuais<\/a> uns com os outros.<\/p>\n<p>Lembre-se, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 lugar para o embara\u00e7o e a vergonha entre duas pessoas apaixonadas.<\/p>\n<p>This is someone you have chosen to plan your life with, and if you can\u2019t talk to him about this important topic, maybe it\u2019s time to rethink your relationship.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">The things you don\u2019t like about each other<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98563\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-couple-sitting-on-the-floor-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"casal s\u00e9rio sentado no ch\u00e3o a conversar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-couple-sitting-on-the-floor-and-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-couple-sitting-on-the-floor-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-couple-sitting-on-the-floor-and-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-couple-sitting-on-the-floor-and-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-couple-sitting-on-the-floor-and-talking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>No matter how madly in love you might be with your significant other, there always exist some parts of his personality that annoy you and which you\u2019d like to change.<\/p>\n<p>And the same goes the other way around, as well\u2014you two accept each other, but it doesn\u2019t mean you like literally everything about one another.<\/p>\n<p>Este \u00e9 exatamente um dos temas sobre os quais deve ser capaz de falar com o seu namorado, sem que isso conduza necessariamente a uma discuss\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Voc\u00eas s\u00e3o dois adultos que deviam saber sentar-se e falar sobre as vossas insatisfa\u00e7\u00f5es na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Se n\u00e3o for esse o caso, ter\u00e3o problemas a longo prazo e, provavelmente, a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o ter\u00e1 futuro.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98558\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/If-You-Cant-Talk-To-Him-About-These-5-Things-Your-Relationship-Has-No-Future-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se n\u00e3o consegues falar com ele sobre estas 5 coisas, a tua rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o tem futuro\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/If-You-Cant-Talk-To-Him-About-These-5-Things-Your-Relationship-Has-No-Future-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/If-You-Cant-Talk-To-Him-About-These-5-Things-Your-Relationship-Has-No-Future-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/If-You-Cant-Talk-To-Him-About-These-5-Things-Your-Relationship-Has-No-Future-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A healthy partnership can never exist without good communication skills between the people involved in it. However, many couples don\u2019t know that and try building their relationships without discussing some important matters in time. The harsh truth is that if you feel like you can\u2019t talk about some topics with your significant other, your relationship&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":98564,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-38386","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/If-You-Cant-Talk-To-Him-About-These-5-Things-Your-Relationship-Has-No-Future.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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