Continuei a tentar convencer-me de que me amavas e que eu era importante para ti.<\/p>\n
Com o passar do tempo, estava a curar-me sem sequer me aperceber disso.<\/p>\n
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What I couldn\u2019t understand that healing isn\u2019t linear and that each day I got through alive was actually progress, even if some were worse than others.<\/p>\n
No entanto, um dia dei por mim a pensar em ti e na nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o sem sentir como se tivesse uma faca espetada no est\u00f4mago. <\/strong><\/p>\n Dei por mim a ver-te apenas como um ser humano com todos os teus defeitos. <\/strong><\/p>\n Just like that, you stopped being this almost mythical creature who had so much power over me and, for the first time ever, I saw you for who you\u2019ve really been all along \u2013 an immature boy who tried projecting his insecurities on me.<\/strong><\/p>\n One night, while I was alone with my thoughts, I figured something out: for the first time ever, I wasn\u2019t feeling an overwhelming sadness for not having you.<\/p>\n I\u2019ve stopped romanticizing everything you and I had and it hit me \u2013 I was actually way better off without you.<\/p>\n It turned out that you leaving me wasn\u2019t the worst thing that ever happened to me, after all. In fact it was probably the best one so far.<\/strong><\/p>\n Por isso, em vez de me deixar consumir pela raiva e pelo ressentimento, devo obrigado<\/a>.<\/p>\n Em vez de guardar rancor, devia estar grato, porque, sem que nenhum de n\u00f3s se apercebesse, fez-me um favor.<\/p>\n Sem ter a inten\u00e7\u00e3o de o fazer, quando me deixaste, salvaste-me de muita mis\u00e9ria. <\/strong><\/p>\n Salvou-me de passar o resto da minha vida como sua v\u00edtima e de permitir que me prejudicasse de forma irrepar\u00e1vel.<\/strong><\/p>\n First and foremost, I\u2019m done wasting years of my life waiting for you to get your shit together.<\/p>\n I\u2019m done waiting around for you to come to your senses and finally realize that you never treated me how I deserved.<\/p>\n I\u2019m done sitting around waiting for you to stop seeing me as a second choice.<\/p>\n Acabou-se o facto de sermos menos importantes do que o nosso trabalho, os nossos amigos, os nossos passatempos e, literalmente, tudo.<\/p>\n J\u00e1 n\u00e3o passo dias e noites a olhar para o meu telefone, \u00e0 espera que me respondas \u00e0s chamadas.<\/p>\n Acabaram-se as in\u00fameras oportunidades e a esperan\u00e7a de que desta vez seja a \u00faltima.<\/p>\n Now that I\u2019ve lost you, I have all this time on my hands for the most important person in the world: ME.<\/strong><\/p>\n Em vez de me esfor\u00e7ar tanto para tentar consert\u00e1-lo, agora tenho a oportunidade de trabalhar em mim mesmo.<\/p>\n Em vez de tentar consertar o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido, agora tenho a oportunidade de trabalhar por minha conta.<\/p>\n![\"retrato](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/portrait-of-an-attractive-serious-brunette.jpg\")
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