{"id":38425,"date":"2019-06-14T12:20:48","date_gmt":"2019-06-14T12:20:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38425"},"modified":"2021-08-31T08:18:24","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T08:18:24","slug":"4-sinais-de-que-ele-sofre-de-transtorno-de-personalidade-limitrofe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/4-sinais-de-que-ele-sofre-de-transtorno-de-personalidade-limitrofe\/","title":{"rendered":"4 sinais de que ele sofre de Transtorno de Personalidade Borderline"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Alguma vez namoraste com algu\u00e9m que te elevasse t\u00e3o alto que pensasses que podias voar, s\u00f3 para, passado algum tempo, te cortar as asas e te levar ao fundo do po\u00e7o? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ele j\u00e1 teve emo\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00e3o extremas que lhe deu a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de ter dois lados completamente diferentes? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, that\u2019s just a small part of dating someone with borderline personality disorder, better known as BPD.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>O que \u00e9 exatamente a BDP?<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Trata-se de uma perturba\u00e7\u00e3o da sa\u00fade mental que afecta a forma como a pessoa se percepciona a si pr\u00f3pria e aos outros, o que a torna essencialmente incapaz de funcionar corretamente na vida quotidiana. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Caracteriza-se principalmente por: <\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rela\u00e7\u00f5es intensas e inst\u00e1veis;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">autoimagem distorcida; <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">emo\u00e7\u00f5es extremas; <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">impulsividade.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A DBP afecta a forma como uma pessoa se sente em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a si pr\u00f3pria, as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es com os outros e o seu comportamento em geral. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Sintomas de BDP que pode reconhecer na sua cara-metade:<\/b><\/p>\n<h2>1.\u00a0 Extreme mood swings<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-38438\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_717350314.jpg\" alt=\"Se ele faz estas 20 coisas t\u00f3xicas, ele \u00e9 um narcisista dissimulado \" width=\"800\" height=\"543\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_717350314.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_717350314-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_717350314-768x521.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Um dia ele est\u00e1 radiante e no outro est\u00e1 deprimido, irritado ou zangado. Num momento, \u00e9 a luz da vida dele e, no outro, \u00e9 a \u00fanica causa de todos os seus problemas. \u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s not just about you all the time; the world has conspired against him, nobody loves him, and all of his friends are not really his friends, etc. until the next day or week when everything is great again and he is loved and appreciated by everyone. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A sua autoimagem e a sua vis\u00e3o do mundo, da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e das outras pessoas da sua vida est\u00e3o a mudar a cada minuto.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>2. Comportamento excessivo<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-38138\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/adult-cell-cellphone-263593.jpg\" alt=\"160 Emotional I Miss You Quotes For Him And Her\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/adult-cell-cellphone-263593.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/adult-cell-cellphone-263593-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/adult-cell-cellphone-263593-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Acompanhado pelas altera\u00e7\u00f5es de humor acima mencionadas, um outro indicador da DBP \u00e9 a impulsividade. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pergunte a si pr\u00f3prio se o seu parceiro tem o h\u00e1bito de fazer coisas repentinas e inesperadas. Ele desaparece do mapa durante dias e depois volta com uma desculpa esfarrapada? Est\u00e1 confiante num dia e no outro fala que perdeu o objetivo da vida? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If he doesn\u2019t get help in time and recognize that he has a problem, he might engage in a number of destructive behaviors, from gambling away his or your money, to adultery, to substance abuse and similar or worse things.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>3. Quest\u00f5es de abandono<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-38440\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/andrew-neel-137513-unsplash.jpg\" alt=\"Se ele faz estas 20 coisas t\u00f3xicas, ele \u00e9 um narcisista dissimulado\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/andrew-neel-137513-unsplash.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/andrew-neel-137513-unsplash-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/andrew-neel-137513-unsplash-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>He hates when you don\u2019t pick up right away when he calls. He calls if you don\u2019t text him back immediately. He demands an explanation of your whereabouts when you are running late. He feels hurt and abandoned. You are making him waste his time and his nerves. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Se alguma destas frases lhe soa familiar, est\u00e1 a lidar com algu\u00e9m que claramente tem <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/6-dicas-para-problemas-de-abandono-de-alguem\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">quest\u00f5es de abandono<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and it\u2019s one more surefire symptom of BPD. <\/span><\/p>\n<h2>4. Ir a extremos<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-38441\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/andrew-neel-137513-unsplash-1.jpg\" alt=\"Se ele faz estas 20 coisas t\u00f3xicas, ele \u00e9 um narcisista dissimulado\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/andrew-neel-137513-unsplash-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/andrew-neel-137513-unsplash-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/andrew-neel-137513-unsplash-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>With him, everything is black or white; there are no gray areas. When you do something nice for him, you are the greatest there is. When you do something that\u2019s in his opinion wrong, you are worst of them all. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Falta-lhe equil\u00edbrio no seu comportamento e passa de um extremo para outro. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">De acordo com Roger Melton, M.A. <\/span><b>Existem tr\u00eas fases na rela\u00e7\u00e3o que se atravessam quando se namora com algu\u00e9m que sofre de perturba\u00e7\u00e3o de personalidade lim\u00edtrofe.<\/b><\/p>\n<h2>1.\u00a0 The Vulnerable Seducer Phase<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ele vai come\u00e7ar por confiar no seu lado emp\u00e1tico. Dir-lhe-\u00e1 o quanto sofreu nas suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es anteriores e na vida em geral, e como voc\u00ea \u00e9 a \u00fanica pessoa que o compreende. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ao fazer-se de v\u00edtima com mestria, ele f\u00e1-la-\u00e1 sentir-se necess\u00e1ria e amada de uma forma especial. Sentir-te-\u00e1s como se fosses o centro do seu universo. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You won\u2019t build a relationship step by step; you will jump through it. Everything will move too quickly and it will all be overly intense.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>2. A fase de Clinger<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The more attached he gets, the more he\u2019ll change. At first, it\u2019ll be barely noticeable, but as time goes by, it\u2019ll become more evident. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Continuar\u00e1 a sentir que \u00e9 importante para ele, mas as coisas que lhe interessam tornar-se-\u00e3o menos importantes e ser\u00e1 mais sobre o que ele quer e o que ele precisa. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ele chamar\u00e1 intencionalmente a sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o atrav\u00e9s das suas doen\u00e7as f\u00edsicas e emocionais. As mudan\u00e7as de humor ser\u00e3o cada vez mais frequentes. Num momento, ele estar\u00e1 a transbordar de felicidade e, no outro, estar\u00e1 abatido e distante. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He\u2019ll still think you can save them, though, and use this to keep an emotional tether to you, putting his entire emotional and physical well-being in your hands.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>3. A fase dos odiadores<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Enquanto nas duas primeiras fases ele tentar\u00e1 comportar-se da melhor maneira, \u00e9 nesta fase que come\u00e7a o caos. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As the relationship progresses, he will show his true colors. He\u2019ll be agitated by the smallest things \u2013 the way you look at him, things you say, the way you smile at or touch him\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quando deres por ti, ele vai culpar-te por tudo e vai, mais uma vez <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/6-sinais-de-que-se-esta-a-fazer-de-vitima\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fazer-se de v\u00edtima<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. This time it won\u2019t be to provoke your empathy, but to put you down the self-blame route. You will also start looking for the main culprit in yourself. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Se o seu parceiro tiver uma perturba\u00e7\u00e3o de personalidade lim\u00edtrofe, ir\u00e1 reconhec\u00ea-la atrav\u00e9s destes sinais e passar\u00e1 por tr\u00eas fases da rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your partner can\u2019t accept his problem. he will create problems for you. Even though your partner is unaware of his condition, he is emotionally hurting you. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">BPD is treatable and your partner should seek professional help. If he doesn\u2019t, things are only going to get worse. The only thing you will be able to do is to leave before you suffer all of the consequences of his BPD.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/popular-Wedding-brunch-Flowers-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"4 sinais de que ele sofre de Transtorno de Personalidade Borderline\" class=\"wp-image-38427\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/popular-Wedding-brunch-Flowers-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/popular-Wedding-brunch-Flowers-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/popular-Wedding-brunch-Flowers.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":38426,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29677],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-38425","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-personality-types"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29677,"label":"personality types"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/jon-ly-487338-unsplash.jpg",800,450,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29677,"name":"personality types","slug":"personality-types","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29677,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Hippies, alphas, betas, sapiophiles...Every personality type is unique and contains a particular set of skills. 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