{"id":38429,"date":"2019-06-14T12:33:22","date_gmt":"2019-06-14T12:33:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38429"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:25:00","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:25:00","slug":"ate-provares-que-es-digno-nao-durmo-contigo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ate-provares-que-es-digno-nao-durmo-contigo\/","title":{"rendered":"At\u00e9 provares que \u00e9s digno, n\u00e3o dormirei contigo"},"content":{"rendered":"

I am sick of this hookup culture; whatever happened to good old dating? I don\u2019t want my relationship finishing before it even had a chance to start. I don\u2019t want to feel broken after someone who just started warming to me disappears. <\/span><\/p>\n

Enough is enough. I am setting some new rules. Until you prove you are worthy, I won\u2019t sleep with you. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you are not a player, you will stay by my side even without boyfriend benefits. I don\u2019t want to waste my time on someone who is solely interested in getting to know my body, not my soul. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you are like that, I will let you leave and I won\u2019t shed a tear. I value myself too much to sell myself short. <\/span><\/p>\n

Claro que quero dormir contigo, mas n\u00e3o imediatamente. <\/b><\/p>\n

H\u00e1 um prazer oculto na espera, no anseio por outra pessoa, em saber que algu\u00e9m gosta de n\u00f3s em mais do que um sentido. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quero saber que \u00e9s diferente dos outros. <\/span><\/p>\n

Que est\u00e1 interessado em conhecer-me e em tudo o que isso implica. Quero sentir-me valorizada e respeitada. <\/span><\/p>\n

I am not a saint and I don\u2019t wear a chastity belt but I need to feel all the right feelings before jumping into bed with someone. <\/b><\/p>\n

Preciso de intimidade emocional em vez de sexual. Sinto-me t\u00e3o atra\u00edda por ti como tu por mim, se n\u00e3o mais, mas estou disposta a esperar. <\/span><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to be just a checkmark on the list of women you slept with. I want to know that I matter. <\/span><\/p>\n

I felt like that a few times in the past and I don\u2019t want to feel like that ever again. I don\u2019t want to confuse sexual desire with a genuine emotional connection.<\/span><\/p>\n

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That\u2019s why I need time. Time to get to know you. Time for you to get to know me. And with that time, the <\/b>tens\u00e3o sexual<\/b> <\/a>between us won\u2019t disappear. The chemistry will turn into an emotional bond if we are the real deal. <\/b><\/p>\n

If we are not\u2026 if we are fleeting\u2026 then it\u2019s better we don\u2019t get into bed together. <\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f3 pagarei esses momentos de prazer com l\u00e1grimas e desilus\u00e3o. Terei alegria instant\u00e2nea e longas noites de solid\u00e3o depois, sentindo falta dos teus beijos e do teu toque. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se me queres mesmo, ganha um lugar na minha vida. <\/b><\/p>\n

I need reciprocity. I need to know that investments go both ways. I need to see efforts, that\u2019s what sexy is all about. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quero ver nas tuas ac\u00e7\u00f5es que te preocupas. Eu deixo-te entrar se me mostrares que \u00e9s de confian\u00e7a. Quero sentir-me segura e amada, nada mais e nada menos. <\/span><\/p>\n

I know that you won\u2019t mind the wait if you are the right man for me. <\/b><\/p>\n

It won\u2019t be easy on either of us but we can hold on until the timing is right. Until we know the sounds of each other\u2019s laughter and what keeps us up at night. <\/span><\/p>\n

At\u00e9 sabermos que esta liga\u00e7\u00e3o que sentimos \u00e9 mais do que apenas atra\u00e7\u00e3o f\u00edsica.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Mais uma boa raz\u00e3o para esperar \u00e9 o facto de <\/b>fazer amor<\/b><\/a> \u00e9 muito melhor do que fazer sexo. <\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s more intense. It\u2019s intimacy at its highest. It\u2019s sharing your body, mind and soul with one person. It\u2019s the closeness you feel after the act. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s everything you can\u2019t have when it\u2019s just sex without emotions. <\/span><\/p>\n

I hope you get where I\u2019m coming from after reading this. I know it might all sound complicated to you but I know I am worth the wait.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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