{"id":38530,"date":"2019-06-17T13:53:11","date_gmt":"2019-06-17T13:53:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38530"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:23:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:23:45","slug":"a-mulher-que-se-perdeu-por-causa-do-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-mulher-que-se-perdeu-por-causa-do-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"Para a mulher que se perdeu por causa do amor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b><i>Apaixonaste-te por ele. \u00c9 dif\u00edcil. Da mesma forma que s\u00f3 nos apaixonamos por um. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pensavas que ele era aquele por quem esperavas. Era ele que acabava as tuas frases. Era ele que sabia o que tu querias sem que tu dissesses nada. <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Era o primeiro homem com quem se podia descontrair. Aquele com quem podias ser tu pr\u00f3pria. Ele apoiava-te nas tuas decis\u00f5es. Dizia-te como eras bonita. Ele fez-te sentir como se estivesses nas nuvens com apenas um beijo. <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p>Ele estava sempre presente quando precis\u00e1vamos dele, convencendo-nos de que era o nosso porto seguro, a nossa pessoa.<\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After you saw that you had never been happier with anyone else, you decided to give him your heart, your body and your soul. You thought he was your happily ever after. You were so crazy in love that you didn\u2019t see all the red flag signs. <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You didn\u2019t see that all his hugs, while you were in company, were there to take you away from your friends. You didn\u2019t see that his kisses were just the way he showed others that he was the one who owned you, so they wouldn\u2019t hit on you.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">By telling you that he would always be there, he was trying to say that you didn\u2019t need anyone else but him. By doing all that he could to make you happy, he was just trying to make you fall into his trap. <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Aquele de que mal conseguias sair. Ele fez tudo para a tornar viciada nele. E foi isso que aconteceu. Apaixonaste-te por ele, pensando que n\u00e3o havia outro homem que te pudesse fazer sentir feliz para al\u00e9m dele.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You trusted him blindly. You couldn\u2019t stand being without him. He was like the air you needed to live. He was like a drug you had to take to remain sane.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-38306\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_190924184.jpg\" alt=\"Cita\u00e7\u00f5es sobre deixar ir: 115 melhores cita\u00e7\u00f5es para o ajudar a seguir em frente\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_190924184.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_190924184-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_190924184-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Soon, he started being the only person who could calm you down, telling you lies that he loved you and that he would never cheat on you. Only when you showed that you couldn\u2019t live without him did the real game begin. <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ele divertia-se a brincar com a tua mente, namoriscando com qualquer rapariga que aparecesse. Ele negligenciava-te mas, de alguma forma, tu perdoavas-lhe sempre e acabavas na cama dele. Ele era um ator t\u00e3o bom. Sabia o que dizer para entrar no teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e na tua mente. Fazia-te uma lavagem cerebral.<\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your gut was telling you that something was off but you didn\u2019t trust it. You thought it would pass. But it didn\u2019t. You totally lost yourself over a man who didn\u2019t give a damn about you. You lost yourself for what he called love. But it was anything but love. It was abuse, treating you badly and neglect. <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It was mind-fucking. But you didn\u2019t want<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/8-sinais-dolorosos-de-que-e-altura-de-desistir-dele\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">para desistir dele.<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Pensou que ele iria mudar. Mas ele nunca mudou. S\u00f3 piorou. Dia ap\u00f3s dia, ele tentava um novo jogo consigo, tentando ver o quanto voc\u00ea conseguia suportar. <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Enquanto imploravas o amor de que tanto precisavas, ele ria-se na tua cara. Ele tinha a cara de um dem\u00f3nio. Aquele que se divertia com a tua dor, uma e outra vez. <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ele fez tudo o que um homem pode fazer a uma mulher para a magoar. Queria tanto fugir, mas sempre que o deixava, ele arranjava uma desculpa est\u00fapida e voc\u00ea voltava. Ele era o teu ponto fraco e tu querias que isso mudasse. <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you realized that you had nobody except him, you started thinking about your future. You didn\u2019t want to live like that for the rest of your life. You didn&#8217;t want to suffer and beg for love and attention. You wanted to feel like any other girl who was happy in love. <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sabias que, com ele, nunca terias o que querias, por isso decidiste seguir em frente. S\u00f3 Deus sabe como foi dif\u00edcil para ti deixar aquele que era tudo para ti. Mas sabia que era algo que tinha de fazer para se salvar de uma vida p\u00e9ssima. <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><b><i>Mas isso j\u00e1 passou.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now you are there, sitting in your room and looking through the window. You can\u2019t remember when the last time was that you felt so calm and satisfied. There isn\u2019t him to abuse you anymore. <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Est\u00e1s sozinho e podes finalmente respirar. At\u00e9 a chuva que cai nas janelas parece agrad\u00e1vel agora. Sentes-te t\u00e3o bem na tua pele, feliz por teres escapado \u00e0s garras de um monstro. <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Next time, you will be smarter. Next time, you will think with your head and not with your heart. Next time, it won\u2019t hurt you. You know why? <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><b><i>Porque ser\u00e1 amor. <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/amor-incondicional-apenas-cuidar-de-alguem\/\"><b><i>O incondicional.<\/i><\/b><\/a><\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-38532\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/herway.net-2-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Para a mulher que se perdeu por causa do amor \" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/herway.net-2-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/herway.net-2-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/herway.net-2.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":38531,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-38530","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_563555992.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. 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