{"id":38570,"date":"2020-04-18T09:23:23","date_gmt":"2020-04-18T09:23:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38570"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:43:59","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:43:59","slug":"7-razoes-reais-para-ainda-nao-teres-conhecido-os-pais-dele","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-razoes-reais-para-ainda-nao-teres-conhecido-os-pais-dele\/","title":{"rendered":"7 raz\u00f5es reais para n\u00e3o conheceres os pais dele (ainda)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>H\u00e1 j\u00e1 algum tempo que est\u00e1 a divertir-se muito com o seu novo namorado e tudo parece id\u00edlico.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You always spend as much time as possible together and you\u2019re always being honest with each other.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You\u2019ve also met his friends and your girls are literally jealous of your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/nenhuma-relacao-e-perfeita-mas-isso-nao-significa-que-nao-valha-a-pena\/\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o perfeita<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>But there is one thing that still worries you: you haven\u2019t met his parents.<\/p>\r\n<p>He\u2019s surely talked to you about them, but you still haven\u2019t actually met them.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You feel like something\u2019s just not right (especially if he\u2019s already met your family), but it is really awkward to ask why he doesn\u2019t want you to meet his family as well.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Should you be alarmed and start suspecting his true intentions? Maybe (or maybe not). Here are 7 real reasons why you haven\u2019t met his parents (yet)!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. He\u2019s not sure about your feelings<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89772\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/woman-looking-at-man-in-cafe-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a olhar para um homem num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"547\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/woman-looking-at-man-in-cafe-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/woman-looking-at-man-in-cafe-1-300x205.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/woman-looking-at-man-in-cafe-1-768x525.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/> <\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You might have acted a little bit hot and cold for some time and now he\u2019s not really sure about your feelings.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>So, the main reason why he hasn\u2019t introduced you to his parents yet is because he\u2019s waiting to be sure of your affections.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Afinal de contas, conhecer os pais \u00e9 um grande passo para a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e se mantiverem <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/penso-demasiado-porque-me-envias-sinais-contraditorios\/\">enviando-lhe sinais contradit\u00f3rios<\/a>ele s\u00f3 vai ficar confuso e prolongar a situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Nessa situa\u00e7\u00e3o, a \u00fanica coisa que precisa de fazer \u00e9 assegurar-lhe o seu afeto por ele.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Your relationship isn\u2019t that serious yet<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89769\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/man-hugging-smiling-woman-from-back.jpg\" alt=\"homem abra\u00e7a mulher sorridente pelas costas\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/man-hugging-smiling-woman-from-back.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/man-hugging-smiling-woman-from-back-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/man-hugging-smiling-woman-from-back-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Is your relationship serious or is it just a roller coaster? No matter how much time you\u2019ve spent together so far, perhaps your relationship needs more time to reach the level of being called serious.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Some couples need more time to develop a healthy, stable relationship and perhaps that\u2019s the real reason why he hasn\u2019t introduced you to his family yet.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Se a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 cheia de cen\u00e1rios de altos e baixos e depois de concilia\u00e7\u00f5es, isso significa que n\u00e3o \u00e9 est\u00e1vel e precisa de mais tempo para atingir o seu potencial m\u00e1ximo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>If that is the case, you shouldn\u2019t worry about it because I\u2019m sure that with time, everything will fall into place.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. He\u2019s afraid things will change<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89773\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/thoughtful-man-looking-at-laptop-1.jpg\" alt=\"homem pensativo a olhar para o computador port\u00e1til\" width=\"800\" height=\"543\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/thoughtful-man-looking-at-laptop-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/thoughtful-man-looking-at-laptop-1-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/thoughtful-man-looking-at-laptop-1-768x521.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Muitos rapazes t\u00eam medo que as coisas mudem na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o quando a apresentam aos seus pais.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Eles pensam que a mulher espera imediatamente que eles <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/quando-e-que-ele-se-vai-declarar-13-sinais-de-que-esta-pronto-para-fazer-a-pergunta\/\">fazer a pergunta<\/a> e levar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o a outro n\u00edvel.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>So, he might be afraid that you will become impatient in the relationship and expect him to do some things he\u2019s not really ready for yet.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>And that\u2019s one of the possible reasons why he still hesitates to introduce you to his family.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>He wants to keep things as they are and once he becomes sure that he needn\u2019t worry about things changing, he will definitely ask you to meet his parents and close ones.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. He still hasn\u2019t gotten over his past relationship<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89767\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/worried-man-leaning-on-wall.jpg\" alt=\"homem preocupado encostado \u00e0 parede\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/worried-man-leaning-on-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/worried-man-leaning-on-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/worried-man-leaning-on-wall-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Talvez os pais precisem de mais tempo para processar o que aconteceu com a sua anterior rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>If they\u2019ve met his previous girlfriend, the chances are they still haven\u2019t gotten over the outcome of his past relationship.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>E \u00e9 por isso que precisam de mais tempo para passar por tudo isso e o seu homem sabe-o muito bem, mas \u00e9 demasiado embara\u00e7oso para ele admiti-lo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>But, you shouldn\u2019t worry about it at all. With time, they will meet you and the moment they see you, they will instantly forget everything about his previous girlfriend (I can guarantee you that).<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. He\u2019s planning on breaking up with you<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89765\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/woman-suspiciously-looking-at-man-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a olhar desconfiada para um homem num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/woman-suspiciously-looking-at-man-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/woman-suspiciously-looking-at-man-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/woman-suspiciously-looking-at-man-in-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Sadly, sometimes the real reason why he hasn\u2019t introduced you to his family is because he\u2019s actually planning on breaking up with you, so he doesn\u2019t see the point of you meeting them.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>You will know that this is the case if you notice some red flags in your relationship, such as his constant absence, peculiar behavior, no intimacy, or if he tells you that something\u2019s not right.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>But, don\u2019t be alarmed just yet. The best way to find it out is to simply ask him what the hell is going on and once you know for sure, you can act accordingly.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-sinais-de-alerta-a-que-deve-estar-atento-numa-nova-relacao\/\">7 sinais de alerta a que se deve estar atento numa nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. He\u2019s embarrassed by them (or you)<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89768\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/man-covered-his-face-with-hand.jpg\" alt=\"homem cobriu o rosto com a m\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/man-covered-his-face-with-hand.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/man-covered-his-face-with-hand-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/man-covered-his-face-with-hand-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Well, not everyone\u2019s parents are gangsta cool like Robert de Niro and that may be the reason why he doesn\u2019t want you to meet them.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Ele pode ter vergonha dos pais por v\u00e1rias raz\u00f5es, o que o impede de a apresentar a eles.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Or, he might be embarrassed by you. He might be afraid of their parents\u2019 reaction once they meet you if you\u2019re not \u201caccording to their standards\u201d or if you\u2019re not selective with your words, which may be a real issue.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>If the former is the case, you shouldn\u2019t really worry about it. But, if it\u2019s the latter, you can always work on yourself and improve things in no time.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">7. He isn\u2019t that close to his family<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89770\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/side-view-of-man-sitting-on-wooden-dock-beside-water.jpg\" alt=\"vista lateral de um homem sentado numa doca de madeira junto \u00e0 \u00e1gua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/side-view-of-man-sitting-on-wooden-dock-beside-water.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/side-view-of-man-sitting-on-wooden-dock-beside-water-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/side-view-of-man-sitting-on-wooden-dock-beside-water-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Perhaps he isn\u2019t really that close to his family or they live far away from him, which means he himself rarely sees them.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>If he\u2019s not that connected with them, he won\u2019t really care about you meeting them, which is nothing you should be concerned about.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>When the time comes, I\u2019m sure he will want you to meet them, but for now he\u2019s okay with things as they are.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>And that is why you should be chilled about it as well. After all, it is him that you\u2019re in a relationship with and meeting his parents shouldn\u2019t be a prerequisite to your happiness.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89762\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/7-Real-Reasons-Why-You-Havent-Met-His-Parents-Yet-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"7 raz\u00f5es reais para n\u00e3o conheceres os pais dele (ainda)\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/7-Real-Reasons-Why-You-Havent-Met-His-Parents-Yet-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/7-Real-Reasons-Why-You-Havent-Met-His-Parents-Yet-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019ve been having a great time with your new guy for some time now and everything seems idyllic. You always spend as much time as possible together and you\u2019re always being honest with each other. You\u2019ve also met his friends and your girls are literally jealous of your perfect relationship. But there is one thing&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":89761,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-38570","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/7-Real-Reasons-Why-You-Havent-Met-His-Parents-Yet.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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