{"id":38627,"date":"2019-06-18T13:17:24","date_gmt":"2019-06-18T13:17:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38627"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:22:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:22:22","slug":"podes-perdoar-lhe-mas-nao-o-deixes-voltar-a-tua-vida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/podes-perdoar-lhe-mas-nao-o-deixes-voltar-a-tua-vida\/","title":{"rendered":"Podes perdo\u00e1-lo, mas n\u00e3o o deixes voltar a entrar na tua vida"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c0s vezes, \u00e9 preciso ser magoado e ter o cora\u00e7\u00e3o despeda\u00e7ado num milh\u00e3o de peda\u00e7os para perceber algumas verdades duras, tanto no amor como na vida.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It\u2019s not always easy seeing things for what they are as you\u2019re going through them. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

O amor tem uma forma de afetar as pessoas e de as fazer fechar os olhos \u00e0s coisas que est\u00e3o mesmo \u00e0 sua frente.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019re not alone if love has sometimes made you feel like a total fool and completely baixou os seus padr\u00f5es.<\/a> <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

N\u00e3o \u00e9 o \u00fanico a arranjar desculpas para tipos que n\u00e3o as merecem minimamente. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

We all think we\u2019d never do it, but then life happens and catches you off guard\u2026<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But what\u2019s important here is to realize that you\u2019re only human. You\u2019ve made mistakes, you\u2019ve had errors in judgment, and it\u2019s likely you\u2019ll do it again. <\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Mas adivinha que mais? Eu tamb\u00e9m, e um milh\u00e3o de outras mulheres por a\u00ed.<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Lembre-se, de vez em quando, que ningu\u00e9m \u00e9 perfeito e que ningu\u00e9m espera que o seja tamb\u00e9m!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You try your best and sometimes, it just isn\u2019t enough. You\u2019ll pick o homem errado<\/a> and he will turn your life upside down before you\u2019ve even realized what happened.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ele vai ser um idiota, vai tratar-te como merda e pode at\u00e9 trair-te. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He won\u2019t see your value and he\u2019ll take advantage of your big heart and kind, forgiving soul. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\"Podes<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Far\u00e1 com que chores na tua cama sozinho, s\u00f3 para te pores a chorar de manh\u00e3,<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And that\u2019s on him. Remember that. His shitty actions say nothing about you and everything about him! <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A forma como ele a trata \u00e9 m\u00e1 da parte dele, mas voc\u00ea pode escolher como reagir a isso.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Being able to forgive someone for treating you like shit when they\u2019re not even sorry takes a big person. <\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Only a huge heart can forgive someone who doesn\u2019t regret their actions and shows no remorse.<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sometimes, forgiveness is really all about you. It\u2019s not about letting him back into your life, but rather for your healing process and ability to move forward.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You need to forgive him for everything he\u2019s done wrong in order to be able to truly deix\u00e1-lo ir<\/a> e seguir numa dire\u00e7\u00e3o mais positiva. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A direction that doesn\u2019t involve him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Just because you\u2019re finally ready to feel okay again does not mean you\u2019re ready to go back to him. It\u2019s actually the opposite. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Once you\u2019ve been able to truly forgive him, you\u2019ll feel like the weight of the world has been lifted off your shoulders.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A sua alma voltar\u00e1 a sentir-se livre e deixar\u00e1 de estar sobrecarregada com a raiva e o arrependimento constantes. <\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Deixar\u00e1 de ser movido pelo seu desejo de se vingar, mas avan\u00e7ar\u00e1 com um registo limpo.<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And that\u2019s what forgiveness is all about. It doesn\u2019t make you weak and it doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re a pushover. <\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It means you\u2019ve finally reached a point where your inner peace has transcended any need for vengeance and bitterness.<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And once you\u2019ve achieved this, life will feel meaningful again. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ver\u00e1 finalmente a luz ao fundo do t\u00fanel e o seu gosto pela vida ser\u00e1 restaurado.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\"Podes<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But don\u2019t make the mistake of having this newfound sense of peace let you invite him back into your life! <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Close that door, and never open it again. Just because you\u2019ve forgiven him doesn\u2019t mean you forgot about all the crap he put you through.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u00c9 certo que agora pode viver livremente sem que isso o pese, mas tamb\u00e9m n\u00e3o quer voltar a deixar que isso o afecte t\u00e3o profundamente. Uma vez foi mais do que suficiente.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

So leave this mistake behind. He belongs in the past. You\u2019ve learned your lesson, you\u2019ve healed, and you\u2019ve grown from this. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

E o \u00fanico caminho agora \u00e9 para cima. J\u00e1 nada te prende, por isso n\u00e3o olhes mais para tr\u00e1s.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Nunca mais o deixes apanhar-te numa armadilha. O teu grande cora\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o aguenta tanto desgosto.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quando a sua vida tiver dado uma volta para melhor, concentre-se em mant\u00ea-la assim. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It\u2019s not going to be easy and it\u2019s going to require a lot of willpower and strength on your part.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Every time you\u2019re tempted to call or text him, remind yourself of what he did to you. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

S\u00f3 tu sabes como ele te fez sentir e como isso te afectou. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t let anyone else tell you how to feel or what you should do. That\u2019s entirely on you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Once you get this far, don\u2019t let this newfound freedom fugir<\/a>. Deixe o passado onde ele pertence e concentre-se em criar um futuro promissor para si.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Now you know what you\u2019re capable of \u2013 that should be motivation enough to keep going and not lose faith in love.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

One bad guy doesn\u2019t mean there\u2019s more to come. For all you know, there could be the perfect man waiting for you just around the corner<\/em>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you don\u2019t give it a shot, you\u2019ll never know. So close all doors you know you never want to open again and let your future keep you positive and hopeful.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Perdoa, mas nunca esquece. Cura, mas nunca te deixes despeda\u00e7ar de novo. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019ve learned your lesson the hard way, so let it keep you away from the one causing it in the first place.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019re on a new path, and it has no room for old mistakes and broken promises. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019re a new woman and you deserve your happy ending. So keep moving forward and don\u2019t settle for anything less!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\"Podes<\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Sometimes, it takes getting hurt and having your heart shattered into a million pieces to realize some tough truths in both love and life. It\u2019s not always easy seeing things for what they are as you\u2019re going through them. Love has a way of affecting people and making them turn a blind eye to things…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":38632,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-38627","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_1362191060.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38627","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=38627"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38627\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/38632"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=38627"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=38627"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=38627"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}