{"id":38771,"date":"2019-11-20T07:57:23","date_gmt":"2019-11-20T07:57:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38771"},"modified":"2022-01-25T09:08:00","modified_gmt":"2022-01-25T09:08:00","slug":"se-ele-nao-te-tivesse-partido-o-coracao-nao-serias-quem-es-agora","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-ele-nao-te-tivesse-partido-o-coracao-nao-serias-quem-es-agora\/","title":{"rendered":"Se ele n\u00e3o tivesse partido o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, n\u00e3o serias quem \u00e9s agora"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando pensamos neste homem, sentimos todo o tipo de emo\u00e7\u00f5es negativas.<\/p>\n

At the same time, you are sad that you lost him, nostalgic about your past together, angry at him for breaking your heart, angry at yourself for letting him do so, disappointed for trusting the wrong person\u2026<\/p>\n

Ao mesmo tempo, sente a falta dele e odeia-o. H\u00e1 dias em que a vingan\u00e7a \u00e9 a \u00fanica coisa em que pensa e outros em que s\u00f3 quer esquecer que este homem t\u00f3xico alguma vez existiu ou fez parte da sua vida.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it\u2014after everything you\u2019ve been through next to him and everything he\u2019s done to you, feeling all of this is completely normal.<\/p>\n

However, I\u2019m here to tell you to be grateful, instead of resentful.<\/p>\n

Sim, ouviste bem. Isto pode parecer-vos uma grande treta, mas deviam estar gratos por tudo o que este idiota vos fez passar.<\/p>\n

Antes de mais, agrade\u00e7a \u00e0 f\u00e9 que o enviou para a sua vida, porque ele tinha definitivamente um objetivo.<\/p>\n

Um objetivo para vos ensinar algumas li\u00e7\u00f5es de vida valiosas, <\/a><\/b>e um objetivo de a transformar na mulher que era suposto ser.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Se<\/p>\n

I know that now you\u2019re probably wondering, in shock, why you should be thankful to someone who crushed you, emotionally destroyed you and damaged you to this point.<\/p>\n

Well, the truth is that without intending to so, this manipulative and awful man helped you become the woman you\u2019re today.<\/p>\n

Sim, ele pode ter matado a rapariga inocente e vulner\u00e1vel que costumavas ser antes de ele entrar na tua vida. Ele apagou aquela rom\u00e2ntica sem esperan\u00e7a que acreditava nas pessoas e no felizes para sempre.<\/p>\n

E esse \u00e9 um pecado pelo qual ele nunca poder\u00e1 ser perdoado.<\/p>\n

No entanto, ao mesmo tempo, ele ajudou a mulher que tu \u00e9s agora a nascer<\/b> . Ele ajudou-o a ver todo o seu potencial e ajudou-o a reconstruir-se.<\/p>\n

If this guy hadn\u2019t put you through misery, nunca terias evolu\u00eddo para a mulher forte e independente que \u00e9s hoje<\/b> .<\/p>\n

You would have never seen everything you can do, and you\u2019d never have grown into the badass, tough heroine of your own life.<\/p>\n

If he hadn\u2019t made you stop trusting everyone around you, nunca terias encontrado a f\u00e9 em Deus<\/b> . You would have never put your destiny in His hands, knowing that He\u2019ll always do what\u2019s best for you.<\/p>\n

If this guy hadn\u2019t abandoned you, nunca terias descoberto quem \u00e9 o teu <\/b>amigos verdadeiros<\/b><\/a> foram<\/b> .<\/p>\n

Nunca terias sabido quem eram as pessoas com quem podias sempre contar e quem nunca te abandonaria quando mais precisasses delas.<\/p>\n

If he hadn\u2019t walked away from you, nunca se teria apercebido de que poderia ter sucesso por si pr\u00f3prio<\/b> .<\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t have known that you don\u2019t need a man in order to feel good about yourself and that you\u2019re the maker of your own happiness.<\/p>\n

If this guy hadn\u2019t treated you the way he did, nunca teria apreciado outros homens que s\u00e3o diferentes dele<\/b> .<\/p>\n

You would have never had the chance to see what the things you should never settle for are, and you wouldn\u2019t have known how a relationship shouldn\u2019t look like.<\/p>\n

You would have never met the man of your dreams\u2014the one who will give you everything you need without even knowing it and who will treat you the way you deserve from day one.<\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t have cherished his love the way you should. You wouldn\u2019t have been aware that you\u2019ve hit the jackpot because you wouldn\u2019t have had this horrible past experience to compare it with.<\/p>\n

If he hadn\u2019t spent years making you feel like you\u2019re n\u00e3o foi feito para ser amado <\/a> and as if you don\u2019t deserve anyone better, este despeito que te mant\u00e9m em movimento nunca teria acordado dentro de ti<\/b> .<\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t have started loving yourself so much, and you wouldn\u2019t know how to appreciate honest love when you get it.<\/p>\n

If this guy hadn\u2019t broken your heart, you would have never fixed it. And let\u2019s face it<\/b> \u2014 now it\u2019s better and stronger than it ever was.<\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When you think of this man, you feel all sorts of negative emotions. At the same time, you are sad that you lost him, nostalgic about your past together, angry at him for breaking your heart, angry at yourself for letting him do so, disappointed for trusting the wrong person\u2026 At the same time, you…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":38773,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-38771","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock-9.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38771","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=38771"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38771\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/38773"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=38771"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=38771"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=38771"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}