{"id":38777,"date":"2019-06-20T10:37:36","date_gmt":"2019-06-20T10:37:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38777"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:18:32","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:18:32","slug":"5-sinais-assustadores-de-que-seu-namorado-e-um-narcisista-patologicamente-invejoso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-sinais-assustadores-de-que-seu-namorado-e-um-narcisista-patologicamente-invejoso\/","title":{"rendered":"5 sinais assustadores de que o seu namorado \u00e9 um narcisista patologicamente invejoso"},"content":{"rendered":"

A inveja patol\u00f3gica \u00e9 um dos principais tra\u00e7os da perturba\u00e7\u00e3o da personalidade narc\u00edsica. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Todos os narcisistas t\u00eam inveja do seu parceiro e de todos os que os rodeiam, mas, ao mesmo tempo, pensam que todos t\u00eam inveja deles. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Este \u00e9 o cerne de todo o problema. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re dating a man like this, then you must have experienced disrespect and sabotage. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Whatever major success you\u2019ve had, your narcissist gave no meaning whatsoever to it, or even worse, he convinced you that you did nothing extraordinary or praiseworthy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Os narcisistas anseiam por poder, o que \u00e9 uma das raz\u00f5es pelas quais abusam das suas v\u00edtimas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00eam a necessidade de ser melhores do que todos os outros, por isso, quando aparece uma pessoa que conseguiu algo, sentem-se amea\u00e7ados. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s when the envy kicks in. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The ironic thing is that narcissists pick victims who are special \u2013 people who have something unique about them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Mas, ao mesmo tempo, detestam essa coisa especial que eles t\u00eam e t\u00eam inveja deles, pelo que aproveitam qualquer oportunidade para os deitar abaixo e os menosprezar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every narcissist is the same \u2013 they need to feel superior to everyone else.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This need causes pathological envy and if this envy isn\u2019t put in order from the beginning, it will definitely kill your relationship, since a narcissist doesn\u2019t know when enough is enough or when to stop with their behavior. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Usam-nos e drenam-nos at\u00e9 n\u00e3o haver mais nada para drenar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se vir que o seu namorado apresenta alguns destes 5 comportamentos, ele \u00e9 definitivamente um narcisista patologicamente invejoso: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. He can\u2019t admit someone else\u2019s success<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Instead of congratulating you, he will find a way to belittle your success. It\u2019s his mission to make you feel bad and think that you are not good enough. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His pathological envy will do anything to make you feel like worthless crap. And the future plan is to make you give up on everything; it\u2019s his goal to ensure you that you are incapable of anything so you don\u2019t even try. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

People who care sincerely about you would never do something like that. On the contrary, they would make a big deal out of something not so significant you\u2019ve done. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

F\u00e1-lo-\u00e3o para o fazer sentir melhor e para o encorajar a continuar a tentar e a trabalhar arduamente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A inveja narc\u00edsica deixa as v\u00edtimas destro\u00e7adas e cheias de vergonha. A \u00fanica coisa que a v\u00edtima aprendeu \u00e9 que tudo o que ela faz n\u00e3o \u00e9 digno de louvor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

After some time, they begin to think that they haven\u2019t deserved any kind of acknowledgement anyway. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Ele tem uma necessidade insaci\u00e1vel de aten\u00e7\u00e3o<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A narcissist won\u2019t allow his victim to keep the center of the stage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se a v\u00edtima realizou algo e est\u00e1 a ser elogiada, o narcisista retira-lhe esse elogio falando dos seus pr\u00f3prios feitos, empurrando a v\u00edtima para segundo plano. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sentem que a v\u00edtima lhes est\u00e1 a roubar os elogios a que t\u00eam direito. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Either they will say something mean to you disguised as a compliment \u2013 and everyone will hear it as a compliment, except you because you know him better than anyone else \u2013 or they will just change the subject. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Just because\u2026 well, because you\u2019re not important. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

O principal objetivo \u00e9 humilhar a v\u00edtima \u00e0 frente de muitas pessoas e, de alguma forma, conseguir que outras pessoas adiram \u00e0 sua intimida\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

All of this is, of course, disguised as jokes at the victim\u2019s expense. The point is that the victim keeps quiet about their accomplishments after some time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Ele sabe como sentir-se poderoso<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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That is the catch. He doesn\u2019t even have to be more successful or more \u201cpowerful\u201d than you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

He will find a way to accomplish that and ignore something successful you did like it\u2019s not that big of a deal \u2013 like you did something anyone can. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Em situa\u00e7\u00f5es em que ele se sente amea\u00e7ado por si e pelo seu poder, ele tornar-se-\u00e1 mais poderoso olhando-o de cima para baixo sem qualquer raz\u00e3o em particular, mas tratar\u00e1 isso como algo completamente normal e esperado. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Ele pensa muito pouco de si<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Ele minimizar\u00e1 todos os seus sucessos \u00e0 medida que eles forem acontecendo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Although you\u2019ve worked so hard to make something come true for you, he will hurt you by saying you did nothing special and it all happened because you got lucky. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por outro lado, o seu sucesso ser\u00e1 descrito como o fruto de muito trabalho e dedica\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is tragic because in every single case, it\u2019s the other way around. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Os narcisistas s\u00e3o aqueles que contam com a sorte e as liga\u00e7\u00f5es sociais para avan\u00e7ar. O trabalho \u00e1rduo \u00e9 algo que nunca fazem. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Ele coloca a fasquia cada vez mais alta<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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No matter what you do, nothing will ever be good enough. The victim\u2019s confidence is the narcissist\u2019s worst nightmare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Isso significa que ele perdeu o controlo sobre si. Quando isso acontece, existe a possibilidade de a v\u00edtima se aperceber que pode fazer melhor e ir-se embora. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Para evitar que isso aconte\u00e7a e para garantir que t\u00eam um fornecimento narc\u00edsico ilimitado, os narcisistas elevam a sua fasquia sempre que temos sucesso em alguma coisa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nothing will ever be good enough for them. They will always ask you for more than you\u2019ve already done.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They will always use your insecurities against you. They will try their best not to let you forget what you\u2019re insecure about. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019re special. You should know that from the moment a narcissist picked you. That\u2019s why you were his target. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tu \u00e9s capaz de fazer coisas que ele nunca conseguiu fazer. Ele quer alimentar-se do seu sucesso e dar-se cr\u00e9dito por esse mesmo sucesso.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s not your fault that you\u2019ve been abused. You had something unique that drew him to you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Next time, it will draw the right person \u2013 the person you deserve. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Pathological envy is one of the main traits of narcissistic personality disorder. Every narcissist is envious of their partner and everyone around them, but at the same time, they think everyone is envious of them, too. That is the core of the whole problem. If you\u2019re dating a man like this, then you must have…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":38784,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-38777","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_1236719455.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":233,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":233,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38777","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=38777"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38777\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/38784"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=38777"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=38777"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=38777"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}