{"id":38787,"date":"2020-11-20T12:31:03","date_gmt":"2020-11-20T12:31:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38787"},"modified":"2022-01-19T22:43:56","modified_gmt":"2022-01-19T22:43:56","slug":"6-sinais-claros-de-que-esta-na-altura-de-deixar-o-seu-ex-para-sempre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-sinais-claros-de-que-esta-na-altura-de-deixar-o-seu-ex-para-sempre\/","title":{"rendered":"6 sinais claros de que est\u00e1 na altura de deixar o seu ex para sempre"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todos n\u00f3s sabemos que, por vezes, as linhas podem ser muito t\u00e9nues quando se trata de ex.<\/p>\r\n

You got rid of him for a reason but still, you just want to keep him around just in case and you\u2019re not even sure why.<\/p>\r\n

I\u2019ll tell you why. Because it can get hard as fuck estar sozinho<\/a>especialmente depois de uma longa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n

You\u2019re so used to having a warm body around and just having somebody to vent to at all hours of the day.<\/p>\r\n

He was your partner in crime and your best buddy. And now, you\u2019re just supposed to cut him off just like he never existed?<\/p>\r\n

Sometimes, that\u2019s exactly what you need to do! Remember, you broke up for a reason and it probably took a long time to find the strength to admit that it was over.<\/p>\r\n

So don\u2019t throw it all in the trash for that one weak night where you just want somebody to hold you.<\/p>\r\n

I know being single isn\u2019t ideal but it beats being in a toxic relationship any day!<\/p>\r\n

\"a<\/p>\r\n\r\n

Get as far as you can from that situation and move on to somebody who\u2019s better for you!<\/p>\r\n

Ou melhor ainda, fique solteira e conhe\u00e7a-se a si pr\u00f3pria sozinha antes de saltar para o pr\u00f3ximo tipo.<\/p>\r\n

There are rare occasions where it\u2019s okay to consider going back, after a certain amount of time has passed and you\u2019ve both reassessed what needed to be fixed.<\/p>\r\n

But there are also those situations where it\u2019s a huge NO and the best thing you can do is ditch him and never let yourself be tempted to go back again.<\/p>\r\n

Trust me, it\u2019s all for your own good!<\/p>\r\n

Here are 6 examples that prove it\u2019s high time you ditch your ex for good and avan\u00e7ar de uma vez por todas<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

Ele fala mal de ti e faz-te sentir in\u00fatil<\/h2>\r\n

\"um<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ser condescendente e falar mal das pessoas \u00e9 um sinal de fraqueza e imaturidade.<\/p>\r\n

Nenhum homem que se preze faria a sua mulher sentir-se mal s\u00f3 para acariciar o seu ego inflacionado.<\/p>\r\n

And no woman deserves to be treated like she\u2019s inferior to any man. Screw that! I say\u2014good riddance!<\/p>\r\n

You don\u2019t need a guy who uses you as a punching bag, even if only verbally. It sucks on his part and showcases a problem on his side.<\/p>\r\n

Nunca volte para esse tipo de pessoa e orgulhe-se de se ter afastado.<\/p>\r\n

Now THAT is a bold-ass move so keep true to yourself. You know you\u2019ll do so much better than him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

Ele enganou-a<\/h2>\r\n

\"a<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If he did it once, he\u2019s more than capable of doing it again. He can beg for forgiveness and he can promise you the world.<\/p>\r\n

He hurt you and there\u2019s nothing that can change that. You may forgive him but you certainly shouldn\u2019t forget.<\/p>\r\n

Cheaters are known to get better at their \u2018craft\u2019 with time.<\/p>\r\n

So if you give him another chance, he\u2019s only going to find sneakier ways to step out on you again and you\u2019ll never even know.<\/p>\r\n

Don\u2019t live a life where you have to wonder if your man is faithful. It\u2019s just n\u00e3o vale a pena<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

You don\u2019t think he\u2019d be a good role model if you ever had a kid<\/h2>\r\n

\"um<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When you think about the future and the possibility of having a kid with him, he just doesn\u2019t seem like the type of guy who would be an exemplary role model.<\/p>\r\n

He\u2019s just not wired that way and you\u2019re not sure if he\u2019d even be a good father.<\/p>\r\n

If you think that\u2019s the case, you\u2019re probably right. Those thoughts wouldn\u2019t appear in your mind just out of nowhere.<\/p>\r\n

There\u2019s a reason why you feel that way and deep down, you know you\u2019re right. So take it as a sign to ditch him for good and don\u2019t be sorry.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

Ele tem uma desculpa perfeitamente elaborada sempre que faz asneiras<\/h2>\r\n

\"uma<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He\u2019s known to mess up a lot but the thing about him is\u2014he always seems to be able to get away with it with the perfect excuse!<\/p>\r\n

Whatever it is, he\u2019s got an excuse ready.<\/p>\r\n

He even makes you believe him every time and you always end up caving in. Now this is a man who knows exactly what he\u2019s doing.<\/p>\r\n

He isn\u2019t afraid to mess up because he\u2019s so sneaky and good with words that he knows he\u2019ll always get away with it.<\/p>\r\n

Not if you let him! Enough of those excuses already. You shouldn\u2019t even be with someone who doesn\u2019t even seem to want to be better.<\/p>\r\n

He doesn\u2019t care enough to treat you with respect, so show him you feel the same way and cut him loose.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

Ele pode ser muito mau para a m\u00e3e (e isso incomoda-te muito)<\/h2>\r\n

\"a<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Esta \u00e9 a pior qualidade de um homem, ponto final.<\/p>\r\n

N\u00e3o h\u00e1 desculpa para ser mau ou rude com a mulher que o trouxe a este mundo e lhe deu a melhor vida poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\r\n

Even if their relationship isn\u2019t as strong as ever, he should always be civil toward her!<\/p>\r\n

If he doesn\u2019t have a problem being an asshole to his own mother, how do you think he\u2019ll eventually treat YOU as time goes by?<\/p>\r\n

Don\u2019t be fooled into thinking it\u2019s going to be any different. A man who disrespects his mom is the last person deserving of your love. That should be a total quebra-galho.<\/a><\/p>\r\n\r\n

He has problems with commitment and that still hasn\u2019t changed<\/h2>\r\n

\"um<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A pior coisa que se pode fazer a si pr\u00f3pria \u00e9 acreditar que se pode mudar um homem para se adaptar \u00e0s suas necessidades.<\/p>\r\n

As beautiful as that would be, it\u2019s just not likely. He is a full-on grown-up and if he\u2019s clearly a commitment-phobe, steer clear of him if you can\u2019t deal with that.<\/p>\r\n

He won\u2019t change and he most probably won\u2019t marry you. Don\u2019t waste your precious time on a guy who has different priorities in life than you.<\/p>\r\n

There\u2019s plenty more fish in the sea and you\u2019ll find your person and you won\u2019t have to change him.<\/p>\r\n

Ditch your ex for good and don\u2019t give yourself false hope.<\/p>\r\n

It hasn\u2019t worked out for a reason and you don\u2019t want round two of the same exact match. You\u2019ll find someone who\u2019s right for you and that\u2019s not him.<\/p>\r\n

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