{"id":38843,"date":"2020-07-21T07:58:31","date_gmt":"2020-07-21T07:58:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38843"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:09:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:09:18","slug":"a-forma-como-ele-te-trata-e-o-que-ele-sente-por-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-forma-como-ele-te-trata-e-o-que-ele-sente-por-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"Como ele te trata \u00e9 o que ele sente por ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Guys really aren\u2019t that hard to figure out. Our tendency to read into every mensagem de texto<\/a>A partir do momento em que o seu filho se tornou um homem, todas as pequenas conversas e todos os sinais n\u00e3o verbais que d\u00e1 foram longe demais.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time we stop overanalyzing every single thing they do and accept that their actions speak louder than our misinterpretations ever will. Once you realize this, you\u2019ll see how simple it really is to read them.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll be the first to admit I\u2019ve made a gazillion excuses every time I didn\u2019t want to accept that he actually did that shitty thing. I would always assure myself he was just in a bad mood and it had nothing to do with me.<\/p>\n

And every time he\u2019d hurt me with his words, I\u2019d just assume he had a lousy day at work and he was just airing his frustrations and I was the first person there.<\/p>\n

But no. That\u2019s not correct and it\u2019s not okay. We all have shitty days, don\u2019t we? How many times did you come home from a dreadful day at work to a messy house, nothing cooked for dinner and him just lounging on the sofa watching a game?<\/i><\/p>\n

\"Foto<\/p>\n

E o que \u00e9 que tu fizeste? Nesta situa\u00e7\u00e3o, tinha todo o direito de estar verdadeiramente zangada com ele, mas aposto que respirou fundo, deu-lhe um beijo de ol\u00e1, foi para a cozinha e come\u00e7ou a cozinhar.<\/i><\/p>\n

And then you go and make excuses for HIM? Think about it. It\u2019s so messed up.<\/p>\n

They hardly even appreciate all the \u2018little\u2019 things we do for them and our family on a daily basis, so the last thing they deserve is that we cut them some slack!<\/p>\n

Da pr\u00f3xima vez o seu homem<\/a> puts you through any crap, instead of making an excuse for him, confront him and let him know you\u2019re no longer putting up with that.<\/p>\n

And if you\u2019ve just started seeing a guy who doesn\u2019t seem to appreciate anything about you other than your body, believe him! Unless you want to be just his eye candy, go find someone with dignity and respect.<\/p>\n

We need to start believing guys when they show us how they feel about us through their actions. As much as you want him to be more than that and believe he\u2019s got potential to get better, it\u2019s highly unlikely he\u2019ll change.<\/p>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

How he treats you is how he feels about you, period! You can\u2019t let a guy walk all over you for days on end and then once he decides to have one good day, you feel like the luckiest girl alive.<\/p>\n

The luckiest girl would never put up with that. She\u2019d be with a man who is consistent in his efforts and treated her with respect. She would never need to inventar desculpas<\/a> for him because she wouldn\u2019t be with a crappy dude in the first place.<\/p>\n

Tens de come\u00e7ar a acreditar que mereces melhor. A forma como se trata a si pr\u00f3pria \u00e9 a forma como ele a vai tratar. Se ele vir que aceitas os seus esfor\u00e7os de meia-tigela<\/i>\u2014<\/i>that\u2019s all you\u2019ll ever get from him!<\/i><\/p>\n

If he sees he can get away with tons of shit, he\u2019s just going to keep acting like a jerk. See? It\u2019s all up to you to decide how you want to be treated. Raise your standards and if he stays down, leave him there!<\/i><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Guys need to see that they can\u2019t just pick and choose days when they\u2019ll be on their best behavior and when they\u2019ll be a total jerk. Either you\u2019re suficientemente bom<\/a> for your woman or she\u2019s going to show you the door.<\/p>\n

Os rapazes que respeitam as suas raparigas e s\u00f3 querem o melhor para elas demonstram-no atrav\u00e9s das suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

Este homem d\u00e1-te um beijo de bom dia sempre que te levantas e um beijo de boa noite todas as noites antes de te deitares. Ele ajuda-te de todas as formas poss\u00edveis, fazendo recados e indo \u00e0 lavandaria de vez em quando.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t be mad you didn\u2019t make dinner because he\u2019ll know you were swamped that day and he\u2019ll run to the kitchen and make your favorite dish.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t be offended if you don\u2019t want to have sex every single night because you\u2019re both grown-ups with a bunch of shit to do and it\u2019s perfectly normal to just want to sleep and rest your mind and soul.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Este \u00e9 o tipo de homem que merece o seu amor e ele existe mesmo! N\u00e3o \u00e9 um privil\u00e9gio encontrar algu\u00e9m assim, \u00e9 um direito seu!<\/i><\/p>\n

E quando perceberes isto, deixar\u00e1s de perder tempo com imbecis imaturos que s\u00f3 tornam a vida mais dif\u00edcil e concentrar\u00e1s a tua aten\u00e7\u00e3o em todos aqueles tipos de bom cora\u00e7\u00e3o que simplesmente tornar\u00e3o a tua vida um pouco melhor e te far\u00e3o feliz por estares viva.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not a fairy tale and it\u2019s not wishful thinking. They may not be around every single corner but they\u2019re around. And when you find that guy, you\u2019ll see how easy life can actually be with the right person by your side.<\/i><\/p>\n

So stop making excuses and stop thinking you\u2019re not worthy of that kind of love. You are and you will find it. Maybe not today but when you stop looking for it, that\u2019s when it usually knocks on your door.<\/p>\n

Love is supposed to make you feel better and smile harder. Don\u2019t stop until you\u2019ve found exactly that, because it\u2019s going to knock you off your feet!<\/p>\n

\"Como<\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Guys really aren\u2019t that hard to figure out. Our tendency to read into every text message, every minor conversation and every single non-verbal sign they give out has gone way too far. It\u2019s time we stop overanalyzing every single thing they do and accept that their actions speak louder than our misinterpretations ever will. Once…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":95666,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-38843","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/How-He-Treats-You-Is-How-He-Feels-About-You-3.jpg",800,550,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38843","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=38843"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38843\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/95666"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=38843"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=38843"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=38843"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}