{"id":39067,"date":"2020-09-25T07:20:03","date_gmt":"2020-09-25T07:20:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=39067"},"modified":"2021-08-31T07:45:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T07:45:45","slug":"5-formas-de-detetar-pessoas-egoistas-e-5-formas-de-lidar-com-elas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-formas-de-detetar-pessoas-egoistas-e-5-formas-de-lidar-com-elas\/","title":{"rendered":"5 maneiras de detetar pessoas ego\u00edstas e 5 maneiras de lidar com elas"},"content":{"rendered":"

J\u00e1 alguma vez se envolveu com algu\u00e9m ego\u00edsta? Se j\u00e1 esteve, sabe como uma coisa destas pode ser um verdadeiro pesadelo.<\/p>\n

That is why we\u2019re here to give you a guide on how to identify these types of people and how to handle them most successfully.<\/p>\n

Como identificar pessoas ego\u00edstas?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

As pessoas ego\u00edstas est\u00e3o por todo o lado, embora a maioria delas esconda esta carater\u00edstica t\u00f3xica de forma sorrateira. No entanto, existem algumas caracter\u00edsticas comuns a quase todas as pessoas ego\u00edstas e aqui est\u00e3o 5 delas.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re overly caring<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quando conhecemos uma pessoa t\u00f3xica pela primeira vez, ela \u00e9 normalmente o nosso sonho tornado realidade.<\/p>\n

These people are everything you\u2019ve always wanted in a friend or a romantic partner, and at first, you are more than happy for meeting them. And the same goes with selfish people, as well.<\/p>\n

At first sight, a selfish person is too good to be true. They\u2019re caring, loving, and friendly, and before you know it, somehow they crawl into your life and become a part of it.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 claro que nem todas as pessoas bondosas acabam por ser idiotas ego\u00edstas. No entanto, quando algu\u00e9m \u00e9 t\u00f3xico <\/a> Desta forma, mostram as suas verdadeiras cores assim que v\u00eaem que est\u00e3o presos no seu amor e afeto.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re possessive<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

There is one thing all selfish people have in common without exception \u2013 they\u2019re all possessive.<\/p>\n

They are needy, have trouble understanding that you have other people in your life besides them, and want all of their victim\u2019s attention.<\/p>\n

Once they see that they\u2019ve managed to get you, they consider you their prey and aren\u2019t prepared to share you with anyone else.<\/p>\n

They know that you are suited for selfish and toxic people who drain all of your energy, and they don\u2019t plan on allowing someone else to start taking advantage of you.<\/p>\n

This is especially difficult in a romantic relationship because, at first, you are flattered by the fact that your partner is so crazy about you and doesn\u2019t want to lose you.<\/p>\n

Com o tempo, por\u00e9m, v\u00ea-se a raz\u00e3o do seu comportamento e percebe-se que tem muito pouco a ver com amor verdadeiro.<\/p>\n

Nunca retribuem os seus esfor\u00e7os<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Uma pessoa ego\u00edsta nunca por\u00e1 a mesma quantidade de esfor\u00e7o <\/a> that you do in your relationship. No matter what, you\u2019ll always be the one giving more and trying more.<\/p>\n

Next to them, you\u2019ll constantly feel emotionally neglected and be wanting more of their love and attention.<\/p>\n

O pior \u00e9 que, apesar disso, uma pessoa ego\u00edsta consegue, de alguma forma, fazer-se de v\u00edtima.<\/p>\n

Utilizar\u00e3o as suas formas sorrateiras para o persuadir a esfor\u00e7ar-se ainda mais para conquistar todo o seu afeto e conseguir que ele lhe devolva o amor que merece.<\/p>\n

Falta-lhes empatia<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Mesmo antes de algu\u00e9m nos mostrar as suas verdadeiras cores, podemos detetar o seu ego\u00edsmo atrav\u00e9s do seu comportamento para com outras pessoas e at\u00e9 animais.<\/p>\n

These kinds of people have a complete absence of empathy \u2013 they can never feel sorry nor happy for someone else.<\/p>\n

Selfish people don\u2019t know how to walk in other people\u2019s shoes. They don\u2019t know how to feel others\u2019 misery or joy because they only care about themselves.<\/p>\n

So, if you notice that someone close to you isn\u2019t showing any sign of compassion when you guys see a stray animal or when something bad happens in the world, it is a surefire sign they don\u2019t think about anyone besides themselves.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re manipulative<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Remember one thing: selfish people don\u2019t love you \u2013 they aren\u2019t capable of truly loving <\/a> ningu\u00e9m! S\u00f3 gostam de si pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n

These people are afraid of losing you for everything you\u2019re giving them and for the way you make them feel. They\u2019re actually terrified of the possibility of being alone without anyone to use.<\/p>\n

That is exactly why they\u2019ll do everything in their power to keep you around and never let you go.<\/p>\n

Usar\u00e3o a manipula\u00e7\u00e3o emocional, a chantagem e tudo o que puderem contra si, s\u00f3 para que se sinta culpado sempre que pensar em abandon\u00e1-los.<\/p>\n

Como lidar com pessoas ego\u00edstas?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Spotting selfish people is a piece of cake if you know what signs you should look out for. However, handling them when they\u2019ve already crawled in your life is much more difficult. But it can be done and here is how.<\/p>\n

Accept that you\u2019re involved with someone selfish<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Antes de mais, tem de aceitar o facto de que todos \u00e0 sua volta, incluindo os seus entes mais queridos, podem ter esta carater\u00edstica t\u00f3xica.<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s hard to accept that the closest member of your family \u2013 your parceiro de vida ou o seu melhor amigo <\/a> \u2013 is selfish, but sometimes, you simply have to look the truth in the eyes sooner rather than later.<\/p>\n

Em vez de ignorar os sinais, pensando que isso far\u00e1 com que o problema desapare\u00e7a por milagre, enfrente-o e fa\u00e7a tudo o que puder para se ajudar a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Lembre-se de que qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o com uma pessoa t\u00f3xica \u00e9 emocionalmente desgastante e ir\u00e1 prejudic\u00e1-lo a longo prazo.<\/p>\n

Come\u00e7a a amar-te mais<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re involved with someone toxic, you have to be aware that this person always puts themselves first, no matter what. And it\u2019s about time you start doing that, too.<\/p>\n

Yeah, I know it\u2019s easy for me to tell you to love yourself more, but that is exactly what you need to do. Why do you continue putting someone else\u2019s needs in front of your own, when this person will never stop treating you like their last resort?<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not a bad person for prioritizing yourself over someone who doesn\u2019t give a damn about your well-being. Instead of trying to save this selfish person who obviously enjoys their toxicity, do your best to save yourself from them.<\/p>\n

Dar-lhes a provar o seu rem\u00e9dio<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Sadly, sometimes, the only way to deal with the selfish type is to treat them the same way they\u2019re treating you. This means that you have to show them how it feels to be around someone selfish who only cares about themselves.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time you pay this awful person back for everything they\u2019ve been doing to you.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 altura de come\u00e7ar a cancelar os planos \u00e0 \u00faltima hora, quando aparece algo mais conveniente, de os tratar como se fossem o \u00faltimo recurso, de deixar de se importar com os sentimentos deles e de come\u00e7ar a pensar em si.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s high time you stand up for yourself and show them that you aren\u2019t anyone\u2019s toy.<\/p>\n

By simply doing this and nothing else, you\u2019ll probably chase this selfish person out of your life.<\/p>\n

These people can\u2019t stand being around someone they don\u2019t have any advantage over, so it is likely they\u2019ll flee the moment they see they can\u2019t keep on playing with you.<\/p>\n

But don\u2019t become like them<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

No entanto, o que \u00e9 importante \u00e9 n\u00e3o nos deixarmos tornar iguais a essa pessoa.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let them drag you into their toxicity and darkness, and don\u2019t lose faith in all humanity just because you\u2019ve had one lousy experience!<\/p>\n

Soltar as amarras<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

If it happens that you treating this selfish person the way they\u2019ve been treating you doesn\u2019t give you any results and doesn\u2019t chase them away, it\u2019s time for your detachment.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 claro que o ideal seria ir sem contacto <\/a>, but if this is something you don\u2019t have the strength to do overnight, at least try loosening your ties with this person.<\/p>\n

Passe o m\u00ednimo de tempo poss\u00edvel com eles, deixe de lhes fazer favores e tente mudar o seu ambiente.<\/p>\n

With time, you\u2019ll become strong enough to kick this person out of your life or they\u2019ll walk away by themselves. Either way, you win!<\/p>\n

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