{"id":39120,"date":"2019-06-25T09:25:36","date_gmt":"2019-06-25T09:25:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=39120"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:43:17","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:43:17","slug":"eu-sempre-soube-que-um-homem-como-tu-nunca-se-comprometeria","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/eu-sempre-soube-que-um-homem-como-tu-nunca-se-comprometeria\/","title":{"rendered":"Eu sempre soube que um homem como tu nunca se comprometeria"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Desde o primeiro momento em que te vi, senti imediatamente <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/uma-carta-para-o-homem-com-quem-partilhei-uma-quimica-incrivel\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">uma qu\u00edmica incr\u00edvel consigo.<\/span><\/a> Eras tudo aquilo com que eu sonhava.<\/p>\r\n<p>Eras divertido, gentil e descontra\u00eddo. Sabias o que dizer em cada segundo. Sabias como fazer-me sentir especial.<\/p>\r\n<p>Sabias algumas coisas demasiado bem para o meu gosto. Essa foi a primeira bandeira vermelha. Aquela perante a qual fechei os olhos.<\/p>\r\n<p>Por alguma raz\u00e3o, decidi tentar contigo, apesar de ter a estranha sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de que nunca me darias o que eu precisava para ser feliz.<\/p>\r\n<p>But I still gave all of myself to you. First, I gave you my mind because I was thinking about you non-stop. No matter what I did, I couldn\u2019t stop thinking about you.<\/p>\r\n<p>Em segundo lugar, dei-te o meu corpo porque sabias como me seduzir. Derreti-me nos teus bra\u00e7os e senti-me como nunca me tinha sentido antes.<\/p>\r\n<p>Eu era completamente tua, mas tu nunca foste meu. Apesar de me teres dito que me amavas, nunca o demonstraste com os teus actos.<\/p>\r\n<p>De facto, as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es eram inversas \u00e0s suas promessas. Acabava sempre por n\u00e3o receber o que mais precisava.<\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-39121 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_1339397624-23.jpg\" alt=\"Eu sempre soube que um homem como tu nunca se comprometeria\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_1339397624-23.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_1339397624-23-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_1339397624-23-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>Love, affection and support were only words that you couldn\u2019t transform into deeds. But somehow I was okay with that, thinking that you would change. I thought if I was persistent enough that I would get what I wanted. Because you surely got what you wanted from me.<\/p>\r\n<p>Com o passar do tempo, vi nos teus olhos que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o querias lutar por mim, nem perseguir-me. Depois de teres conseguido o que querias, desististe completamente de mim.<\/p>\r\n<p>You just kept me close because you didn\u2019t want to be alone. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/this-is-the-harsh-truth-behind-the-tears-of-a-narcissist\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mas a dura verdade<\/span><\/a> era que s\u00f3 esperavas que uma rapariga melhor entrasse na tua vida.<\/p>\r\n<p>Now, when I look back, I don\u2019t feel bad about loving you. Love is a beautiful thing and you should never feel sorry for feeling something like that.<\/p>\r\n<p>What I regret the most was allowing you to lead me on for such a long time. I let you do things that I didn\u2019t allow anyone before you. And that hurts me so much.<\/p>\r\n<p>Eras um grande manipulador, dizias-me tudo o que eu queria ouvir. Conhecia o caminho para o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e fazia tudo o que estava ao seu alcance para me controlar.<\/p>\r\n<p>Estando cega pelo teu amor, permiti tudo. Permiti que me arruinasses completamente. Apaixonei-me muito por ti. Da mesma forma que s\u00f3 nos apaixonamos por um.<\/p>\r\n<p>But unfortunately, you weren\u2019t the right man for me. You could never give me what I craved the most. You didn\u2019t give me yourself. I never had all of you like you had all of me.<\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-39122 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_1339397624-24.jpg\" alt=\"Eu sempre soube que um homem como tu nunca se comprometeria\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_1339397624-24.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_1339397624-24-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_1339397624-24-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>And that was something that hurt me the most. I still can\u2019t believe that I fell into your trap so easily. You didn\u2019t even have to put a lot of effort in. I was yours even before you tried to win me over.<\/p>\r\n<p>I was crazily in love with a man who couldn\u2019t care less about me. But even though I didn\u2019t get what I deserved, I was still happy. Even if I only got crumbs from your table, it was enough for me.<\/p>\r\n<p>Eu queria viver assim porque deixar-te ir era mais dif\u00edcil do que ficar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/4-coisas-estupidas-que-fiz-quando-estava-quase-numa-relacao-mas-queria-mais\/\">numa quase rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> convosco.<\/p>\r\n<p>But when I saw that things wouldn\u2019t change, I knew that I had <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/faca-estas-6-coisas-de-seducao-para-o-ajudar-a-dar-o-primeiro-passo\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">dar o primeiro passo<\/span><\/a>. E foi isso que eu fiz. Deixei-vos sem uma palavra de explica\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n<p>I mean, you knew it all a long time before. We just pretended that everything was okay. But it wasn\u2019t. And it was about time to accept that truth. It was time to swallow the bitter pill and to move on.<\/p>\r\n<p>O meu amor por ti acabou tal como come\u00e7ou. R\u00e1pido, sem muitas explica\u00e7\u00f5es e sem palavras.<\/p>\r\n<p>Segui em frente e aceitei isso <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/es-uma-licao-que-eu-gostaria-de-nunca-ter-aprendido\/\">foste apenas uma li\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> I had to learn. I realized that love shouldn\u2019t feel the way it felt for me and that even if I am a little bit broken, I will be someone\u2019s perfect woman.<\/p>\r\n<p><em>After you, things won\u2019t be the same. After you, I will be more careful. And what is most important, I will learn to put myself first.<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p><em>Essa \u00e9 a \u00fanica forma de me abra\u00e7ar e respeitar totalmente. A \u00fanica forma de ser verdadeiramente feliz com tudo aquilo com que fui aben\u00e7oado.<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-39125 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutt-3-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Eu sempre soube que um homem como tu nunca se comprometeria\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutt-3-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutt-3-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutt-3.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":39126,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-39120","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_1339397624-25.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39120","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=39120"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39120\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/39126"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=39120"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=39120"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=39120"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}