{"id":3927,"date":"2017-08-29T10:31:25","date_gmt":"2017-08-29T10:31:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3927"},"modified":"2021-08-31T07:29:47","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T07:29:47","slug":"e-por-isso-que-fizeste-amor-com-outra-pessoa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-por-isso-que-fizeste-amor-com-outra-pessoa\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 por isso que fizeste com que ela amasse outra pessoa"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b><i>\u201cI was told not to hurt the heart of whom I care. But when I was so busy taking care of that heart, I didn\u2019t notice my own was bleeding\u2026\u201d ~ <\/i><\/b><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Desconhecido<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cometeste um grande erro.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019ve lost the most precious thing in the world. And it\u2019s all your fault.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Tomou-a por garantida<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You weren\u2019t paying attention to anything she said. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/entertainment\/9-clear-signs-screaming-youre-just-fling\/\">Mantiveste-a por perto s\u00f3 para te divertires<\/a>\u2014you were bored so you decided to have \u2018fun\u2019 with her. You wanted someone to occupy your thoughts. You were never serious about her.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E o que se passa \u00e9 que ela estava a falar a s\u00e9rio sobre ti. Ela queria dar-te o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o numa bandeja de prata. O que se passa \u00e9 que ela nunca te tomou como garantido. Ela estava l\u00e1 para ti sempre que precisavas dela.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Nunca estiveste presente quando ela precisou de ti<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You gave her zero emotional support. The thing that makes your \u2018love story\u2019 even sadder is that you knew what she had been through. She told you her life story and when you heard it, you cried your eyes out. <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Porque \u00e9 que essas emo\u00e7\u00f5es fortes desapareceram de repente? <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They weren\u2019t gone\u2014they never existed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You told her you will take care of her\u2014you will cherish her. But, somehow, your words faded away as your relationship grew. Although you knew she went through hell and back and she\u2019s finally happy now (at least she thought so) with you, you betrayed her.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-3929 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/todd-quackenbush-997.jpg\" alt=\"Homem sozinho junto \u00e0 \u00e1gua\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/todd-quackenbush-997.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/todd-quackenbush-997-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/todd-quackenbush-997-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/todd-quackenbush-997-180x120.jpg 180w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/todd-quackenbush-997-262x175.jpg 262w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Cometeu os mesmos erros que o anterior<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Negligenciou-a e colocou as suas necessidades<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> SEMPRE<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> before hers. You never compromised. Your word was the final one. She cried so many times because of you. She cried so many times because of the guy before you\u2014and she left him. You did the same thing\u2014you drove her into the arms of another man.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Fizeste-a amar outra pessoa<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She is a strong woman\u2014<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/way-stronger-everything-nothing-can-bring\/\">nada a pode deitar abaixo.<\/a> She still hopes she will take that hopeful leap with someone into a happy future together. She never lost hope\u2014she will always keep trying. She is a fighter. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>That\u2019s why you didn\u2019t break her. She is much more than you thought.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">You made her love someone else because you made her think she\u2019s not important<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You made her think she was just a casualty\u2014something along the way, something that kept you occupied. You made her think she is just a small spectacle of dust in the large and vast universe\u2014at least you tried to make her think that. You failed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You see, she is the kind of person that will put up with you and give you a lot of second chances\u2014but only to a certain point. Then, she will cross you out like you never existed and she will move on.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To her, you will become a shadow\u2014someone that she used to know but forgot. And she is not sorry. She doesn\u2019t hold any grudges. She understands you are the way you are and it\u2019s not up to her to change you. Only you can do that\u2014but you are too weak to admit it to yourself. You will never change.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>You\u2019ve lost<\/i><\/b><i> <\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><em><strong>ela<\/strong><\/em> porque ignoraste o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e negaste-lhe uma oportunidade de felicidade.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>You\u2019ve lost her<\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> because she is not afraid to take what she wants and needs\u2014and she needs someone with which to share all the love she has.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Fizeste com que ela amasse outro de cada vez que lhe falhaste.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/herway.net-8-1-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\u00c9 por isso que fizeste com que ela amasse outra pessoa\" class=\"wp-image-39469\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/herway.net-8-1-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/herway.net-8-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/herway.net-8-1.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cI was told not to hurt the heart of whom I care. But when I was so busy taking care of that heart, I didn\u2019t notice my own was bleeding\u2026\u201d ~ Unknown You made a huge mistake. You\u2019ve lost the most precious thing in the world. And it\u2019s all your fault. You took her for&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":39467,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3927","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/shutterstock_148964846.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3927","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3927"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3927\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/39467"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3927"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3927"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3927"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}